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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We all know a lot of then men on here are married and cheating for whatever reason (me included) but are there many women on here that are cheating ? |
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By *arkBlueBWoman
over a year ago
Central Bath |
"We all know a lot of then men on here are married and cheating for whatever reason (me included) but are there many women on here that are cheating ? "
I came to the forum to post the exact same question. Most of the men I meet (between 2/3 and 3/4) happen to be attached. I would love to know the statistics too.
(Single by choice for 10 years)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do this so that there's no need for cheating and so on . If we can do it with eachother and with each others blessings then there's no need to go behind each others backs |
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By *arkBlueBWoman
over a year ago
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"We do this so that there's no need for cheating and so on . If we can do it with eachother and with each others blessings then there's no need to go behind each others backs "
There’s never a need to cheat: it’s always a choice. |
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"We do this so that there's no need for cheating and so on . If we can do it with eachother and with each others blessings then there's no need to go behind each others backs "
I’ve suspected this for a long time. Most couples deny it’s a reason why they swing. Thank you for confirming my suspicion. |
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We share in front of each other and then enjoy each other afterwards, so no need for us to cheat.
We have met some married ladies who have done this to spice up their dull sex life but we have known in advance and a few either had their partner drop them off or rang to ensure we knew they weren’t cheating |
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I found myself on fab after I discovered my husband was cheating on me. Knee jerk reaction to get my own back and even the score (which I never did in the end) I would never help somebody cheat. I'd never risk making another person feel the way I did. |
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I initially suspect everyone on here as cheating even if they say they are single. If I get to know them better then I will know if they are single.
There are also people on here in denial, who are in so called fwb scenarios with very jealous ‘friends’ which does not appeal to me.
I hate drama. It’s not fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do this so that there's no need for cheating and so on . If we can do it with eachother and with each others blessings then there's no need to go behind each others backs "
This is pretty much how it is for us. I'm flexible - I don't need swinging to be happy, but my partner was very upfront from the beginning that he only did open relationships. So that's what we've done and it's a good relationship. Much better than having to lie and sneak around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah there are loads, but they just don’t get a bad rep like men.
When I meet as a single everyone I came across where fine with me cheating despite saying on there profile not willing to meet people who are cheating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm single and it was another single female who I knew that suggested the site too me a few years back so there are genuine singles here. Each to their own anyway im personally here to explore the kinkier side of life its not like you can just drop that kind of thing into a first date. You get strange looks believe me |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"We do this so that there's no need for cheating and so on . If we can do it with eachother and with each others blessings then there's no need to go behind each others backs
There’s never a need to cheat: it’s always a choice. "
This. Don't agree I don't have the right to judge either. |
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doing what i do,i do get a lot of single girls coming to me for first time experience of swinging,some openly admit they are having fun behind their partners back either to get them back for cheating in the past or in a unhappy relationship but staying together for the kids,i dont judge people and as long as i havent got someones partner after my blood then i crack on with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience not many guys care if a woman is cheating. I always wear my rings on a meet, some guys already know I'm in an open relationship, but the ones that didn't still fucked me without asking or mentioning it xx |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"In my experience not many guys care if a woman is cheating. I always wear my rings on a meet, some guys already know I'm in an open relationship, but the ones that didn't still fucked me without asking or mentioning it xx"
People care less if it is woman than a man. Not just single guys, but they're always singled out. - no I'm not trying to give any justification or condoning it - it is simply the way it is and will never change. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been nice to read everyones views on my post...i just want to say i do know and belive its not right to cheat but sometimes we have to make decissions that are right for ourselves and whats best at the time |
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"doing what i do,i do get a lot of single girls coming to me for first time experience of swinging,some openly admit they are having fun behind their partners back either to get them back for cheating in the past or in a unhappy relationship but staying together for the kids,i dont judge people and as long as i havent got someones partner after my blood then i crack on with it"
People who help cheaters with the opportunity to cheat are despicable in my opinion. It causes hurt and that’s bad!
People get found out eventually.
I was cheated on and now will never trust another man ever..... |
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"I've noticed on a lot of female profiles that they are cheating. It seems even in infidelity women are more honest
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Doesn’t make it right though and I’m beginning to think women are worse than men for using excuse after excuse to hurt someone. It’s terrible. |
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People who help cheaters with the opportunity to cheat are despicable in my opinion. It causes hurt and that’s bad!
People get found out eventually.
I was cheated on and now will never trust another man ever....."
Most people have probably been cheated on.
We play as a couple, our relationship is strong and is far from being just about sex. Swinging, on the other hand, *is* just about sex so the two things aren’t really interlinked. We don’t swing to stop us cheating, we do it because we enjoy it together. |
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"People are on here for different reasons. I ain't going to judge "
We all have our reasons for judging.
Anyone who has been cheated on in a hurtful way will understand how I feel. I hope the cheaters get found out. I really do..... |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
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"I found myself on fab after I discovered my husband was cheating on me. Knee jerk reaction to get my own back and even the score (which I never did in the end) I would never help somebody cheat. I'd never risk making another person feel the way I did."
Completely agree, we refuse to play with people who are cheating, there's absolutely no excuse for it. I honestly don't care how many people say they are in a "happy but sexless marriage" if you were content you wouldn't look it's so disrespectful to the person that you care about most in your life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am 100% single and think there's no excuse for cheating...
Someone said on another thread of a similar vein, they could understand a woman cheating in an abusive relationship. Having been in an abusive relationship myself, I never cheated and it never crossed my mind. Simply because I'm not a shitty human being.
Cheating and lies damages a person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying |
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"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying "
#3 leave Fab, make your marriage work and concentrate on raising your family! |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying "
Option 3...dont cheat. Didn't even cross your mind right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying "
I'm against cheating and block guys that their luck. There is no excuse for fucking around for the hell of it while lying to your gf that you're "bored of".
Those with complex marital problems and families are less black and white I admit. Same for those trapped in abusive relationships. The one time I've broken my rule and knowingly gotten involved with a married man was after his partner had broken the relationship and cheated on him more than once. He's only with her for the kids sake xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying
#3 leave Fab, make your marriage work and concentrate on raising your family! "
Exactly what im doing... i could easily leave my wife but i don't want to break up my family or ruin my kids lives |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying
Option 3...dont cheat. Didn't even cross your mind right? "
Become celibate for the rest of my life ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying
I'm against cheating and block guys that their luck. There is no excuse for fucking around for the hell of it while lying to your gf that you're "bored of".
Those with complex marital problems and families are less black and white I admit. Same for those trapped in abusive relationships. The one time I've broken my rule and knowingly gotten involved with a married man was after his partner had broken the relationship and cheated on him more than once. He's only with her for the kids sake xx"
In a similar relationship |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying
#3 leave Fab, make your marriage work and concentrate on raising your family!
Exactly what im doing... i could easily leave my wife but i don't want to break up my family or ruin my kids lives"
How is being on Fab trying your luck and seeing what else is on offer focusing on the marriage? Being a cheat is far more destructive than a divorce. Kids are quite resilient. Often I find people just use this as an excuse. I'm not saying kids aren't affected of course but they get to accept these things quite quickly. Sometimes it is even beneficial for parents to separate when there is tension in a bad marriage which kids easily pick up on. |
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"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying
#3 leave Fab, make your marriage work and concentrate on raising your family!
Exactly what im doing... i could easily leave my wife but i don't want to break up my family or ruin my kids lives"
When you get found out your wife will leave or kick you out and you will ruin your kids lives, they will disrespect you. Cheaters always get found out, believe me they do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying
Option 3...dont cheat. Didn't even cross your mind right?
Become celibate for the rest of my life ?"
Are you going to stay with your wife after your kids are adults? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying
#3 leave Fab, make your marriage work and concentrate on raising your family!
Exactly what im doing... i could easily leave my wife but i don't want to break up my family or ruin my kids lives"
Actually if you get found out your kids will never respect you again and will have ruined their trust in their future relationships? So wreck everyone's future? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying
Option 3...dont cheat. Didn't even cross your mind right?
Become celibate for the rest of my life ?
Are you going to stay with your wife after your kids are adults? "
Obviously i can't see into the future but i doubt it once my kids have left home |
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"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying
#3 leave Fab, make your marriage work and concentrate on raising your family!
Exactly what im doing... i could easily leave my wife but i don't want to break up my family or ruin my kids lives
How is being on Fab trying your luck and seeing what else is on offer focusing on the marriage? Being a cheat is far more destructive than a divorce. Kids are quite resilient. Often I find people just use this as an excuse. I'm not saying kids aren't affected of course but they get to accept these things quite quickly. Sometimes it is even beneficial for parents to separate when there is tension in a bad marriage which kids easily pick up on. " Couldnt agree more. Kids will be fine. Let the wife find somebody else to be happy with, without her finding out about all this first. Truth always comes out I think. |
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"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying
Option 3...dont cheat. Didn't even cross your mind right?
Become celibate for the rest of my life ?
Are you going to stay with your wife after your kids are adults?
Obviously i can't see into the future but i doubt it once my kids have left home"
So you intend to stay with your wife, take away years of her life she could spend with someone who respects her and doesn’t sneak around behind her back meeting women off Fab, just because you have kids? Poor wife, poor kids! You’re setting a bad example! Let the poor woman find a decent person to be with, let the poor kids see what their dad did to hurt their mum.... |
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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago
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"I found myself on fab after I discovered my husband was cheating on me. Knee jerk reaction to get my own back and even the score (which I never did in the end) I would never help somebody cheat. I'd never risk making another person feel the way I did." |
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We all joined fabs for the same reason.....sex.
Be it full or soft.
For whatever reason some people are doing it behind their partners/husband's/wives back.
I'm not here to judge.
I always ask if people are attached. It's not that it bothers me, it's more to do with discretion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As an orally bi guy I am divorced and single. However I get several messages a week from guys who either claim to be a couple or are straight but want cock.. You can usually tell as they have profiles which can travel but not accommodate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s cheaters in box sexes for whatever reason right or wrong not saying it’s right at all but if your in a club how do you know if that person is cheating then? Without a ring or a tan line of a ring you don’t . but...not everyone’s life is perfect but try to make it better and enjoy the scene for what it is really for x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying
Option 3...dont cheat. Didn't even cross your mind right?
Become celibate for the rest of my life ?
Are you going to stay with your wife after your kids are adults?
Obviously i can't see into the future but i doubt it once my kids have left home
So you intend to stay with your wife, take away years of her life she could spend with someone who respects her and doesn’t sneak around behind her back meeting women off Fab, just because you have kids? Poor wife, poor kids! You’re setting a bad example! Let the poor woman find a decent person to be with, let the poor kids see what their dad did to hurt their mum...."
I actually second this! Just make everyone's life better! |
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"In my experience not many guys care if a woman is cheating. I always wear my rings on a meet, some guys already know I'm in an open relationship, but the ones that didn't still fucked me without asking or mentioning it xx"
Very lucky guys |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"There’s cheaters in box sexes for whatever reason right or wrong not saying it’s right at all but if your in a club how do you know if that person is cheating then? Without a ring or a tan line of a ring you don’t . but...not everyone’s life is perfect but try to make it better and enjoy the scene for what it is really for x "
You can always ask, I certainly would,of course they may lie, but at least you've asked.
I only ever go to clubs with my partner on couple nights, so it cuts the risk of meeting someone cheating down usually. |
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"There’s cheaters in box sexes for whatever reason right or wrong not saying it’s right at all but if your in a club how do you know if that person is cheating then? Without a ring or a tan line of a ring you don’t . but...not everyone’s life is perfect but try to make it better and enjoy the scene for what it is really for x "
I’ve been to many clubs, I can spot the men who are married, it’s obvious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There’s cheaters in box sexes for whatever reason right or wrong not saying it’s right at all but if your in a club how do you know if that person is cheating then? Without a ring or a tan line of a ring you don’t . but...not everyone’s life is perfect but try to make it better and enjoy the scene for what it is really for x
I’ve been to many clubs, I can spot the men who are married, it’s obvious. " Out before the dinner is ready at 6.30 clock watching? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying
#3 leave Fab, make your marriage work and concentrate on raising your family!
Exactly what im doing... i could easily leave my wife but i don't want to break up my family or ruin my kids lives"
Dw your kids will hate you far more once they find out you cheated on their mum.
(speaking from personal experience) |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"There’s cheaters in box sexes for whatever reason right or wrong not saying it’s right at all but if your in a club how do you know if that person is cheating then? Without a ring or a tan line of a ring you don’t . but...not everyone’s life is perfect but try to make it better and enjoy the scene for what it is really for x
I’ve been to many clubs, I can spot the men who are married, it’s obvious. Out before the dinner is ready at 6.30 clock watching? "
I think you'll find 18:30 is when Hollyoaks is on |
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"doing what i do,i do get a lot of single girls coming to me for first time experience of swinging,some openly admit they are having fun behind their partners back either to get them back for cheating in the past or in a unhappy relationship but staying together for the kids,i dont judge people and as long as i havent got someones partner after my blood then i crack on with it"
So in other words aslong as you get your hole your good with it. |
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By *not123Couple
over a year ago
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"You cant judge anyones position until your in it "
Agree I'm one that's frowned on in here. But no one knows why I'm playing away with p and I haven't tried to sort every possible with my partner or walked away as I want to. |
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"Options are.
#1 be honest with my wife, break her heart and rip my kids world apart and end up selling our family home in a divorve settlement
Or
#2 chat on here live out a bit of a fantasy life and possibly meet for a bit of fun now and then
Just saying "
Your children will be much more damaged if they find out you cheated on their mum, my ex was 30 when he found out his mum had cheated on his dad for 15 years and it broke him and badly affected our marriage. If you cheat you cheat, I generally don't judge though my heart does break for your children, but don't try and justify it as though your actions are for the greater good because they really aren't. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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Been on and off fab for many years, scene longer.
So fess up
I had a good friend here, lovely lady, treated people and with decency and respect. She was a married bisexual woman here solo. She made no secret of her status. Like all solo women was always inudated with messages from Males/Females/Couples wanting to meet, and the rejection response.
That she took in her stride, what hurt her the most was people in these forums on these posts, saying that would not meet married women cos they are still cheaters etc etc, the ones who had messaged her about meeting or on a couple of occasions had met. She left - and still often tells me to stay out of the Forums especially these posts.
Like me or loathe, block me report me. I have always been true myself and others,
Gender cheating argument posts will go on
Know thy self
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