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Don't dive straight down there. Tease on the way. Slowly.
Slowly.
Slowly.
Seeing a key point here?
Again tease, play with clit. Then as I'm wet, slide in and explore. You'll know when to speed up/add more from the sounds/gasps/pants/demands.
Long lost art! Bring back (decent) fingering! |
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Ive found so many like things differently so i prefer open comms early on to get it right.
Some love light rubbing clit, some quick and fast and others like fingers rubbing g spot couple inches in |
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"Don't dive straight down there. Tease on the way. Slowly.
Slowly.
Slowly.
Seeing a key point here?
Again tease, play with clit. Then as I'm wet, slide in and explore. You'll know when to speed up/add more from the sounds/gasps/pants/demands.
Long lost art! Bring back (decent) fingering! "
Agreed! Here here! We should start a petition. Lol  |
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Also taking notes...! Do enjoy giving a nice fingering, nothing better than feeling her get wetter and wetter. But two meets of mine have both demanded I fuck them properly while I'm still enjoying teasing with fingers and tongue... I put this down to them preferring cock rather than me being good at foreplay... I'd quite happily keep teasing for a good while longer! But everyone's different I guess. |
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"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol  "
I'm sure its been done! And even with my relative inexperience... Not by me I may add! Lol |
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"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol
*flicks page*
"Just checking what's next"
Knowing me I’d fluff my lines  "
Just listen to the groans... if there are none.... wrong notes! |
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"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol
*flicks page*
"Just checking what's next"
Knowing me I’d fluff my lines
Just listen to the groans... if there are none.... wrong notes!"
Got it... for the record I don’t think I’m that bad just an eager student to be better!  |
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"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol
*flicks page*
"Just checking what's next"
Knowing me I’d fluff my lines
Just listen to the groans... if there are none.... wrong notes!
Got it... for the record I don’t think I’m that bad just an eager student to be better! "
I'm very much into directing a guy into the right position, what's the point in keeping quite if its not feeling good |
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"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol
*flicks page*
"Just checking what's next"
Knowing me I’d fluff my lines
Just listen to the groans... if there are none.... wrong notes!
Got it... for the record I don’t think I’m that bad just an eager student to be better!
I'm very much into directing a guy into the right position, what's the point in keeping quiet if its not feeling good "
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I'm very much into directing a guy into the right position, what's the point in keeping quite if its not feeling good "
Good to hear! I'm always happy to take direction! My goal is to please, not to be arrogant and assume all women like the same and that I'll instantly hit the right spot!
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"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol
*flicks page*
"Just checking what's next"
Knowing me I’d fluff my lines
Just listen to the groans... if there are none.... wrong notes!
Got it... for the record I don’t think I’m that bad just an eager student to be better!
I'm very much into directing a guy into the right position, what's the point in keeping quite if its not feeling good "
I’m happy to be guided and told... I’ like to please so help me and I’ll do it  |
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"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol
*flicks page*
"Just checking what's next"
Knowing me I’d fluff my lines
Just listen to the groans... if there are none.... wrong notes!
Got it... for the record I don’t think I’m that bad just an eager student to be better!
I'm very much into directing a guy into the right position, what's the point in keeping quite if its not feeling good
I’m happy to be guided and told... I’ like to please so help me and I’ll do it "
Then you'd have no issues |
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I'm very much into directing a guy into the right position, what's the point in keeping quite if its not feeling good
Good to hear! I'm always happy to take direction! My goal is to please, not to be arrogant and assume all women like the same and that I'll instantly hit the right spot!
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That's good to hear... some guys don't like it! |
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"Just as long as you memorise your notes...a notepad on a meet.... lol
*flicks page*
"Just checking what's next"
Knowing me I’d fluff my lines
Just listen to the groans... if there are none.... wrong notes!
Got it... for the record I don’t think I’m that bad just an eager student to be better!
I'm very much into directing a guy into the right position, what's the point in keeping quite if its not feeling good
I’m happy to be guided and told... I’ like to please so help me and I’ll do it
Then you'd have no issues "
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Tease, tease, tease and tease, no real pressure until I'm going crazy for it and crying out. Gentle is the key to start and lots of attention on the clit. Building up the pressure and speed...maybe a little slap or 2.
NO 2 fingers slammed in hard!  |
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"Tease, tease, tease and tease, no real pressure until I'm going crazy for it and crying out. Gentle is the key to start and lots of attention on the clit. Building up the pressure and speed...maybe a little slap or 2.
NO 2 fingers slammed in hard! "
Oh I do like a light rapid spanking on my pussy  |
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"A women I met on here loved it when I slowly curled my fingers as I pulled by fingers back, the reaction I received was amazing so stuck with it "
Probably because you touched her G-Spot.
Definitely curl your fingers up near the entrance, find the G-Spot and gently rub it. |
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"A women I met on here loved it when I slowly curled my fingers as I pulled by fingers back, the reaction I received was amazing so stuck with it
Probably because you touched her G-Spot.
Definitely curl your fingers up near the entrance, find the G-Spot and gently rub it."
Yeah that’s exactly what I did it I stayed on it till she came a couple of time! I loved it |
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"A women I met on here loved it when I slowly curled my fingers as I pulled by fingers back, the reaction I received was amazing so stuck with it
Probably because you touched her G-Spot.
Definitely curl your fingers up near the entrance, find the G-Spot and gently rub it."
If you ladies aren't going to mention the G spot !!...lol.. at last... tell us all about it!. Tell us what you would like your next lover to know... whether or not you've told them before... chaps can forget things you know !!...lol |
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"Don't dive straight down there. Tease on the way. Slowly.
Slowly.
Slowly.
Seeing a key point here?
Again tease, play with clit. Then as I'm wet, slide in and explore. You'll know when to speed up/add more from the sounds/gasps/pants/demands.
Doctor Digits was always in demand at the clubs ...... patience patience patience - and my conversion of non squirters to believers was second to none
Agree totally with your post
Long lost art! Bring back (decent) fingering! "
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"A women I met on here loved it when I slowly curled my fingers as I pulled by fingers back, the reaction I received was amazing so stuck with it
Probably because you touched her G-Spot.
Definitely curl your fingers up near the entrance, find the G-Spot and gently rub it.
If you ladies aren't going to mention the G spot !!...lol.. at last... tell us all about it!. Tell us what you would like your next lover to know... whether or not you've told them before... chaps can forget things you know !!...lol"
I have so much more feeling just inside than I do deeper in.
Put a finger in and curl it up, stroking gently. You'll know when you've got 'the spot' by the way I react. |
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So nobody has said a whole fist inside slowly swirling around and pressing up on the g-spot, the other hand pressing firmly on the lower stomach to push the g-spot down and also apply pressure to the bladder and a slow but firm flick of the tongue on the clit?
My search continues |
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"So nobody has said a whole fist inside slowly swirling around and pressing up on the g-spot, the other hand pressing firmly on the lower stomach to push the g-spot down and also apply pressure to the bladder and a slow but firm flick of the tongue on the clit?
My search continues "
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"Don't dive straight down there. Tease on the way. Slowly.
Slowly.
Slowly.
Seeing a key point here?
Again tease, play with clit. Then as I'm wet, slide in and explore. You'll know when to speed up/add more from the sounds/gasps/pants/demands.
Long lost art! Bring back (decent) fingering! "
Fully agree. 
I think many guys learn their technique from porn and think that sticking in as many fingers as they can in the shortest possible time then banging them in and out like a Ferrari piston is the way to go. IT ISN'T!
Gently at first, slowly build up, MAKE SURE IT'S WET (bad fingering will dry up Mrs H better than any hairdryer)
If a guy gets it right Mrs H can squirt like a fire hose, but these days those events are fewer and further between. And I don't mean because of Covid.
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"If you can't read my signals..no use reading your notes"
Go with the reaction your getting!
Well unless the knees go up the panting increases, but her hand tries to push you away! Don't stop!
Well unless your told "stop" |
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