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Are any older women interested in 20 something men?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve been on this site for a while looking for an older woman to meet up with but I’m yet to find anyone interested in guys under 25, is anyone on this site interested in guys much younger than them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regardless of your age op I personally think that you and indeed anyone will struggle to get a meet at this present time and for rather a long time but keep the faith youngling!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the answer is in the question. Saying you are looking for older or mature women doesn't make a women feel good "
Just out of interest, why not?
My preference is generally for women that are older than me. I have the age range on my profile.
Of course, there are exceptions, but I do have this preference. I'm not sure why it should make a women feel bad about herself, if a younger man is interested in her.
Also, worth pointing out that *generally* women prefer older men.
Should this younger chap feel bad because older women aren't interested in him? If indeed they are not... |
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"I think the answer is in the question. Saying you are looking for older or mature women doesn't make a women feel good
Just out of interest, why not?
My preference is generally for women that are older than me. I have the age range on my profile.
Of course, there are exceptions, but I do have this preference. I'm not sure why it should make a women feel bad about herself, if a younger man is interested in her.
Also, worth pointing out that *generally* women prefer older men.
Should this younger chap feel bad because older women aren't interested in him? If indeed they are not..."
I'm not bothered about being described as older or mature. I genuinely prefer that to being called a girl and I *am* older than lots of people on here.  .
There is absolutely nothing I can do about my age and it's nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. |
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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago
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I think you misunderstood. Many women are sensitive about their age. Teens want to look like they are 20 somthing, 40s want to look in their 30s/20s etc, some are happy with their age and looking their age. The point being is, best not to focus on the age when messaging initially as it can be a turn off pointing out to some women just how old they are compared to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on this site for a while looking for an older woman to meet up with but I’m yet to find anyone interested in guys under 25, is anyone on this site interested in guys much younger than them? "
What you have found is how it is.
Very very rare.
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By *amillMan
over a year ago
Warrington |
I’ll be honest, it’s all about how you approach the situation and women in general. Stop focusing on their age and making it about that, you need to show respect to them.
Women aren’t going to be interested if you just bosses over their age, treat them as you would someone your own age and I’m sure you’ll have much more success.
I’ve met ‘older’ women and chatted to a few on here, so there are definitely women who are interested in younger guys. It’s like the old saying, act your age not your shoe size  |
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Find when they message they think they are doing you a favour
The word mature makes us think of cheese
All about attraction but generally too big an age gap means convo etc very stilted
Cultural reference etc |
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I used to be a supply teacher. I taught in lots of schools. I don't meet men in their 20s cos it's possible I taught them at some point and that would just be weird.
So that's my reason!
Tbh I'd quite like to meet a bloke in his 20s if I could! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been on this site for a while looking for an older woman to meet up with but I’m yet to find anyone interested in guys under 25, is anyone on this site interested in guys much younger than them? "
There's a search facility,you can put in the ages you are looking for,you then tick a box saying you match the age they want.thar should give you your answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Physically I tend to prefer guys a lot younger. Early 20’s.
However (and I’m not saying all are like it), previous experience and recent cam/text chats has shown an overall lack of maturity, follow through, and often unhealthy attitude towards sex and women, along with a millennial sense of entitlement.
Would love to be proved wrong x |
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"Physically I tend to prefer guys a lot younger. Early 20’s.
However (and I’m not saying all are like it), previous experience and recent cam/text chats has shown an overall lack of maturity, follow through, and often unhealthy attitude towards sex and women, along with a millennial sense of entitlement.
Would love to be proved wrong x"
Thats what we find, its a shame because younger guys would have alot of success on here if they was a bit more mature about swinging, but as they say cant put a old head on young shoulders |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't focus on the age and stop just messaging every women on the site which I know you're doing don't lie lol.
I've been on this site for just over a year and only a few months a go realised just wait for them to message you. A good conversation really does go a long way. Most of them I talk too or have met in the past don't wanna talk about sex they wanna chat about there life and would much rather have a coffee and chat before even considering anything else. Good luck in your search.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Physically I tend to prefer guys a lot younger. Early 20’s.
However (and I’m not saying all are like it), previous experience and recent cam/text chats has shown an overall lack of maturity, follow through, and often unhealthy attitude towards sex and women, along with a millennial sense of entitlement.
Would love to be proved wrong x
Thats what we find, its a shame because younger guys would have alot of success on here if they was a bit more mature about swinging, but as they say cant put a old head on young shoulders "
Maybe we could swap notes if we find anyone good?  |
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Age is irrelevant. I've met young guys in their 20's who have been far more mature than some guys I've met in their 40's.
Personally it's more about the man and his personality rather than his age! So it's a big fat 'YES' from me.  |
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