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How did we all meet before the internet

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So I was thinking that I was swinging well before the internet took over. I met people in so many ways including clubs and others hosting parties. Who remembers life before the internet?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think i do

I even remember going to those red phone boxs to phone a bloke

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By *neeyedpirateMan  over a year ago

ask!

Walkabout the bar and £1:50 vodka red bulls lol

That’s how I met women

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Chams...miss it dearly

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By *aramel.desiresMan  over a year ago

London

Night clubs on Kingsland road before it became gentrified.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bars & clubs mostly, nightclubs not swingers clubs.

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By *indergirlWoman  over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I didn't, I was the wallflower stood at the sidelines while her friends got all the attention

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By *rtist with museCouple  over a year ago

Eastbourne

What used to be called "Contact Magazines" were prevalent - you'd send letters with polaroids to PO Box numbers - had a surprising amount of success once you could hack through the still existent crap. Also clubs like Submission / Skin Two / Torture Garden et al

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By *abrina59TV/TS  over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Bought contact mags and eventually wrote to a few.

However took so long wife become pregnant so never took it any further

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can remember in the 80s replying to an advert in a music magazine, said something like young gay male into pet shop boys seeks friends Coventry, I was like that’s me , so replied to the P.O. Box address months later I was in my room my dad shouts down , there’s a bloke outside asking for you , went downstairs and this older bloke was on the doorstep, he told me I had written to him , I shit myself as I wasn’t out and didn’t realise they gave out my address to him , I made out I didn’t understand what he was going on about and must be a mistake, he went away thankfully

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By *moothdickMan  over a year ago

stoke

A load of 2 pence’s and queue at the telephone box

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By *itzimadCouple  over a year ago

harwich

loot ads was our first entry to swinging

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By *bbott24Couple  over a year ago

Devizes

Free ads used tooo have a contact page

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What used to be called "Contact Magazines" were prevalent - you'd send letters with polaroids to PO Box numbers - had a surprising amount of success once you could hack through the still existent crap. Also clubs like Submission / Skin Two / Torture Garden et al "

When I was 15 my "mates" put an advert in a teen mag for "pen pals"....I had over 100 replies from girls all over the country. ... many of them clearly wanting much more than just a pen pal...including several rather naughty polaroids.....

Also remember going to phone box with my 10p's to avoid parents listening. Once in 6th gorm it was party central.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

showing my age i think, but does anyone remember the contact mags i had some meets from them cant think off the names of the mags

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By *lex46TV/TS  over a year ago

Near Wells


"Free ads used tooo have a contact page"

I met quite a few guys through the local free ads paper. I used to put my own adverts in them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"showing my age i think, but does anyone remember the contact mags i had some meets from them cant think off the names of the mags"

There was many.

Xtasy mag that was based in Reading.

Barbra Kelly mag can't remember where that was from.

Stiletto Heel that was based just outside Leeds.

Rendezvous think that was London based.

Many more fun times.

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By *eannaTV/TS  over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

I remember the top shelf contact Mags from the newsagent and of course actually speaking with people when out in the night clubs, getting invitations to parties

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I didn't, I was the wallflower stood at the sidelines while her friends got all the attention"

Me too

Even now I am too shy to actually approach someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I used to get the contact mags they were good. Timewasters never advertised pretending to be a couple or a woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Chams...miss it dearly"

Well it will open again and knowing Nick and his son they will have totally refreshed it.

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By *inkycreamCouple  over a year ago

manchester

Loot and it was very successful

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By *nliveneTV/TS  over a year ago

Selby

1996 in Switzerland i woust to get in hand in the kitchen from the waitress the adress written in the menu order , with the adress time and code word , she was 8 years older than me but we defenitly enjoyed in full and we had the lucky of having amazing experiences in private party's with amazing people .

I still remember so many times her words , translated to English would be

" die with memories not with fantasies "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

House parties and a magazine listing

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By *andy 1Couple  over a year ago

northeast

dance halls and the flicks

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By *ealthy_and_HungMan  over a year ago

Princes Risborough, Luasanne, Alderney

i started working in the music industry around 84/85. it was like entering a parallel dimension. the culture was long hours of intense work followed by long hours of intense partying. the public had no idead. journalists were just as vulnerable to being outed so they tended to keep quiet mostly. i remember the first photoshoot we worked on with a rubber theme around 87/88 i think. that changed everything.

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By *havennaturistsCouple  over a year ago

Banff


"I used to get the contact mags they were good. Timewasters never advertised pretending to be a couple or a woman "

So true. We used mags like Silk Swingers and Experience and have to say the success rate was way better than now. Still friends with people we met that way too.

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By *oan of DArcCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow


"What used to be called "Contact Magazines" were prevalent - you'd send letters with polaroids to PO Box numbers - had a surprising amount of success once you could hack through the still existent crap. Also clubs like Submission / Skin Two / Torture Garden et al "

The Journal of Sex, it was a palaver but due to the effort involved only the genuine would persevere!

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By *.A.MGUY55Man  over a year ago

Rochdale

contact mags ads in newspaper

I met my first from escort magazine sent 4 letters to different contacts an recived 1 back A Salford couple he was 60s an she was 40s me 20s

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By *.A.MGUY55Man  over a year ago

Rochdale


"Free ads used tooo have a contact page"

also remember free ads an loot

also

new talent

escort

razzle

fiesta

always had few contacts in

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Me and my then girlfriend used contact mags because she wanted to try two cocks. It was a hell of a palaver having to use box numbers provided by the magazine (Rendezvous seemed to be the best with more genuine ads). It took us at least 6 months to set up the first meeting. We both enjoyed the threesome experience and did arrange a few more... But it was so much of a hassle that we dropped it. Things would have been a lot different if the Internet and sites like this existed then.

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By *lowhands7Man  over a year ago

South Leicestershire (willing to travel)


"Chams...miss it dearly"

Totally with you.

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By *.A.MGUY55Man  over a year ago

Rochdale

but now all contact mags are full of escorts prostitute etc I met my first shemale (an shes on here) I found a bag in a carpark shemale porn mag contact mag pair of nix an train ticket i looked at contact mag saw the one Stockport area and called her an £45 back then met had fun omg she's gorgeous

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By *ensual 2Couple  over a year ago

Blackpool

Top shelf contact mags...took weeks /months to progress to social meets or more ......now its virtually instant ...if you want it ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I used to remember even clubs like silverleigh and eureka were a great place to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So I was thinking that I was swinging well before the internet took over. I met people in so many ways including clubs and others hosting parties. Who remembers life before the internet?"

Remember a contact mag years ago out of Chorley called Matchmaker I think was about £5 and out monthly

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I remember the contact mags

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