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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So i know i have posted a couple of topics on this but i am finding it hard to chat
So i was thinking maybe a forum topic to get to know people further a field may help ?
What do people think ? Too young ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Course your not too young.. now get back to school 
Just kidding, I wouldn't worry about it too much OP. There's a lot of people that don't care about age, it's more down to whether you click or not. Plus lockdown doesn't help in meeting people obviously! Im sure you will connect with someone when the times right, good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey mate, I've also had trouble with this and contemplated the same thing. I think ultimately it's down to individuals rather than age, there has gotta be an attraction on both sides otherwise you'll most likely get deleted. Try not to take it personal and keep your chin up, you'll click with someone eventually  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've lost count of the amount of times I've been told I shouldn't be in here as I'm to young or immature.Ermmmmm I don't care about the opinions of the self entitled x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do search for women and couples that are in my age range etc that im in thiers
Maybe its just preference a older looking individual however just thought coming on the forum might connect with people further a field for a chat  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've lost count of the amount of times I've been told I shouldn't be in here as I'm to young or immature.Ermmmmm I don't care about the opinions of the self entitled x "
You do have a lovely profile by the way x
Lovely pictures |
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Unfortunately for me age is a factor. I have no desire to play with someone that could be young enough to be my son. I have an age range set on my profile as that is what I prefer but just lately I seem to be getting an influx of 20 year odd boys messaging me and then getting arsey when I politely decline. |
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You're better understanding that all men, of all ages, have been posting like you OP forever. They think lack of replies etc may be because of cock size, too old/young, too hairy/not enough hair, etc, etc. It's tough at the best of times for guys.
You can only wait out the virus, to wait until people are more open to things. Plus do everything you can to maximise your chances, via careful selection and targeting of prospect partners. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately for me age is a factor. I have no desire to play with someone that could be young enough to be my son. I have an age range set on my profile as that is what I prefer but just lately I seem to be getting an influx of 20 year odd boys messaging me and then getting arsey when I politely decline. "
I dont understand people getting arsey at the end of the day its peoples preferences
If i see im out of the range then i understand |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've lost count of the amount of times I've been told I shouldn't be in here as I'm to young or immature.Ermmmmm I don't care about the opinions of the self entitled x "
21 wow! Fancy going to Vegas for a first meet? Beers on you finally!
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
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We've been on here since I (fem) was 21, Mr was 22. I'd say it's far harder for younger guys to get attention, but it's harder for single men in general. Don't worry about it too much op, make sure that if you're searching that you use the advanced settings and add your age into it so you only see people who are open to your age.
Basically you just need to find your market |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately for me age is a factor. I have no desire to play with someone that could be young enough to be my son. I have an age range set on my profile as that is what I prefer but just lately I seem to be getting an influx of 20 year odd boys messaging me and then getting arsey when I politely decline. "
I'm the same with women, except I don't get an influx of messages from youger women. Everyone is different though and I have read some women profiles, who are my age group, that state thay only want yonger men. I just wouldn't be attracted to someone who is too young.
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"Unfortunately for me age is a factor. I have no desire to play with someone that could be young enough to be my son. I have an age range set on my profile as that is what I prefer but just lately I seem to be getting an influx of 20 year odd boys messaging me and then getting arsey when I politely decline. I'm the same with women, except I don't get an influx of messages from youger women. Everyone is different though and I have read some women profiles, who are my age group, that state thay only want yonger men. I just wouldn't be attracted to someone who is too young."
As with everything, there are some who will and some who wont. Sadly though, respect for peoples filters/wants etc are lacking these days on here. |
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Yeah we were 18 and 40 when we started up on here. We got a bit of abuse. But when we started going out to clubs and people actually met us it was so incredibly positive. It was some of the best times we had together in those early years. Being in the lifestyle young has been so positive. A far better positive social experience than university. |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately for me age is a factor. I have no desire to play with someone that could be young enough to be my son. I have an age range set on my profile as that is what I prefer but just lately I seem to be getting an influx of 20 year odd boys messaging me and then getting arsey when I politely decline. I'm the same with women, except I don't get an influx of messages from youger women. Everyone is different though and I have read some women profiles, who are my age group, that state thay only want yonger men. I just wouldn't be attracted to someone who is too young.
As with everything, there are some who will and some who wont. Sadly though, respect for peoples filters/wants etc are lacking these days on here. "
As someone in their 40's I view connection with someone important and the fact that I do have other things in my life that is important. Age is a big factor for that connection, for me and I would always respect peoples filters/want but again, perhaps that is my age. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It is really much each to thier own like people have thier own fantasies and kinks they have age prefernces i get thay
Positive responses and friendly ones too so thank yoh all so far |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"It really got nothing to do with your age , most man have the same issue , bring in the facts that there are probably one hundred men to every woman and couples, so it going to be hard "
This is true, better when we can actively socialise in public again.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You are young but look even younger. I do like men younger than myself but not as young as you. What is for you won't go by you so just plod on and think positive.x"
thanks for the advice
I wouls like to say you have some lovely pictures and you look gorgeous |
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"Unfortunately for me age is a factor. I have no desire to play with someone that could be young enough to be my son. I have an age range set on my profile as that is what I prefer but just lately I seem to be getting an influx of 20 year odd boys messaging me and then getting arsey when I politely decline. I'm the same with women, except I don't get an influx of messages from youger women. Everyone is different though and I have read some women profiles, who are my age group, that state thay only want yonger men. I just wouldn't be attracted to someone who is too young.
As with everything, there are some who will and some who wont. Sadly though, respect for peoples filters/wants etc are lacking these days on here.
As someone in their 40's I view connection with someone important and the fact that I do have other things in my life that is important. Age is a big factor for that connection, for me and I would always respect peoples filters/want but again, perhaps that is my age."
The problem with some of the really young ones is that they see this site as 'instashag' and are the ones likely to send a 'FAF' message. They don't want to get into a conversation first before getting into someone knickers. |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately for me age is a factor. I have no desire to play with someone that could be young enough to be my son. I have an age range set on my profile as that is what I prefer but just lately I seem to be getting an influx of 20 year odd boys messaging me and then getting arsey when I politely decline. I'm the same with women, except I don't get an influx of messages from youger women. Everyone is different though and I have read some women profiles, who are my age group, that state thay only want yonger men. I just wouldn't be attracted to someone who is too young.
As with everything, there are some who will and some who wont. Sadly though, respect for peoples filters/wants etc are lacking these days on here.
As someone in their 40's I view connection with someone important and the fact that I do have other things in my life that is important. Age is a big factor for that connection, for me and I would always respect peoples filters/want but again, perhaps that is my age.
The problem with some of the really young ones is that they see this site as 'instashag' and are the ones likely to send a 'FAF' message. They don't want to get into a conversation first before getting into someone knickers."
Very true, I state on my profile, without a connection upstairs, how can there be a connection anywhere else. Part of the connection is cummunication. |
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