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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Decent looking and fun guests attending both venues.
Its more a throw it out there what do people prefer kind of forum post.
My wife likes horse parties and I like the extra space and variety of rooms at clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Decent looking and fun guests attending both venues.
Its more a throw it out there what do people prefer kind of forum post.
My wife likes horse parties and I like the extra space and variety of rooms at clubs. "
Sorry I know it’s a typo but “horse” parties made me double take and laugh ... thanks great start to my day 
Kx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought it really was a horse party. A fetish event. People wearing bridles and horse tail butt plugs and people whipping them with riding crops"
Ohhhh my bad  ... gosh I’ve lead a sheltered life ... so far lol xx |
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"I thought it really was a horse party. A fetish event. People wearing bridles and horse tail butt plugs and people whipping them with riding crops
Ohhhh my bad ... gosh I’ve lead a sheltered life ... so far lol xx"
Admittedly, it did make me chuckle a little so you're not on your own! I was picturing rooms full of actual horses, feeling a bit anxious of people walking behind them... *kick* |
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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago
Swindon |
We prefer clubs. We can never relax at a house party, the pressure to socialize and have sex with people is too much. In a club you can arrive and leave when you want, go off into a room and not feel your invading someone's home.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought it really was a horse party. A fetish event. People wearing bridles and horse tail butt plugs and people whipping them with riding crops
Ohhhh my bad ... gosh I’ve lead a sheltered life ... so far lol xx
Admittedly, it did make me chuckle a little so you're not on your own! I was picturing rooms full of actual horses, feeling a bit anxious of people walking behind them... *kick*"
Neighhhh laddy!
Sounds like a classic pony play event to me!
I have a friend who has a full body latex pony suit, complete with realistic head, hoof boots bridle and tail butt plug!
Sounds just up his street! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought it really was a horse party. A fetish event. People wearing bridles and horse tail butt plugs and people whipping them with riding crops
Ohhhh my bad ... gosh I’ve lead a sheltered life ... so far lol xx
Admittedly, it did make me chuckle a little so you're not on your own! I was picturing rooms full of actual horses, feeling a bit anxious of people walking behind them... *kick*"
It seems the op’s lady does actually have a horse ... ooo can you imagine stronnng thighs  - but I’m assured it was a typo
xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer house parties/private events because they are usually invite only and generally just more of a "real" party."
Real party like drinks, music and dancing ... plus the possibilities of more because, well, swingers or more formal? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Decent looking and fun guests attending both venues.
Its more a throw it out there what do people prefer kind of forum post.
My wife likes horse parties and I like the extra space and variety of rooms at clubs. "
Never been to a horse party.Sounds very decadent
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only go to mansion partys & killing kittens events.
I Cannot abide 'sex clubs' for me and my party partner we've visited many and found the atmosphere a turn off.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As always in life nothing is black and white.
I find house parties are more for getting to know each other where socialising is easier than in a club.
Where in a club there is more room for more folk but the intamact xan be lost.
As always irs not the venue that determines a good evening more the getting together of likeminded fun social people. And the main thought is simply go with the flow and dont preempt that can always lead to disapointment. |
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I’ve been to parties and been told by the host ‘it’s a sex party and you have to perform’! I did what I wanted with whom I wanted. Also had guys and couples expecting me to perform which I did not.
Maybe I’ve just been to the wrong parties.
My ideal party would be at a 5 star venue with classy respectful people.
I’ll stick to clubs thank you. |
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Really enjoy the clubs. Still quite new to this and it seems there's more pressure to play at a house party.
We'll get to one eventually, we just need to be a little braver and get an invite of course  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought it really was a horse party. A fetish event. People wearing bridles and horse tail butt plugs and people whipping them with riding crops"
Sign us up for that lol |
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"A club because I could just leave with no drama. House parties people are expected to have sex but I’ll not play that game if I don’t want to. "
We host party (when aloud) and never expected enyone to play and lots don't, its never been a problem to anyone  |
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"Decent guest list for both venues.
Which would you prefer and why??"
House/private events by their nature, are always invite only, and speaking as a solo guy, tend to be more welcoming and friendly than the club scene  |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"I think anyone hosting a house party is very brave. Your guests will literally go through your draws lol"
If they are going through your drawers then you need to look at your guest list - I am more interested in getting into peoples pants |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think anyone hosting a house party is very brave. Your guests will literally go through your draws lol
If they are going through your drawers then you need to look at your guest list - I am more interested in getting into peoples pants "
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"I’ve been to parties and been told by the host ‘it’s a sex party and you have to perform’! I did what I wanted with whom I wanted. Also had guys and couples expecting me to perform which I did not.
Maybe I’ve just been to the wrong parties.
My ideal party would be at a 5 star venue with classy respectful people.
I’ll stick to clubs thank you. "
was you ever told before you went to house party that would be included?
house party you should be able to leave and do as you please within reason.
first house party wasnt expected to do anything there was no pressure if you wanted to join in or not.
joined in at what I was comfortable at doing not what I was expected to do
been to a few house partys over the years and never have I found them to be that way.
same with the club events as well that ive been too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So far never been to a club, but have been to parties at other peoples houses in past. House parties when done right dont put pressure on people to have sex, it's just relaxed and available if participants are willing. I think I would prefer a house party if I knew some of the people there, but on the flip side, meeting new strangers is still a good way to make friends, and I can appreciate clubs more for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like the club scene as not sure what we want to get up to on the night.
However the party scene is great as well but have never felt underpressure to play. |
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"I’ve been to parties and been told by the host ‘it’s a sex party and you have to perform’! I did what I wanted with whom I wanted. Also had guys and couples expecting me to perform which I did not.
Maybe I’ve just been to the wrong parties.
My ideal party would be at a 5 star venue with classy respectful people.
I’ll stick to clubs thank you.
was you ever told before you went to house party that would be included?
house party you should be able to leave and do as you please within reason.
first house party wasnt expected to do anything there was no pressure if you wanted to join in or not.
joined in at what I was comfortable at doing not what I was expected to do
been to a few house partys over the years and never have I found them to be that way.
same with the club events as well that ive been too."
Nope I wasn’t told before the house party but on the night some guests mentioned it and the host confirmed it. Totally ruined the experience and I did what I wanted and didn’t stay till the end.
Much prefer a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We hosted a house party and did not tell our neighbours (who the misuss invited) that is was a swingers party.
It was a good night and something we will be doing again when lock-down is over.
House party's are better and more intermit, as you can choose who attend, also house party's are free and end when you want, and correct me if I'm wrong but didn't swinging stat with house party's?
With clubs you still get people (mostly men) who feel they can touch any woman they want without asking and some can be very expensive and very clickly but clubs will still have there place and we have had some good times at some.
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"We hosted a house party and did not tell our neighbours (who the misuss invited) that is was a swingers party.
It was a good night and something we will be doing again when lock-down is over.
House party's are better and more intermit, as you can choose who attend, also house party's are free and end when you want, and correct me if I'm wrong but didn't swinging stat with house party's?
With clubs you still get people (mostly men) who feel they can touch any woman they want without asking and some can be very expensive and very clickly but clubs will still have there place and we have had some good times at some.
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No men can just touch me without asking in a club. If they try that they get a piece of my mind and are reported to staff. |
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"We never attended house party yet but would love to try when allowed,want to see differences between club and house"
You’ll find clubs are bigger and at parties the expectation to play with any person is high. Drama when wishing to leave. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"We never attended house party yet but would love to try when allowed,want to see differences between club and house
You’ll find clubs are bigger and at parties the expectation to play with any person is high. Drama when wishing to leave. "
See it's this that puts us off house parties. We play with who we want when we want and leave when we want, won't be held to anyones expectations. |
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"We never attended house party yet but would love to try when allowed,want to see differences between club and house
You’ll find clubs are bigger and at parties the expectation to play with any person is high. Drama when wishing to leave.
See it's this that puts us off house parties. We play with who we want when we want and leave when we want, won't be held to anyones expectations. "
The people at parties are worse than people in clubs ....seriously they expect all to play. If you don’t then it’s uncomfortable and drama when leaving. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We hold house parties and never is there an expectation to play... have a really good evening yes !
With like minded people .. hot tub if you fancy a dip..
Some just come for a social ..others will play.. |
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"Decent looking and fun guests attending both venues.
Its more a throw it out there what do people prefer kind of forum post.
My wife likes horse parties and I like the extra space and variety of rooms at clubs. "
Horse parties !! 
My my |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We prefer clubs. We can never relax at a house party, the pressure to socialize and have sex with people is too much. In a club you can arrive and leave when you want, go off into a room and not feel your invading someone's home. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont think there is much to chose between the 2, ive hosted several house parties, mostly they are social gatherings ... occasionally people go off and play, but that is their choice. Tbf clubs nights for me are the same, social events where some go off and play. in reality its the company that makes the night, not the location, in my view |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
Hard to call, we have enjoyed both and left early at both so would say down to the guests and how the evening feels, we like to see a guest list so can perhaps chat to those attending before the night, see if there’s a connection, enjoy some lead up banter although we have enjoyed random nights of not knowing anybody until the night. What we have found though the last couple of times we attended a club 3/4 of people were outside in the smoking area and as we don’t smoke it didn’t create such a good atmosphere inside |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
We find clubs work for us ... but you need to also set up some contact beforehand to have some single guys and / or a couple or two committed to turn up. House parties are something we will explore with caution. x Anne |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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House party for me.
Clubs can be an unknown quantity. With house parties, at least there has been some dialogue beforehand-just to get a vibe of the people attending. Also, the guests are verified.
I’ve witnessed some right head cases in clubs (not involved with me, just witnessing it all going off)!
There’s little vetting for club entrants.
Only my personal experience and does not reflect all clubs (albeit in my limited experience). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We hold house parties and never is there an expectation to play... have a really good evening yes !
With like minded people .. hot tub if you fancy a dip..
Some just come for a social ..others will play.. "
We agree, you know who's attending and how they are, If your at a house party with high expectations to play, your at the wrong house party.
We did go to one house party (the first and last with that host) where the host (male) through that as it was his house, he could touch the other women without asking. |
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"We hold house parties and never is there an expectation to play... have a really good evening yes !
With like minded people .. hot tub if you fancy a dip..
Some just come for a social ..others will play..
We agree, you know who's attending and how they are, If your at a house party with high expectations to play, your at the wrong house party.
We did go to one house party (the first and last with that host) where the host (male) through that as it was his house, he could touch the other women without asking. "
Ooooh not good. Now he would have known about it if he had tried touching me without permission!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We never attended house party yet but would love to try when allowed,want to see differences between club and house
You’ll find clubs are bigger and at parties the expectation to play with any person is high. Drama when wishing to leave.
See it's this that puts us off house parties. We play with who we want when we want and leave when we want, won't be held to anyones expectations.
The people at parties are worse than people in clubs ....seriously they expect all to play. If you don’t then it’s uncomfortable and drama when leaving. "
We had it the other way where a couple turned up expected to play straight away .. not many did that evening so they left rather abruptly.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like both I’ve been to great house parties and really busy nights at a club I like both aspects going to a club the feeling of actually going out the atmosphere when it’s busy and house parties more relaxed they’ve gone on until the sun comes back up lol both great fun |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"We never attended house party yet but would love to try when allowed,want to see differences between club and house
You’ll find clubs are bigger and at parties the expectation to play with any person is high. Drama when wishing to leave.
See it's this that puts us off house parties. We play with who we want when we want and leave when we want, won't be held to anyones expectations.
The people at parties are worse than people in clubs ....seriously they expect all to play. If you don’t then it’s uncomfortable and drama when leaving. "
We'll put this to the test. Will be interesting to see what anyone will do when we stand our ground. It'll be at the back of our minds but we'll be prepared if a situation occurs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have never been to either but it’s definitely something we want to explore when it’s safe! Does anyone ever come across any ff couples at clubs/ parties? "
there are a couple of clubs that have Bi night, but we have not seen a ff night, but there is nothing stopping you from putting on your own ff night at a club or hosting a ff house party.
Our house party's are couples and singles ladies only, for us, we feel is work better. |
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In most cases at a house party you know everyone there, You know what's going to happen and get to catch up with friends talking drinking and having a laugh,
9 time out of 10 it would be a party for me but I do enjoy themed party nights or fab socials at clubs |
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