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Fuck on a first date?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't date in the sense I'm looking for a relationship. But I'm on Tinder and other sites where I've had FBs and FWB in the past. And yes I always have sex on the first date, but I only meet people I'm attracted to and have been speaking with for a while xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!
Sounds backwards doesn’t it!  |
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"If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!
Sounds backwards doesn’t it! "
A lot of people think the way you do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!
Sounds backwards doesn’t it!
A lot of people think the way you do. "
Maybe not so backward after all? I certainly prefer to wait if I’m into someone, the build up is always a big part for me! |
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"If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!
Sounds backwards doesn’t it!
A lot of people think the way you do.
Maybe not so backward after all? I certainly prefer to wait if I’m into someone, the build up is always a big part for me! "
Do you apply the same thought process to fab meets? |
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"Only meets I have had on here,were purely for sex,but would be happy to have a social meet first ,when allowed."
It's funny that we used tp have sex on a first date as younger people but on fab always have a social first. We're all different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!
Sounds backwards doesn’t it!
A lot of people think the way you do.
Maybe not so backward after all? I certainly prefer to wait if I’m into someone, the build up is always a big part for me!
Do you apply the same thought process to fab meets? "
I would say less so. When you find something “good” on here, you have to snap the chance up or it’s gone usually. Especially as a single male. However you definitely can create an amazing build up via good chat and flirting which makes the meet better...even if a one time thing! |
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"If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!
Sounds backwards doesn’t it!
A lot of people think the way you do.
Maybe not so backward after all? I certainly prefer to wait if I’m into someone, the build up is always a big part for me!
Do you apply the same thought process to fab meets?
I would say less so. When you find something “good” on here, you have to snap the chance up or it’s gone usually. Especially as a single male. However you definitely can create an amazing build up via good chat and flirting which makes the meet better...even if a one time thing! "
That's true. It's interesting how people differ in that we're less likely to engage in sexual activity on a first fab meet than we were when we were on the dating scene. Mind you we were last dating in the late 70s early 80s, things were very different  |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
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"If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!
Sounds backwards doesn’t it! "
Makes alot of sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I’m into someone then I actually don’t fuck on a first date, and make the wait worth it. Strangely though, if I’m not that into her for the long term but she’s alright then I definitely would fuck her on the first date!
Sounds backwards doesn’t it!
Makes alot of sense "
I think so! In a roundabout kind of way   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've fucked on all but 1 first dates, tend to build up a good sexual chemistry first so it's inevitable. From experience aswel women seem to want to fuck on first date if I mention its not important  |
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Outside the swinging scene the answer is yes. For both of us.
I reckon that in at least 50% of dates I ended up having sex after the first date. The funny thing was that if the woman was in say a less prestigious career the chances we near zero.
If the woman was a lawyer or doctor it was near 100%.
Strange but true. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
If it was a 'proper' date, then no, I wouldn't expect or even want it, hopefully seeing the person again.
As a social on here, again no I wouldn't expect it, although it has happened.
On a meet, different story. Especially after having met for a social first. |
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"Do you fuck on a first date outside of Fab? Stories even better!
I expect to fuck first, then I'll consider the "date" bit.
Cal"
Our relationship started with sex (in the back of a van) and I don't think we ever dated in the traditional sense.
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I would never expect sex on a first date, also would never initiate the first move for sex, but if the female took the first move and clearly wanted sex, who am I to say no??
If it was a (first date) under the circumstances I'm looking for a relationship im 100% a gentleman and will never overstep the mark. A good hard snog at the end of the night is always good and if I like the person im happy with that and to go home. That being said if sex is what she wants and is after im game, but for me thats the first and last date for me.
If I click with a women and we both generally get on and are both looking for serious id rather wait and get to know her and build a connection and tension before sex. |
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I would never expect sex on a first date, also would never initiate the first move for sex, but if the female took the first move and clearly wanted sex, who am I to say no??
If it was a (first date) under the circumstances I'm looking for a relationship im 100% a gentleman and will never overstep the mark. A good hard snog at the end of the night is always good and if I like the person im happy with that and to go home. That being said if sex is what she wants and is after im game, but for me thats the first and last date for me.
If I click with a women and we both generally get on and are both looking for serious id rather wait and get to know her and build a connection and tension before sex. |
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"Well I don’t date as such, if I meet anyone it is for sex not to make lifetime relationship, can be FWB but it’s all about the sex."
To me a FWB is someone who I do other things with apart from just sex... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does anyone think the three date rule is a bit old fashioned.
Maybe it's the fab user in me but I mean if you have a good time and you find each other attractive, them why wait, just because convention dictates.
I wouldn't be pushy, but I have had sex on a first date and would again, and think no less of anyone else who does |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"Well I don’t date as such, if I meet anyone it is for sex not to make lifetime relationship, can be FWB but it’s all about the sex."
Would this not just be a fuck buddy, a fwb would be someone I enjoy spending time with, going out and doing other things such as the theatre or just talking and enjoying the benifits of having sex with them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your replies folks! Interesting!
And yeah it does depend on the situation - real/vanilla dates vs fab/sex dates... I really like the ones that start out vanilla and end up filthy!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Majority of tinder dates for me have led to play/bj on first date, if not sex. But then I never go for the girls who look like their looking for the one. |
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