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That darn wink button

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is it me or are winks as effective as stevie wonders reading glasses?

Does anyone really care that much that they've been winked at or is it unless it's followed by a message its delete or block? Is there any point to it at all??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rather a wink than a random stupid friend request. I wink back and then its been the start of communications. I also wink first if i like what i see

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By *anther and gothic angelCouple over a year ago

fairy land

I think winks aren't very good on their own. If someone winks and then there's no message I just wonder why they winked. Random friend requests are ignored.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Rather a wink than a random stupid friend request. I wink back and then its been the start of communications. I also wink first if i like what i see

We’re the same on this

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I like winks - they are kinda like smiling at someone who takes your fancy in a pub or somewhere

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By *uenevereWoman over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I like winks - they are kinda like smiling at someone who takes your fancy in a pub or somewhere

Exactly this.

You can choose to wink back, message or ignore them, depending on the level of interest.

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By *aomilatteCouple over a year ago

Midlands

We've had meets that have started with a wink, so they must work sometimes.

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By *ustfun009Man over a year ago

oxford

Waste of time...not many respond to a wink..but i like getting them

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I use to look at who winked at me. In fact it's how a few meets came about was from a wink at the very start. Now though I rarely even look at them anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Id wish winks were used for that initial attraction then if getting a wink back move on messaging, would save a load of time on writing mails and you were never their type anyway.

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By *xhib12Man over a year ago

Blyth

I use winks as an initial icebreaker and I explain this on my profile. I wouldn't normally follow up with a message unless I get a wink back. Like simeone else has already said, it's like an initial smile when you see someone for the first time. Maybe if more people used them this way it would prevent a lot of unnecessary messages.

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By *ouis CyphreMan over a year ago

The Midlands

I'm a fan of the wink. Bring it on my lovelies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like winks. If I like the person back I will then wink them and possibly send a message along with it.

What I don’t like is random friend request from people. Those I ignore but leave so they can’t be sent again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like winks rather than a stupid remark

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