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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb.
How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb.
How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. "
In his hotel room
I should be so lucky
I usually end up paying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb.
How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this.
In his hotel room
I should be so lucky
I usually end up paying" . [qoute]. That’s just bad manners and no respect for you. It’s not right you had to pay for the room what a twat doing that to you I would never do that [\qoute ] |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb.
How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this.
In his hotel room
I should be so lucky
I usually end up paying. [qoute]. That’s just bad manners and no respect for you. It’s not right you had to pay for the room what a twat doing that to you I would never do that [\qoute ]"
Thats lovely
But ive heard it all before
Many times |
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Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb.
How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. it's either 50/50 or if I'm there with work, I (work) pay
In his hotel room
I should be so lucky
I usually end up paying"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes a few times
met someone after pic swapping and a brief chat when I got there I had to make a excuse to leave
Another time I did a random hotel meet I had seen his pic before but when I got there it was a lot smaller than expected and another time I went after being out and having a few drinks it was ok but when I started to sober I didn't see him the same and when I left blocked him lol so I wouldn't recommend it but there has been some good experiences also so don't been to put off haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have stayed over in nice hotels and invited fab people to have a saucy hour or 3 ....what goes on in the hotel stays there ... "
Not done a hotel meet is so long, do they still give extra sheets for the bed |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
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Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb.
How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. "
I travel a lot working so stop in hotels regularly. I have met couple's but never a single woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We discovered the joys of meeting Fab friends in a hotel just before lockdown..kicking ourselves for spending years not trying and now we sit here frustrated waiting to thoroughly get to grips with hotel meets
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By *nique_78Woman
over a year ago
Home, somewhere in Norfolk |
"As if they made you pay
Are you implying what i said isnt true?"
I think he meant, cheap bleeps making you pay for it all rather than themselves or at very least split the cost hun |
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Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb.
How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this.
In his hotel room
I should be so lucky
I usually end up paying"
You’re picking the wrong guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done both, where women or couples have come my room, or I've gone to their room. If it's the first time we've met that I always meet for a social chat in the bar to make sure everyone is comfortable. I usually do that in any event, as it adds to the anticipation. I like the anonymity of hotels for some reason. It makes things more adventurous. |
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Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb.
How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. "
All the time. I only meet in hotels or clubs |
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Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb.
How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this.
In his hotel room
I should be so lucky
I usually end up paying"
50-50 is good, or hotel room in exchange for sex food can work.
Obviously I accept tips for my performance which are counted separately |
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I have arranged many hotel meets over the years through Fab, and other sites, but I’ve never had anyone visit me in a hotel while I’ve been working away. I’ve stayed in Liverpool and Birmingham several times, in quality hotels, but never been fortunate to find any local Fabsters to join me. The Polar Opposite to couples visiting the Lakes and sending me booty calls at 1am lol...... |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish)London |
"I have arranged many hotel meets over the years through Fab, and other sites, but I’ve never had anyone visit me in a hotel while I’ve been working away. I’ve stayed in Liverpool and Birmingham several times, in quality hotels, but never been fortunate to find any local Fabsters to join me. The Polar Opposite to couples visiting the Lakes and sending me booty calls at 1am lol......"
Probably because of your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always met in the bar first...would never head straight to his room
Thats a good sensible approach
And even then there would be no guarantee for play."
I agree if the connection ain't there what's the point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have hosted 15 couples over the years in my hotel room , I always pay , and have a social drink before just to make sure we are all ok with boundaries etc , some I have met on several occasions. |
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"I have arranged many hotel meets over the years through Fab, and other sites, but I’ve never had anyone visit me in a hotel while I’ve been working away. I’ve stayed in Liverpool and Birmingham several times, in quality hotels, but never been fortunate to find any local Fabsters to join me. The Polar Opposite to couples visiting the Lakes and sending me booty calls at 1am lol......
Probably because of your profile."
How do you mean “because of your profile”? I just figured Liverpool and Birmingham only have gay men looking to meet....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had plenty of hotel meets. I much prefer them. Never have I just gone to a complete stranger's hotel room though. Way too much pressure! They could look nothing like their pics, or there could be no attraction.
I've met guy's in their hotel bar or nearby for a social. All being well, back to their hotel room |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've had plenty of hotel meets. I much prefer them. Never have I just gone to a complete stranger's hotel room though. Way too much pressure! They could look nothing like their pics, or there could be no attraction.
I've met guy's in their hotel bar or nearby for a social. All being well, back to their hotel room "
Very lucky guys |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've had plenty of offers to do it, just not taken them up on it cause of the current situation going on "
Tbh the situation does not help at all, I think it would be impossible there someone still at the front desk etc and atm it's may just workmen here so a nice ladie or couple just walking in mite seem a little suspect |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Yes a few times
met someone after pic swapping and a brief chat when I got there I had to make a excuse to leave
Another time I did a random hotel meet I had seen his pic before but when I got there it was a lot smaller than expected and another time I went after being out and having a few drinks it was ok but when I started to sober I didn't see him the same and when I left blocked him lol so I wouldn't recommend it but there has been some good experiences also so don't been to put off haha"
You have hotel dimension size requirements? As if things aren't tricky enough already! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had a number of hotel meets over the years,meets at their hotel room when they were visiting Belfast,and meets at our hotel room,whilst we have visited different cities.We both look forward to enjoying these evenings again when safe to do so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hotel meets definitely work best for us, we often have a very nice hotel in London or Essex.
Something very sexy about the neutral privacy of a hotel. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did this once, it was bloody hot, but I’m not sure I’d do it again. Obviously I’d checked him out very carefully beforehand, but actually it is a risk. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
My first meet off Fab I think. She was in Eastbourne for a meeting and figured it was just down the road from here and wondered if I felt like popping over. I don't know if she was just geographically challenged or just faked her naivety. Anyway I made the 1.5 hour trip after she asked me out of the blue one evening. We had only exchanged a few brief conversations over kik on an irregular basis so it was a big risk for both of us.
I turned up and she opened the door in her lingerie and we kissed immediately. The meet was great.
Later when I got home she tried to sell me life insurance lol. I said I'll bear it in mind. Never heard back! |
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Not something I've had the opportunity to do due to working ridiculous shifts.
But I've change jobs now
A drink in the bar and back to his room if we click. Sounds fun!
But I won't be doing the latter until we're able to do the former. God, I miss having a drink in a bar! |
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I think only once. He was a guest in the same hotel, we met at the bar and enjoyed more time in his room than mine.
Otherwise it's always a booking in my name, so that I have reliability and more safety options |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've stayed in a luxury hotel in Belgium who cater for people who like overnight play dates.. "
How does a hotel cater for an overnight play date,differ from any other overnight stay ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe mirrored ceilings and a sex swing and queening stool in every room ? "
Not sure what a queening stool is,but certainly love the idea of a room with a sex swing |
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We don’t mind this at all. Especially if it’s a ‘blind’ meet where we’ve not had a social drink some time beforehand.
If the guys already in the room and is staying there anyway, then there are hard feelings if we decide he’s not for us and walk away without playing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enjoy a hotel meet/date. Often use for my first meets. There's a certain thrill to playing in a hotel. "
Totally agree with this. It makes for a fantastic night out with a couple or lady. I miss hotel meets! I had a great meet with a couple where we had drinks in the bar then the wife and I went up to my room. Shortly after the husband let himself in to find us in a 69 on the bed. He quite enjoyed that scenario and so did we! |
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"We don’t mind this at all. Especially if it’s a ‘blind’ meet where we’ve not had a social drink some time beforehand.
If the guys already in the room and is staying there anyway, then there are hard feelings if we decide he’s not for us and walk away without playing. "
Guys surely you are not turning up for a meet without establishing beforehand that they are right for you ?!! |
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To be clear, we almost always have a social drink before we look to meet someone. That way we know no-one is wasting any time or money on a hotel.
But occasionally pre covid we’ve seen someone is staying local in a hotel, or been contacted by someone that’s staying local for work. Then we don’t mind so much as they are they anyway. |
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By *ormladMan
over a year ago
Kilmarnock |
"We don’t mind this at all. Especially if it’s a ‘blind’ meet where we’ve not had a social drink some time beforehand.
If the guys already in the room and is staying there anyway, then there are hard feelings if we decide he’s not for us and walk away without playing. "
Very true should not be any hard feelings. After all at the end of the day it is a social..and respect the decision.. |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
Norfolk East anglia |
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Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb.
How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. "
I have he was here on business |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb.
How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this.
I have he was here on business "
Naughty |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
We have but we had met the guy previously, usually if we meet a guy it’s at our place or our hotel room but wouldn’t rule it out in the future if we get to meeting again but get it’s more of an issue of safety for single girls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've stayed in a luxury hotel in Belgium who cater for people who like overnight play dates..
How does a hotel cater for an overnight play date,differ from any other overnight stay ?"
Oh the bedrooms are very different |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"More like payin somewere just for a quick fuck
Prostitutionbways
No thanks
More like tacky"
It’s never a quick fuck if we are meeting it’s for the evening and we stay in a nice hotel where we can enjoy other things like swimming, sauna, jacuzzi and a big breakfast. Really don’t see how it can be classed as a form of prostitution, if it is then isn’t going out for dinner with someone before going back to their/your place for sex the same? |
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"More like payin somewere just for a quick fuck
Prostitutionbways
No thanks
More like tacky"
I use day rate hotels (in normal times) on a regular basis, to spend time with my Fabster friends. You get a room from 9am to 5pm, which includes the use of their leisure facilities, so you can sauna, swim, and jacuzzi. You can enjoy a relaxed day of intimate fun over a few hours, share lunch etc.
I’ve done similar on Friday nights aswell, you don’t have to stay over....... |
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We have arranged a hotel meet before with a certain person who is still on this site, lots of messaging back and forth until a few hours before the meet then a no show, needless to say our blocked list received another member and we vowed not to do hotel meets again unless we’ve already met previously.
You live and learn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have arranged a hotel meet before with a certain person who is still on this site, lots of messaging back and forth until a few hours before the meet then a no show, needless to say our blocked list received another member and we vowed not to do hotel meets again unless we’ve already met previously.
You live and learn"
Don't let one numbnut put you off having hotel fun.
We have had some great hotel meets over the years(vids uploaded today of a meet in the past shows that )
And yes we have had disappointments
One guy we had been chatting to for some time arranged to meet us in his hotel room,couple of years back.We did our usual checks,what hotel you in?what's your room number?
We then phone hotel reception n ask to put through to the room,just to be sure he's where he says he is.
Anyway,all good,send him a text,say we are on our way,get to hotel we phone to say we are here,no answer,phone the room,no response.
Thought maybe in the shower or whatever?
We wait 40 minutes before we get really pissed off n go home,raging.
3 hours later the lying cheeky fker texts to say he fell asleep n would we like to come now
That cheeky fker still messages from time to time asking for another chance?
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Majority of my meets are at hotels. Because I don't travel, I often cover the cost. It's just fair thing to do,when someone has to travel. Sometimes we split the bill if we are both local.
Me and my regular always share the cost, even tho he drives over 1h everytime to see me.
Both parts meet for the same reason. I'm not here to get treated to freebies. I'm here to get good dick. |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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"I’ve done this lots - I’ve had plenty of women insist on a hotel actually as more private/discreet and safer due to the need to book etc
And I always pay - some men are shockingly tight!"
Or they don’t want it appearing on their credit card bill? |
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"We have arranged a hotel meet before with a certain person who is still on this site, lots of messaging back and forth until a few hours before the meet then a no show, needless to say our blocked list received another member and we vowed not to do hotel meets again unless we’ve already met previously.
You live and learn"
I’ve only had one of my lady friends cancel on me, but fortunately another of my friends had also been cancelled on for the same night, so we teamed up for the best mutual ‘Plan b’ ever
Personally, I’ve found couples to be the most unreliable for hotel meets, so only consider visiting them at their home now, unless I’ve met them previously, so know for sure they are genuine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More like payin somewere just for a quick fuck
Prostitutionbways
No thanks
More like tacky"
My fucks are never quick
Some people don't like meeting at home because they have grown up kids who may pop home, nosy neighbours or just like to keep Fab and their personal lives separate.
I love nothing more than making a night of it in a gorgeous hotel room with a hot, attentive guy (who I know and trust). Huge bath or hot tub, breakfast in bed the next day, no interruptions.
A regular meet of mine off here took me to the most beautiful Hotel in the Lake District one year for my Birthday. FAR from tacky |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"More like payin somewere just for a quick fuck
Prostitutionbways
No thanks
More like tacky
My fucks are never quick
Some people don't like meeting at home because they have grown up kids who may pop home, nosy neighbours or just like to keep Fab and their personal lives separate.
I love nothing more than making a night of it in a gorgeous hotel room with a hot, attentive guy (who I know and trust). Huge bath or hot tub, breakfast in bed the next day, no interruptions.
A regular meet of mine off here took me to the most beautiful Hotel in the Lake District one year for my Birthday. FAR from tacky "
Well who ever is getting the chance to meet you should defo be making the most of the time they get with you |
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In 25+ years of playing, I've never had a hotel meet - yet...
....only ever had a couple of occasions when I stayed overnight in one for work - didn't manage to arrange any meets in advance, nor any spontaneous ones either time...
....but, when things have returned to something more 'normal' later in the year, hopefully that will change - a couple of couples have expressed interest in my visiting their hotel rooms when they're down here on holiday! |
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Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb.
How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this. "
Absolutely no way.....not safe.... |
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"More like payin somewere just for a quick fuck
Prostitutionbways
No thanks
More like tacky
My fucks are never quick
Mind u she had slept about do
Some people don't like meeting at home because they have grown up kids who may pop home, nosy neighbours or just like to keep Fab and their personal lives separate.
I love nothing more than making a night of it in a gorgeous hotel room with a hot, attentive guy (who I know and trust). Huge bath or hot tub, breakfast in bed the next day, no interruptions.
A regular meet of mine off here took me to the most beautiful Hotel in the Lake District one year for my Birthday. FAR from tacky
Well who ever is getting the chance to meet you should defo be making the most of the time they get with you "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously not in the current climate. But I will be working away in Leeds for a few weeks in Feb.
How many of you brave people on this site have gone and meet a guy in his hotel room? Back when times allowed this.
Absolutely no way.....not safe...."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first fab meet we didn't have a social. He came to my room in my hotel, at the time I requested and did the things to me that I told him to do. It was amazing. But, realised how naive I was and how really unsafe/dangerous it could have been. So, since then social first then hotel. :D x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have done a few hotel meets pre-covid, but have always done a social meet in a public place first. I wouldn’t expect a lady to insist on anything less unless they were trained in martial arts or a serial killer, and even then ... |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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Interesting to read comments, I have only ever met one lady in hotel, being bit old fashioned romantic I would have never asked a lady to meet in a hotel normally, would meet in public place. Surface to to say that meet turned into a few days and now few years |
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"Have done a few hotel meets pre-covid, but have always done a social meet in a public place first. I wouldn’t expect a lady to insist on anything less unless they were trained in martial arts or a serial killer, and even then ... "
I really should start doing socials and stop meeting in nice hotels haha |
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I've had several hotel meets, but 2 really good ones. One where they came to my hotel after several days of chat and planning.
The other I went to there's. This was a right place right time, about an hour chat and i drove 10 minutes to their hotel.
Perfect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had lovely times in nice hotels with two friends before lockdown.
All ways do a social first and it's a big turn on as definitely lovely big beds and hours of fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a relatively new experience for me. I was introduced to the practice of day use hotels by a very beautiful, incredibly sexy and very dear fab friend. It enabled us both to spend unrushed, relaxing and incredibly intimate days together where we connected in so many ways.
It was far from a sordid, quick shag as someone here suggested, and has greatly expanded the opportunities this lifestyle has to offer, for many reasons.
But to book and pay for a hotel, blind, without a social meet first? No thank you! |
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"I've had several hotel meets, but 2 really good ones. One where they came to my hotel after several days of chat and planning.
The other I went to there's. This was a right place right time, about an hour chat and i drove 10 minutes to their hotel.
Perfect"
I wonder if that's us? took my wife to this man's hotel,she had a great time as did I watching,we had met at ours before,so knew him well,but my wife decided it would be horny to meet in the bar then back to his room. |
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