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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Off of the back of my "Does Lingerie Mean" thread, I would like opinions on this scenario, I was telling my friend about the answers on the previous thread, and he knows I am on this site and looking for a particular type of meet and he posed this scenario.
If I was playing with another guy, and my wife was watching and was wearing just lingerie or naked, would it seem like she was automatically going to join in, or would it be better if she remained fully dressed if she was only going to watch and not join in?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Off of the back of my "Does Lingerie Mean" thread, I would like opinions on this scenario, I was telling my friend about the answers on the previous thread, and he knows I am on this site and looking for a particular type of meet and he posed this scenario.
If I was playing with another guy, and my wife was watching and was wearing just lingerie or naked, would it seem like she was automatically going to join in, or would it be better if she remained fully dressed if she was only going to watch and not join in?
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Surely it depends on the scenario.
Is your wife doing it to satisfy you or is she doing to satisfy herself?
If she is doing out if love and for you and she is getting no sexual gratification surely being dressed would be appropriate.
On the other hand if she was getting sexual gratification maybe being naked would be appropriate.
Thats just my tuppence worth, not knowing the full facts.
If it was me and my partner was playing with another man, I would be pleasuring myself naked or not love watching 2 guys together x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't assume. But I'd also like to think that we'd all have had a chat about it beforehand  "
The mere fact that he is playing with a guy in front of his wife, i would like to think they may have a word or 2 about it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am the wife of the op, and the whole argument with his friend kinda started as his friend knows I want to watch my husband playing with another man, but the men we have chatted to on here all think I have to either be in lingerie, topless, naked, playing with myself, or joining in.
Now I am not interested in mmf, so I wouldn't be joining in but I am starting to think if I want to see it I would have to be in lingerie at the very least, but his friend thinks that means I would have sex with whoever was there, my man and I think if I was only watching then fully clothed would be best, but the messages we get seem to say otherwise. |
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"I am the wife of the op, and the whole argument with his friend kinda started as his friend knows I want to watch my husband playing with another man, but the men we have chatted to on here all think I have to either be in lingerie, topless, naked, playing with myself, or joining in.
Now I am not interested in mmf, so I wouldn't be joining in but I am starting to think if I want to see it I would have to be in lingerie at the very least, but his friend thinks that means I would have sex with whoever was there, my man and I think if I was only watching then fully clothed would be best, but the messages we get seem to say otherwise."
Sort it out between yourselves |
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"Off of the back of my "Does Lingerie Mean" thread, I would like opinions on this scenario, I was telling my friend about the answers on the previous thread, and he knows I am on this site and looking for a particular type of meet and he posed this scenario.
If I was playing with another guy, and my wife was watching and was wearing just lingerie or naked, would it seem like she was automatically going to join in, or would it be better if she remained fully dressed if she was only going to watch and not join in?
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I would hope that the three of you would have agreed beforehand on boundaries.
Your friend is extremely inquisitive isn't he. Tell him that any gender needs to give consent to sexual activity but that they also need to be mindful of context and respectful of other people. So if a visitor comes to your home *regardless of your gender* you should dress in a way that respects your visitor, even if they are a guy delivering pizza. |
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"I am the wife of the op, and the whole argument with his friend kinda started as his friend knows I want to watch my husband playing with another man, but the men we have chatted to on here all think I have to either be in lingerie, topless, naked, playing with myself, or joining in.
Now I am not interested in mmf, so I wouldn't be joining in but I am starting to think if I want to see it I would have to be in lingerie at the very least, but his friend thinks that means I would have sex with whoever was there, my man and I think if I was only watching then fully clothed would be best, but the messages we get seem to say otherwise."
I don't know why his friend is relevant then unless he's the one you're meeting. As to the guys you're getting the replies from, tell them exactly what you're looking for, make it crystal clear. They then have a choice between agreeing of not. |
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I think it's always best to discuss things with your wife prior to a meet. 
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