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over a year ago
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"I like to know if you see someone you know would you say something and see if they way up for a bit of fun "
Depends on how well I knew them.
If I knew them working in the local supermarket I'd lie on the conveyor belt at checkout and I'd slowly move towards them, lips puckered waiting for a kiss.
If I knew them from the telly, I'd have a wank over their profile pics. |
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"I like to know if you see someone you know would you say something and see if they way up for a bit of fun
Depends on how well I knew them.
If I knew them working in the local supermarket I'd lie on the conveyor belt at checkout and I'd slowly move towards them, lips puckered waiting for a kiss.
If I knew them from the telly, I'd have a wank over their profile pics."
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"I like to know if you see someone you know would you say something and see if they way up for a bit of fun
Depends on how well I knew them.
If I knew them working in the local supermarket I'd lie on the conveyor belt at checkout and I'd slowly move towards them, lips puckered waiting for a kiss.
If I knew them from the telly, I'd have a wank over their profile pics. dead "
What if it’s one of the mums from the school run
Lol not that I do school run any more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The one I wonder about is the work colleagues of people on Naked Attraction.
Excuse me Graeme, do you have that presentation ready for tomorrow's meeting?
By the way I saw your penis on C4 last night. You sad you didn't get picked? |
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"The one I wonder about is the work colleagues of people on Naked Attraction.
Excuse me Graeme, do you have that presentation ready for tomorrow's meeting?
By the way I saw your penis on C4 last night. You sad you didn't get picked?"
Lol now that would be funny |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"My friend saw her sister on here. To be precise... She saw her brother in law's nob penetrating her sister's fanny.
Lol bet she not send a friend request lol"
I think she said the word fuck around 20 times and immediately blocked. Deleted all her own pics where she could be identified and reached for the whisky to help with the mental scarring. |
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"My friend saw her sister on here. To be precise... She saw her brother in law's nob penetrating her sister's fanny.
Lol bet she not send a friend request lol
I think she said the word fuck around 20 times and immediately blocked. Deleted all her own pics where she could be identified and reached for the whisky to help with the mental scarring. "
Lmao that is funny though |
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"Smile and wave their only doing the same as me so what’s the drama ?
So true that’s what I thought it’s just a bit of fun "
We have bumped into people in clubs we know several times one was a guy who owns the local shop . Another was girl from work and her boyfriend and another was my husbands niece and her boyfriend we all just had a laugh about it , what’s the big deal after all ? Sooner be caught doing this than caught having an affair  |
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"Smile and wave their only doing the same as me so what’s the drama ?
So true that’s what I thought it’s just a bit of fun
We have bumped into people in clubs we know several times one was a guy who owns the local shop . Another was girl from work and her boyfriend and another was my husbands niece and her boyfriend we all just had a laugh about it , what’s the big deal after all ? Sooner be caught doing this than caught having an affair "
So true I think that’s exactly how it should be
But did you get discount next time you went to the shop |
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"Smile and wave their only doing the same as me so what’s the drama ?
So true that’s what I thought it’s just a bit of fun
We have bumped into people in clubs we know several times one was a guy who owns the local shop . Another was girl from work and her boyfriend and another was my husbands niece and her boyfriend we all just had a laugh about it , what’s the big deal after all ? Sooner be caught doing this than caught having an affair "
So true I think that’s exactly how it should be
But did you get discount next time you went to the shop |
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This happened to me.... With a guy from work.... We had some fun, for a while 
We didn't approach each other at work though I found out I knew him in real life first, he was messaging me, and I told him who I was, and we hooked up for a bit. It's not always a disaster, we're all human live and let live |
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"This happened to me.... With a guy from work.... We had some fun, for a while
We didn't approach each other at work though I found out I knew him in real life first, he was messaging me, and I told him who I was, and we hooked up for a bit. It's not always a disaster, we're all human live and let live "
And I bet was a lot of fun to sneaking around |
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"The one I wonder about is the work colleagues of people on Naked Attraction.
Excuse me Graeme, do you have that presentation ready for tomorrow's meeting?
By the way I saw your penis on C4 last night. You sad you didn't get picked?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on who
Guy would probably block
Couple I would probably leave open but wouldn’t dare send a message if they trip over my profile and send one then would reply back
If a woman same lines as a couple
To be fair they on here I am on here so we on for the same type off things lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the idea of seeing someone on here you know and secretly perving on them  . Would never say anything just think it would be exciting
Never happened yet though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have recognised a couple on here who i know quite well. Havd chatted to them but not let on I know them or anything like that. Horny to find out about them and whwt they do and then see them in the vanilla world.
I did recognise a local lady from a couple too and awe her out and about. I messaged her politely as not to scare her and they both said to drop subtle hints the next time I came across them. |
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
Solihull and Brentwood |
I saw a couple from another website once. I'd seen their pics sporadically, over many years.
About a decade later, when he and his wife attended the same birthday party as me. I was sat about 10ft away from them, for about 2 hours.
A month or two later, when he asked on a thread if anyone had seen his wife. I replied I had. The guy said I must have been mistaken.  |
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If it was someone I knew well I’d message and say hi, they’ve probably seen your profile and wondered the same.
Anyone random or from work I’d block.
Most like to believe everyone is on here for the same reason etc, we’ve seen plenty of local status crop up along the lines of, “just here to see if my husband is on” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A work colleague saw my profile on another website and told my boss!!
I was given an ultimatum as I worked with vulnerable adults.
Take the profile down and stop or leave!!!
I left Don’t think he saw that coming |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
I went into a pub one Sunday and completely by chance saw a couple and a single guy (they didn't know each other).that I knew from clubs/ socials etc .
The lady from the couple have me a discrete pinch on my bottom as she walked by (I know them quite well) ..and me and the single guy just said hello and didn't stop to chat
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i got recognised by a school friend .. on cam .. on another site lol .. i got a whisper from her .. "is that you sean ".. we met up and see each other .. every now and again .. just socially.. so no problems .. its all very much accepted these days .. not the sordid perceptions of a few years ago .. .. just saying |
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We were at a club in 2019 and met a couple I know as we were queueing up to go in... First reaction was shock... Then laughter... Then hugs and kisses... Then chat. We accepted what we all liked and looked at each others profile on here. No drama, no fuss, just acceptance and total discretion. |
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
Solihull and Brentwood |
"A work colleague saw my profile on another website and told my boss!!
I was given an ultimatum as I worked with vulnerable adults.
Take the profile down and stop or leave!!!
I left Don’t think he saw that coming "
Seriously, there are some proper jobsworths around: Why report you to your boss? Do not like people like that. |
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"A work colleague saw my profile on another website and told my boss!!
I was given an ultimatum as I worked with vulnerable adults.
Take the profile down and stop or leave!!!
I left Don’t think he saw that coming "
Thats why it's important to remain discreet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A work colleague saw my profile on another website and told my boss!!
I was given an ultimatum as I worked with vulnerable adults.
Take the profile down and stop or leave!!!
I left Don’t think he saw that coming "
So what was your colleague doing on the site
Bet nothing happened to him or her
Double standards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends who it was really I see lots of people I know on here, sometimes I block and hope they didn't see me first, sometimes it's like haha fancy seeing you here and other times it leads to hooking up... I dislike it when people recognise me from work tho and send me messages like thanks for your help today I find it creepy especially when they don't have pictures so yoh don't know who it is lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to know if you see someone you know would you say something and see if they way up for a bit of fun "
I already have and had a nice chat with them. |
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Oh wow you lot so many good reasons
Say hi block just see what happens
My self
I think I would say hi as all adults and know what we in to I was on zoosk for a bit few years ago and see one of the mums from the school run
And yep had her as a fuck buddy for few year
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know if I see someone I know I would chat at first
And drop in that I think I know you "
Don't go at it all cloak and dagger style. Make sure you send a face pic if you're going to tell someone you know them.
Otherwise, it would be creepy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not quite the same but once went dogging with wife at well known spot and spotted her female boss being fucked mouth pussy n arse all at once as her hubby looked on we legged it n never said a word also dont go there anymore cos she's still her boss |
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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago
south west |
I chatted to a girl on here whilst I was part of a couple, but nothing happened.
A few months later, I joined a gym and there was a girl in there who looked familiar. Didn’t say anything at the time, but sent a message later on - she recognised me as well and had been about to message me!
When the gym is open, I perv at her between sets, she is quite happy! I suspect we won’t play though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I block anyone I know if I spot them"
Same here...wouldn't want the risk of it getting back to family or friends.
I know there's the "we are all adults" argument...but you only have to start chatting with 1 person you know about intimate things and share a few pics etc, if things then turn sour, I would be soooo anxious that he would tell my friends or family about it!
Its an odd thing to admit, but im pretty embarrassed to be on here...no disrespect to anyone...I guess I'm just a bit of a prude and still hahaha |
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"I block anyone I know if I spot them
Same here...wouldn't want the risk of it getting back to family or friends.
I know there's the "we are all adults" argument...but you only have to start chatting with 1 person you know about intimate things and share a few pics etc, if things then turn sour, I would be soooo anxious that he would tell my friends or family about it!
Its an odd thing to admit, but im pretty embarrassed to be on here...no disrespect to anyone...I guess I'm just a bit of a prude and still hahaha"
We all here for different reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many moons ago I taught rugby to a young lad who later had a lovely wife. They both enjoyed dogging. Got to say I enjoyed my catch up with him in that car park a lot but not as much as I enjoyed his wife! It could have been so awkward but really wasn’t in the slightest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not quite the same but once went dogging with wife at well known spot and spotted her female boss being fucked mouth pussy n arse all at once as her hubby looked on we legged it n never said a word also dont go there anymore cos she's still her boss"
Now wasn't that a coincidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I saw someone in the gym who I recognised from here. I don't think she recognised me, but later we were both in the sauna and got chatting. She asked me straight up if I had ever tried swinging. I was a bit flustered by this point and said innocently "no...but I'd like to try sometime"...it ended up being a much longer gym session than I expected! I didn't tell her I recognised her from here till afterwards!! |
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Own it!
I've had guys at conferences that whisper in my ear that they are on fab. A couple have tried to black mail me, which is why I do have my face on display, to prove I don't care. One I had arrested.
Never be embarrassed or ashamed is my point, I think
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"Own it!
I've had guys at conferences that whisper in my ear that they are on fab. A couple have tried to black mail me, which is why I do have my face on display, to prove I don't care. One I had arrested.
Never be embarrassed or ashamed is my point, I think
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Omg
Well should not be embarrassed our ashamed to be on here hope to told the guy why trying to Intimidate you where to go |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The one I wonder about is the work colleagues of people on Naked Attraction.
Excuse me Graeme, do you have that presentation ready for tomorrow's meeting?
By the way I saw your penis on C4 last night. You sad you didn't get picked?"
Crying.. That's a good one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My friend saw her sister on here. To be precise... She saw her brother in law's nob penetrating her sister's fanny.
Lol bet she not send a friend request lol
I think she said the word fuck around 20 times and immediately blocked. Deleted all her own pics where she could be identified and reached for the whisky to help with the mental scarring. "
Ah bless her. Not something you wish to see.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Own it!
I've had guys at conferences that whisper in my ear that they are on fab. A couple have tried to black mail me, which is why I do have my face on display, to prove I don't care. One I had arrested.
Never be embarrassed or ashamed is my point, I think
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Wow you are brave.. I've had someone off here.. Send my profile and pics and veris to my ex via fb!! |
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We know 2 couples on here. First one discretely messaged and he did some of our photos as he's a photographer. Other one we both know each other are on here but had no contact really.
It's no issue to us as long as everyone is open and honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Own it!
I've had guys at conferences that whisper in my ear that they are on fab. A couple have tried to black mail me, which is why I do have my face on display, to prove I don't care. One I had arrested.
Never be embarrassed or ashamed is my point, I think
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That's a whole lotta stress in life to deal with when you could mitigate some of it |
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"We know 2 couples on here. First one discretely messaged and he did some of our photos as he's a photographer. Other one we both know each other are on here but had no contact really.
It's no issue to us as long as everyone is open and honest"
Exactly |
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"Own it!
I've had guys at conferences that whisper in my ear that they are on fab. A couple have tried to black mail me, which is why I do have my face on display, to prove I don't care. One I had arrested.
Never be embarrassed or ashamed is my point, I think
Glad it not put you off and you sorted one of them out
That's a whole lotta stress in life to deal with when you could mitigate some of it"
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"I've seen a few people I know on here.
Some I've ignored some I've said hello too x
I think a fair proportion of the population of cannock are on here "
Yes there does seem like a lot of people up your way or on here or on here must be something in the water lol |
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"Own it!
I've had guys at conferences that whisper in my ear that they are on fab. A couple have tried to black mail me, which is why I do have my face on display, to prove I don't care. One I had arrested.
Never be embarrassed or ashamed is my point, I think
Wow you are brave.. I've had someone off here.. Send my profile and pics and veris to my ex via fb!! "
Some people are so jealous and got nothing better to day with there time but cause trouble |
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"As there are so many blokes on here only identifiable by their erections, abdo muscles or underpants, it makes my curious as to how they would get recognised as already known!!!"
Lmao yes
Fortunately I’m straight so just go straight past them profile and look at all the Beautiful women on here |
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"I would be very polite
And perhaps bring it up in conversation
And see what they thought
But I would never tell others
I would keep it in my private thoughts"
Spot on exactly how it should be most people here open minded and don’t take Life to seriously |
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"As there are so many blokes on here only identifiable by their erections, abdo muscles or underpants, it makes my curious as to how they would get recognised as already known!!!"
With the first couple we mentioned, it was actually a ring that was being worn in a picture that gave them away. We're friends on social media too, so I messaged and just kept dropping the words fab and swing into sentences, then we all had a laugh about it |
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"As there are so many blokes on here only identifiable by their erections, abdo muscles or underpants, it makes my curious as to how they would get recognised as already known!!!
With the first couple we mentioned, it was actually a ring that was being worn in a picture that gave them away. We're friends on social media too, so I messaged and just kept dropping the words fab and swing into sentences, then we all had a laugh about it"
Do you have a meet up with them |
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By *takerMan
over a year ago
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I used to regularly see a couple down the pub on here. Mrs doesn't know I'm on here, but one of her friends got invited to the couples party, unbeknown to her it was a swingers party - she left. I've messaged the couple before, saying how sexy the woman looked in her outfit (I described it). I get told to say hello next time, but can't do it when Mrs is there. No Mrs isn't interested. |
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"I used to regularly see a couple down the pub on here. Mrs doesn't know I'm on here, but one of her friends got invited to the couples party, unbeknown to her it was a swingers party - she left. I've messaged the couple before, saying how sexy the woman looked in her outfit (I described it). I get told to say hello next time, but can't do it when Mrs is there. No Mrs isn't interested."
Yes I know what you mean |
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"As there are so many blokes on here only identifiable by their erections, abdo muscles or underpants, it makes my curious as to how they would get recognised as already known!!!
With the first couple we mentioned, it was actually a ring that was being worn in a picture that gave them away. We're friends on social media too, so I messaged and just kept dropping the words fab and swing into sentences, then we all had a laugh about it
Do you have a meet up with
them"
With the guy for a photo shoot |
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By *andR510Couple
over a year ago
St Neots/Wisbech |
Come across a few profiles on here of friends outside of swinging, never been bothered about being awkward, after all they're on here for the same thing as the rest of us.
We've also bumped into friends at clubs as well, didn't stop us going and enjoying ourselves. We're all adults, and as such behave appropriately.
If people are worried then just conceal your features and be a bit covert.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was a couple profile I used to block all single men in my smallish town. In terms of couples we didn't block them as they had just as much to lose by being indiscreet.
Single men on being rebuffed were more likely to be troublesome. |
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"Come across a few profiles on here of friends outside of swinging, never been bothered about being awkward, after all they're on here for the same thing as the rest of us.
We've also bumped into friends at clubs as well, didn't stop us going and enjoying ourselves. We're all adults, and as such behave appropriately.
If people are worried then just conceal your features and be a bit covert.
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Exactly totally agree |
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"I saw someone I knew on here - was awkward because it was a family member and I know he has a girlfriend.
I blocked him but it's awkward now. "
It shouldn’t be awkward
As we all on here for a little fun and what you fancy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I saw someone I knew on here - was awkward because it was a family member and I know he has a girlfriend.
I blocked him but it's awkward now.
It shouldn’t be awkward
As we all on here for a little fun and what you fancy "
It's awkward because I know he's cheating and I'm friends with his girlfriend. |
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