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over a year ago
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I think it's already attractive when I'm met with an introduction about the person rather than 10 disclaimers in capital letters followed by a list of requirements. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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For me, it is about a proper profile that shows me the person is capable of expressing themselves. It does not have to be deeply philosophical but it needs to show some intelligence and wit, and suggest the person is actually quite a nice, genuine and non-judgmental person.
After that, I d look at pictures, ideally face pictures and again, there I d be attracted to a smile and nice eyes.
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Are actually supposed to read the profiles? 
Obviously that's where I go wrong just looking at pictures and not reading. 
In all honesty, I like to read that there is some thought and desire to engage the mind and not just the body. A confident lady or couple who know what they are wanting and happy to discuss this.
I like to actually see some text and not will fill in later.
Thats just my initial thoughts in between work calls. |
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"how important is the face to someone? "
We wouldn't expect them to be public, but if we get a message from someone, showing interest  then we also expect the interested party to send face pics first after an initial chat 
Face pics in general are important, attraction has a big part to play for me Mrs Ct x |
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"how important is the face to someone? "
Very important.
I like the coy type who tease the stuff they like.
Turn off for me is the i want "these superficial types of men"
But say nothing about personality |
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"For me, it is about a proper profile that shows me the person is capable of expressing themselves. It does not have to be deeply philosophical but it needs to show some intelligence and wit, and suggest the person is actually quite a nice, genuine and non-judgmental person.
After that, I d look at pictures, ideally face pictures and again, there I d be attracted to a smile and nice eyes.
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This for me too.
With the addition of norks, obviously |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single male, I have my PA screen my messages and forward the ones that they think would appeal...
In reality, possibly the greatest connection I made on fab began with a wink I received. It was a forum post I'd made that caught her attention. When I looked at her profile I was impressed with her personality, and even more impressed with her photos. I think I messaged first (long time ago) and after a false start, we arranged a meet. Things went well and we met a lot and a what I hope is a life-long friendship was born. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how important is the face to someone? "
It plays a part of course, but for me as a sapiosexual there is no one physical aspect that seals the deal. To connect, for me, takes something far more than superficial attributes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how important is the face to someone? "
Very, I have to find them attractive facially. However, that is only one part of it, personality also plays a massive part. One of the above on their own does not work for me. If that makes me shallow so be it.
In terms of initial attraction to a profile, it could one of many things or a combination, everyone constructs their profile differently so you have to look at them each in a different way.
How they come across in the forums if they use them can also be a big part of it. |
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