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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So chatting to a cpl on hear recently
And we are confused by them
Thay have said thay are not swingers but just a normal cpl
New to the uk and looking to make friends
Fine but there has to be better places to make friends?
Or have we missed something
It's ashame she is cute |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"praps it's their way of telling you they are not interested in you?
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we had thought that was possiable
but it seems thay are still talking to us
it would at least be an original put down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So chatting to a cpl on hear recently
And we are confused by them
Thay have said thay are not swingers but just a normal cpl
New to the uk and looking to make friends
Fine but there has to be better places to make friends?
Or have we missed something
It's ashame she is cute"
It all depends what their profile says, what they are looking for. Picture wise if they are explicit or any hint of naughtiness.
Some people will say only friends so there is no intent for sex on a meet. Some people struggle to say no.
The end of the day though its up to you if you want a platonic relationship or not.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"praps it's their way of telling you they are not interested in you?
we had thought that was possiable
but it seems thay are still talking to us
it would at least be an original put down"
You could just tell them you want to be more than friends  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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very little info in the profile
the pic is clothed normally not naughty at all
it actualy seems like thay have joined ot get to know new ppl with no intrest in swing
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they're curious but just want to take it at thier own pace until they've made up thier minds whether it's for them or not.
Bit silly not to be up front about it tho |
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we would love to meet friends also.
see, because em has her friends, and i ave mine, we want to find mutual friends, that we can both go out with for an evening, rather than one or the other feeling uncomfortable around the others friends. the extras are just that.
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over a year ago
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We have met couples we are friends with but only meet socially. Have had great nights out and day trips with them with no play. It's nice to have friends in the lifestyle like us but that we only see socially. Sure things might change in future 
Perhaps they are genuinely interested in swinging but taking it slow. Maybe ask them what experiences they are looking to have or what fantasies they would like to live out. |
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over a year ago
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Well (unless it is a club scenario) as I only play with people that have become friends then in a way I can understand what they seem to be saying. Make friends first and then play (maybe).
Why not just 'be friends' if they are nice people. Why lose possible friends for the want of a shag? |
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