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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So been going out with a girl for last year or so and shes from a naturist family. Have not had a naturist holiday yet and not too fazed as been to nude beaches before. But now she's talking bout her older sister coming along. That's cool as she's pretty hot but she's got teenage kids too. Worried could be awkward. Anyone experienced similar |
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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago
Suffolk - East Anglia |
"So been going out with a girl for last year or so and shes from a naturist family. Have not had a naturist holiday yet and not too fazed as been to nude beaches before. But now she's talking bout her older sister coming along. That's cool as she's pretty hot but she's got teenage kids too. Worried could be awkward. Anyone experienced similar "
If they are from a naturist family then they would be well versed in naturism and almost certainly view it as second nature. Don't be concerned, there will be nothing to feel awkward about and after half an hour you'll wonder why you were worrying. Most guys have the opposite problem (women not wanting to go to naturist places) so think yourself lucky. I am, my wife loves being nude.  |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
"So been going out with a girl for last year or so and shes from a naturist family. Have not had a naturist holiday yet and not too fazed as been to nude beaches before. But now she's talking bout her older sister coming along. That's cool as she's pretty hot but she's got teenage kids too. Worried could be awkward. Anyone experienced similar "
If she wasn’t “pretty hot” would it not be cool anymore. Ugh something a bit cringeworthy in that statement
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
"Sorry. Just meant I've been caught looking before so doubt will be easier when she's naked "
I feel like you need to get more comfortable with the concept and ideals of naturism. Just my thoughts.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes the whole premise is a bit creepy- if you 'get a reaction' around kids you need to look at yourself and maybe just say you are not comfortable around her kids naked because you equate nudism with sex (lots of men do). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should have explained. Not kids. Daughters are older "
You said teenage kids? If you have a "reaction" around them then it's implying that you can't control yourself as an adult in an appropriate setting? Are you sure this holiday is appropriate for you? The daughters will think you're a creepy bloke if whenever you see them you either have a semi or you have to keep rushing off?  |
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Have a towel to hand and practise meditation exercises to desexualise your thoughts, even on family beaches erections happen, its how you deal with it that is important.
Most men just cover and turn over to face the sand/lounger until they are in control again |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Blackpool, Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
"Nudity in a non sexual setting isn't everyone's cup of tea. If you really feel uncomfortable ask her if you can go as a couple somewhere first. "
Good advice. If you're worrying about a reaction then you're going to be thinking about it and about sex and probably end up more likely to get one.
If it does happen, act like a grown up rather than make a big thing about it. Depending on the circumstances, ignore it, draw a towel over it, turn to lay on your stomach, go for a swim. Don't comment on it or draw attention to it by making a big panic or profuse apology.
And remember when you're around people, talk to their face. Don't go around staring at their bodies, just act the same as if they were clothed. You'll quickly forget you're naked. |
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Wow OP
in the last 40 weeks you've gone from asking if naturist families exist to your girlfriend sleeping with two black blokes to your wife suggesting you get her friend pregnant. To now your girlfriend being in a naturist family...
Just have a wank and be done with it |
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By *001handMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
It is normal but I agree.....take a towel. In control all good. Not in control cover your self up until it has passed then continue.
"Have a towel to hand and practise meditation exercises to desexualise your thoughts, even on family beaches erections happen, its how you deal with it that is important.
Most men just cover and turn over to face the sand/lounger until they are in control again "
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
"Wow OP
in the last 40 weeks you've gone from asking if naturist families exist to your girlfriend sleeping with two black blokes to your wife suggesting you get her friend pregnant. To now your girlfriend being in a naturist family...
Just have a wank and be done with it "
And all this whilst mostly in lockdown!
Imagine how exciting his life will be when it's lifted.
How he finds time to be on here on top of all that I don't know, but they need to make a film about this super fly stud of a man  |
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