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House parties: which do you prefer
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We’ve been to lots of house parties and held more!
But the fun at parties seems to go one of two ways. Either an open play party where people have open fun where and when they want in front of others and when one starts the tongs tend to fly
That or where couples find a bedroom set aside with condoms, lube, wipes and towels for more private fun
Which do you prefer?  |
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"We’ve been to lots of house parties and held more!
But the fun at parties seems to go one of two ways. Either an open play party where people have open fun where and when they want in front of others and when one starts the tongs tend to fly
That or where couples find a bedroom set aside with condoms, lube, wipes and towels for more private fun
Which do you prefer? "
I like the option of both  if people want to play in front of everyone that’s fine, but I also like the option of closing a door. Especially if there are people there I don’t want to play with as such. Without sounding mean
Admittedly I do prefer clubs to parties, but as a single gal I never really have these things planned so depends what I prefer on the night x |
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Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers |
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers "
I can imagine that going down well  |
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers
I can imagine that going down well "
I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”. |
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I - Gent - have hosted small hotel parties and loved it. Everyone loved the privacy of the hotel room and the excitement of playing with and watching others.
Lady and I definitely want to attend a house party after lockdown. We just love the idea of being surrounded by sexy couples all excited to play. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers
I can imagine that going down well
I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”. "
Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before.  |
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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago
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I hosted a couple of parties years ago and had a strict policy that downstairs was for social and upstairs was for sex. worked very well.
Went to one which was total chaos. they had far to many people there and you were stepping over couples just to get to the kitchen.
There was a couple who hosted an all weekend job and they were brill but knackering |
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers
I can imagine that going down well
I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.
Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before. "
That wouldn’t be our kind of party either. We would much prefer a relaxed ‘go with the flow’ vibe. |
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers
I can imagine that going down well
I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.
Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before. "
I don't know if that is commonplace but we went to a party where everyone was expected to have sex with everyone else. No problem with other people enjoying that but it isn't my thing. We politely told the host that we weren't comfortable, thanked them and left. |
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Only been to one party ..
Spent most of the night in a hot tub drinking lager ..
People got in and back out again, hands were everywhere..
Went in the house later on and was talking to a couple in a hall way waiting for the bathroom.. and had no idea I’d played with them until they made a comment.. drink, bad memory or lost in the moment.. no idea
But absolutely loved it .. |
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As far as we are concerned most parties are just that house parties. People should arrive to enjoy the event. If anything happens funwise then it’s a bonus. People are people. Some are tired, stressed, ladies TOTM etc Or just there to unwind and chat. Get some fab usernames, kik addresses or phone numbers.
On the other hand, if people have chatted or know each other from meets or clubs and have played before; things can evolve quite quickly  |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers
I can imagine that going down well
I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.
Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before.
I don't know if that is commonplace but we went to a party where everyone was expected to have sex with everyone else. No problem with other people enjoying that but it isn't my thing. We politely told the host that we weren't comfortable, thanked them and left. "
Thanks.
We'd do exactly the same. It'll be a question we will now ask if and when we get invites. |
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers
I can imagine that going down well
I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.
Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before. "
This would have me immediately leaving. Much preferred the organic nature and not feeling immediately pressurised to play. Especially as solo female at the time.
I attended a house party once and host started contacting other men whilst I was there. Felt that I would enjoy getting to meet more! Erm no thankyou if you didn't invite them in the first place then I'm certainly not going to be playing with any others, in my eyes that what would be complete randoms. |
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers
I can imagine that going down well
I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.
Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before.
This would have me immediately leaving. Much preferred the organic nature and not feeling immediately pressurised to play. Especially as solo female at the time.
I attended a house party once and host started contacting other men whilst I was there. Felt that I would enjoy getting to meet more! Erm no thankyou if you didn't invite them in the first place then I'm certainly not going to be playing with any others, in my eyes that what would be complete randoms."
The dynamic has to be right at a private party doesn’t it, and ideally that’s established well in advance |
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers
I can imagine that going down well
I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.
Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before.
I don't know if that is commonplace but we went to a party where everyone was expected to have sex with everyone else. No problem with other people enjoying that but it isn't my thing. We politely told the host that we weren't comfortable, thanked them and left.
Thanks.
We'd do exactly the same. It'll be a question we will now ask if and when we get invites."
We did ask and were told that wouldn't be the case. It's happened twice now, so no more parties for us  |
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"It can feel very pressured if there's not a social only space.
Social space is important.
It is to us but not everyone we've discovered  . The second I feel under any obligation I freeze."
Shouldnt be made to feel like that at all! Ive not been to a club (yet) but been to a few house parties. The first I really did feel like a piece of meat thrown out there and I didnt stay long. The other parties were all hosted by the same couple. Much more relaxed in a great house with social rooms and naughty rooms. I prefer that as can actually get to chat and have a laugh and then if your feeling move on to the next room for sexy time! But even then I dont feel I have fuck everyone at the party, or anyone at all if Im just not feeling it with anyone. Luckily thats not happend yet. I suppose its like clubs in a way as just because your there dosnt mean im gonna fuck you. |
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We have never been invited to a party yet. Think this plague got in the way. Did have a great 6 way at asylum on Halloween before lockdown though and then arranged a repeat at ours a week late. That was a fun and intense evening we can't wait to repeat |
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We have been to many house parties.
The best ones usually are when at least 15 couples with a few single male and females. We like it when more are all in one room. 6 couples on a bed mattresses on the floor plus a few chairs. |
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For us we prefer where there are separate play spaces and the lounge and kitchen social only areas.
After COVID I hope people start hosting again as we have been to some fantastic ones over the years. |
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Only been to a couple of parties, which have been hosted by the same couple. The rooms are open and so us the garden if it’s summer.
Tends to be mild fore play to late evening then the fund starts, normally in the hot tub and moves to the other rooms. So open play. But with no pressure to get involved. |
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"Been to many house parties and like all you mingle and socialise and around say 10 pm , the host “should “ say if you won’t play with certain cpls say so now ..... and the it’s a free for all ...... swingers being swingers
I can imagine that going down well
I thawt this. “Yep: I’ll play with everyone except, er, you and...,, yeah, you”.
Being asked that at any point you by the host would probably have us leaving, we really don't want to be put in a position like that. Is this common place? Never heard of it before. "
We have been to a few parties and that has never happened there is no pressure to do anything with anyone. |
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"We’ve been to lots of house parties and held more!
But the fun at parties seems to go one of two ways. Either an open play party where people have open fun where and when they want in front of others and when one starts the tongs tend to fly
That or where couples find a bedroom set aside with condoms, lube, wipes and towels for more private fun
Which do you prefer? "
Trouble with and open play is someone you might not fancy playing with might try to cop a feel or try to join in uninvited. |
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