FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Sick of fake couples

Sick of fake couples

Jump to: Newest in thread

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Admins can you do something to stop the amount of guys pretending to be couples.

Hate going on cam to get message by couples where their wife is at 'work'

Same for fake female profiles

Step up your verification game ffs

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How do you mean?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ackandtheunicornCouple over a year ago

liverpool

You can nearly always spot them a mile away.

Lack of verifications is usually one way.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can nearly always spot them a mile away.

Lack of verifications is usually one way."
thanks. I had my reservations tbh. But kinda assumed couples were genuine. Naive on my part.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ough75Man over a year ago

edinburgh/bakewell/derby

Yep noticed this more recently

I’ll be honest plenty guys doing it with female profiles as well

Also lots of other dubious profiles as well

You kinda need to treat all profiles with initial caution if not verified and particularly new ones who pop up really active then disappear

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

Blah blah! I (he) get accused of this nonsense. She maybe at work, Mrs here has nothing to do with fab at all, she enjoys the meets I arrange, should we be kicked off for not showing our veris and Mrs never present on fab? Some are genuine.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would like to be verified, lm not finding it easy to do over the cam or meeting part.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Admins can you do something to stop the amount of guys pretending to be couples.

Hate going on cam to get message by couples where their wife is at 'work'

Same for fake female profiles

Step up your verification game ffs "

Perhaps you would like admin to arrange meets for you

Grow up and stop being so desperate

Ignore the ones you believe to be fake.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *otwifeandcuckCouple over a year ago

Blackpool

Oh so the male half of a "couple" isn't allowed to be here lol

Get a grip of your life

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *irtydevil666Man over a year ago

bristol

You will develop a sixth sense for them eventually

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *asycouple1971Couple over a year ago

midlands

"Blah blah! I (he) get accused of this nonsense. She maybe at work, Mrs here has nothing to do with fab at all, she enjoys the meets I arrange, should we be kicked off for not showing our veris and Mrs never present on fab? Some are genuine."

We are the same. Its him that is on fab to post the pics and arrange meets but because her doesnt come on fab then people think we are fake..lol

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why are ppl taking offence to us querying doubts ? It’s quite reasonable. Just like myself, get told all the time I’m fake coz Havnt met anyone. I don’t take it personally. Is what it is x

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s always been a problem on here but over the last few years it’s gotten way worse .. makes it harder for genuine swingers to find each unfortunately

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don’t just moan about couple profiles plenty of time wasting guys too who are just pic collecting fantasists

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Admins can you do something to stop the amount of guys pretending to be couples.

Hate going on cam to get message by couples where their wife is at 'work'

Same for fake female profiles

Step up your verification game ffs "

So you chatted to people with no verifications whatsoever and found out you been catfished?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don’t just moan about couple profiles plenty of time wasting guys too who are just pic collecting fantasists "
. Most definitely. Much more fake or time wasting men. I agree. But until today I kinda assumed couples were legit and not all profiles are.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Admins can you do something to stop the amount of guys pretending to be couples.

Hate going on cam to get message by couples where their wife is at 'work'

Same for fake female profiles

Step up your verification game ffs Not being meet verified doesn’t make you fake or time wasting

So you chatted to people with no verifications whatsoever and found out you been catfished?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *esparate danMan over a year ago

glasgow

"Admins can you do something to stop the amount of guys pretending to be couples.

Hate going on cam to get message by couples where their wife is at 'work'

Same for fake female profiles

Step up your verification game ffs "

Step up your own

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *uzz And WoodyCouple over a year ago

Maidstone

We’re an unverified couple but we’ve done the photo verification thing. You can normally tell by the conversation as to whether or not you’re speaking to a lady and surely if you go on cam and the man is alone you just don’t engage. Don’t invest too much time until you’re sure then you’ll avoid disappointment.

Lou x

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Admins can you do something to stop the amount of guys pretending to be couples.

Hate going on cam to get message by couples where their wife is at 'work'

Same for fake female profiles

Step up your verification game ffs "

At the very least, check the profile is photo-verified by the site, so displaying the little green flag. You could also block non site-supporters from messaging you, that literally sorts the wheat from the chaff

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *AYENCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Admins can you do something to stop the amount of guys pretending to be couples.

Hate going on cam to get message by couples where their wife is at 'work'

Same for fake female profiles

Step up your verification game ffs "

It sounds to me that you're desperately wanting others to provide you with free wank fodder, and getting annoyed when that doesn't happen.

Try slowly building relationships with some people, then you'll be able to gauge whether they are real or fake - then perhaps you'll get the relief you are looking for.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ap d agde coupleCouple over a year ago

Broadstairs

Most fake profiles where a guy is pretending to be a couple are so easy to spot when they make contact , no verifications usually hardly anything in there profile and the messages usually point that it’s not a couple speaking

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How annoying is it!! I think there should be a couples verification method, where both need to be verified individually it wouldn’t stop it indefinitely but it would lessen them!!

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *sm265Woman over a year ago

Shangri-la

There do seem to be quite a lot of couples profiles where it is only a male. I absolutely understand that some women are happy to let the male run the profile & have no issue with that. I do have an issue with the ones where the male sends messages pretending to be the female, not only because it is deceitful, but also because it is insulting that they think I don't have the sense to see right through them

It usually very easy to spot the fakes, and can be mildly amusing to hear the excuses when I call them out on it.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fakes are easy enough to spot after a while. The site can only do so much. Crafty fuckers will always find a way round stuff.

Dont waste your energy getting the arse. Block and move on.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *nlyfun3Woman over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Use reverse imaging sorts out loads of fakes

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

Maybe something like giving a time limit on how long you can stay unverified.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *arbarianzCouple over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

We have veris by cam, meet AND photo veri..

yet we still get accused of being fake by people like the OP weekly.. K works nights as a nurse, and people get shocked when we can't instantly produce some kind of 'proof of life' style photo.. mongs

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *oojCouple over a year ago

Exeter

M does nearly all the fabmin, only J at times usually to check out if anything arranged is OK with both he usually gets it right, amazing how many fake newbies around at moment must be at home bored!!

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On the other side of that, the amount of single guys we get accusing us of it just being the guy is irritating. Always getting demands from guys to leave the wife's number so he can phone them to verify (usually it's the ones who have a one line profile with no pics which is ironic). I tend to be on here more (although the wife drops in regularly) and she tends to use Kik alot more to chat to guys from here.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *arbarianzCouple over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

"On the other side of that, the amount of single guys we get accusing us of it just being the guy is irritating. Always getting demands from guys to leave the wife's number so he can phone them to verify (usually it's the ones who have a one line profile with no pics which is ironic). I tend to be on here more (although the wife drops in regularly) and she tends to use Kik alot more to chat to guys from here. "

oh we've had that! :D we had one chap accuse us of being fake and if I didn't show him a live pic of us AND let him call us.. he wasn't going to continue engaging with us..

He messaged us.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh we've had that! :D we had one chap accuse us of being fake and if I didn't show him a live pic of us AND let him call us.. he wasn't going to continue engaging with us..

He messaged us. "

That's what we find funny, they message us, then start making all sorts of demands as if we should be grateful they've took their time to message us?

yet will make no attempt to verify who they are.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fakes are easy enough to spot after a while. The site can only do so much. Crafty fuckers will always find a way round stuff.

Dont waste your energy getting the arse. Block and move on.

Yes , but the most dangerous catfish is the couples profiles that are verified but no longer together....

It’s usually only the male still using the profile, and those are the hardest to suss out...

So that’s why couples get accused of being fake with verifications....

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *arbarianzCouple over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

"Fakes are easy enough to spot after a while. The site can only do so much. Crafty fuckers will always find a way round stuff.

Dont waste your energy getting the arse. Block and move on.

Yes , but the most dangerous catfish is the couples profiles that are verified but no longer together....

It’s usually only the male still using the profile, and those are the hardest to suss out...

So that’s why couples get accused of being fake with verifications...."

I accept that, however the % of 'couples' doing this compared to the amount of solo males being aggressive is disproportionate.. rather than getting tribal about it 'solo males v couples' etc.. we should ALL be banding together to get rid of people lying full stop.

Half of the joy of this lifestyle is the pure, open honesty of it. people lying bring that shit into disrepute..

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fakes are easy enough to spot after a while. The site can only do so much. Crafty fuckers will always find a way round stuff.

Dont waste your energy getting the arse. Block and move on.

Yes , but the most dangerous catfish is the couples profiles that are verified but no longer together....

It’s usually only the male still using the profile, and those are the hardest to suss out...

So that’s why couples get accused of being fake with verifications....

Half of the joy of this lifestyle is the pure, open honesty of it. people lying bring that shit into disrepute.. "

Yes very true , but swingers are polite people and the catfishes prey on that.....

For instance.... when people meet a person with old out dated pictures? No one comes back online and makes the community aware of the deception....

They just politely move on and let’s this person carry on wasting people’s time....

We can’t name and shame.... but there has to be some way to clean up our backyard....

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ap d agde coupleCouple over a year ago

Broadstairs

"Fakes are easy enough to spot after a while. The site can only do so much. Crafty fuckers will always find a way round stuff.

Dont waste your energy getting the arse. Block and move on.

Yes , but the most dangerous catfish is the couples profiles that are verified but no longer together....

It’s usually only the male still using the profile, and those are the hardest to suss out...

So that’s why couples get accused of being fake with verifications...."
That’s easy if your going to meet just ask for us ladies to talk on the phone if you have suspicions

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fakes are easy enough to spot after a while. The site can only do so much. Crafty fuckers will always find a way round stuff.

Dont waste your energy getting the arse. Block and move on.

Yes , but the most dangerous catfish is the couples profiles that are verified but no longer together....

It’s usually only the male still using the profile, and those are the hardest to suss out...

So that’s why couples get accused of being fake with verifications.... That’s easy if your going to meet just ask for us ladies to talk on the phone if you have suspicions "

Yes , but the female half is never available....

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *mmixtapeCouple over a year ago

middle earth

Surely you could just ensure that they are pic verified? I (f) pretty much solely use this account, Mr comes on for a nosey ever now and then but doesn't like the site much so doesn't bother with it. Our account is pic verified and we have lots of regular verifications. Don't worry about it too much

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fakes are easy enough to spot after a while. The site can only do so much. Crafty fuckers will always find a way round stuff.

Dont waste your energy getting the arse. Block and move on.

Yes , but the most dangerous catfish is the couples profiles that are verified but no longer together....

It’s usually only the male still using the profile, and those are the hardest to suss out...

So that’s why couples get accused of being fake with verifications.... That’s easy if your going to meet just ask for us ladies to talk on the phone if you have suspicions

Yes , but the female half is never available...."

Then chances are she won't be available for any meet in future either.

A lot of Hotwifes have the Hubby deal with the initial conversations and if it is to go any further thats when I hand things over to my wife.

If the wife is unable to confirm her presence at this point then safe bet its not genuine. However a little patience is sometimes needed as lot of us have other family commitments too.

This is the male half.

L x

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Admins can you do something to stop the amount of guys pretending to be couples.

Hate going on cam to get message by couples where their wife is at 'work'

Same for fake female profiles

Step up your verification game ffs "

How do you know they're "Fake"? Both halves of the couples are entitled to use the facilities.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By * Plus ECouple over a year ago

The South

"Admins can you do something to stop the amount of guys pretending to be couples.

Hate going on cam to get message by couples where their wife is at 'work'

Same for fake female profiles

Step up your verification game ffs "

I think some people don’t understand the intention behind the photo verification option.

Its supposed to give a level of assurance that the person in the picture is the same gender as the person’s profile.

What it’s not, is a cast iron guarantee that this process is 100% fool proof. Photo verifications can be and probably are faked.

What they are not is a nailed on guarantee that the person is genuine, the profile is genuine, that they won’t waste your time, that they will find you attractive, that they will want to meet you or that they will fuck you.

Enjoying the site is about using your common sense, regrettably a skill many seem to lack.

I even saw someone a while back suggesting that a photo verification was a better barometer than a meet verification.

I think some people are in too much of a hurry to meet, too desperate, and in their haste they forget to carry out any due diligence.

After which they want the site to remedy their mistakes by introducing a whole raft of unworkable and impractical processes.

If any other form of verification system provided a 100% guarantee, don’t you think the site would have implemented it by now?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *uminsiderMKMan over a year ago

St Austell

In only the last few days I've been contacted by a couple of 'couples' with photos clearly downloaded from elsewhere...

....when I casually ask if they've got profiles elsewhere, as their pics look familiar, it suddenly goes all quiet...

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *arbarianzCouple over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

Yes very true , but swingers are polite people and the catfishes prey on that.....

For instance.... when people meet a person with old out dated pictures? No one comes back online and makes the community aware of the deception....

They just politely move on and let’s this person carry on wasting people’s time....

We can’t name and shame.... but there has to be some way to clean up our backyard...."

I personally, would say even the photo thing has a statute? for e.g what if the best picture I took happened to be a couple of years ago. the lighting was right, my baby browns were poppin.. why wouldn't I put my best foot forward?

Though, I do understand I'm talking a year or two.. not 10+! that would be deception!

Well for anyone messaging us, everything is 12 months or younger, and I assure you, we've only gotten sexier.. by a magnitude of 32.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *orthernCouple88Couple over a year ago

Manchester

There’s no ‘one size fits all’. We are extensively verified and have been to many clubs and parties etc. However, we refuse to ever show our faces on cam, go live on cam or give our mobile numbers yet we are labelled fake/timewasters

The ‘best’ one we had was off a supposed couple. We arranged to meet in Ma Kelly’s in Blackpool one Saturday at 3pm. All was well until the morning of the meet. Then came the demands for face pics, mobiles etc. We refused all and said ‘let’s just stick to the arrangement. See you at 3pm. Here’s where we’ll be stood and here’s what we look like. When you have BOTH checked us out if you like us please approach us. If you don’t like us then simply walk out.

We then gets a message at 3pm from the couple saying. ‘Hi guys. You look great....

For a bit of fun please try and guess the remainder of the message...

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There’s no ‘one size fits all’. We are extensively verified and have been to many clubs and parties etc. However, we refuse to ever show our faces on cam, go live on cam or give our mobile numbers yet we are labelled fake/timewasters

We then gets a message at 3pm from the couple saying. ‘Hi guys. You look great....

For a bit of fun please try and guess the remainder of the message..."

"The wife is poorly, I'll meet you anyway"

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *orthernCouple88Couple over a year ago

Manchester

""The wife is poorly, I'll meet you anyway""

Spot on!

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""The wife is poorly, I'll meet you anyway"

Spot on!

Did you meet him?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ersey GirlCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

our heart bleeds for you op it really does

r&s

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

We're the same, I arrange all our meets. I don't think people really understand how the Stag/Vixen thing works.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *oncupiscence73Woman over a year ago

South

"Don’t just moan about couple profiles plenty of time wasting guys too who are just pic collecting fantasists "

Yup this ..... so many men don’t actually want to meet. This is just a platform you do your own filtering as a human adult

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *indy777Couple over a year ago

Hampshire

Dig a bit deeper with the chat. Always becomes clear.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *lym4realCouple over a year ago

plymouth

Well...if seems to good to be true ....

but desperation is high on here now ..and most couples aren't ..

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *randMrsJones500Couple over a year ago

london

"Don’t just moan about couple profiles plenty of time wasting guys too who are just pic collecting fantasists

Yup this ..... so many men don’t actually want to meet. This is just a platform you do your own filtering as a human adult "

its tricky for all at the moment. many conversations just fizzle out as no one should be meeting. play the long game be your own filter. and the cream will rise to the top. the fantasists picture collectors and fakes will disappear and you will be left hopefully with some memorable meets when the time comes whether you are a couple or a single

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

"Admins can you do something to stop the amount of guys pretending to be couples.

Hate going on cam to get message by couples where their wife is at 'work'

Same for fake female profiles

Step up your verification game ffs "

If you are messaging couples surely you want to engage with the man too, otherwise you are just showing you have no interest in them as a couple and just want to get to the woman.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ecky and justCouple over a year ago

Godalming

We’ve yet to be accused of being fake.

I suppose it could happen one day.

Much like many of the others posting above, it’s me, Just, that’s on here more as I tend to chat in the forums and arrange future meets for us.

Becky sees all though and logs in regularly.

We like to have our veris displayed in the hope that people realise we’re genuine.

To be honest, if someone were to get miffed because they couldn’t talk to B immediately, it would give us the first warning sign that we didn’t want to meet them.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of the fake couple profiles are normally easy to spot as they want to see all your pictures after the first message so they can spank their monkey! lol

Then they always start wanting you to describe what you get up to and to talk dirty lol.

Instant block and onto the next one i say.

Sad really as this isn't what swinging is all about and hence why we prefer clubs and parties.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just because the wife or husband is at work doesn't make them fake lol..but we do agree with you lots of fake profiles the last 12 months it's frustrating but if you have a gut feeling just block and move on..

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most of the fake couple profiles are normally easy to spot as they want to see all your pictures after the first message so they can spank their monkey! lol

Then they always start wanting you to describe what you get up to and to talk dirty lol.

Instant block and onto the next one i say.

Sad really as this isn't what swinging is all about and hence why we prefer clubs and parties."

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don’t just moan about couple profiles plenty of time wasting guys too who are just pic collecting fantasists

Yup this ..... so many men don’t actually want to meet. This is just a platform you do your own filtering as a human adult "

It's an adult site not a baby sitting site.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *oncupiscence73Woman over a year ago

South

"Don’t just moan about couple profiles plenty of time wasting guys too who are just pic collecting fantasists

Yup this ..... so many men don’t actually want to meet. This is just a platform you do your own filtering as a human adult

It's an adult site not a baby sitting site.

It’s mad isn’t it people expect that each person that has a profile is genuine truthful and wants to meet coming with references. It’s no different to being in a bar .. screen screen and screen

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

"We’ve yet to be accused of being fake.

I suppose it could happen one day.

Much like many of the others posting above, it’s me, Just, that’s on here more as I tend to chat in the forums and arrange future meets for us.

Becky sees all though and logs in regularly.

We like to have our veris displayed in the hope that people realise we’re genuine.

To be honest, if someone were to get miffed because they couldn’t talk to B immediately, it would give us the first warning sign that we didn’t want to meet them. "

Probably unrelated, but just wanted to say that your photos are fantastic. I really enjoyed looking at them. Perfect balance between both partners and photos together.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My partner doesn’t use fab at all. I get him to check out potential future meet partners on kik once I’ve approved of them from here. Does that make us a ‘fake’ couple OP?

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don’t just moan about couple profiles plenty of time wasting guys too who are just pic collecting fantasists

Yup this ..... so many men don’t actually want to meet. This is just a platform you do your own filtering as a human adult

It's an adult site not a baby sitting site.

It’s mad isn’t it people expect that each person that has a profile is genuine truthful and wants to meet coming with references. It’s no different to being in a bar .. screen screen and screen "

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *arbarianzCouple over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE

"Most of the fake couple profiles are normally easy to spot as they want to see all your pictures after the first message so they can spank their monkey! lol

Then they always start wanting you to describe what you get up to and to talk dirty lol.

Instant block and onto the next one i say.

Sad really as this isn't what swinging is all about and hence why we prefer clubs and parties."

The funny thing is, if somebody approached us and said ' look, I think K is hot.. and I'd love to see more of her' and was just up front about it, chances are I'd pop out a few pics, always fun to tease! but yes, the fakery ain't great!

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My partner doesn’t use fab at all. I get him to check out potential future meet partners on kik once I’ve approved of them from here. Does that make us a ‘fake’ couple OP? "

Sounds like it

But what does it matter,you both know you're genuine,and the ones generally moaning about fakes are the ones that can't get their own way.

Gut instinct works for us,coupled with verifications and word of mouth

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My partner doesn’t use fab at all. I get him to check out potential future meet partners on kik once I’ve approved of them from here. Does that make us a ‘fake’ couple OP?

Sounds like it

But what does it matter,you both know you're genuine,and the ones generally moaning about fakes are the ones that can't get their own way.

Gut instinct works for us,coupled with verifications and word of mouth "

True that!

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ornucopiaMan over a year ago

Bexley

"Oh so the male half of a "couple" isn't allowed to be here lol

Get a grip of your life"

Not a problem as long as when they make a post they have the courtesy to sign it off in such a way as to make it clear which one or both is/are the author. So often the word 'I' is used that the reader can justifiably wonder whether there has ever been more than one comprising the account.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ent and bratCouple over a year ago

here there everywhere

"Don’t just moan about couple profiles plenty of time wasting guys too who are just pic collecting fantasists "

Preach

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab should make it mandatory you verifi yourself as genuine. The amount of fakes on here take away the fun .you end up being more annoyed at the site .you've had some creepy little weiredo. Fake you

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's always going to happen so just learn from it and move on.

We thought we were chatting to a couple recently but then the responses got all sulky when we didn't respond immediately so it didn't take long to suss him as an interloper.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just use a bit of common sense and the filter tools Fab gives you. Never going to be possible to keep out 100% of the fakes but it helps.

We are incredibly cautious when it comes to communicating with others on here and in the days when we could meet, we’d have got to know someone fairly well before we invited them into our home. Yes we may have missed out on some spontaneous fun but it’s about quality and real people for us.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh so the male half of a "couple" isn't allowed to be here lol

Get a grip of your life

Maybe best when addressing a couple you take the stance of addressing them as a couple.

If anyone wants to chat exclusively with females,then I suggest you address female profiles only.

(Many couples,each have an individual profile as well as the couple one)

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ecky and justCouple over a year ago

Godalming

"We’ve yet to be accused of being fake.

I suppose it could happen one day.

Much like many of the others posting above, it’s me, Just, that’s on here more as I tend to chat in the forums and arrange future meets for us.

Becky sees all though and logs in regularly.

We like to have our veris displayed in the hope that people realise we’re genuine.

To be honest, if someone were to get miffed because they couldn’t talk to B immediately, it would give us the first warning sign that we didn’t want to meet them.

Probably unrelated, but just wanted to say that your photos are fantastic. I really enjoyed looking at them. Perfect balance between both partners and photos together.

Thanks.

So sweet of you to say. X

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Fab should make it mandatory you verifi yourself as genuine. The amount of fakes on here take away the fun .you end up being more annoyed at the site .you've had some creepy little weiredo. Fake you "

And how exactly could they do that. Pic veris can be faked abd quite often have been.

Once you have been on a while you can usually tell who is fake anyhow. If it seems too good to be true it usually is.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Funnily enough no one called us fake when just me (the female) was on cam , but if Mr Ruggers was on cam alone that means we would be classed as fake

Ok to the OP, go with your gut, if the person is not verified then maybe don't engage at all rather than waste your time speaking to someone you think could be fake.

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)

By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

You can use your filters to block out unverified users. Also report anyone who you think is fake saying why and it will be checked out

Reply privately (thread closed by moderator)