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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "
No.
Do you? ? |
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "
. No
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "
Why only ladies?
And why is no one allowed to expand past the binary yes/no options? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process)
Why only ladies?
And why is no one allowed to expand past the binary yes/no options?"
Possibly because the OP wants to PM the ladies that reply in the affirmative
Thats just a guess though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.
However, it's not as simple as a yes or no. I don't want to be used by just anyone but I enjoy being Js slut/whore and being used by him during that particular role play. This is in a safe space and with us both of the understanding that out side of this particular role play we are both equals and there is mutual respect. I would not like him (or anyone else for that matter!) to abuse me though..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process)
Why only ladies?
And why is no one allowed to expand past the binary yes/no options?
Possibly because the OP wants to PM the ladies that reply in the affirmative
Thats just a guess though"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Still writing that book then OP?
No
In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women"
Nope, just curious. I've met a few women on this site who enjoy that, so was just asking a question to see those who enjoy that and those who don't. Personally for me, if a woman is into that I'll very much oblige them but of a woman isn't into that it's cool with me, but it is a massive turn on for me to know a woman is into that tbh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes.
However, it's not as simple as a yes or no. I don't want to be used by just anyone but I enjoy being Js slut/whore and being used by him during that particular role play. This is in a safe space and with us both of the understanding that out side of this particular role play we are both equals and there is mutual respect. I would not like him (or anyone else for that matter!) to abuse me though.. "
fair enough and I understand that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process)
Why only ladies?
And why is no one allowed to expand past the binary yes/no options?
Possibly because the OP wants to PM the ladies that reply in the affirmative
Thats just a guess though"
Anyone who is accustomed to me and my posts know I hardly if ever pm any women about my posts. The most I'll do is if I see an attractive lady I'll message her like I would if I saw her comment on any forum post.
Ironically enough women and couples tend to pm me about my posts lol so it's more the opposite tbh. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Still writing that book then OP?
No
In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women"
Then you miss the whole idea of fantasy and rule play , it’s exciting because it’s taboo and not real, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so) |
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "
YES! |
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "
Yes |
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "
only with the right person or persons yes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes
(but only with somone who I have built up a relationship full of trust and mutual respect, that kind of submission isn't just given to everyone and everyone) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love being a dirty wife and treated how ever my husband wants I love it when the inner beast takes over. Being completely used is the biggest turn on for sure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Still writing that book then OP?
No
In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women
Nope, just curious. I've met a few women on this site who enjoy that, so was just asking a question to see those who enjoy that and those who don't. Personally for me, if a woman is into that I'll very much oblige them but of a woman isn't into that it's cool with me, but it is a massive turn on for me to know a woman is into that tbh"
So youve met 'a few' women during covid?
Its against site rules, my love |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so) "
Exactly that was just her opinion she cannot speak for every woman just because she likes it. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say that's something you can give a simple yes or no answer to.
You're asking about behaviour modification, objectification, submission and many other aspects of kink, all of which are things that are generally best experienced with understanding and negotiation.
Could I enjoy them with the right person. Of course.
Could I enjoy them with everyone. Nope. |
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I love it when Bodger calls me a dirty little slut but anyone else that tries it will be looking at a thick ear. So its a yeah but no but yeah but no..., sorry not a binary answer. I like a bit of respect and even in the middle of a gang bang where I'm essentially being "used" I still call the shots |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes to many vanilla men around here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes to many vanilla men around here "
Is that a yes then  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes to many vanilla men around here "
lovely to know xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say that's something you can give a simple yes or no answer to.
You're asking about behaviour modification, objectification, submission and many other aspects of kink, all of which are things that are generally best experienced with understanding and negotiation.
Could I enjoy them with the right person. Of course.
Could I enjoy them with everyone. Nope. "
Right I'm not saying for everyone obviously but someone you're attracted to lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Still writing that book then OP?
No
In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women
Nope, just curious. I've met a few women on this site who enjoy that, so was just asking a question to see those who enjoy that and those who don't. Personally for me, if a woman is into that I'll very much oblige them but of a woman isn't into that it's cool with me, but it is a massive turn on for me to know a woman is into that tbh
So youve met 'a few' women during covid?
Its against site rules, my love"
There was a typo or at least a misunderstanding, when I said met I meant conversate with, but I have met with women on and off this site whenever the COVID-19 rules have been relaxed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love being a dirty wife and treated how ever my husband wants I love it when the inner beast takes over. Being completely used is the biggest turn on for sure!"
Sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Still writing that book then OP?
No
In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women
Nope, just curious. I've met a few women on this site who enjoy that, so was just asking a question to see those who enjoy that and those who don't. Personally for me, if a woman is into that I'll very much oblige them but of a woman isn't into that it's cool with me, but it is a massive turn on for me to know a woman is into that tbh
So youve met 'a few' women during covid?
Its against site rules, my love
There was a typo or at least a misunderstanding, when I said met I meant conversate with, but I have met with women on and off this site whenever the COVID-19 rules have been relaxed "
I can see that
"Met" and "conversed with" are very similar |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes to many vanilla men around here
Is that a yes then "
Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes it a yes sir from me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Still writing that book then OP?
No
In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women
Nope, just curious. I've met a few women on this site who enjoy that, so was just asking a question to see those who enjoy that and those who don't. Personally for me, if a woman is into that I'll very much oblige them but of a woman isn't into that it's cool with me, but it is a massive turn on for me to know a woman is into that tbh
So youve met 'a few' women during covid?
Its against site rules, my love
There was a typo or at least a misunderstanding, when I said met I meant conversate with, but I have met with women on and off this site whenever the COVID-19 rules have been relaxed
I can see that
"Met" and "conversed with" are very similar"
My bad lol |
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"Still writing that book then OP?
No
In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women"
So off the mark it’s unreal. But your experiences make your opinions. Yours just so happens to be single sided on that subject. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Still writing that book then OP?
No
In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women
So off the mark it’s unreal. But your experiences make your opinions. Yours just so happens to be single sided on that subject."
Yup
My experiences make my opinions
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"Still writing that book then OP?
No
In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women
So off the mark it’s unreal. But your experiences make your opinions. Yours just so happens to be single sided on that subject.
Yup
My experiences make my opinions
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But you can see why you are not considering others who are not threatened and enjoy liberated women as well? Liking one thing doesn’t mean you have to only like that one thing. Some guys may be threatened by it but I think most are excited by it as well even if they like domination play. Many different types of people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Still writing that book then OP?
No
In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women
So off the mark it’s unreal. But your experiences make your opinions. Yours just so happens to be single sided on that subject.
Yup
My experiences make my opinions
But you can see why you are not considering others who are not threatened and enjoy liberated women as well? Liking one thing doesn’t mean you have to only like that one thing. Some guys may be threatened by it but I think most are excited by it as well even if they like domination play. Many different types of people "
I used the word "often"
Did you spot that?
I also said that my view is based on experience
Quite alot of experience, as I'm old and I've had alot of sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
However, it's not as simple as a yes or no. I don't want to be used by just anyone but I enjoy being Js slut/whore and being used by him during that particular role play. This is in a safe space and with us both of the understanding that out side of this particular role play we are both equals and there is mutual respect. I would not like him (or anyone else for that matter!) to abuse me though.. "
Same here...there is still always mutal respect. It's nice to hand over control and that takes trust  |
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"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so) "
How does she know every woman likes it? I certainly don’t so she’s wrong..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "
I detest the W-Word but I don't mind Slut, depending on what context it's used in... and I also like Dirty Bitch... So yea Slut & Dirty Bitch are turn-on names for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so)
How does she know every woman likes it? I certainly don’t so she’s wrong....."
You did see where I said, that's her opinion right??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Still writing that book then OP?
No
In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so)
How does she know every woman likes it? I certainly don’t so she’s wrong.....
You did see where I said, that's her opinion right???"
What were the psychological factors? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so)
How does she know every woman likes it? I certainly don’t so she’s wrong.....
You did see where I said, that's her opinion right???
What were the psychological factors?"
I can't remember all the reasons but she mainly talked about the subservience of women in society based on the Male patriarchy system and things of that nature
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so)
How does she know every woman likes it? I certainly don’t so she’s wrong.....
You did see where I said, that's her opinion right???
What were the psychological factors?
I can't remember all the reasons but she mainly talked about the subservience of women in society based on the Male patriarchy system and things of that nature
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So, effectively we like to 'submit' because we have been conditioned by society over the years? |
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "
Nope. I am never used and abused. Its never for the pleasure of any man/ men.... if they get pleasure from my wants and desires that's just an passed bonus |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so)
How does she know every woman likes it? I certainly don’t so she’s wrong.....
You did see where I said, that's her opinion right???
What were the psychological factors?
I can't remember all the reasons but she mainly talked about the subservience of women in society based on the Male patriarchy system and things of that nature
So, effectively we like to 'submit' because we have been conditioned by society over the years?"
More or less that was her argument |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "
Definitely no! |
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I like to step into the submissive role but then I also like stepping into the dominant role and for me it is definitely about people stepping into roles for an encounter that brings the pleasure and excitement. It’s not one specific set of language or way of doing things. Sex is about communication, verbal and non verbal. Get that right within the sub/Dom scenario that is right for a particular couple or group and from my experience you can have some amazing times. Spanking, anon play, bdsm, choking, watersports, slapping, degrading language...they can all be elements. When people find a groove and embrace it together it’s a very empowering thing for everyone I find. Respect, boundaries and good communication throughout. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so) "
Your fwb told you porkies xx |
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "
Yes, although prefer slut to whore.
I'll take slut and own it to make it positive as a sexually liberated woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still writing that book then OP?
No
In my experience, men that relate to women like that are often insecure and threatened by sexually liberated women"
I respect your opinion but in my experience is that its the exact opposite. |
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"A woman who was my fwb once told me every woman secretly likes to be controlled in the bedroom by a man and be used for his pleasure. She gave me free reign to do her anything I wanted to and we did have some amazing sex, and she gave the best blow jobs tbh (but that's another story) but yea she said basically every woman secretly loves to a be slut for a guy (a guy they fancy of course) but that's just her opinion (even though she broached some psychological factors why this may be so)
How does she know every woman likes it? I certainly don’t so she’s wrong.....
You did see where I said, that's her opinion right???
What were the psychological factors?
I can't remember all the reasons but she mainly talked about the subservience of women in society based on the Male patriarchy system and things of that nature
So, effectively we like to 'submit' because we have been conditioned by society over the years?
More or less that was her argument "
Her argument is ridiculous. I’ll submit to no one....not all women are, in her opinion, subservient. |
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By *edlipsCouple
over a year ago
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "
Yes i love it but there are conditions,this is only ok if it has been arranged by me or Mr Redlips, being called a slut/whore during sex is a massive turn on for me but it wouldn't have the same effect in a situation i felt unsafe. I love to be used and abused as ling as there is respect that i am allowing it...if that makes sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes to all. Only Sam has earned the right to call me that tho. I wouldn't be called those names and treated like that if the love and respect wasn't there
R"
your pictures are amazing, I have put you on my hotlist. send me a pm ? Then I can send you pictures of me x |
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"Yes to all. Only Sam has earned the right to call me that tho. I wouldn't be called those names and treated like that if the love and respect wasn't there
R your pictures are amazing, I have put you on my hotlist. send me a pm ? Then I can send you pictures of me x"
I'll politely decline but thank you
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"No and once again men think women are for their pleasure
It’s that man in power thing
Why can’t men be used and abused by women
Why can’t men be degraded
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They are....frequently!
The femdom scene is massive
If BDSM is done with consent and with no coercion, it’s a beautiful thing. |
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"Just a simple yes or no ladies. Do you like the idea of being a slut/ whore, being used (and sometimes abused) for the pleasure of a man or men? (And as being called filthy names in the process) "
I am a slut and don't mind being called one but never ever call me a whore |
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By *igggggMan
over a year ago
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Used and abused
Just doesn't seem to sit well considering the trust you are being handed as the dom.
Its more there should be tender touches during the rough to secure with the sum in the briefest of moments your still looking after her.
Its a fine balance so use and abuse no explore together through guidance and bodily reactions yes
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By (user no longer on site)
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My ex enjoyed being called slut, whore and fuck toy. I was uncomfortable with it at first but seeing how much pleasure it gave her made me try it and then enjoy after a while. . It helped that she was a strong, independent woman who didn't think those things of herself at all. Which I partly why she said she liked it - because it felt wrong. And, of course, she also knew that I respected her enormously and clearly didn't think she was a slut or a whore or just there for my pleasure. And we didn't do it until we had been together a while and trusted each other. In those circumstances, I see nothing wrong with it at al. Clearly, it's not something I would automatically want to do or enjoy with other partners |
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"Used and abused
Just doesn't seem to sit well considering the trust you are being handed as the dom.
Its more there should be tender touches during the rough to secure with the sum in the briefest of moments your still looking after her.
Its a fine balance so use and abuse no explore together through guidance and bodily reactions yes
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Common mistake, but nobody asked for "rough" sex, a woman can enjoy name calling and being a man's sex toy and NOT enjoy being roughed up |
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"Yes.
However, it's not as simple as a yes or no. I don't want to be used by just anyone but I enjoy being Js slut/whore and being used by him during that particular role play. This is in a safe space and with us both of the understanding that out side of this particular role play we are both equals and there is mutual respect. I would not like him (or anyone else for that matter!) to abuse me though.. "
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