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It was wanting to have sex in a pool that got us looking at places to safely enjoy sex in different settings and we attended clubs with no intention of swinging but where we would draw a line has become progressively fuzzier mutually |
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My first swinging relationship. It was a way for her to explore the new idea she might have bi-curious leanings. Developed from there. Each relationship since it's been an open part of the "so tell me about yourself" while getting to know each other. |
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"Couples who didn't meet in the swinging scene was it the male or the female that suggested trying it?"
Literally can’t remember, we both knew from the start we were both bi. So I guess it was inevitable! |
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He suggested it.... We were/are into other kinks. The more we explore kinks the further down the rabbit hole we go...
One day he told me a fantasy which involved me fucking another man it took about 18 months before i did.
Never looked back lol i think i have had sex more now with other men than with him (I've not met anyone during covid) since that first time. |
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It was his idea that I try it. I was actually reluctant for years but when I eventually took the plunge I discovered my inner slut lol. I can't wait until we can meet again as I never really got into the clubs, spas, parties etc before lockdown. Xx |
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When I first met Paul he was very open that he was a swinger and I was intrigued and after a while wanted to discover more. It probably took around a year of talking and understanding before I persuaded Paul to take me to a club and have never looked back.  |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Female was more open to chat, male forever the opportunist.
Final answer probably 50/50"
My own experiences, been involved with the scene since my early 20s. Was invited to join, and made a huge difference to my career as a young guy.
If people were honest I'd say 60-70 if not a bit higher male initiated to female  |
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"Female was more open to chat, male forever the opportunist.
Final answer probably 50/50
My own experiences, been involved with the scene since my early 20s. Was invited to join, and made a huge difference to my career as a young guy.
If people were honest I'd say 60-70 if not a bit higher male initiated to female "
From our experience we would agree males are more receptive to the idea of swinging..but there is inner side in ladies that is more powerful but more challenging at the outset to draw out. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Female was more open to chat, male forever the opportunist.
Final answer probably 50/50
My own experiences, been involved with the scene since my early 20s. Was invited to join, and made a huge difference to my career as a young guy.
If people were honest I'd say 60-70 if not a bit higher male initiated to female
From our experience we would agree males are more receptive to the idea of swinging..but there is inner side in ladies that is more powerful but more challenging at the outset to draw out."
Agreed although my partner under duress (Sad But True, happens a lot) was introduced to the scene and went along to save marriage (failed), discovered something about her sexuality she had hadn't considered |
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"Female was more open to chat, male forever the opportunist.
Final answer probably 50/50
My own experiences, been involved with the scene since my early 20s. Was invited to join, and made a huge difference to my career as a young guy.
If people were honest I'd say 60-70 if not a bit higher male initiated to female
From our experience we would agree males are more receptive to the idea of swinging..but there is inner side in ladies that is more powerful but more challenging at the outset to draw out.
Agreed although my partner under duress (Sad But True, happens a lot) was introduced to the scene and went along to save marriage (failed), discovered something about her sexuality she had hadn't considered "
Sad and sorry to hear that but at least something positive came out of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We was chatting and Why asked me if I had a 3sum . Yes I answered . The look of shock on her face . Nearly dumped me . Chatted over a few weeks and went to a club . Stayed 45 mins . Then a few months after she wanted to try again and not looked back . Now love hols to GC . Beach no 4 hut sunbathing and clubs at night ...... can’t wait till can meet again |
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"Couples who didn't meet in the swinging scene was it the male or the female that suggested trying it?"
For us it was me (the female) that wanted to try |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
"Female was more open to chat, male forever the opportunist.
Final answer probably 50/50
My own experiences, been involved with the scene since my early 20s. Was invited to join, and made a huge difference to my career as a young guy.
If people were honest I'd say 60-70 if not a bit higher male initiated to female
From our experience we would agree males are more receptive to the idea of swinging..but there is inner side in ladies that is more powerful but more challenging at the outset to draw out.
Agreed although my partner under duress (Sad But True, happens a lot) was introduced to the scene and went along to save marriage (failed), discovered something about her sexuality she had hadn't considered
Sad and sorry to hear that but at least something positive came out of it. "
Thank you. A lot of positive did come out of it, we could enjoy the scene, she could enjoy the way she wanted to, met some good friends, and had some great times |
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We met on a vanilla dating site. We found we had both been to clubs before in past relationships (actually her that bought it up, but in a way that if you'd not known about clubs you'd have missed the reference!). So it was a joint decision. |
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Both together. Evolved from boudoir photography we did together, getting naked in front of the photographer and getting turned on by it. Then trying a naturist club which happened to have play rooms. It was all a gradual transition together after being open with each other. It's been a great journey. |
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We always spoke about it but not in the sense of wanting to try it to start with, then the subject came up again...and we decided together that we would like to try a 3sum...but unfortunately the swinging community is very sparce up this end of the country. |
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We always fantasised about having a threesome and exploring Jo’s curiosity but it was always just that, a fantasy
We had absolutely no idea about this lifestyle until a swingers club opened in our area. It was Jo who highlighted the club opening so I went and got us a membership
D. |
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"We always fantasised about having a threesome and exploring Jo’s curiosity but it was always just that, a fantasy
We had absolutely no idea about this lifestyle until a swingers club opened in our area. It was Jo who highlighted the club opening so I went and got us a membership
D."
And we hope to see you guys there sometime in the post Covid era, D  |
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We started dating. Though open chats we both admitted to playing the swing scene in here as singles and that we were both bisexual which really turned jenny in knowing i was bi. We both sort of suggested coming on here as a cpl. Jenny created this profile for us and now we are excited when safe yo start our journey of meeting other cpls and then maybe singles. Although we do have one bi guy lined up to play with as soon as we are allowed to meet up. |
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"We always fantasised about having a threesome and exploring Jo’s curiosity but it was always just that, a fantasy
We had absolutely no idea about this lifestyle until a swingers club opened in our area. It was Jo who highlighted the club opening so I went and got us a membership
D.
And we hope to see you guys there sometime in the post Covid era, D "
And fingers crossed it will be before 2025!! 
D. |
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"We always fantasised about having a threesome and exploring Jo’s curiosity but it was always just that, a fantasy
We had absolutely no idea about this lifestyle until a swingers club opened in our area. It was Jo who highlighted the club opening so I went and got us a membership
D.
And we hope to see you guys there sometime in the post Covid era, D
And fingers crossed it will be before 2025!!
D."
We will have to renew our membership  |
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A close friend who knew about my fantasy and she pretty much had the same one,
a bbq at ours and a cheeky naughty comment from her about my Mr late on when people are leaving,
After being alone in the garage having a chat a snog happens between us and soon after and hands start wandering,
Everyone expect her leaves, we tell My Mr what happened in the garage,
We all go up to bed and have a great time which continues for the next 8 months until she gets into a relationship of her own  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Def him suggesting it - he'd talk about it during sex as a fantasy to me - the idea sort of set in my mind & grew to the point we thought why not???
He has some great ideas at times "
This exactly! |
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