"Obviously when this is over I mean, been on here for a while & spend most the time sending messages & no reply, any other sites out there? "
Several other sites, but none Asda good ad this one.
Add you had 3 years before lockdown, if you couldn't get a meet on here, you'd have little or no chance on another site. You'd be better off revising your message technique. |
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Unfortunately, as a single guy you’re swimming against the tide on any swinging website , even pre pandemic, now your swimming against a tsunami. However, things will return to normal and my advice then ,is not to rely on fab as a way of getting meets, use it as a tool to network.
The most successful single guys put themselves into the swinging community physically, I.e parties , clubs , socials. Go and mingle, chat, meet people, and make friends, then as you become known, your chances of action increase dramatically. |
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"Unfortunately, as a single guy you’re swimming against the tide on any swinging website , even pre pandemic, now your swimming against a tsunami. However, things will return to normal and my advice then ,is not to rely on fab as a way of getting meets, use it as a tool to network.
The most successful single guys put themselves into the swinging community
physically, I.e parties , clubs , socials. Go and mingle, chat, meet people, and make friends, then as you become known, your chances of action increase dramatically."
Listen to this advice!!!!!!!
Get to a few social events and chat to people is the best way forward |
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"Sorry to break it to you but these are all my own pictures  "
Really well I found that Spider-Man picture on Pinter*** also you could as a suggestion expand your bio a bit. Give everyone an insight into your personality also maybe some more pictures as well. |
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I must admit, I too seem to have the problem of sending out messages, and generally not getting anything back. Now i understand that you lovely ladies out there don't have to respond. That in itself isn't the issue (well not entirely).
I don't seem to attract any 'real' attention and i don't exactly know what i'm doing wrong, if i am that is.
I do state that I'm looking for friends, yes we are on a site that is endorsing sexual activities (when restrictions are over) and yes I'm not going to shy away from a chance, but make sure the ladies know I'm more interested in friendship and chatting for the time being, and maybe socialize when we are allowed. |
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"I must admit, I too seem to have the problem of sending out messages, and generally not getting anything back. Now i understand that you lovely ladies out there don't have to respond. That in itself isn't the issue (well not entirely).
I don't seem to attract any 'real' attention and i don't exactly know what i'm doing wrong, if i am that is.
I do state that I'm looking for friends, yes we are on a site that is endorsing sexual activities (when restrictions are over) and yes I'm not going to shy away from a chance, but make sure the ladies know I'm more interested in friendship and chatting for the time being, and maybe socialize when we are allowed."
Just have some patience it will all come in time remember men outnumber couples, tgirls and ladies on here. |
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