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Genuine people who looking forward to meeting when possible
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree what your say but I have I have a sneaky feeling that the lady’s get far many more messages than the chaps and I guess sometimes it can be near on impossible for them to reply to them all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I no messages can be the same but always lovely to have banter with someone but do agree people are fed up not knowing when we can meet up again "
It's a sex site, not a chat site. I'm not here to 'banter' to people.
If they don't reply see it as a positive.  |
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98% of here is a complete waste of communication. Lots of new profiles filling in lockdown time with no fear of having to follow it throug, everyone we have met barring two people are those we know from clubs. Reason we don’t message back very often as not to waste anymore of each other’s time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A response is appreciated, 100%, but looking for meets at the min is a definate no no, so as you said even if its a no, if the question was. "can we meet?"
The no response is implied |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Symptom of the current situation. Most conversations get to the point where the next step would be a social, then just dry up.
Or go onto kik, where conversation goes to die lol.
I have managed to maintain conversation with a handful of nice people. Mostly couples I’m interested in socialising with at a club once lockdown is over.
Other than that the forums are way more fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi been on here 8 years on and off met some lovely genuine people, just lately please on here have become so rude. cost nothing to reply even if it's no thanks "
Wow waiting 8 years for a reply.. glad you moved on.. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
The vast majority of messages tend to be of the "hi" "what you up to?" type, which really doesn't inspire a response. Most clearly haven't bothered to read my profile & are just messaging any female who is online in their general location. If I bother to reply it usually becomes obvious very quickly that they are just wanting someone to provide them with wank material. There are also a few who are still looking for meets which just gets them reported & blocked.
There is a tiny minority who send a decent first message & a conversation begins but they are few & far between. |
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Our profile says we're not into mail ping pong normally. And feel it's pointless chatting now. It will go off the boil by the time meets come again.
We've blocked one guy today. Just constant one liners about, when where and how we will meet. We didn't reply to most of his messages. He never got the hint, so he's earnt himself a block. |
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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago
Cheltenham, Gloucestershire |
"The vast majority of messages tend to be of the "hi" "what you up to?" type, which really doesn't inspire a response. Most clearly haven't bothered to read my profile & are just messaging any female who is online in their general location. If I bother to reply it usually becomes obvious very quickly that they are just wanting someone to provide them with wank material. There are also a few who are still looking for meets which just gets them reported & blocked.
There is a tiny minority who send a decent first message & a conversation begins but they are few & far between. "
This! 
I'm generally polite and will reply to anyone who has taken the time to send an interesting, considered message, even if it's a polite 'no thank you'. I have some very interesting, stimulation conversations with people who live so far away that's it's very unlikely that we'll meet, but I don't feel obligated to talk to just anyone.
If people are obviously messaging because they're just bored or horny, I'm not interested - I don't have the time, or the inclination to provide people with entertainment, I'll give their message as much time and consideration as they did when they wrote it, and simply delete it...which I think is reasonable.
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We try and reply to all our messages, we look at it like. Treat others as you would like to be treated. Even if it is a simple no we are not interested, or as it is at the moment sorry not looking for any guys at the moment due to the fact that we are not meeting till things get back to some sort of normality,, whatever/whenever that is going to be, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We try and reply to all our messages, we look at it like. Treat others as you would like to be treated. Even if it is a simple no we are not interested, or as it is at the moment sorry not looking for any guys at the moment due to the fact that we are not meeting till things get back to some sort of normality,, whatever/whenever that is going to be, "
How many messages do you get? |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"cost nothing to reply even if it's no thanks "
Take how many messages you've received today and multiply it by two minutes for each, to check the profile and reply "no thanks". I'll guess you'll have maybe two minutes. Women can get hundreds of messages each day, couples can get lots (we might get thirty if we upload a new pic). Thirty times two minutes means an hour of replying, then the added time of replying to the "why not" messages.
FAB FAQ says no reply means no thanks, but those that can't be bothered to read profiles also can't be bothered to read the FAQs either. |
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"The vast majority of messages tend to be of the "hi" "what you up to?" type, which really doesn't inspire a response. Most clearly haven't bothered to read my profile & are just messaging any female who is online in their general location. If I bother to reply it usually becomes obvious very quickly that they are just wanting someone to provide them with wank material. There are also a few who are still looking for meets which just gets them reported & blocked.
There is a tiny minority who send a decent first message & a conversation begins but they are few & far between. "
100% agree |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"I no messages can be the same but always lovely to have banter with someone but do agree people are fed up not knowing when we can meet up again
It's a sex site, not a chat site. I'm not here to 'banter' to people.
If they don't reply see it as a positive. "
Lol .. but you are chatting here ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi been on here 8 years on and off met some lovely genuine people, just lately please on here have become so rude. cost nothing to reply even if it's no thanks "
Some days I can get over 100 messages. I don’t even have many photos I’m public view, so I can’t even imagine what it’s like for others lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I no messages can be the same but always lovely to have banter with someone but do agree people are fed up not knowing when we can meet up again "
Probably best to stick to the forums for banter until meeting becomes realistic once more. |
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Yeh, much the same...
never wanted to fuck the whole site. I have used it on and off for 10 years... have missed the social side / occasional meets...
being a guy, the excitement of a 500 / 800 mile drive for a night of fun or even better, a local meet...
I’ve Met some great people... all like minded...when the time’s right to meet again, will look forward to it!
Right now, videos will need to do |
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By *andboyMan
over a year ago
Calne |
One site I was on years ago had a thanks but no thanks button. I always thought that it was better to receive that than nothing.
I would know not to bother them and the message didn't just get lost in the masses. BTW. I would always send a decent message. |
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I started chatting to a lot of people during lockdown 1.0. Most slipped away into the shadows of the internet. There were a few that remained who I met when it was safe to do so.
The same pattern is emerging again. Since this lockdown started I’ve been chatting to lots of new people who have shown an interest in meeting. Let’s see how that pans out at the end of this lockdown. |
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