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club or private meet.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

First time for us as a couple, so we thought we'd'pop the question... Do you prefer swinging clubs or a nice relaxed meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never actually been to a club.....but a meet......I feel in control

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Clubs. It's a neutral venue, and if a meet stands me up I usually find someone else to play with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Both??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

think the clue to the answer is in the question.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We like clubs, as we like to watch and be watched by others as well as finding lots of sexy people to play with. Meets are also great fun with the right people, we also like the social side to swinging xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer a club, swinging is much more to me than sex, I like going out, getting dressed up, like music and meeting lots of people, so it appeals to me. I have had some fun one on one meets with some super guys though

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By *ovedupstillCouple over a year ago

mullinwire

solo.

simply because if we are meeting with someone, we want their attention and want to give our attention to them.

not very easy with a swathe of nakedness around you.

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By *lackCherryCouple over a year ago

Bristol

When it comes to couples we have always found it a lot easier in clubs, often on here "couples" can turn out to be a single guy or attraction lacking on some parts etc, much easier face to face in a club.

However single guy meets have been the reverse of this for us (clubs far too overbearing and pushy a lot of the time).

So I guess it comes down to what you want there is no proper way to swing and each have their merits !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We like clubs and parties to meet new people and have a bit of a play if we find people we like.

But we prefer intimate private meets for people we already know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Going to contradict myself now ...

For meets I like to get to know people, prefer first meets to be social and happy to take time with people before playing.

But...

At a club (and its mainly Chameleons) I love the 'instant chemistry' that can happen and the atmosphere. Playing in the cpls room and a hand touches ..then an arm ..then lips kissing ..just so damn horny!

So for me its both as they are completely different scenarios.

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By *now-bbw-bunnyCouple over a year ago

southend-on-sea

At a club you can choose when to join in love. I have known first timer to go two or three tmes before joining in love. If you was going for a meet you must be ready to go for it so plenty of chatting before so u know you not going to change your mind when you get there . Hope this helps .

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By *now-bbw-bunnyCouple over a year ago

southend-on-sea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We like going to clubs more for the social side but generally prefer private meets.

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By *ourbonKissMan over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"Clubs. It's a neutral venue, and if a meet stands me up I usually find someone else to play with.

's up from me. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had a couple of daytime meets, was very shy at first, didnt know what to expect or what to do in some ways, overcame shyness quite quickly ( and prob came just as quick, OMG was so amazing, ure so gorgeous and wow totally awesome skills, you know who you are

if you ever read forums or my profile verifs lol.)

Would love to arrange to meet up with people at a local'ish club, spa etc.

Invites welcomed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Going to contradict myself now ...

For meets I like to get to know people, prefer first meets to be social and happy to take time with people before playing.

But...

So for me its both as they are completely different scenarios.

Exactly how I am..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clubs are good because it's like pick and mix lol I'l have you, you and you. Private meets are better if you want to get a bit more kinky or if you want to film things.

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By *andS4funCouple over a year ago

Lancashire

We have only done swinging clubs so far so yet to have a private meet or go to a party for that matter. Hoping that will change in the not so distant future.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think one on one meets work better. Hopefully you have exchanged emails and got a feel for each other. If its a spur of the moment thing and you need a wee bit extra spice and risk then go for a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for all the feedback, definately keep a open mind to both, see which one comes first

we definately both like the thought of loads of people just peeping through and taking a look at us (anf others included :p) getting down to business

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer private meets but i do more clubs, simply because its easier to get ready and go to a club rather than messing about trying to find a meet on here

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Clubs. It's a neutral venue, and if a meet stands me up I usually find someone else to play with.

's up from me. X"

One day I'll get to Tease, then watch out!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One day I'll get to Tease, then watch out!

I have been to Tease II and not being unkind to the owners but if I was travelling from York I would be heading to Darleston and Chameleons.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple over a year ago

Bristol

We prefer clubs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer private meets but i do more clubs, simply because its easier to get ready and go to a club rather than messing about trying to find a meet on here "

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"One day I'll get to Tease, then watch out!

I have been to Tease II and not being unkind to the owners but if I was travelling from York I would be heading to Darleston and Chameleons."

I've done Chams. I would like to try Tease as it is a club with rooms and has decent reviews. And maybe Bourbonkiss would be there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've done Chams. I would like to try Tease as it is a club with rooms and has decent reviews. And maybe Bourbonkiss would be there.

Well perhaps I should try Tease II again...

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By *ourbonKissMan over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"One day I'll get to Tease, then watch out!

I have been to Tease II and not being unkind to the owners but if I was travelling from York I would be heading to Darleston and Chameleons.

I've done Chams. I would like to try Tease as it is a club with rooms and has decent reviews. And maybe Bourbonkiss would be there.

Maybe I will, my first visit there was good. X

I'm going to a social at xotix xtreme on the 24th Aug if you fancy coming? Check out the forum post, its called Derby social under the meets requests and its closer that tease. X

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