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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How do you all keep the spark and excitement alight in your marriage when you have so much stress going on everyday with ,jobs, kids, mortage, covid etc ?

I admit at the moment my fire has gone out but i'm desperate to relight mine

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By *all me FlikWoman over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

By focusing on what's important. Remember, the grass is always greener where you water it the most.

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By *tormchasingCouple over a year ago

Essex

"How do you all keep the spark and excitement alight in your marriage when you have so much stress going on everyday with ,jobs, kids, mortage, covid etc ?

I admit at the moment my fire has gone out but i'm desperate to relight mine"

Even when you're stressed, annoyed, bored, unhappy, un-horny (yeah I know it's not a word) - have a long cuddle and a long kiss every day.

Noone can be on top form every day but actively demonstrating love to one another even when you aren't feeling it keeps that closeness we all need in our relationships. Plus it makes you feel better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not cheating on a swingers site behind your partners back usually helps.

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By *ollycouple71Couple over a year ago

manchester

"Not cheating on a swingers site behind your partners back usually helps."

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By *atcoupleCouple over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"By focusing on what's important. Remember, the grass is always greener where you water it the most."

What a lovely saying

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By *fter dinner delightCouple over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

It’s hard but we talk about old meets and fun we have look at old pictures of meets that we have then just put our minds to it thinking about that then the juices start flowing

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By *tormchasingCouple over a year ago

Essex

"Not cheating on a swingers site behind your partners back usually helps."

I didn't see anything in the profile that said it was behind his partners back. But yeah, if it is behind her back, this is better advice than ours!

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By *uitednbooted2Man over a year ago

Berkshire

"Not cheating on a swingers site behind your partners back usually helps.

I didn't see anything in the profile that said it was behind his partners back. But yeah, if it is behind her back, this is better advice than ours! "

She always posts aggressive comments so just ignore her

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By *aomilatteCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"How do you all keep the spark and excitement alight in your marriage when you have so much stress going on everyday with ,jobs, kids, mortage, covid etc ?

I admit at the moment my fire has gone out but i'm desperate to relight mine"

We’re fortunate, we’re not stressful people. In bed, variety is the spice of life

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Be grateful that you have a partner. It is hard for widows like me with four children, unable to be intimate with anyone because of Covid restrictions.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman over a year ago

Victoria, London

I think everyone is the same, but familiarity has its purpose. Might not be the passionate sex of a new relationship, which is unsustainable, but that it shouldn't dry up completely either.

There's a fantastic video online which explains it much better than me. Look up Tony Robins - Saves a marriage.

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