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Would you let him do it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies and couples, would you let the man to finish inside u knowing he has a vasectomy done and have tested clear?
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Nope. Always safe sex for me, no exceptions |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends. Is he a stranger or someone I have known for a while?
I wouldn't trust a stranger, no. Someone I have known for a while, maybe. "
Let’s say you have meet for social, and fucked 3times already, on the next occasion he brings letter proving it and ask you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends. Is he a stranger or someone I have known for a while?
I wouldn't trust a stranger, no. Someone I have known for a while, maybe.
Let’s say you have meet for social, and fucked 3times already, on the next occasion he brings letter proving it and ask you "
Probably not after 3 meets, but unprotected sex for me is a very person-dependant thing. Can I trust that he isn't barebacking everyone? Can I trust that he has played safe since his last STI test so it's accurate?
Generally I think that random men on here who want to practise unprotected sex with me are probably doing it with a lot of other people and therefore are not very safe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had the snip and unless it is a trusted long term FWB where you are 100% honest with each other or a relationship then I'm suiting up.
Yes bare feels better but any STI is going to be a lot worse than wearing a condom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a chance.
Not all STIs show up straight away. HIV for instance, takes up 12 weeks to show.
Also he could have had unprotected sex between the last test and you meeting him. |
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"I've had the snip and unless it is a trusted long term FWB where you are 100% honest with each other or a relationship then I'm suiting up.
Yes bare feels better but any STI is going to be a lot worse than wearing a condom."
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a vasectomy but wouldn't even expect a woman to have unprotected sex?! Condoms are super thin nowadays anyway. Prefer slightest loss of sensation than risking a STI. |
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The test is only valid for the day it was taken, the next day the man could have injected drugs, had unprotected sex with 20 other people etc.
We must all protect ourselves.
To flip it around OP, would you have unprotected sex and cum inside a lady who has a clean test and told you she was on the pill? You could end up with an STI and a baby.
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"Ladies and couples, would you let the man to finish inside u knowing he has a vasectomy done and have tested clear?
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Has he got proof of both? If not don't trust it, last thing you want is to end up pregnant....
I took care of birth control permanently but can prove it asked & since it's incredibly rare for a woman, I'm not surprised to get asked.
Sti wise well as someone says earlier it's only valid for the day so I need to trust someone if I'm going to go bareback. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Take it you've had a vasectomy and been tested OP?   "
Yes I have had a vasectomy.
Yes I’m tested and proved through long enough there’s not enough in my sperm.
No would not go bareback with casual person.
Simply just interested what’s peoples view on this subject?
With full respect to all the answers.
We are on the forum, discussion is a key.
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As a man of the cpl I wouldn’t let any man finish inside Mrs.
I don’t play with anyone apart from wife. But if I did I wouldn’t expect any women to let me finish in her. And I am clean and had the snip. |
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"As a man of the cpl I wouldn’t let any man finish inside Mrs.
I don’t play with anyone apart from wife. But if I did I wouldn’t expect any women to let me finish in her. And I am clean and had the snip. "
Infact don’t let anyone go bareback full stop |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had the snip and unless it is a trusted long term FWB where you are 100% honest with each other or a relationship then I'm suiting up.
Yes bare feels better but any STI is going to be a lot worse than wearing a condom."
Absolutely spot on with this not worth the risk everyone's health is far more important. |
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"Take it you've had a vasectomy and been tested OP?
Yes I have had a vasectomy.
Yes I’m tested and proved through long enough there’s not enough in my sperm.
No would not go bareback with casual person.
Simply just interested what’s peoples view on this subject?
With full respect to all the answers.
We are on the forum, discussion is a key.
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With or without vasectomy / recent test, wouldn't do bareback. Unless it's a regular long term FWB.
Not sure how this make a difference to anyone who doesn't do bareback with their fab meets, because with vasectomy and recent test you still don't know where they've been in the last few weeks. Add to that people lie. So anyone who'd agree to that thinking it's safe needs to be better informed on how things work x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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as soon as anyone mentions bareback on here it's like omg no I'd never do that only if we're married
Is that just with people off fab/swingers or general life also as majority of my sexual encounters are bareback not all ofcourse but then again most are with people I meet in actual life and not randoms one offs just wondering
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"as soon as anyone mentions bareback on here it's like omg no I'd never do that only if we're married
Is that just with people off fab/swingers or general life also as majority of my sexual encounters are bareback not all ofcourse but then again most are with people I meet in actual life and not randoms one offs just wondering
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It's the nature of this post though. For someone who doesn't do bareback, would reasons described in OP be enough to change someone's mind x |
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"As a man of the cpl I wouldn’t let any man finish inside Mrs.
Does she get any say in the matter ? "
Yeah of corse she does and it’s what we have both agreed.
And sorry if she didn’t agree we would stop doing all this. Both have to agree with what we do if not we can’t do it anymore. What’s the point if the one of you ain’t happy |
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Errr no!
About 40 types of HPV are called "genital HPV." Genital HPV spreads by skin contact, usually during vaginal, anal, and oral sex. HPV is the most common sexually transmitted infection. Genital HPV can infect any part of the genital area, including the vulva, inside the vagina, or the penis. It can also infect the anus and some areas of the head and neck.
Some types of genital HPV cause warts that vary in size, shape, and number. These viruses rarely lead to cancer. They are known as low-risk HPV. Common types of low-risk HPV include HPV-6 and HPV-11.
Other types of HPV are known as high-risk HPV. Your body's immune system can often get rid of this infection. But some people have a lasting infection. Over time, the infection can turn normal cells into precancerous lesions or cancer.
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