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People have you had sex with?
Not really wanting people to post their number on here, but just made me think....
When your with vanilla friends, and someone says “oh, only 6” then someone goes... “oohh you player”.
I think.. Jesus, I’ve totally lost count.... and do wonder the reaction I’d have if I ever fessed up lol (I love being a swinger, missing it soooo much these days)
Anyone else ever had that conversation with vanilla friends?
XxxX |
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"God yes. I have hide my smirk with vanilla friends. Thinking of party nights I've attended  "
Yes this ^^^
On a few memorable nights at clubs.... it’s racked the number up lol.
I like playing innocent  |
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"God yes. I have hide my smirk with vanilla friends. Thinking of party nights I've attended
Yes this ^^^
On a few memorable nights at clubs.... it’s racked the number up lol.
I like playing innocent "
Likewise. There have been occasions, I realise I played with more people in a night than vanilla friends in total.
Oh the shame.... Not. |
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over a year ago
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You can't really compare the vanilla world with swinging. A lot of swingers have had sex with more people in one night than vanilla people do in their lives.
And I have no idea what my number is xx |
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"Three figures here to..... Sounds so bad when you think about it but been fantastic fun. "
Just get a guy to estimate how much he’s cum over his lifetime.. 3-5ml per time.. once a day.. enough to drown in. |
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"People have you had sex with?
Not really wanting people to post their number on here, but just made me think....
When your with vanilla friends, and someone says “oh, only 6” then someone goes... “oohh you player”.
I think.. Jesus, I’ve totally lost count.... and do wonder the reaction I’d have if I ever fessed up lol (I love being a swinger, missing it soooo much these days)
Anyone else ever had that conversation with vanilla friends?
XxxX"
haha when i first met j i was not aware of her swinging life i was so vanilla she told me on the first night it was a shock but i can see why the numbers can rack up lol  |
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"Three figures here to..... Sounds so bad when you think about it but been fantastic fun.
Just get a guy to estimate how much he’s cum over his lifetime.. 3-5ml per time.. once a day.. enough to drown in. "
Good point well made   |
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Started losing count and memory for names and faces about 30 years ago.
As others have mentioned, clubs and parties can dramatically increase numbers.
What can be worrying is being reminded of a participation by someone from the past and not having recognised the face concerned.
Never mind millilitres of semen. How many thousand miles has my prized endowment travelled in and out over the years? Reverse strokes don't cancel out forward ones, they all ad up! |
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"People have you had sex with?
Not really wanting people to post their number on here, but just made me think....
When your with vanilla friends, and someone says “oh, only 6” then someone goes... “oohh you player”.
I think.. Jesus, I’ve totally lost count.... and do wonder the reaction I’d have if I ever fessed up lol (I love being a swinger, missing it soooo much these days)
Anyone else ever had that conversation with vanilla friends?
XxxX"
Haha yup!!! One conversation among friends revolves around a woman that ‘omg has had sex with ten men! 10!!!!!’ Hahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can't really compare the vanilla world with swinging. A lot of swingers have had sex with more people in one night than vanilla people do in their lives.
And I have no idea what my number is xx"
Exactly this |
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"You can't really compare the vanilla world with swinging. A lot of swingers have had sex with more people in one night than vanilla people do in their lives.
And I have no idea what my number is xx
Exactly this "
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It’s not a conversation I’d have with vanilla friends, and if they asked I wouldn’t tell them. But my number has shot up since joining Fab. In the 19 years between losing my virginity and joining Fab - 4 men; in the not quite 9 months between joining Fab and the pandemic - another 9 men and 3 women, and oral only with another 11 men and 1 woman. I don’t know what the average for a non-swinger bi woman of almost 43 would be, so I can’t say whether I’m high, low or average, but I wouldn’t want to discuss it with friends and family. |
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By *offee27Man
over a year ago
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"It’s just so titillating!!
Wow, I can’t even begin to count... I’m probably around the 40 Mark?!
I can’t remember as far back in my late teens lol  "
I can barely remember my first time myself but I've had sex with around 60 or 70 different women |
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By *lcaza69Woman
over a year ago
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Oh I know this feeling and I hate playing those games. I have to remember what I said last time as I’ve been with more guys than all my friends put together. Also I have to remember wildest sex act, strangest place, and loads of have you ever questions in case I get caught out making up answers as I can’t answer with the truth. |
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"People have you had sex with?
Not really wanting people to post their number on here, but just made me think....
When your with vanilla friends, and someone says “oh, only 6” then someone goes... “oohh you player”.
I think.. Jesus, I’ve totally lost count.... and do wonder the reaction I’d have if I ever fessed up lol (I love being a swinger, missing it soooo much these days)
Anyone else ever had that conversation with vanilla friends?
XxxX"
I love that- the thing is - if you said 500+ , anybody outside this lifestyle would call you a slapper etc - if I said how many I had slept with I’d be called a bullshitter ????
I hate it when a new girlfriend says- ‘now be honest, I don’t mind, but how many people have you slept with...?
Hmmmm |
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It’s a great point you make about vanilla friends living in a different universe. Most would only have single figures, we would have way more in one night. Also the older you get the hornier you become. We are having the time of our lives now. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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Perhaps it's what swingers get up to rather than the number they do it with that sets them apart from vanilla friends. Can't imagine that many vanilla friends have taken five guys at a time, been spit roasted, had two or three guys cum on them, fucked with a crowd watching etc etc! |
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"People have you had sex with?
Not really wanting people to post their number on here, but just made me think....
When your with vanilla friends, and someone says “oh, only 6” then someone goes... “oohh you player”.
I think.. Jesus, I’ve totally lost count.... and do wonder the reaction I’d have if I ever fessed up lol (I love being a swinger, missing it soooo much these days)
Anyone else ever had that conversation with vanilla friends?
XxxX"
Mrs nw is well into three figures,as you say, Gangbangs and club night rack up the numbers. |
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"You can't really compare the vanilla world with swinging. A lot of swingers have had sex with more people in one night than vanilla people do in their lives.
And I have no idea what my number is xx"
Exactly!
If I'm having a greedy girl session I'm usually too preoccupied to count each guy (or girl!)! |
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"Very very low . And happy with that.
I'm a man yes, desperate no. "
Well done, have a cookie. Implying that people with higher numbers, on a swinging site of all places, are desperate is pretty rude. |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
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"Very very low . And happy with that.
I'm a man yes, desperate no.
Well done, have a cookie. Implying that people with higher numbers, on a swinging site of all places, are desperate is pretty rude."
Some i wouldn't accept a cookie from either! But there you go.
We all have choices. Your choice was to get narked about my post and look for a negative.
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A lot. Not sure I could put an exact number on it but definitely a lot.
We have after all been swinging for approx 14 years and neither of us lived like vestal virgin's before getting involved in the scene. |
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