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I wondered how other single women find fab?
I find that allot of men are mainly interested in chats but not real meets.
The single guys are mainly interested in couples and the married men are all talk and no action. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have to be really careful to filter out the picture collectors and the guys who just want to chat while they have a sly wank.
The decent ones are out there you just have to be alert for the red flags that show up the rest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wondered how other single women find fab?
I find that allot of men are mainly interested in chats but not real meets.
The single guys are mainly interested in couples and the married men are all talk and no action. "
I always want to meet, a few messages at first just to see if there is a click, then onto a social and hopefully further.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you had many meets? I get plenty of messages just rarely any real life action"
I've had 1 socially distance social meet so far and that's it..
Just need covid to end then I can get cracking with more important meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you had many meets? I get plenty of messages just rarely any real life action"
It's a shame you're so far away! I'd take you for a coffee and a chat to see how we get on  |
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"I wondered how other single women find fab?
I find that allot of men are mainly interested in chats but not real meets.
The single guys are mainly interested in couples and the married men are all talk and no action. "
As you joined during a pandemic , I salute those men that do not want to meet  |
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Every gender has this sort of problem really. Genuine women get bombarded with messages which are mostly fantasists. Genuine Men get suckered in by fake profiles.
It's a minefield really lol
You sort of learn how to tell them apart.
Messages like 'what would you do to me?' Etc, means there probably having some self love. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"I wondered how other single women find fab?
I find that allot of men are mainly interested in chats but not real meets.
The single guys are mainly interested in couples and the married men are all talk and no action. "
Unfortunately you joined Fab eight months ago in the middle of a pandemic which is still raging. Fab is strongly discouraging meets, and indeed most meets (outside a bubble) are illegal. Are you really surprised that guys are reluctant to meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you had many meets? I get plenty of messages just rarely any real life action"
Pre covid getting meets wasn't an issue at all, filtering through the timewasters and fantasists did take some time and patience though 
Clubs and socials are much better places to meet people when they are open then fab becomes more of a tool to keep up with friends and establish connections with friends of friends. I treat it like a networking tool rather than a way to meet totally new people from my inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on here just over a year now... On the whole I've had great meets but there has been times where liars and abuse has almost lead me to delete my account. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve only been on here since Covid. Essentially have an airport holding pattern* of people we’d love to meet but currently can’t.
Met plenty from elsewhere before Covid.
* sorry for that image. Only way I can think of describing it. I was going to make an easy jet joke and then refer to someone as Ryan air when they leave you feeling robbed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am definitely NOT meeting during all of this - anyone who is is reckless & selfish at best.
"I wondered how other single women find fab?
I find that allot of men are mainly interested in chats but not real meets.
The single guys are mainly interested in couples and the married men are all talk and no action.
As you joined during a pandemic , I salute those men that do not want to meet "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it’s be easy? It’s the whole slut vs stud argument.
But prior to Covid. On other platforms.. girls, maybe 95% would meet when they said they would. Guys, maybe 30% would.
Guys are flakey as fuck. |
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I find it's the couples who are flakiest very difficult finding genuine ones. As for single females it's a candy shop in here one minute they're talking to you, the next they've found someone better all of a sudden!.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s an interesting point... I certainly will meet (and can as I live on the Isle of Man) but it’s getting through the barriers that have been put up due to time wasters/liars/married folk...
You just hold your course and you will find a diamond in the rough! I find... |
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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago
South West and North West |
"I wondered how other single women find fab?
I find that allot of men are mainly interested in chats but not real meets.
The single guys are mainly interested in couples and the married men are all talk and no action. "
This is all very stereo typical and untrue, If all 3 of them were remotely true no one would be meeting, hahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason.
I used to keep a spreadsheet recording the data of meets taht fell through just to see if I could work the maths (for an algorithm for you all ).
Guys just stand people up more. And anecdotal evidence from others saying the same thing.
You might not. That’s awesome. |
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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago
South West and North West |
"A lot of guys are all talk, they just want pictures for their wank bank. It’s difficult finding the needles in the haystack on here x
Some of us are genuine and turn up! "
Yes mate i agree, its like a thread off dear Deirdre ir watching loose woman hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of guys are all talk, they just want pictures for their wank bank. It’s difficult finding the needles in the haystack on here x"
I've had the same from quite a few women too. |
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"Stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason.
I used to keep a spreadsheet recording the data of meets taht fell through just to see if I could work the maths (for an algorithm for you all ).
Guys just stand people up more. And anecdotal evidence from others saying the same thing.
You might not. That’s awesome. "
You want to try and meet couples!!! |
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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago
South West and North West |
"Stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason.
I used to keep a spreadsheet recording the data of meets taht fell through just to see if I could work the maths (for an algorithm for you all ).
Guys just stand people up more. And anecdotal evidence from others saying the same thing.
You might not. That’s awesome. "
But if you take into account how many woman are on here to men, meaning a lot more men, thats gna be the case anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was a single guy on here. A very long time ago when the site was probably used more.. you would rarely get a response. And when you did, your replies would often get lost and you’d lose contact. It just sucks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single women on Fab run the gauntlet of fantasists, cheats, timewasters, pic collectors, misogynists and thrill seekers. We can set our filters according to our tolerance levels but that's still not bullet proof.
But women shouldn't have to be managing poor male behaviour, men should be keeping themselves in check. Obviously the out and out arseholes and socially inept are never going to give a fuck but the more genuine ones would help themselves and every man on here if they just slowed down and were more considerate. If they stopped messaging every new woman en masse, messaging with a rush of blood when they have a hard on abs just tok a deep breath, read the profiles and then considered whether a message was appropriate, fewer women would be bombarded, pissed off and disillusioned and less likely to bulk delete and set their filters so high. |
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I have had successful meets with single men off Fab, not so successful meets, socials that led nowhere, chats that were going strong until a meet was suggested and some that were all game until the day of the meet. All that on my previous profile. Current profile is for forums and catching up with friends only. |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
I havent had any meets as I joined during a pandemic but I've been enjoying chatting to a few people that I would like to meet in person someday once this is all over. By the looks of things, that may be in the year 2030 better to be safe though |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
"I wondered how other single women find fab?
I find that allot of men are mainly interested in chats but not real meets.
The single guys are mainly interested in couples and the married men are all talk and no action. "
. I’m much more inclined to meet than chat. Love a chat but it’s far nicer face to face and other things can develop. It’s why I miss clubs.....so much better than sporadic messaging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im here to meet when we allowed to but still lots want to meet so now been branded as a timewaster
I also joined in mid pandemic but till safe to do so won’t meet anyone |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
"Have you had many meets? I get plenty of messages just rarely any real life action
Pre covid getting meets wasn't an issue at all, filtering through the timewasters and fantasists did take some time and patience though
Clubs and socials are much better places to meet people when they are open then fab becomes more of a tool to keep up with friends and establish connections with friends of friends. I treat it like a networking tool rather than a way to meet totally new people from my inbox."
THIS 100% |
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All I can say is I have done well on fab but it took years to develop that sixth sense. I have sympathy with single women as I know how much they get bombarded with absolute shite on here. The ones been on here for years will have figured out how to filter out what they don’t want. BTW not all guys are idiots on here  |
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"I'm asking single women if they manage to have sex with anyone from fab. During normal circumstances pre covid. "
I would of thought women can have sex with as many men as they wish, it’s hard being a man, seems impossible but we’ll see how it is when COVID-19 is under control |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"I wondered how other single women find fab?
I find that allot of men are mainly interested in chats but not real meets.
The single guys are mainly interested in couples and the married men are all talk and no action. "
well I must be a rarity on here because I actually do want ro meet and cyberswx leaves ne cold.
However I could also say that the majority of single women on.here have no intention of meeting as well and that's before a global pandemic.Inthink.very few on fab whatever gender have the nerves to meet. And those that do specially the women have an impossible criteria.
But then.i guess a site like this is all about fantasy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m always wanting to meet it can just take some planning with my busy life. It’s very obvious though that a lot of guys on here have ruined it for the rest of us as most women, quite rightly, have their walls up due to the amount of time wasters and pic collectors.
I sometimes feel like single women lose track of messages as they’re being bombarded by single guys |
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"I’m always wanting to meet it can just take some planning with my busy life. It’s very obvious though that a lot of guys on here have ruined it for the rest of us as most women, quite rightly, have their walls up due to the amount of time wasters and pic collectors.
I agree speak to a lot of women n couples now been put off by time wasters and divvys and are now actually leaving the site because of it and as you say have there wall/guard up, I been on here plus other sites 10-15 years and it's so hard now, totally believe should be better vetting on people getting accounts on here might solve a few issues
I sometimes feel like single women lose track of messages as they’re being bombarded by single guys"
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That most men who message me haven't read my profile, or are deluded enough to think I might still be interested in meeting.
I'm only interested in meeting other ladies but do enjoy chatting about non sex related things.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm the opposite, I'd love good chats, but not sure this is the place for it anymore. Thats why I use the forums. My inbox is wank. Literally "
Hey I thought I was funny! |
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I like fab. Obvs you have to get a nose for the time wasters or pic collectors. There’s always going to be the guys that think you’ll meet them after one message. But on the overall had some really good meets and made some friends along the way x |
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"My profile hasn't stopped me from receiving messages from men and women. I'm trying to find out if single woman like myself get past the chat and have any real life experiences "
I’ve never had any problems there. I have a social first, if they stand me up they’re done. If they turn up for a social, they’ll turn up for a meet. Weeds out the fantasists. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have met some wonderful couples and single ladies over the years I know I'm a bit ancient but msg two couples and two single Ladies over the past month ln there age group and not one reply. I was not looking to meet for obvious reasons but after, and before any one starts saying I do have wife's permission. |
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"My profile hasn't stopped me from receiving messages from men and women. I'm trying to find out if single woman like myself get past the chat and have any real life experiences
I’ve never had any problems there. I have a social first, if they stand me up they’re done. If they turn up for a social, they’ll turn up for a meet. Weeds out the fantasists."
This xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had plenty of meets, lots from cheating men. A few actually single. A few couples. No single women, we're like gold dust. I find dating sites easier to find women.
I've also been stood up plenty of times!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve met decent men, been stood up too, met a few lovely couples and women too x "
Ditto .. met some nice women (no couples or men) but also been blocked after agreeing to meet..
Take the rough with the smooth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met men, couples and TV's both on my single and couples profiles.
In 11 years I was never stood up. Everyone turned up. Sometimes we weren't compatible after meeting in person but that's to be expected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I've been looking for si gle ladies and couples for 3 weeks and Ithink I'm a decent guy and respectful, dont think we get a fair crack of the whip lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really struggling for meets , I have good pics , face pics , any advice pls, I can accommodate and travel aswell ?? "
Most men struggle to find meets, don't take it personally.
In spite of appearances, Swingers don't just shag everyone who asks.
Good luck. |
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"I wondered how other single women find fab?
I find that allot of men are mainly interested in chats but not real meets.
The single guys are mainly interested in couples and the married men are all talk and no action. "
This married man finds most of the couples are all talk no action/bi hubby wanting to suck cock/just a bloke pretending to get cock pics.
I also find the solo women are interested in chats but no real meets/just a bloke pretending to get cock pics.
My twopenn'orth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm one half of a couple but I also want to meet local single ladies for fun on our own without men joining in or watching but its near impossible to find someone close by |
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
leigh |
Its not only men you know. I met a female who gave all the right signs, we chatted, swapped pics, and even met up for drinks but trying to get her to talk was a nightmare. It was like me doing all the talking and she just said yes or no.how on earth can you have a conversation like that?.I still invited her back to mine, she refused but when I left and got home she left a verification on my profile saying nice meet, so I chatted to her but didn't end up meeting or having sex with her even when she said she would have let me. Baffled me |
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Lots of female time-wasting, lots of males time-wasting and lots of couples time-wasting
But in amongst all that is some cool, straightforward people who like who like have fun.
You've just got to find them lol |
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