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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do people do it? Youve never spoken to them or anything, never fabbed a picture or sent a wink, never interacted with them on forums but yet still you feel the need to send a friend request??? Whyyyy?????
Its making me question the function of a friends list if you just have 30,000 randoms on there.
(Yes i know you can ignore them or hide all your friends only pics!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some assume people need to be 'Friends' before they will reply to messages.
I think some have face pics in their friends folder so they send a request so you can see them, easier than sending attached to a message.
I think some people think it's like Facebook and the friends list is important. |
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We just leave them to pile up...they can’t request again if they’ve sent one and we don’t delete it 
We only accept friends requests from people we are chatting to and interested in. No random person is on our friends list and never will be.
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think some people send them just to perve the friends only pics. I ignore all friends requests unless it someone I actually know. "
They 100000% it’s so annoying no one actually reads anything lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We just leave them in the friend request list , they just want to see your hidden pics really. No effort, no profile write up, no reading of your profile = no friend acceptance lol |
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"We just leave them to pile up...they can’t request again if they’ve sent one and we don’t delete it
We only accept friends requests from people we are chatting to and interested in. No random person is on our friends list and never will be.
K"
This 
I'm assuming they want to see the friends only pic and that perhaps you're more likely to engage in conversation once you've accepted . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We just leave them to pile up...they can’t request again if they’ve sent one and we don’t delete it
We only accept friends requests from people we are chatting to and interested in. No random person is on our friends list and never will be.
K"
This!!! |
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"We just leave them in the friend request list , they just want to see your hidden pics really. No effort, no profile write up, no reading of your profile = no friend acceptance lol"
Absolutely, it's mad the requests that come in and especially when new picture added x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to be honest. When our joint profile went active I had no idea how Fab worked or what the protocols were. I was guilty of sending out random friend requests if I saw a couple that I liked the look of.
Abby already had a solo profile and soon made me aware that it wasn’t the ‘done thing’
A few years later and I understand how frustrating it can be.
Newbie over exuberance is ok, anything after that is not on.
V |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just to perve isn't it.... I get guys adding me. (should I say, trying to), and I think they thing I must have a picture of my cock in my friend's photos (I don't actually). It is strange though isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We just leave them to pile up...they can’t request again if they’ve sent one and we don’t delete it
We only accept friends requests from people we are chatting to and interested in. No random person is on our friends list and never will be.
K"
Same. I literally have hundreds!! I know they send them so they can see my friends only pics!! But my friends are guy I know and have met or am planning to meet in the future |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We just leave them in the friend request list , they just want to see your hidden pics really. No effort, no profile write up, no reading of your profile = no friend acceptance lol
Absolutely, it's mad the requests that come in and especially when new picture added x"
Everytime it's the same , don't get me wrong we love a fab on our pics and we like a message from people who have read our profile  |
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"Our profile clearly says not to friend request unless we have met before or spoken. But we still get them.
We just ignore and delete the request. "
Same here. We delete them and block the senders. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people do it? Youve never spoken to them or anything, never fabbed a picture or sent a wink, never interacted with them on forums but yet still you feel the need to send a friend request??? Whyyyy?????
Its making me question the function of a friends list if you just have 30,000 randoms on there.
(Yes i know you can ignore them or hide all your friends only pics!) "
Lots fo it to see private pics. Ive had it said to me when I've asked. So I've said no plus I dnt have graphic pics so wasting your time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people do it? Youve never spoken to them or anything, never fabbed a picture or sent a wink, never interacted with them on forums but yet still you feel the need to send a friend request??? Whyyyy?????
Its making me question the function of a friends list if you just have 30,000 randoms on there.
(Yes i know you can ignore them or hide all your friends only pics!) "
Lots fo it to see private pics. Ive had it said to me when I've asked. So I've said no plus I dnt have graphic pics so wasting your time |
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"I usually accept have a perv then in the very large majority of cases delete"
Yet I do that, it even tells them in the profile that’s what I’ll do. Doesn’t stop them, as they haven’t read the profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people do it? Youve never spoken to them or anything, never fabbed a picture or sent a wink, never interacted with them on forums but yet still you feel the need to send a friend request??? Whyyyy?????
Its making me question the function of a friends list if you just have 30,000 randoms on there.
(Yes i know you can ignore them or hide all your friends only pics!) "
The thing I do when I get random friends request, is wait for them to go offline and accept the request.
I then like/fab all their shitry, blurry pics then immediately unfriendly them.
I sometimes block after that depending on how I feel about that profile. Lol
Makes me feel better anyway... Hope that helps  |
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"I think some people send them just to perve the friends only pics. I ignore all friends requests unless it someone I actually know. "
Just what I was going to say, also hate the 1 word messages "hi" lol, usually send same back or I just delete. |
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The ones that I can never understand are the out of the blue requests from the other side of the country about 200 miles away where there is hardly any chance of a meet, or the ones that are local but they never reply when you try arranging a meet. Most I just delete and usually make friends with people I have met, but sadly meets are rare, and friends I have made over the years have left the site so my friend list is depleted now, maybe just one or two left last time I looked a long time ago. |
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