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If you truly believe in monogamy....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are you doing on a swinging site ?
I always looked at the swinging lifestyle as a candy shop.... You enter the candy shop to try all the candy, not try bubble gum and walkout...
Don’t people think it’s disingenuous to pretend to be a swinger if you really are looking for monogamy?
The reason I’m asking this question is someone I met asked me to be exclusive with them... Not like a swinging couple, but a dating monogamous relationship...
I feel like she is out of order and a liar.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She may have felt she was a swinger until she met you, she may have caught feelings and decided she wanted to move away from this lifestyle to be exclusive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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She may not have felt that way to begin with, but could simply have grown out of it, changed, or felt that she had found something unique for her? Who are we to criticise? |
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"What are you doing on a swinging site ?
I always looked at the swinging lifestyle as a candy shop.... You enter the candy shop to try all the candy, not try bubble gum and walkout...
Don’t people think it’s disingenuous to pretend to be a swinger if you really are looking for monogamy?
The reason I’m asking this question is someone I met asked me to be exclusive with them... Not like a swinging couple, but a dating monogamous relationship...
I feel like she is out of order and a liar...."
.... her feelings may have changed who knows. She hasn’t lied she’s been honest about her needs and wishes. Would you prefer she carried on under sufferance?
... I wouldn’t be looking for monogamy on here but know many that have found it on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"She may have felt she was a swinger until she met you, she may have caught feelings and decided she wanted to move away from this lifestyle to be exclusive. "
Trust me , I doubt that.... I’m not special.. |
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"What are you doing on a swinging site ?
I always looked at the swinging lifestyle as a candy shop.... You enter the candy shop to try all the candy, not try bubble gum and walkout...
Don’t people think it’s disingenuous to pretend to be a swinger if you really are looking for monogamy?
The reason I’m asking this question is someone I met asked me to be exclusive with them... Not like a swinging couple, but a dating monogamous relationship...
I feel like she is out of order and a liar...."
Not everyone on here is a 'swinger' at heart. They use the site to meet or to get sex.
I've never been religious but you can sometimes find me in church. Not often mind |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Embarking on a new relationship I would shut the door on the lifestyle until we were rock solid, and then return if and when the time felt right."
Yes that is perfectly fine.... But if met someone in the lifestyle once and had great sex. Wouldn’t you want to explore more? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What are you doing on a swinging site ?
I always looked at the swinging lifestyle as a candy shop.... You enter the candy shop to try all the candy, not try bubble gum and walkout...
Don’t people think it’s disingenuous to pretend to be a swinger if you really are looking for monogamy?
The reason I’m asking this question is someone I met asked me to be exclusive with them... Not like a swinging couple, but a dating monogamous relationship...
I feel like she is out of order and a liar....
Not everyone on here is a 'swinger' at heart. They use the site to meet or to get sex.
I've never been religious but you can sometimes find me in church. Not often mind "
Yes very true..... but wouldn’t it be advantageous to state this before you meet someone? |
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"Embarking on a new relationship I would shut the door on the lifestyle until we were rock solid, and then return if and when the time felt right.
Yes that is perfectly fine.... But if met someone in the lifestyle once and had great sex. Wouldn’t you want to explore more?"
Just met once?
I'd continue until I realised there was a proper connection there I think.
Other than that, maybe she wants bare and wants to eliminate as many risks as possible for the time you're seeing each other?
Could just be finding her comfort zone, I dunno. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been on and off fab for years. Not a true swinger as such, as I play solo. A huge part of the attraction was the honesty in the "it's just sex" mentality, and being able to have multiple partners.
Then, once upon a time, I met of woman in particular. Before I knew it, I was hook, line and sinker in love with her. At that moment, I knew what monogamy was, as she gave me a heart bypass, to bypass every other woman. Which felt great, except it wasn't reciprocated, and so in the end it hurt like hell.
So, my point in a rambling way is this. If you meet "the one" you'll know if you believe in monogamy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think its called freedom of choice. If that is what she wants , why berate her ? Just move on if its not for you ."
So her behavior is perfectly acceptable to you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've been on and off fab for years. Not a true swinger as such, as I play solo. A huge part of the attraction was the honesty in the "it's just sex" mentality, and being able to have multiple partners.
Then, once upon a time, I met of woman in particular. Before I knew it, I was hook, line and sinker in love with her. At that moment, I knew what monogamy was, as she gave me a heart bypass, to bypass every other woman. Which felt great, except it wasn't reciprocated, and so in the end it hurt like hell.
So, my point in a rambling way is this. If you meet "the one" you'll know if you believe in monogamy."
If I wanted monogamy, I would go on a dating site... I’m here for sex with as many people that will have me.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are you doing on a swinging site ?
I always looked at the swinging lifestyle as a candy shop.... You enter the candy shop to try all the candy, not try bubble gum and walkout...
Don’t people think it’s disingenuous to pretend to be a swinger if you really are looking for monogamy?
The reason I’m asking this question is someone I met asked me to be exclusive with them... Not like a swinging couple, but a dating monogamous relationship...
I feel like she is out of order and a liar...."
Did you get to fuck her?
If so what are you complaining about. You tried that candy now move on to the next one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I wanted monogamy, I would go on a dating site... I’m here for sex with as many people that will have me...."
My point was, and this is the kick, people can change their minds, change their wants, needs and desires.
I cam on here wanting sex with lots of different people. Met the one, and everything changed. Didn't work, hurt like hell, left, licked my wounds... and now back at the rodeo. |
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"I think its called freedom of choice. If that is what she wants , why berate her ? Just move on if its not for you .
So her behavior is perfectly acceptable to you?"
You sound a bit hurt, OP.
If it's all about the "candy shop" and fucking around then surely you just move on to the next lil lollypop?
Or are you miffed because she doesn't want to play by your rules?
Them's the breaks I guess.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think its called freedom of choice. If that is what she wants , why berate her ? Just move on if its not for you .
So her behavior is perfectly acceptable to you?
You sound a bit hurt, OP.
If it's all about the "candy shop" and fucking around then surely you just move on to the next lil lollypop?
Or are you miffed because she doesn't want to play by your rules?
Them's the breaks I guess.
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Yes I’m hurt.... I had big plans for her....
Now , I will have to ghost her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What are you doing on a swinging site ?
I always looked at the swinging lifestyle as a candy shop.... You enter the candy shop to try all the candy, not try bubble gum and walkout...
Don’t people think it’s disingenuous to pretend to be a swinger if you really are looking for monogamy?
The reason I’m asking this question is someone I met asked me to be exclusive with them... Not like a swinging couple, but a dating monogamous relationship...
I feel like she is out of order and a liar....
Did you get to fuck her?
If so what are you complaining about. You tried that candy now move on to the next one."
I’m complaining because she should have been honest from the start... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there's very few people on here who are swingers. Lots of people hook up then go monogamous.
They may only be using the site for random fucks until they find The One. I thought that was common knowledge. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"What are you doing on a swinging site ?
I always looked at the swinging lifestyle as a candy shop.... You enter the candy shop to try all the candy, not try bubble gum and walkout...
Don’t people think it’s disingenuous to pretend to be a swinger if you really are looking for monogamy?
The reason I’m asking this question is someone I met asked me to be exclusive with them... Not like a swinging couple, but a dating monogamous relationship...
I feel like she is out of order and a liar....
Did you get to fuck her?
If so what are you complaining about. You tried that candy now move on to the next one.
I’m complaining because she should have been honest from the start..."
What were you wanting from her? Did you get sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are you doing on a swinging site ?
I always looked at the swinging lifestyle as a candy shop.... You enter the candy shop to try all the candy, not try bubble gum and walkout...
Don’t people think it’s disingenuous to pretend to be a swinger if you really are looking for monogamy?
The reason I’m asking this question is someone I met asked me to be exclusive with them... Not like a swinging couple, but a dating monogamous relationship...
I feel like she is out of order and a liar....
Not everyone on here is a 'swinger' at heart. They use the site to meet or to get sex.
I've never been religious but you can sometimes find me in church. Not often mind "
I definitely don't class myself as a swinger. I have used the site to meet men, but I also just enjoy browsing the site, forums, hot pics etc... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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“Humans are considered to be mildly polygynous and we descend from primates that are polygynous,” says Michael Hammer, a population geneticist at the University of Arizona in Tucson.
I find polygamy a better way of live regarding sexual activity but sharing with my partner there home life. |
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I'm not a swinger and never will be, I enjoy sex, meeting new people and partying with good friends I've met over the years, I have a partner and enjoy the laughs we have on here/chat,
For the time being sex with others will 99% of the time spontaneous either at clubs or private parties |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What are you doing on a swinging site ?
I always looked at the swinging lifestyle as a candy shop.... You enter the candy shop to try all the candy, not try bubble gum and walkout...
Don’t people think it’s disingenuous to pretend to be a swinger if you really are looking for monogamy?
The reason I’m asking this question is someone I met asked me to be exclusive with them... Not like a swinging couple, but a dating monogamous relationship...
I feel like she is out of order and a liar....
Did you get to fuck her?
If so what are you complaining about. You tried that candy now move on to the next one.
I’m complaining because she should have been honest from the start...
What were you wanting from her? Did you get sex? "
I don’t think you understand.....
Yes I did get the sex and it was great.....
My point is ....... if you are truly looking for monogamy why not state this from the start on your swinging profile or maybe use a dating site...
Trust me , I’m nothing special.... It’s truly hard for me to believe after one meeting with me , this lady has sworn off Swinging for good...
If we were fwb for a few months and feelings developed, then I could understand.....
I think for the forums sake , I should present this from a female point of view then people might understand......
Would it be right for a man on a swinging site to profess his desire for a monogamous relationship to a female swinger... Then after their first meeting say “ I’ve changed my mind , I want to explore swinging “ . |
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"What are you doing on a swinging site ?
I always looked at the swinging lifestyle as a candy shop.... You enter the candy shop to try all the candy, not try bubble gum and walkout...
Don’t people think it’s disingenuous to pretend to be a swinger if you really are looking for monogamy?
The reason I’m asking this question is someone I met asked me to be exclusive with them... Not like a swinging couple, but a dating monogamous relationship...
I feel like she is out of order and a liar....
Did you get to fuck her?
If so what are you complaining about. You tried that candy now move on to the next one.
I’m complaining because she should have been honest from the start..."
To be perfectly honest mate, It sounds like she might have been honest with you all along. Just those priorities changed when she met you, then she was honest again by telling you that she was only interested in you. Perspectives, change. Get over it is the best advice i can give you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm here because I'm single, happily so, doesn't mean to say if I met someone (anywhere) and started dating that I would continue here because, simply put, I wouldn't but also doesn't mean I wouldn't return in the future!
... but I wouldn't meet someone once and feel like settling down! That takes time and mutual feelings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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People can change.
When I met my partner, he was very clear from the beginning that he wanted an open relationship and would fuck other women should the opportunity come up. I would have preferred a monogamous relationship, but you have to take people as they are.
We kept talking, we fell in love and we talked again and he decided that he would be willing to give monogamy a try if that's what I wanted. But at that point, I had tried swinging and decided that maybe it wasn't that bad. So we decided to keep our relationship open.
Neither of us lied, it's just that time and emotion led to a change in mindset. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its called freedom of choice. If that is what she wants , why berate her ? Just move on if its not for you .
So her behavior is perfectly acceptable to you?"
She only asked. I'm sure there are far worse crimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP, please don't ghost her. Just explain your stance and then you both can go your separate ways with memories of a great meet. I don't like that ghosting is the norm these days. If she has feelings for you or likes you, it could hurt her more in the end. Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP, please don't ghost her. Just explain your stance and then you both can go your separate ways with memories of a great meet. I don't like that ghosting is the norm these days. If she has feelings for you or likes you, it could hurt her more in the end. Mrs x "
You’re right... I’ll just ghost her until after Valentine’s Day.... |
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From things I've read on Fab, there are quite a few women who are hoping for an exclusive relationship. Not being in one doesn't mean they don't want sex though, so they use this to scratch that itch until the meet The One. I don't see anything wrong with that.
Regarding your particular experience, if she told you early on what she wanted then that seems reasonable. If she wasn't duplicitous then I don't see she did anything wrong, unless she criticised you for not wanting monogamy. That would be out of order.
It's a funny place to look for monogamy, but each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, please don't ghost her. Just explain your stance and then you both can go your separate ways with memories of a great meet. I don't like that ghosting is the norm these days. If she has feelings for you or likes you, it could hurt her more in the end. Mrs x
You’re right... I’ll just ghost her until after Valentine’s Day...."
Proper romantic  |
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Things change, though to be fair, very quickly in your case. We met for relatively meaningless casual kink with no desire on either part for more, fell in love, got serious, decided to be exclusive and just enjoy each other for a few years, did that and then decided to enjoy others together. |
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It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't? "
I don't think it's ever right to conceal anything, but people's needs do change.
In the past, I was here as a single woman looking for casual sex. But I was also looking for a monogamous long term relationship. I wasn't expecting to find love on a swinger's site, but you never know who you might meet and what might happen. In the meantime, I was having some fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now , I will have to ghost her."
What you should do, is discuss with her what your expectations are, and what her expectations are, and together come to an agreement. It may be that the agreement is to say goodbye, but if you've had intimacy with each other, ghosting would be a cruel reward.
I've been there, had it done to me, and its especially unpleasant. |
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"It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't?
I don't think it's ever right to conceal anything, but people's needs do change.
In the past, I was here as a single woman looking for casual sex. But I was also looking for a monogamous long term relationship. I wasn't expecting to find love on a swinger's site, but you never know who you might meet and what might happen. In the meantime, I was having some fun."
That on the face of it, isn't what happened here
though. Also I don't think I could tell after having sex with somebody once that I wanted monogamy |
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"OP, please don't ghost her. Just explain your stance and then you both can go your separate ways with memories of a great meet. I don't like that ghosting is the norm these days. If she has feelings for you or likes you, it could hurt her more in the end. Mrs x
You’re right... I’ll just ghost her until after Valentine’s Day...."
Urgh ghosting is the mark of a coward - awful |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP, please don't ghost her. Just explain your stance and then you both can go your separate ways with memories of a great meet. I don't like that ghosting is the norm these days. If she has feelings for you or likes you, it could hurt her more in the end. Mrs x
You’re right... I’ll just ghost her until after Valentine’s Day....
Urgh ghosting is the mark of a coward - awful "
Ok I won’t ghost her , I’ll just tell her I have to quarantine for 2 weeks.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now , I will have to ghost her.
What you should do, is discuss with her what your expectations are, and what her expectations are, and together come to an agreement. It may be that the agreement is to say goodbye, but if you've had intimacy with each other, ghosting would be a cruel reward.
I've been there, had it done to me, and its especially unpleasant."
Honestly I’m not really good at this....
She wants a serious relationship, I want to see her get gangbanged and eat some box.....
I really don’t see a grey area... |
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"Now , I will have to ghost her.
What you should do, is discuss with her what your expectations are, and what her expectations are, and together come to an agreement. It may be that the agreement is to say goodbye, but if you've had intimacy with each other, ghosting would be a cruel reward.
I've been there, had it done to me, and its especially unpleasant.
Honestly I’m not really good at this....
She wants a serious relationship, I want to see her get gangbanged and eat some box.....
I really don’t see a grey area... "
No you’re not good at this
It’s simple you just say
Dear xxx - I’m not looking for any kind of monogamy it was great to meet you but we want different things so won’t be meeting you again - love Rudeboy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now , I will have to ghost her.
What you should do, is discuss with her what your expectations are, and what her expectations are, and together come to an agreement. It may be that the agreement is to say goodbye, but if you've had intimacy with each other, ghosting would be a cruel reward.
I've been there, had it done to me, and its especially unpleasant.
Honestly I’m not really good at this....
She wants a serious relationship, I want to see her get gangbanged and eat some box.....
I really don’t see a grey area...
No you’re not good at this
It’s simple you just say
Dear xxx - I’m not looking for any kind of monogamy it was great to meet you but we want different things so won’t be meeting you again - love Rudeboy"
Copy and paste it, fill in her name and send it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Now , I will have to ghost her.
What you should do, is discuss with her what your expectations are, and what her expectations are, and together come to an agreement. It may be that the agreement is to say goodbye, but if you've had intimacy with each other, ghosting would be a cruel reward.
I've been there, had it done to me, and its especially unpleasant.
Honestly I’m not really good at this....
She wants a serious relationship, I want to see her get gangbanged and eat some box.....
I really don’t see a grey area...
No you’re not good at this
It’s simple you just say
Dear xxx - I’m not looking for any kind of monogamy it was great to meet you but we want different things so won’t be meeting you again - love Rudeboy
Copy and paste it, fill in her name and send it. "
Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love at 1st sight? Sex induced romantic thoughts? Or she was under the impression that this is a conventional dating site?"
It wasn’t this site.... But I believe she wasn’t a swinger and was just looking to lure someone into a monogamous relationship with sex.....
It’s like you meet someone on a swinging site and you want to explore all swinging has to offer.
But they say “ No , I have no interest in clubs , couples, orgy’s , threesome’s , and bdsm “
So what the hell are you doing on a swinging site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2....."
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!"
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"Now , I will have to ghost her.
What you should do, is discuss with her what your expectations are, and what her expectations are, and together come to an agreement. It may be that the agreement is to say goodbye, but if you've had intimacy with each other, ghosting would be a cruel reward.
I've been there, had it done to me, and its especially unpleasant.
Honestly I’m not really good at this....
She wants a serious relationship, I want to see her get gangbanged and eat some box.....
I really don’t see a grey area...
No you’re not good at this
It’s simple you just say
Dear xxx - I’m not looking for any kind of monogamy it was great to meet you but we want different things so won’t be meeting you again - love Rudeboy
Copy and paste it, fill in her name and send it.
Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2....."
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol"
You know, it's a shame she doesn't have a profile on here, at least then she might see this and realise this guy isn't worth it. |
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol"
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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I don't really get the problem with exclusivity - it can surely last one week, one month, one year or more. Exclusivity is not always about emotional commitment, it can also be a safer and more fulfilling way to play.
Perhaps she should have said that's what she wants prior to meeting, but equally you should also have declared it's something you don't. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
You know, it's a shame she doesn't have a profile on here, at least then she might see this and realise this guy isn't worth it. "
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over a year ago
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings."
Her feelings are absolutely been considered..... She is getting pleasure from the sex also. |
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings.
Her feelings are absolutely been considered..... She is getting pleasure from the sex also."
You know she wants more but you don't have the balls to be honest with her...you are just stringing her along for your own needs. You said earlier that you would ghost her...how selfish and childish. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings.
Her feelings are absolutely been considered..... She is getting pleasure from the sex also.
You know she wants more but you don't have the balls to be honest with her...you are just stringing her along for your own needs. You said earlier that you would ghost her...how selfish and childish."
You didn’t read the whole thread.... I said I would tell her I came into contact with someone with Covid... So I have to quarantine for 2 weeks... I’ll still be in contact with her during those 2 weeks but will miss Valentines Day...
Then we can meet again for some kinky sex... |
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings.
Her feelings are absolutely been considered..... She is getting pleasure from the sex also.
You know she wants more but you don't have the balls to be honest with her...you are just stringing her along for your own needs. You said earlier that you would ghost her...how selfish and childish.
You didn’t read the whole thread.... I said I would tell her I came into contact with someone with Covid... So I have to quarantine for 2 weeks... I’ll still be in contact with her during those 2 weeks but will miss Valentines Day...
Then we can meet again for some kinky sex..."
I have read the whole post...
And you really think that's better than ghosting her!!!
You called her a liar for being honest. You are a liar because that's just what you will be doing, all to get your end away! I pity her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings.
Her feelings are absolutely been considered..... She is getting pleasure from the sex also.
You know she wants more but you don't have the balls to be honest with her...you are just stringing her along for your own needs. You said earlier that you would ghost her...how selfish and childish.
You didn’t read the whole thread.... I said I would tell her I came into contact with someone with Covid... So I have to quarantine for 2 weeks... I’ll still be in contact with her during those 2 weeks but will miss Valentines Day...
Then we can meet again for some kinky sex...
I have read the whole post...
And you really think that's better than ghosting her!!!
You called her a liar for being honest. You are a liar because that's just what you will be doing, all to get your end away! I pity her."
Aww the sisterhood is strong in you.....
Woman signs up to a swinging site.... Reads my profile and looks at my pictures...messages me and we begin to talk , moves to FaceTime more talking going over swinging experience/sexual expectations/sexual boundaries/sexual fantasies, agrees to meet , have great and kinky sex.....
The the next conversation, when I bring up things on her sexual bucket list and her sexual fantasies I want to try....
She says well “ You know , I’m not really into that “
But these are your fantasies you told me about.... I say
Well you know I not like this... Covid has made me lonely and I signed up to that swinging site because I was bored....
You are a awesome guy and I would love to date you......
So she deceived me from the start....
Made me shave my balls , drank 4 bottles of my best wine , and I paid her Uber home.....
And you feel sorry for her.....
Please..... no way
She drank.....
1 bottle of Mouton Rothschild 1986
1 bottle of Chateau Ausone 2006
1 bottle of Romanee Conti 2016
1 bottle of Domaine Faiveley Musigny 2014
I’m getting every drop of wine back in sex....
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings.
Her feelings are absolutely been considered..... She is getting pleasure from the sex also.
You know she wants more but you don't have the balls to be honest with her...you are just stringing her along for your own needs. You said earlier that you would ghost her...how selfish and childish.
You didn’t read the whole thread.... I said I would tell her I came into contact with someone with Covid... So I have to quarantine for 2 weeks... I’ll still be in contact with her during those 2 weeks but will miss Valentines Day...
Then we can meet again for some kinky sex...
I have read the whole post...
And you really think that's better than ghosting her!!!
You called her a liar for being honest. You are a liar because that's just what you will be doing, all to get your end away! I pity her.
Aww the sisterhood is strong in you.....
Woman signs up to a swinging site.... Reads my profile and looks at my pictures...messages me and we begin to talk , moves to FaceTime more talking going over swinging experience/sexual expectations/sexual boundaries/sexual fantasies, agrees to meet , have great and kinky sex.....
The the next conversation, when I bring up things on her sexual bucket list and her sexual fantasies I want to try....
She says well “ You know , I’m not really into that “
But these are your fantasies you told me about.... I say
Well you know I not like this... Covid has made me lonely and I signed up to that swinging site because I was bored....
You are a awesome guy and I would love to date you......
So she deceived me from the start....
Made me shave my balls , drank 4 bottles of my best wine , and I paid her Uber home.....
And you feel sorry for her.....
Please..... no way
She drank.....
1 bottle of Mouton Rothschild 1986
1 bottle of Chateau Ausone 2006
1 bottle of Romanee Conti 2016
1 bottle of Domaine Faiveley Musigny 2014
I’m getting every drop of wine back in sex....
"
How sad of you! |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings.
Her feelings are absolutely been considered..... She is getting pleasure from the sex also.
You know she wants more but you don't have the balls to be honest with her...you are just stringing her along for your own needs. You said earlier that you would ghost her...how selfish and childish.
You didn’t read the whole thread.... I said I would tell her I came into contact with someone with Covid... So I have to quarantine for 2 weeks... I’ll still be in contact with her during those 2 weeks but will miss Valentines Day...
Then we can meet again for some kinky sex...
I have read the whole post...
And you really think that's better than ghosting her!!!
You called her a liar for being honest. You are a liar because that's just what you will be doing, all to get your end away! I pity her.
Aww the sisterhood is strong in you.....
Woman signs up to a swinging site.... Reads my profile and looks at my pictures...messages me and we begin to talk , moves to FaceTime more talking going over swinging experience/sexual expectations/sexual boundaries/sexual fantasies, agrees to meet , have great and kinky sex.....
The the next conversation, when I bring up things on her sexual bucket list and her sexual fantasies I want to try....
She says well “ You know , I’m not really into that “
But these are your fantasies you told me about.... I say
Well you know I not like this... Covid has made me lonely and I signed up to that swinging site because I was bored....
You are a awesome guy and I would love to date you......
So she deceived me from the start....
Made me shave my balls , drank 4 bottles of my best wine , and I paid her Uber home.....
And you feel sorry for her.....
Please..... no way
She drank.....
1 bottle of Mouton Rothschild 1986
1 bottle of Chateau Ausone 2006
1 bottle of Romanee Conti 2016
1 bottle of Domaine Faiveley Musigny 2014
I’m getting every drop of wine back in sex....
"
Bless her. Poor woman is obviously very desperate.
I look forward to your next thread about her cutting up your clothes/ boiling your bunny   |
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"Now , I will have to ghost her.
What you should do, is discuss with her what your expectations are, and what her expectations are, and together come to an agreement. It may be that the agreement is to say goodbye, but if you've had intimacy with each other, ghosting would be a cruel reward.
I've been there, had it done to me, and its especially unpleasant.
Honestly I’m not really good at this....
She wants a serious relationship, I want to see her get gangbanged and eat some box.....
I really don’t see a grey area...
No you’re not good at this
It’s simple you just say
Dear xxx - I’m not looking for any kind of monogamy it was great to meet you but we want different things so won’t be meeting you again - love Rudeboy
Copy and paste it, fill in her name and send it.
Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
Nice.
V x "
Indeed ... poor woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings.
Her feelings are absolutely been considered..... She is getting pleasure from the sex also.
You know she wants more but you don't have the balls to be honest with her...you are just stringing her along for your own needs. You said earlier that you would ghost her...how selfish and childish.
You didn’t read the whole thread.... I said I would tell her I came into contact with someone with Covid... So I have to quarantine for 2 weeks... I’ll still be in contact with her during those 2 weeks but will miss Valentines Day...
Then we can meet again for some kinky sex...
I have read the whole post...
And you really think that's better than ghosting her!!!
You called her a liar for being honest. You are a liar because that's just what you will be doing, all to get your end away! I pity her.
Aww the sisterhood is strong in you.....
Woman signs up to a swinging site.... Reads my profile and looks at my pictures...messages me and we begin to talk , moves to FaceTime more talking going over swinging experience/sexual expectations/sexual boundaries/sexual fantasies, agrees to meet , have great and kinky sex.....
The the next conversation, when I bring up things on her sexual bucket list and her sexual fantasies I want to try....
She says well “ You know , I’m not really into that “
But these are your fantasies you told me about.... I say
Well you know I not like this... Covid has made me lonely and I signed up to that swinging site because I was bored....
You are a awesome guy and I would love to date you......
So she deceived me from the start....
Made me shave my balls , drank 4 bottles of my best wine , and I paid her Uber home.....
And you feel sorry for her.....
Please..... no way
She drank.....
1 bottle of Mouton Rothschild 1986
1 bottle of Chateau Ausone 2006
1 bottle of Romanee Conti 2016
1 bottle of Domaine Faiveley Musigny 2014
I’m getting every drop of wine back in sex....
"
She drank all that in one night? 
I would have got her a taxi after the first bottle. |
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings.
Her feelings are absolutely been considered..... She is getting pleasure from the sex also.
You know she wants more but you don't have the balls to be honest with her...you are just stringing her along for your own needs. You said earlier that you would ghost her...how selfish and childish.
You didn’t read the whole thread.... I said I would tell her I came into contact with someone with Covid... So I have to quarantine for 2 weeks... I’ll still be in contact with her during those 2 weeks but will miss Valentines Day...
Then we can meet again for some kinky sex...
I have read the whole post...
And you really think that's better than ghosting her!!!
You called her a liar for being honest. You are a liar because that's just what you will be doing, all to get your end away! I pity her.
Aww the sisterhood is strong in you.....
Woman signs up to a swinging site.... Reads my profile and looks at my pictures...messages me and we begin to talk , moves to FaceTime more talking going over swinging experience/sexual expectations/sexual boundaries/sexual fantasies, agrees to meet , have great and kinky sex.....
The the next conversation, when I bring up things on her sexual bucket list and her sexual fantasies I want to try....
She says well “ You know , I’m not really into that “
But these are your fantasies you told me about.... I say
Well you know I not like this... Covid has made me lonely and I signed up to that swinging site because I was bored....
You are a awesome guy and I would love to date you......
So she deceived me from the start....
Made me shave my balls , drank 4 bottles of my best wine , and I paid her Uber home.....
And you feel sorry for her.....
Please..... no way
She drank.....
1 bottle of Mouton Rothschild 1986
1 bottle of Chateau Ausone 2006
1 bottle of Romanee Conti 2016
1 bottle of Domaine Faiveley Musigny 2014
I’m getting every drop of wine back in sex....
"
About as classy as half a shady just yuck |
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Interesting as we knew a single guy and a single woman who were on the scene for years they got together as a couple and a few months later she wanted a monogamous relationship away from the swingers scene altogether, need less to say it didn’t work out as it wasn’t what he signed up for |
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over a year ago
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"Interesting as we knew a single guy and a single woman who were on the scene for years they got together as a couple and a few months later she wanted a monogamous relationship away from the swingers scene altogether, need less to say it didn’t work out as it wasn’t what he signed up for "
Crazy right...... it’s like turning vegan after a big steak dinner..... |
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"Interesting as we knew a single guy and a single woman who were on the scene for years they got together as a couple and a few months later she wanted a monogamous relationship away from the swingers scene altogether, need less to say it didn’t work out as it wasn’t what he signed up for
Crazy right...... it’s like turning vegan after a big steak dinner....."
Way I see it yes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings.
Her feelings are absolutely been considered..... She is getting pleasure from the sex also.
You know she wants more but you don't have the balls to be honest with her...you are just stringing her along for your own needs. You said earlier that you would ghost her...how selfish and childish.
You didn’t read the whole thread.... I said I would tell her I came into contact with someone with Covid... So I have to quarantine for 2 weeks... I’ll still be in contact with her during those 2 weeks but will miss Valentines Day...
Then we can meet again for some kinky sex...
I have read the whole post...
And you really think that's better than ghosting her!!!
You called her a liar for being honest. You are a liar because that's just what you will be doing, all to get your end away! I pity her.
Aww the sisterhood is strong in you.....
Woman signs up to a swinging site.... Reads my profile and looks at my pictures...messages me and we begin to talk , moves to FaceTime more talking going over swinging experience/sexual expectations/sexual boundaries/sexual fantasies, agrees to meet , have great and kinky sex.....
The the next conversation, when I bring up things on her sexual bucket list and her sexual fantasies I want to try....
She says well “ You know , I’m not really into that “
But these are your fantasies you told me about.... I say
Well you know I not like this... Covid has made me lonely and I signed up to that swinging site because I was bored....
You are a awesome guy and I would love to date you......
So she deceived me from the start....
Made me shave my balls , drank 4 bottles of my best wine , and I paid her Uber home.....
And you feel sorry for her.....
Please..... no way
She drank.....
1 bottle of Mouton Rothschild 1986
1 bottle of Chateau Ausone 2006
1 bottle of Romanee Conti 2016
1 bottle of Domaine Faiveley Musigny 2014
I’m getting every drop of wine back in sex....
She drank all that in one night?
I would have got her a taxi after the first bottle. "
Lol , we drank that together.... having sex does make you thirsty.... |
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings.
Her feelings are absolutely been considered..... She is getting pleasure from the sex also.
You know she wants more but you don't have the balls to be honest with her...you are just stringing her along for your own needs. You said earlier that you would ghost her...how selfish and childish.
You didn’t read the whole thread.... I said I would tell her I came into contact with someone with Covid... So I have to quarantine for 2 weeks... I’ll still be in contact with her during those 2 weeks but will miss Valentines Day...
Then we can meet again for some kinky sex...
I have read the whole post...
And you really think that's better than ghosting her!!!
You called her a liar for being honest. You are a liar because that's just what you will be doing, all to get your end away! I pity her.
Aww the sisterhood is strong in you.....
Woman signs up to a swinging site.... Reads my profile and looks at my pictures...messages me and we begin to talk , moves to FaceTime more talking going over swinging experience/sexual expectations/sexual boundaries/sexual fantasies, agrees to meet , have great and kinky sex.....
The the next conversation, when I bring up things on her sexual bucket list and her sexual fantasies I want to try....
She says well “ You know , I’m not really into that “
But these are your fantasies you told me about.... I say
Well you know I not like this... Covid has made me lonely and I signed up to that swinging site because I was bored....
You are a awesome guy and I would love to date you......
So she deceived me from the start....
Made me shave my balls , drank 4 bottles of my best wine , and I paid her Uber home.....
And you feel sorry for her.....
Please..... no way
She drank.....
1 bottle of Mouton Rothschild 1986
1 bottle of Chateau Ausone 2006
1 bottle of Romanee Conti 2016
1 bottle of Domaine Faiveley Musigny 2014
I’m getting every drop of wine back in sex....
"
Wow, just when I think I've heard it all on here, someone comes out with something that shocks me |
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over a year ago
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings.
Her feelings are absolutely been considered..... She is getting pleasure from the sex also.
You know she wants more but you don't have the balls to be honest with her...you are just stringing her along for your own needs. You said earlier that you would ghost her...how selfish and childish.
You didn’t read the whole thread.... I said I would tell her I came into contact with someone with Covid... So I have to quarantine for 2 weeks... I’ll still be in contact with her during those 2 weeks but will miss Valentines Day...
Then we can meet again for some kinky sex...
I have read the whole post...
And you really think that's better than ghosting her!!!
You called her a liar for being honest. You are a liar because that's just what you will be doing, all to get your end away! I pity her.
Aww the sisterhood is strong in you.....
Woman signs up to a swinging site.... Reads my profile and looks at my pictures...messages me and we begin to talk , moves to FaceTime more talking going over swinging experience/sexual expectations/sexual boundaries/sexual fantasies, agrees to meet , have great and kinky sex.....
The the next conversation, when I bring up things on her sexual bucket list and her sexual fantasies I want to try....
She says well “ You know , I’m not really into that “
But these are your fantasies you told me about.... I say
Well you know I not like this... Covid has made me lonely and I signed up to that swinging site because I was bored....
You are a awesome guy and I would love to date you......
So she deceived me from the start....
Made me shave my balls , drank 4 bottles of my best wine , and I paid her Uber home.....
And you feel sorry for her.....
Please..... no way
She drank.....
1 bottle of Mouton Rothschild 1986
1 bottle of Chateau Ausone 2006
1 bottle of Romanee Conti 2016
1 bottle of Domaine Faiveley Musigny 2014
I’m getting every drop of wine back in sex....
About as classy as half a shady just yuck "
Honest Question..... Do you have male friends? Brothers? Cousins? That can talk to you straight... you know , like talk to you like one of the guys....
This has nothing to do with class and respecting someone..... I’m just writing on the forums like I’m talking to my guy friends....
Try reading my posts like I’m one of your male friends.... you might start to laugh a little.... |
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over a year ago
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"Did you just google the most expensive wines? 
V x
I think he did...trying to be classy but still a sleaze  "
There is no reason to be rude.... if you don’t agree with me that’s fine... but calling me sleaze is out of order..... |
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"Did you just google the most expensive wines?
V x
I think he did...trying to be classy but still a sleaze
There is no reason to be rude.... if you don’t agree with me that’s fine... but calling me sleaze is out of order....."
"I’m getting every drop of wine back in sex....'....your words, not mine. Says it all really! |
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"Did you just google the most expensive wines?
V x
I think he did...trying to be classy but still a sleaze
There is no reason to be rude.... if you don’t agree with me that’s fine... but calling me sleaze is out of order....."
If the cap fits .... |
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings.
Her feelings are absolutely been considered..... She is getting pleasure from the sex also.
You know she wants more but you don't have the balls to be honest with her...you are just stringing her along for your own needs. You said earlier that you would ghost her...how selfish and childish.
You didn’t read the whole thread.... I said I would tell her I came into contact with someone with Covid... So I have to quarantine for 2 weeks... I’ll still be in contact with her during those 2 weeks but will miss Valentines Day...
Then we can meet again for some kinky sex...
I have read the whole post...
And you really think that's better than ghosting her!!!
You called her a liar for being honest. You are a liar because that's just what you will be doing, all to get your end away! I pity her.
Aww the sisterhood is strong in you.....
Woman signs up to a swinging site.... Reads my profile and looks at my pictures...messages me and we begin to talk , moves to FaceTime more talking going over swinging experience/sexual expectations/sexual boundaries/sexual fantasies, agrees to meet , have great and kinky sex.....
The the next conversation, when I bring up things on her sexual bucket list and her sexual fantasies I want to try....
She says well “ You know , I’m not really into that “
But these are your fantasies you told me about.... I say
Well you know I not like this... Covid has made me lonely and I signed up to that swinging site because I was bored....
You are a awesome guy and I would love to date you......
So she deceived me from the start....
Made me shave my balls , drank 4 bottles of my best wine , and I paid her Uber home.....
And you feel sorry for her.....
Please..... no way
She drank.....
1 bottle of Mouton Rothschild 1986
1 bottle of Chateau Ausone 2006
1 bottle of Romanee Conti 2016
1 bottle of Domaine Faiveley Musigny 2014
I’m getting every drop of wine back in sex....
About as classy as half a shady just yuck
Honest Question..... Do you have male friends? Brothers? Cousins? That can talk to you straight... you know , like talk to you like one of the guys....
This has nothing to do with class and respecting someone..... I’m just writing on the forums like I’m talking to my guy friends....
Try reading my posts like I’m one of your male friends.... you might start to laugh a little...."
Messing around with a woman just for your own pleasure regardless of her feelings is low and scummy.
Ghosting is low and scummy
Pretending you have to self isolate so you don’t have to see her is low abs scummy
None of my male friends or relatives would behave is such a callous way. Valuing people’s time and honesty are the signs that show me a man is decent. You don’t demonstrate any of these regardless of the fact you think your cock resembles a red bull can.
Manners make the man... |
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over a year ago
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"It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't? "
because pretending to want monogamy you are feeding someone the promise of a future they will never get ... casually meeting someone who only wants to swing when you want monogamy its only yourself you are cheating out of anything |
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over a year ago
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol"
and apparently you are cruel |
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"Nope , she is hot.... I’ll just ghost her for two weeks, then go for round 2.....
If you get a return ticket after a two week ghosting, I salute you my friend. Godspeed!
Ohh I will , she is keen... lol
Such a charmer you are not.. using her to satisfy your needs with absolutely no consideration for her feelings.
Her feelings are absolutely been considered..... She is getting pleasure from the sex also.
You know she wants more but you don't have the balls to be honest with her...you are just stringing her along for your own needs. You said earlier that you would ghost her...how selfish and childish.
You didn’t read the whole thread.... I said I would tell her I came into contact with someone with Covid... So I have to quarantine for 2 weeks... I’ll still be in contact with her during those 2 weeks but will miss Valentines Day...
Then we can meet again for some kinky sex...
I have read the whole post...
And you really think that's better than ghosting her!!!
You called her a liar for being honest. You are a liar because that's just what you will be doing, all to get your end away! I pity her.
Aww the sisterhood is strong in you.....
Woman signs up to a swinging site.... Reads my profile and looks at my pictures...messages me and we begin to talk , moves to FaceTime more talking going over swinging experience/sexual expectations/sexual boundaries/sexual fantasies, agrees to meet , have great and kinky sex.....
The the next conversation, when I bring up things on her sexual bucket list and her sexual fantasies I want to try....
She says well “ You know , I’m not really into that “
But these are your fantasies you told me about.... I say
Well you know I not like this... Covid has made me lonely and I signed up to that swinging site because I was bored....
You are a awesome guy and I would love to date you......
So she deceived me from the start....
Made me shave my balls , drank 4 bottles of my best wine , and I paid her Uber home.....
And you feel sorry for her.....
Please..... no way
She drank.....
1 bottle of Mouton Rothschild 1986
1 bottle of Chateau Ausone 2006
1 bottle of Romanee Conti 2016
1 bottle of Domaine Faiveley Musigny 2014
I’m getting every drop of wine back in sex....
About as classy as half a shady just yuck
Honest Question..... Do you have male friends? Brothers? Cousins? That can talk to you straight... you know , like talk to you like one of the guys....
This has nothing to do with class and respecting someone..... I’m just writing on the forums like I’m talking to my guy friends....
Try reading my posts like I’m one of your male friends.... you might start to laugh a little....
Messing around with a woman just for your own pleasure regardless of her feelings is low and scummy.
Ghosting is low and scummy
Pretending you have to self isolate so you don’t have to see her is low abs scummy
None of my male friends or relatives would behave is such a callous way. Valuing people’s time and honesty are the signs that show me a man is decent. You don’t demonstrate any of these regardless of the fact you think your cock resembles a red bull can.
Manners make the man... "
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"It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't?
because pretending to want monogamy you are feeding someone the promise of a future they will never get ... casually meeting someone who only wants to swing when you want monogamy its only yourself you are cheating out of anything "
Lying by omission is still lying whatever it is you're omitting to say.
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"It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't?
because pretending to want monogamy you are feeding someone the promise of a future they will never get ... casually meeting someone who only wants to swing when you want monogamy its only yourself you are cheating out of anything
Lying by omission is still lying whatever it is you're omitting to say.
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but if you only arrange a casual meet you owe them no truth from your life that doesn’t impact them ... people on here use fake names the lot , if the intention is one meeting for sex what does it matter
i think part of the problem here is the OP and the girl both had future plans for each other ... they just happened to be different future plans ... seems like he was hoping she would open the gates reserved for couples only to me |
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As per your suggestion op I just conducted a straw poll of three friends and one brother (all aged 30-45)
Common consensus is that you’re behaviour is like a spoiled 15 year old.
I quote ‘blimey you sure he’s really not a school kid?’
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"It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't?
because pretending to want monogamy you are feeding someone the promise of a future they will never get ... casually meeting someone who only wants to swing when you want monogamy its only yourself you are cheating out of anything
Lying by omission is still lying whatever it is you're omitting to say.
but if you only arrange a casual meet you owe them no truth from your life that doesn’t impact them ... people on here use fake names the lot , if the intention is one meeting for sex what does it matter
i think part of the problem here is the OP and the girl both had future plans for each other ... they just happened to be different future plans ... seems like he was hoping she would open the gates reserved for couples only to me "
How much is it ok to withhold from casual meets?
I think a lot of the problem here is that people are taking the op at face value. |
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"It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't?
because pretending to want monogamy you are feeding someone the promise of a future they will never get ... casually meeting someone who only wants to swing when you want monogamy its only yourself you are cheating out of anything
Lying by omission is still lying whatever it is you're omitting to say.
but if you only arrange a casual meet you owe them no truth from your life that doesn’t impact them ... people on here use fake names the lot , if the intention is one meeting for sex what does it matter
i think part of the problem here is the OP and the girl both had future plans for each other ... they just happened to be different future plans ... seems like he was hoping she would open the gates reserved for couples only to me
How much is it ok to withhold from casual meets?
I think a lot of the problem here is that people are taking the op at face value."
I’m not convinced there are any hidden depths tbh.
I don’t think you are obliged to tell casually meets anything but human decency dictates that when they tell you something about their expectations and you lie to get more sex then that’s not ok. |
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"It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't?
because pretending to want monogamy you are feeding someone the promise of a future they will never get ... casually meeting someone who only wants to swing when you want monogamy its only yourself you are cheating out of anything
Lying by omission is still lying whatever it is you're omitting to say.
but if you only arrange a casual meet you owe them no truth from your life that doesn’t impact them ... people on here use fake names the lot , if the intention is one meeting for sex what does it matter
i think part of the problem here is the OP and the girl both had future plans for each other ... they just happened to be different future plans ... seems like he was hoping she would open the gates reserved for couples only to me
How much is it ok to withhold from casual meets?
I think a lot of the problem here is that people are taking the op at face value.
I’m not convinced there are any hidden depths tbh.
I don’t think you are obliged to tell casually meets anything but human decency dictates that when they tell you something about their expectations and you lie to get more sex then that’s not ok. "
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"It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't?
because pretending to want monogamy you are feeding someone the promise of a future they will never get ... casually meeting someone who only wants to swing when you want monogamy its only yourself you are cheating out of anything
Lying by omission is still lying whatever it is you're omitting to say.
but if you only arrange a casual meet you owe them no truth from your life that doesn’t impact them ... people on here use fake names the lot , if the intention is one meeting for sex what does it matter
i think part of the problem here is the OP and the girl both had future plans for each other ... they just happened to be different future plans ... seems like he was hoping she would open the gates reserved for couples only to me
How much is it ok to withhold from casual meets?
I think a lot of the problem here is that people are taking the op at face value.
I’m not convinced there are any hidden depths tbh.
I don’t think you are obliged to tell casually meets anything but human decency dictates that when they tell you something about their expectations and you lie to get more sex then that’s not ok.
So all the married people are ok to conceal that?"
Married people playing away? Hell no. |
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"It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't?
because pretending to want monogamy you are feeding someone the promise of a future they will never get ... casually meeting someone who only wants to swing when you want monogamy its only yourself you are cheating out of anything
Lying by omission is still lying whatever it is you're omitting to say.
but if you only arrange a casual meet you owe them no truth from your life that doesn’t impact them ... people on here use fake names the lot , if the intention is one meeting for sex what does it matter
i think part of the problem here is the OP and the girl both had future plans for each other ... they just happened to be different future plans ... seems like he was hoping she would open the gates reserved for couples only to me
How much is it ok to withhold from casual meets?
I think a lot of the problem here is that people are taking the op at face value.
I’m not convinced there are any hidden depths tbh.
I don’t think you are obliged to tell casually meets anything but human decency dictates that when they tell you something about their expectations and you lie to get more sex then that’s not ok.
So all the married people are ok to conceal that?
Married people playing away? Hell no. "
So *some* people are obliged to tell casual meets some things? |
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"It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't?
because pretending to want monogamy you are feeding someone the promise of a future they will never get ... casually meeting someone who only wants to swing when you want monogamy its only yourself you are cheating out of anything
Lying by omission is still lying whatever it is you're omitting to say.
but if you only arrange a casual meet you owe them no truth from your life that doesn’t impact them ... people on here use fake names the lot , if the intention is one meeting for sex what does it matter
i think part of the problem here is the OP and the girl both had future plans for each other ... they just happened to be different future plans ... seems like he was hoping she would open the gates reserved for couples only to me
How much is it ok to withhold from casual meets?
I think a lot of the problem here is that people are taking the op at face value.
I’m not convinced there are any hidden depths tbh.
I don’t think you are obliged to tell casually meets anything but human decency dictates that when they tell you something about their expectations and you lie to get more sex then that’s not ok.
So all the married people are ok to conceal that?
Married people playing away? Hell no.
So *some* people are obliged to tell casual meets some things?"
I personally pre screen before meeting and won’t meet married - you can usually tell if they’re lying.
I personally feel that if you are aware you’re someone that the person wouldn’t meet if they knew or that your intentions are obviously the direct opposite to the intentions of the person you’re meeting then leave them alone. It’s just using people abs wasting their time ... liars are the lowest of the low. |
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"It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't?
because pretending to want monogamy you are feeding someone the promise of a future they will never get ... casually meeting someone who only wants to swing when you want monogamy its only yourself you are cheating out of anything
Lying by omission is still lying whatever it is you're omitting to say.
but if you only arrange a casual meet you owe them no truth from your life that doesn’t impact them ... people on here use fake names the lot , if the intention is one meeting for sex what does it matter
i think part of the problem here is the OP and the girl both had future plans for each other ... they just happened to be different future plans ... seems like he was hoping she would open the gates reserved for couples only to me
How much is it ok to withhold from casual meets?
I think a lot of the problem here is that people are taking the op at face value.
I’m not convinced there are any hidden depths tbh.
I don’t think you are obliged to tell casually meets anything but human decency dictates that when they tell you something about their expectations and you lie to get more sex then that’s not ok.
So all the married people are ok to conceal that?
Married people playing away? Hell no.
So *some* people are obliged to tell casual meets some things?
I personally pre screen before meeting and won’t meet married - you can usually tell if they’re lying.
I personally feel that if you are aware you’re someone that the person wouldn’t meet if they knew or that your intentions are obviously the direct opposite to the intentions of the person you’re meeting then leave them alone. It’s just using people abs wasting their time ... liars are the lowest of the low. "
Isn't that what the lady the op met was doing? On the face of it she knew her intentions were the direct opposite of his. |
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She drank.....
1 bottle of Mouton Rothschild 1986
1 bottle of Chateau Ausone 2006
1 bottle of Romanee Conti 2016
1 bottle of Domaine Faiveley Musigny 2014
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If you buy those style of wines for her is it any wonder she has designs on you?
Tell her you can only run to budget but reasonable stuff from Aldi or Lidl in future and see if anything changes!
Oh, and steer well clear of St Valentine's Day. That Quarantining wheeze could come in useful to some of the rest of us this year. Thanks for the idea. |
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"It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't?
because pretending to want monogamy you are feeding someone the promise of a future they will never get ... casually meeting someone who only wants to swing when you want monogamy its only yourself you are cheating out of anything
Lying by omission is still lying whatever it is you're omitting to say.
but if you only arrange a casual meet you owe them no truth from your life that doesn’t impact them ... people on here use fake names the lot , if the intention is one meeting for sex what does it matter
i think part of the problem here is the OP and the girl both had future plans for each other ... they just happened to be different future plans ... seems like he was hoping she would open the gates reserved for couples only to me
How much is it ok to withhold from casual meets?
I think a lot of the problem here is that people are taking the op at face value.
I’m not convinced there are any hidden depths tbh.
I don’t think you are obliged to tell casually meets anything but human decency dictates that when they tell you something about their expectations and you lie to get more sex then that’s not ok.
So all the married people are ok to conceal that?
Married people playing away? Hell no.
So *some* people are obliged to tell casual meets some things?
I personally pre screen before meeting and won’t meet married - you can usually tell if they’re lying.
I personally feel that if you are aware you’re someone that the person wouldn’t meet if they knew or that your intentions are obviously the direct opposite to the intentions of the person you’re meeting then leave them alone. It’s just using people abs wasting their time ... liars are the lowest of the low.
Isn't that what the lady the op met was doing? On the face of it she knew her intentions were the direct opposite of his."
Do we know this though? We only have one side what we do know is the op is continuing to have sex with her stringing her along knowing he doesn’t want what she does. She’s being honest he isn’t |
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"It's interesting that even on a swingers site people will be biased towards someone who is on favour of monogamy, especially if its a woman. I think it's fair to assume that *unless stated otherwise* that if you're on a swingers web site you're not looking for a long term monogamous relationship. Why is it any more acceptable to conceal the fact that you want monogomy from someone who doesn't than it is to pretend you want monogamy to someone who doesn't?
because pretending to want monogamy you are feeding someone the promise of a future they will never get ... casually meeting someone who only wants to swing when you want monogamy its only yourself you are cheating out of anything
Lying by omission is still lying whatever it is you're omitting to say.
but if you only arrange a casual meet you owe them no truth from your life that doesn’t impact them ... people on here use fake names the lot , if the intention is one meeting for sex what does it matter
i think part of the problem here is the OP and the girl both had future plans for each other ... they just happened to be different future plans ... seems like he was hoping she would open the gates reserved for couples only to me
How much is it ok to withhold from casual meets?
I think a lot of the problem here is that people are taking the op at face value.
I’m not convinced there are any hidden depths tbh.
I don’t think you are obliged to tell casually meets anything but human decency dictates that when they tell you something about their expectations and you lie to get more sex then that’s not ok.
So all the married people are ok to conceal that?"
i think you owe them a level of honesty about the meet and nothing beyond that ... so if your plan is one meeting its none of their business if in life you want to be a swinger or monogamous
your marital status is important because it has the potential to impact the other party... either because of sexual health or because the spouse finds out and it blows up
things i think it is unacceptable to lie about because of the consequences it could have for the other person:
sexual health
relationship status
age (if under age)
obviously if you promise someone more than one meet and there is some sort of suggested connection or friendship there then the level of truth you owe them starts to rise as they become more invested in you |
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This really has got heated, and I'f I'm honest also a tad unbelievable.
OP, you say you feel deceived as you believe she lied to you. Yet you are prepared to lie to her and obtain sex under false pretences to recoup "the value of your wine"?
You have also claimed in other forum posts about your educational qualifications which if true means you're not a stupid individual. Why is it so difficult to accept that people can change their mind?
Also, some of your comments on the thread, if we take them as real and not just a wind up, really don't do you any favours. Everybody deserves respect. |
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"This really has got heated, and I'f I'm honest also a tad unbelievable.
OP, you say you feel deceived as you believe she lied to you. Yet you are prepared to lie to her and obtain sex under false pretences to recoup "the value of your wine"?
You have also claimed in other forum posts about your educational qualifications which if true means you're not a stupid individual. Why is it so difficult to accept that people can change their mind?
Also, some of your comments on the thread, if we take them as real and not just a wind up, really don't do you any favours. Everybody deserves respect."
I really believe in karma..... she has put out bad karma in the universe by lying to me....
So I’m giving it right back to her by lying to her....
It really has nothing to do with respect... it’s all about an eye for a eye....
Honestly if she had told me she wanted monogamy from the start , I would be able to gauge how I should proceed...
But I did learn something from this thread.... not to ghost her.... so that’s a positive...
Also if someone is reading this thread, and they are not at all interested in swinging... I hope they will see the damage they can cause a person with duplicitous behavior....
Please let all potential meets know your true intentions and just don’t say what they want to hear just for a shag.... |
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And then you woke up right 
It's almost like some people have a pattern of making up bullshit to stir things up and make themselves look like stud muffins
Are all these women you kick to the kerb deaf OP?
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It's my body and mind.
I meet who I want to meet it's my choice.
I only meet 2 people who i want to meet as me personally I only want them.if that's monogamy then so be it but it's my choice.
I come here for chats and giggles.
We all should have our choices where ever we are and what ever were doing.
It's that simples x |
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"And then you woke up right
It's almost like some people have a pattern of making up bullshit to stir things up and make themselves look like stud muffins
Are all these women you kick to the kerb deaf OP?
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I’m glad to see you are healthy and keeping safe..... I hope I made you smile today and take your mind off your problems for a little while... |
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"It's my body and mind.
I meet who I want to meet it's my choice.
I only meet 2 people who i want to meet as me personally I only want them.if that's monogamy then so be it but it's my choice.
I come here for chats and giggles.
We all should have our choices where ever we are and what ever were doing.
It's that simples x "
The world is your oyster, you are a single attractive female on a swinging site.....
You have more power than you know..... So if you only want meet two guys , carry on... But it’s like having a Lamborghini and driving it at 20 mph....
So Please try to use all this power you have now until you hit 30 , it’s all down hill after that.... |
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"This really has got heated, and I'f I'm honest also a tad unbelievable.
OP, you say you feel deceived as you believe she lied to you. Yet you are prepared to lie to her and obtain sex under false pretences to recoup "the value of your wine"?
You have also claimed in other forum posts about your educational qualifications which if true means you're not a stupid individual. Why is it so difficult to accept that people can change their mind?
Also, some of your comments on the thread, if we take them as real and not just a wind up, really don't do you any favours. Everybody deserves respect.
I really believe in karma..... she has put out bad karma in the universe by lying to me....
So I’m giving it right back to her by lying to her....
It really has nothing to do with respect... it’s all about an eye for a eye....
Honestly if she had told me she wanted monogamy from the start , I would be able to gauge how I should proceed...
But I did learn something from this thread.... not to ghost her.... so that’s a positive...
Also if someone is reading this thread, and they are not at all interested in swinging... I hope they will see the damage they can cause a person with duplicitous behavior....
Please let all potential meets know your true intentions and just don’t say what they want to hear just for a shag...."
Damage???? What damage has she caused you? Oh no wait...she drank some of your wine...ffs get a grip it seems you are hellbent on some sort of revenge....why??
She's made her intentions clear, its not what you want so grow up, be a man and leave her to find what she's seeking.
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"What are you doing on a swinging site ?
I always looked at the swinging lifestyle as a candy shop.... You enter the candy shop to try all the candy, not try bubble gum and walkout...
Don’t people think it’s disingenuous to pretend to be a swinger if you really are looking for monogamy?
The reason I’m asking this question is someone I met asked me to be exclusive with them... Not like a swinging couple, but a dating monogamous relationship...
I feel like she is out of order and a liar...."
I just use it as a sex site. I’m not a swinger, in the sense I’m single and generally meet single men.
I love clubs, but again, I go as a single gal.
I don’t think they are out of order or a liar- I think it’s good they put what they wanted out there. Can always say no it’s not for you, block and move on
I’ve dated off here too xx |
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"This really has got heated, and I'f I'm honest also a tad unbelievable.
OP, you say you feel deceived as you believe she lied to you. Yet you are prepared to lie to her and obtain sex under false pretences to recoup "the value of your wine"?
You have also claimed in other forum posts about your educational qualifications which if true means you're not a stupid individual. Why is it so difficult to accept that people can change their mind?
Also, some of your comments on the thread, if we take them as real and not just a wind up, really don't do you any favours. Everybody deserves respect.
I really believe in karma..... she has put out bad karma in the universe by lying to me....
So I’m giving it right back to her by lying to her....
It really has nothing to do with respect... it’s all about an eye for a eye....
Honestly if she had told me she wanted monogamy from the start , I would be able to gauge how I should proceed...
But I did learn something from this thread.... not to ghost her.... so that’s a positive...
Also if someone is reading this thread, and they are not at all interested in swinging... I hope they will see the damage they can cause a person with duplicitous behavior....
Please let all potential meets know your true intentions and just don’t say what they want to hear just for a shag....
Damage???? What damage has she caused you? Oh no wait...she drank some of your wine...ffs get a grip it seems you are hellbent on some sort of revenge....why??
She's made her intentions clear, its not what you want so grow up, be a man and leave her to find what she's seeking.
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I’m curious if you would post the same things, if the roles were reversed and a woman posted this? |
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"What are you doing on a swinging site ?
I always looked at the swinging lifestyle as a candy shop.... You enter the candy shop to try all the candy, not try bubble gum and walkout...
Don’t people think it’s disingenuous to pretend to be a swinger if you really are looking for monogamy?
The reason I’m asking this question is someone I met asked me to be exclusive with them... Not like a swinging couple, but a dating monogamous relationship...
I feel like she is out of order and a liar....
I just use it as a sex site. I’m not a swinger, in the sense I’m single and generally meet single men.
I love clubs, but again, I go as a single gal.
I don’t think they are out of order or a liar- I think it’s good they put what they wanted out there. Can always say no it’s not for you, block and move on
I’ve dated off here too xx"
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"What are you doing on a swinging site ?
I always looked at the swinging lifestyle as a candy shop.... You enter the candy shop to try all the candy, not try bubble gum and walkout...
Don’t people think it’s disingenuous to pretend to be a swinger if you really are looking for monogamy?
The reason I’m asking this question is someone I met asked me to be exclusive with them... Not like a swinging couple, but a dating monogamous relationship...
I feel like she is out of order and a liar....
I just use it as a sex site. I’m not a swinger, in the sense I’m single and generally meet single men.
I love clubs, but again, I go as a single gal.
I don’t think they are out of order or a liar- I think it’s good they put what they wanted out there. Can always say no it’s not for you, block and move on
I’ve dated off here too xx
If you were honest from the start , then I see no problems....
Define honest from the start?
I’m allowed to change my mind.
I’m allowed to get feelings for someone.
I’m allowed to tell them so.
How you react is up to you.
You can politely say no thank you and move on.
I’ve actually read the replies now and it seems you were joking all along so take my response with a punch of salt, i thought you were genuinely asking "
However if your profile was as clear as it is now about dating... did you make her think there was a chance  lol. |
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"This really has got heated, and I'f I'm honest also a tad unbelievable.
OP, you say you feel deceived as you believe she lied to you. Yet you are prepared to lie to her and obtain sex under false pretences to recoup "the value of your wine"?
You have also claimed in other forum posts about your educational qualifications which if true means you're not a stupid individual. Why is it so difficult to accept that people can change their mind?
Also, some of your comments on the thread, if we take them as real and not just a wind up, really don't do you any favours. Everybody deserves respect.
I really believe in karma..... she has put out bad karma in the universe by lying to me....
So I’m giving it right back to her by lying to her....
It really has nothing to do with respect... it’s all about an eye for a eye....
Honestly if she had told me she wanted monogamy from the start , I would be able to gauge how I should proceed...
But I did learn something from this thread.... not to ghost her.... so that’s a positive...
Also if someone is reading this thread, and they are not at all interested in swinging... I hope they will see the damage they can cause a person with duplicitous behavior....
Please let all potential meets know your true intentions and just don’t say what they want to hear just for a shag....
Damage???? What damage has she caused you? Oh no wait...she drank some of your wine...ffs get a grip it seems you are hellbent on some sort of revenge....why??
She's made her intentions clear, its not what you want so grow up, be a man and leave her to find what she's seeking.
I’m curious if you would post the same things, if the roles were reversed and a woman posted this?"
Yes my answer would still be the same.
You are making a drama out of nothing.
God forbid someone changes their mind on what they want or what they are looking for! |
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"This really has got heated, and I'f I'm honest also a tad unbelievable.
OP, you say you feel deceived as you believe she lied to you. Yet you are prepared to lie to her and obtain sex under false pretences to recoup "the value of your wine"?
You have also claimed in other forum posts about your educational qualifications which if true means you're not a stupid individual. Why is it so difficult to accept that people can change their mind?
Also, some of your comments on the thread, if we take them as real and not just a wind up, really don't do you any favours. Everybody deserves respect.
I really believe in karma..... she has put out bad karma in the universe by lying to me....
So I’m giving it right back to her by lying to her....
It really has nothing to do with respect... it’s all about an eye for a eye....
Honestly if she had told me she wanted monogamy from the start , I would be able to gauge how I should proceed...
But I did learn something from this thread.... not to ghost her.... so that’s a positive...
Also if someone is reading this thread, and they are not at all interested in swinging... I hope they will see the damage they can cause a person with duplicitous behavior....
Please let all potential meets know your true intentions and just don’t say what they want to hear just for a shag....
Damage???? What damage has she caused you? Oh no wait...she drank some of your wine...ffs get a grip it seems you are hellbent on some sort of revenge....why??
She's made her intentions clear, its not what you want so grow up, be a man and leave her to find what she's seeking.
I’m curious if you would post the same things, if the roles were reversed and a woman posted this?
Yes my answer would still be the same.
You are making a drama out of nothing.
God forbid someone changes their mind on what they want or what they are looking for! "
So for context ..... it would be perfectly ok for a man on a swinging site that wants to explore the swinging lifestyle , to tell a woman on a swinging site looking for a monogamous relationship....
That he isn’t really a swinger , he wants a monogamous relationship. Then gets her to have sex with him...
Then the next conversation with her , he says “ Sorry love , I’m not looking for monogamy.... I’ve changed my mind and I really want to explore swinging “
You find this behavior perfectly acceptable?
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"This really has got heated, and I'f I'm honest also a tad unbelievable.
OP, you say you feel deceived as you believe she lied to you. Yet you are prepared to lie to her and obtain sex under false pretences to recoup "the value of your wine"?
You have also claimed in other forum posts about your educational qualifications which if true means you're not a stupid individual. Why is it so difficult to accept that people can change their mind?
Also, some of your comments on the thread, if we take them as real and not just a wind up, really don't do you any favours. Everybody deserves respect.
I really believe in karma..... she has put out bad karma in the universe by lying to me....
So I’m giving it right back to her by lying to her....
It really has nothing to do with respect... it’s all about an eye for a eye....
Honestly if she had told me she wanted monogamy from the start , I would be able to gauge how I should proceed...
But I did learn something from this thread.... not to ghost her.... so that’s a positive...
Also if someone is reading this thread, and they are not at all interested in swinging... I hope they will see the damage they can cause a person with duplicitous behavior....
Please let all potential meets know your true intentions and just don’t say what they want to hear just for a shag....
Damage???? What damage has she caused you? Oh no wait...she drank some of your wine...ffs get a grip it seems you are hellbent on some sort of revenge....why??
She's made her intentions clear, its not what you want so grow up, be a man and leave her to find what she's seeking.
I’m curious if you would post the same things, if the roles were reversed and a woman posted this?
Yes my answer would still be the same.
You are making a drama out of nothing.
God forbid someone changes their mind on what they want or what they are looking for!
So for context ..... it would be perfectly ok for a man on a swinging site that wants to explore the swinging lifestyle , to tell a woman on a swinging site looking for a monogamous relationship....
That he isn’t really a swinger , he wants a monogamous relationship. Then gets her to have sex with him...
Then the next conversation with her , he says “ Sorry love , I’m not looking for monogamy.... I’ve changed my mind and I really want to explore swinging “
You find this behavior perfectly acceptable?
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Changing your mind is acceptable in any circumstance. Leading people on is not |
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"This really has got heated, and I'f I'm honest also a tad unbelievable.
OP, you say you feel deceived as you believe she lied to you. Yet you are prepared to lie to her and obtain sex under false pretences to recoup "the value of your wine"?
You have also claimed in other forum posts about your educational qualifications which if true means you're not a stupid individual. Why is it so difficult to accept that people can change their mind?
Also, some of your comments on the thread, if we take them as real and not just a wind up, really don't do you any favours. Everybody deserves respect.
I really believe in karma..... she has put out bad karma in the universe by lying to me....
So I’m giving it right back to her by lying to her....
It really has nothing to do with respect... it’s all about an eye for a eye....
Honestly if she had told me she wanted monogamy from the start , I would be able to gauge how I should proceed...
But I did learn something from this thread.... not to ghost her.... so that’s a positive...
Also if someone is reading this thread, and they are not at all interested in swinging... I hope they will see the damage they can cause a person with duplicitous behavior....
Please let all potential meets know your true intentions and just don’t say what they want to hear just for a shag....
Damage???? What damage has she caused you? Oh no wait...she drank some of your wine...ffs get a grip it seems you are hellbent on some sort of revenge....why??
She's made her intentions clear, its not what you want so grow up, be a man and leave her to find what she's seeking.
I’m curious if you would post the same things, if the roles were reversed and a woman posted this?"
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"It's my body and mind.
I meet who I want to meet it's my choice.
I only meet 2 people who i want to meet as me personally I only want them.if that's monogamy then so be it but it's my choice.
I come here for chats and giggles.
We all should have our choices where ever we are and what ever were doing.
It's that simples x
The world is your oyster, you are a single attractive female on a swinging site.....
You have more power than you know..... So if you only want meet two guys , carry on... But it’s like having a Lamborghini and driving it at 20 mph....
So Please try to use all this power you have now until you hit 30 , it’s all down hill after that...."
Oh my Christ..... Jesus wept..... seriously I have no words. If you think women ‘lose value’ after 30 then you my boy have not lived. |
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"This really has got heated, and I'f I'm honest also a tad unbelievable.
OP, you say you feel deceived as you believe she lied to you. Yet you are prepared to lie to her and obtain sex under false pretences to recoup "the value of your wine"?
You have also claimed in other forum posts about your educational qualifications which if true means you're not a stupid individual. Why is it so difficult to accept that people can change their mind?
Also, some of your comments on the thread, if we take them as real and not just a wind up, really don't do you any favours. Everybody deserves respect.
I really believe in karma..... she has put out bad karma in the universe by lying to me....
So I’m giving it right back to her by lying to her....
It really has nothing to do with respect... it’s all about an eye for a eye....
Honestly if she had told me she wanted monogamy from the start , I would be able to gauge how I should proceed...
But I did learn something from this thread.... not to ghost her.... so that’s a positive...
Also if someone is reading this thread, and they are not at all interested in swinging... I hope they will see the damage they can cause a person with duplicitous behavior....
Please let all potential meets know your true intentions and just don’t say what they want to hear just for a shag....
Damage???? What damage has she caused you? Oh no wait...she drank some of your wine...ffs get a grip it seems you are hellbent on some sort of revenge....why??
She's made her intentions clear, its not what you want so grow up, be a man and leave her to find what she's seeking.
I’m curious if you would post the same things, if the roles were reversed and a woman posted this?
Yes my answer would still be the same.
You are making a drama out of nothing.
God forbid someone changes their mind on what they want or what they are looking for!
So for context ..... it would be perfectly ok for a man on a swinging site that wants to explore the swinging lifestyle , to tell a woman on a swinging site looking for a monogamous relationship....
That he isn’t really a swinger , he wants a monogamous relationship. Then gets her to have sex with him...
Then the next conversation with her , he says “ Sorry love , I’m not looking for monogamy.... I’ve changed my mind and I really want to explore swinging “
You find this behavior perfectly acceptable?
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If she choose still to have sex with him then that's her choice.
As for your last statement you did not include that in your opening post.
Still my opinion remains the same. She changed her mind. Get over it! |
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So for context ..... it would be perfectly ok for a man on a swinging site that wants to explore the swinging lifestyle , to tell a woman on a swinging site looking for a monogamous relationship....
Yes perfectly ok |
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"This really has got heated, and I'f I'm honest also a tad unbelievable.
OP, you say you feel deceived as you believe she lied to you. Yet you are prepared to lie to her and obtain sex under false pretences to recoup "the value of your wine"?
You have also claimed in other forum posts about your educational qualifications which if true means you're not a stupid individual. Why is it so difficult to accept that people can change their mind?
Also, some of your comments on the thread, if we take them as real and not just a wind up, really don't do you any favours. Everybody deserves respect.
I really believe in karma..... she has put out bad karma in the universe by lying to me....
So I’m giving it right back to her by lying to her....
It really has nothing to do with respect... it’s all about an eye for a eye....
Honestly if she had told me she wanted monogamy from the start , I would be able to gauge how I should proceed...
But I did learn something from this thread.... not to ghost her.... so that’s a positive...
Also if someone is reading this thread, and they are not at all interested in swinging... I hope they will see the damage they can cause a person with duplicitous behavior....
Please let all potential meets know your true intentions and just don’t say what they want to hear just for a shag....
Damage???? What damage has she caused you? Oh no wait...she drank some of your wine...ffs get a grip it seems you are hellbent on some sort of revenge....why??
She's made her intentions clear, its not what you want so grow up, be a man and leave her to find what she's seeking.
I’m curious if you would post the same things, if the roles were reversed and a woman posted this?
Yes my answer would still be the same.
You are making a drama out of nothing.
God forbid someone changes their mind on what they want or what they are looking for!
So for context ..... it would be perfectly ok for a man on a swinging site that wants to explore the swinging lifestyle , to tell a woman on a swinging site looking for a monogamous relationship....
That he isn’t really a swinger , he wants a monogamous relationship. Then gets her to have sex with him...
Then the next conversation with her , he says “ Sorry love , I’m not looking for monogamy.... I’ve changed my mind and I really want to explore swinging “
You find this behavior perfectly acceptable?
"
The site isn’t just for swingers though so you can’t make rules about who’s allowed to be on here and who isn’t.
People are allowed to change their mind.
Lying to get laid is an arsehole thing to do- either sex. But it’s always going to happen.
I wouldn’t let it bother you, your clear about what you want so just find someone else  x |
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"What are you doing on a swinging site ?
I always looked at the swinging lifestyle as a candy shop.... You enter the candy shop to try all the candy, not try bubble gum and walkout...
Don’t people think it’s disingenuous to pretend to be a swinger if you really are looking for monogamy?
The reason I’m asking this question is someone I met asked me to be exclusive with them... Not like a swinging couple, but a dating monogamous relationship...
I feel like she is out of order and a liar...."
Think it’s a bit harsh calling her a liar... as we are all human and emotional and things change.. I presume not every couple or single are always going to be swingers tbh.. ideals and attitude may change to move away from the lifestyle... and if I have read anything about the lifestyle it’s communication between couples as things change... she obviously felt she had something special with you... |
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"So for context ..... it would be perfectly ok for a man on a swinging site that wants to explore the swinging lifestyle , to tell a woman on a swinging site looking for a monogamous relationship....
That he isn’t really a swinger , he wants a monogamous relationship. Then gets her to have sex with him...
Then the next conversation with her , he says “ Sorry love , I’m not looking for monogamy.... I’ve changed my mind and I really want to explore swinging “
You find this behavior perfectly acceptable?
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But men DO do this all the time!
Lady: im looking for a fwb long term
Bloke: yeah me too i want a fwb
*they meet, they fuck*
Lady: so same time next week?
Bloke: nah i want to see someone else now
Lady: but what happened to long term fwb?
Bloke: i prefer nsa but knew you wouldnt meet me if i said that, fwb not really my thing.
Bloke do pull the same antics.
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"So for context ..... it would be perfectly ok for a man on a swinging site that wants to explore the swinging lifestyle , to tell a woman on a swinging site looking for a monogamous relationship....
That he isn’t really a swinger , he wants a monogamous relationship. Then gets her to have sex with him...
Then the next conversation with her , he says “ Sorry love , I’m not looking for monogamy.... I’ve changed my mind and I really want to explore swinging “
You find this behavior perfectly acceptable?
But men DO do this all the time!
Lady: im looking for a fwb long term
Bloke: yeah me too i want a fwb
*they meet, they fuck*
Lady: so same time next week?
Bloke: nah i want to see someone else now
Lady: but what happened to long term fwb?
Bloke: i prefer nsa but knew you wouldnt meet me if i said that, fwb not really my thing.
Bloke do pull the same antics.
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i dont think its the same, i think there is genuine difference to say this scenario is worse...
agreeing to a fwb relationship or a monogamous one to have sex with someone as a one off is dangles the promise of a future that never materialises , and it can leave the person questioning what is wrong with them and damage their ability to trust people
agreeing to a one off but wanting something more exclusive doesn’t create any damage for the other person , if they want to stop at 1 they stop ... they are not being tricked into something they didn’t want because they can stop at any time
if the woman had pretended to want a swinging relationship then thats a different matter ... she has led him along ... but reading the thread it seems like he inferred that himself by what site she was on and the fact she had fantasies ... there is no obligation to act out your fantasies yet it seems this is what he thought the expensive wine was buying him so now he has buyers remorse |
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"It's my body and mind.
I meet who I want to meet it's my choice.
I only meet 2 people who i want to meet as me personally I only want them.if that's monogamy then so be it but it's my choice.
I come here for chats and giggles.
We all should have our choices where ever we are and what ever were doing.
It's that simples x
The world is your oyster, you are a single attractive female on a swinging site.....
You have more power than you know..... So if you only want meet two guys , carry on... But it’s like having a Lamborghini and driving it at 20 mph....
So Please try to use all this power you have now until you hit 30 , it’s all down hill after that....
Oh my Christ..... Jesus wept..... seriously I have no words. If you think women ‘lose value’ after 30 then you my boy have not lived."
No , I didn’t say women lose their value after 30..
I said “ She will lose her power after 30 “
There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....
So her power as a 30 year old will diminish....
I speak from experience... I started this lifestyle at 19-20. I was a superstar , then after 30 it’s been all downhill.........
So I am a cautionary tale.... |
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"I reckon the whole going downhill thing for you might have more to do with your immature comments, lack of respect and crap attitude as opposed to your age."
I couldnt have put this better myself. Says 33 but acting and coming across like a 13 year old brat |
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"It's my body and mind.
I meet who I want to meet it's my choice.
I only meet 2 people who i want to meet as me personally I only want them.if that's monogamy then so be it but it's my choice.
I come here for chats and giggles.
We all should have our choices where ever we are and what ever were doing.
It's that simples x
The world is your oyster, you are a single attractive female on a swinging site.....
You have more power than you know..... So if you only want meet two guys , carry on... But it’s like having a Lamborghini and driving it at 20 mph....
So Please try to use all this power you have now until you hit 30 , it’s all down hill after that....
Oh my Christ..... Jesus wept..... seriously I have no words. If you think women ‘lose value’ after 30 then you my boy have not lived.
No , I didn’t say women lose their value after 30..
I said “ She will lose her power after 30 “
There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....
So her power as a 30 year old will diminish....
I speak from experience... I started this lifestyle at 19-20. I was a superstar , then after 30 it’s been all downhill.........
So I am a cautionary tale...."
Where's the facepalm emoji when you need it........I think someone's had enough of fab for one day! |
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"It's my body and mind.
I meet who I want to meet it's my choice.
I only meet 2 people who i want to meet as me personally I only want them.if that's monogamy then so be it but it's my choice.
I come here for chats and giggles.
We all should have our choices where ever we are and what ever were doing.
It's that simples x
The world is your oyster, you are a single attractive female on a swinging site.....
You have more power than you know..... So if you only want meet two guys , carry on... But it’s like having a Lamborghini and driving it at 20 mph....
So Please try to use all this power you have now until you hit 30 , it’s all down hill after that....
Oh my Christ..... Jesus wept..... seriously I have no words. If you think women ‘lose value’ after 30 then you my boy have not lived.
No , I didn’t say women lose their value after 30..
I said “ She will lose her power after 30 “
There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....
So her power as a 30 year old will diminish....
I speak from experience... I started this lifestyle at 19-20. I was a superstar , then after 30 it’s been all downhill.........
So I am a cautionary tale...."
Utter crap ... that’s not what you meant in the slightest!!!! Power means attractiveness - who the hell do you hang out with that has this attitude? Seriously you sound like a 13 year old. |
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"I reckon the whole going downhill thing for you might have more to do with your immature comments, lack of respect and crap attitude as opposed to your age.
I couldnt have put this better myself. Says 33 but acting and coming across like a 13 year old brat"
So what he’s saying is he’s less attractive at 30 ... attitude not age is definitely the reason |
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"It's my body and mind.
I meet who I want to meet it's my choice.
I only meet 2 people who i want to meet as me personally I only want them.if that's monogamy then so be it but it's my choice.
I come here for chats and giggles.
We all should have our choices where ever we are and what ever were doing.
It's that simples x
The world is your oyster, you are a single attractive female on a swinging site.....
You have more power than you know..... So if you only want meet two guys , carry on... But it’s like having a Lamborghini and driving it at 20 mph....
So Please try to use all this power you have now until you hit 30 , it’s all down hill after that...."
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"It's my body and mind.
I meet who I want to meet it's my choice.
I only meet 2 people who i want to meet as me personally I only want them.if that's monogamy then so be it but it's my choice.
I come here for chats and giggles.
We all should have our choices where ever we are and what ever were doing.
It's that simples x
The world is your oyster, you are a single attractive female on a swinging site.....
You have more power than you know..... So if you only want meet two guys , carry on... But it’s like having a Lamborghini and driving it at 20 mph....
So Please try to use all this power you have now until you hit 30 , it’s all down hill after that....
Ohh, and I was about to message you for a meet. Best not then "
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"It's my body and mind.
I meet who I want to meet it's my choice.
I only meet 2 people who i want to meet as me personally I only want them.if that's monogamy then so be it but it's my choice.
I come here for chats and giggles.
We all should have our choices where ever we are and what ever were doing.
It's that simples x
The world is your oyster, you are a single attractive female on a swinging site.....
You have more power than you know..... So if you only want meet two guys , carry on... But it’s like having a Lamborghini and driving it at 20 mph....
So Please try to use all this power you have now until you hit 30 , it’s all down hill after that....
Ohh, and I was about to message you for a meet. Best not then
I bet you are well devastated "
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" say that again OP.
So there you go oh ... can't make a wife out of a ho oh.... "
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"It's my body and mind.
I meet who I want to meet it's my choice.
I only meet 2 people who i want to meet as me personally I only want them.if that's monogamy then so be it but it's my choice.
I come here for chats and giggles.
We all should have our choices where ever we are and what ever were doing.
It's that simples x
The world is your oyster, you are a single attractive female on a swinging site.....
You have more power than you know..... So if you only want meet two guys , carry on... But it’s like having a Lamborghini and driving it at 20 mph....
So Please try to use all this power you have now until you hit 30 , it’s all down hill after that....
Oh my Christ..... Jesus wept..... seriously I have no words. If you think women ‘lose value’ after 30 then you my boy have not lived.
No , I didn’t say women lose their value after 30..
I said “ She will lose her power after 30 “
There will always be a new hot young 20 something single female coming up the ranks , that is the new shiny toy in the swinging world.....
So her power as a 30 year old will diminish....
I speak from experience... I started this lifestyle at 19-20. I was a superstar , then after 30 it’s been all downhill.........
So I am a cautionary tale...."
We don't lose power. We move on to men who appreciate the maturer woman.
If you only want women of a certain age, and they only want men their own age you will struggle.
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