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Taking forever to ejaculate
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No matter who I'm having sex with or how I'm doing it, it takes like forever for me to cum.
The people i have mentioned this to all think it has something to do with erection problems. But that's not the case I could have a hard on 24/7 with no problem ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No matter who I'm having sex with or how I'm doing it, it takes like forever for me to cum.
The people i have mentioned this to all think it has something to do with erection problems. But that's not the case I could have a hard on 24/7 with no problem ??"
Perhaps a chat with your GP would be the best idea if you are concerned.
I doubt if a recreational sex site is the place to seek medical advice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm on no medication at all And I've had the all clear at the clinic.
It baffles me is obviously very frustrating. I've done reading up online so know a few things about it but I can't find a remedy. I've even mentioned it to my doctor but I was told there's not much they can do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im a ball bag reliever for those who need release i said prostate as a finger up the ass normally makes them cum 
and no ill not give my real job away  "
So your medical opinion is that the OPs issue can be resolved by someone carrying out a prostate examination?
You are deeply troubled! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im a ball bag reliever for those who need release i said prostate as a finger up the ass normally makes them cum
and no ill not give my real job away "
I thought that was a good option |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can get a hard on and keep it for hrs but sometimes i dont ejeculate. But i enjoy screwing. And feel contented at the end. Men dont need to cum. Some women dont but feel contented. Porn dont help. They show gallons of the bloody stuff. Dont worry opp. Just enjoy it |
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I get this, ive always been like it. Mines anxiety based.
I can get the same with peeing aswell.
Also on meds for depression and they are killer but I had this before.
Ive found some women who you connect with big time just make me do it. No problem but mine is anxiety based for sure.
Think im to vanilla for my own good.
I also didn't realise this was anxiety based or I had anxiety if you cum easy on a wank, like I do id say its certainly anxiety based.
Try meditation and a very horny girl the right one will accept the challenge and love it.  |
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"Can take up to half hour first cum and then if I have seconds it's impossible no matter how much I try
Do you and your partners get bored?"
It is really frustrating. For both parties.
For me i give up if im not feeling it. |
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"I can get a hard on and keep it for hrs but sometimes i dont ejeculate. But i enjoy screwing. And feel contented at the end. Men dont need to cum. Some women dont but feel contented. Porn dont help. They show gallons of the bloody stuff. Dont worry opp. Just enjoy it"
Screwing? Are you a builder? |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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OP, first, thing is that the stress of the situation and worry about it probably makes the matter worse.
Second, 30 min for the first is not THAT long and I suspect most woman prefer that to a man who comes 30 seconds in. Other words your on a winner here. Do you not know that?
Third, As for a second shout and no orgasm, again that would make you a bit of a god in most clubs, provided you stay rock hard?
Fourth and finally, the pleasure of fucking is not only in the Orgasm but the action. If your not getting that then the partners your picking or your own technique is the real issue. Be a bit braver and experiment the Horn is more in the mind than the glands.
PS. the finger up the arse trick, does not work on everyone, someone try's it on me and apart from the inpertanace of it, its likely to bring on the exact opposite reaction. TOP only Bi means just that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I purposely edge myself and partner (when there is allowed to be one) I try not to cum. The idea that ejaculation is required to feel fulfilled is nonsense. Enjoy the act. The sensation and pleasure of the moment. Stop worrying about the end result and take the journey as it comes (no pun intended) |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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"I purposely edge myself and partner (when there is allowed to be one) I try not to cum. The idea that ejaculation is required to feel fulfilled is nonsense. Enjoy the act. The sensation and pleasure of the moment. Stop worrying about the end result and take the journey as it comes (no pun intended)"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not bored no.
It can be frustrating for myself especially if I'm tired and been working all day and then trying to fulfill my needs and de stress.
As you can imagine my partners have found it works in there favour but often it can make them think its something they are doing wrong when that isn't the case |
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M here. I sometimes struggle due to stress. Too much on my mind to fully switch off and enjoy the moment to its fullest, even if I am super horny. Mrs gets a bit upset as feels its her but I reassure her and we have talked about it. Its not all about the orgasm anyway as my kink is seeing her orgasm. Plus I can often after cum after a good night's sleep etc. |
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