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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i could be wrong but i feel like theres a lot more guys on here than a year ago and i feel like quite a few women and couples have left (that i know of anyway) ...so is it going to be even harder for guys to find meets ??
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"i could be wrong but i feel like theres a lot more guys on here than a year ago and i feel like quite a few women and couples have left (that i know of anyway) ...so is it going to be even harder for guys to find meets ??
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over a year ago
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I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx |
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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago
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"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx"
I think Juicy Jessica has got it spot on. Even us blokes are getting more attention from blokes looking for meets! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anecdotally the ratio of women to men in our experience seems to have gone up, not down.
Not that either it matters much when we are in lockdown, nor am I entitled convinced that all of the women are women. |
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"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx"
Thats how we are at the moment, what's the point in getting involved with endless chat when you cant do anything! But still come on for forums and a little perv to keep us sane lol.
Not long hopfully and we can all play xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx
Thats how we are at the moment, what's the point in getting involved with endless chat when you cant do anything! But still come on for forums and a little perv to keep us sane lol.
Not long hopfully and we can all play xx"
I know what you mean. It's very frustrating. I've stayed on here regularly for the forum entertainment but also still to chat to potential meets. It's really getting to me that I can't meet them now, but let's say I have a decently long list once it is safe xx |
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"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx
Thats how we are at the moment, what's the point in getting involved with endless chat when you cant do anything! But still come on for forums and a little perv to keep us sane lol.
Not long hopfully and we can all play xx
I know what you mean. It's very frustrating. I've stayed on here regularly for the forum entertainment but also still to chat to potential meets. It's really getting to me that I can't meet them now, but let's say I have a decently long list once it is safe xx"
I think its getting to everyone to be honest, sex aside, just the normal life things we cant do. But driving people sexual frustrations thru the roof lol ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i could be wrong but i feel like theres a lot more guys on here than a year ago and i feel like quite a few women and couples have left (that i know of anyway) ...so is it going to be even harder for guys to find meets ??
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There's a lot more regular couples oriented private parties going on. We (when we were a couple) stopped arranging meets on here and just started to go to parties. There's a lot less drama that way |
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"i could be wrong but i feel like theres a lot more guys on here than a year ago and i feel like quite a few women and couples have left (that i know of anyway) ...so is it going to be even harder for guys to find meets ??
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To be fair; I’ve seen more single females in here over recent months, and most of these you can see were regular club attendees. There’s been more couples too though
I wouldn’t say it’s been more difficult to find meets....... |
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By *lappyMan
over a year ago
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I think that the points highlighted are correct and there’s a lot more men signing up as sexual frustration grows and are looking for a quick easy shag as oppose to being able to do what they would normally do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx
Thats how we are at the moment, what's the point in getting involved with endless chat when you cant do anything! But still come on for forums and a little perv to keep us sane lol.
Not long hopfully and we can all play xx
I know what you mean. It's very frustrating. I've stayed on here regularly for the forum entertainment but also still to chat to potential meets. It's really getting to me that I can't meet them now, but let's say I have a decently long list once it is safe xx
I think its getting to everyone to be honest, sex aside, just the normal life things we cant do. But driving people sexual frustrations thru the roof lol "
Yeah I can't certainly understand it, I'm married and getting sex, but still frustrated I can't meet, so it most be horrendous for singles.
The problem is most of the recent influx of single men just aren't going about it the right way. I have no issues with single guys being on here to get a shag, I generally prefer one off 1 on 1 meets myself, so in a way it suits me to have a larger pool of guys on here, I'm planning on having so much sex when it's safe! But instead of creating a decent profile, making polite and respectful contact, and building connections for when we are allowed to meet, the vast majority are rude, abusive, desperate, lazy, or demanding a meet tonight. Not the right attitude, it's spoiling the site, and ruining it for some of the good single guys. I know Fab was always had this issue, but the lockdowns have definitely made it worse. I'm not sure single women have dropped off as much but I'm sure lots of couples have xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx
Thats how we are at the moment, what's the point in getting involved with endless chat when you cant do anything! But still come on for forums and a little perv to keep us sane lol.
Not long hopfully and we can all play xx
I know what you mean. It's very frustrating. I've stayed on here regularly for the forum entertainment but also still to chat to potential meets. It's really getting to me that I can't meet them now, but let's say I have a decently long list once it is safe xx
I think its getting to everyone to be honest, sex aside, just the normal life things we cant do. But driving people sexual frustrations thru the roof lol
Yeah I can't certainly understand it, I'm married and getting sex, but still frustrated I can't meet, so it most be horrendous for singles.
The problem is most of the recent influx of single men just aren't going about it the right way. I have no issues with single guys being on here to get a shag, I generally prefer one off 1 on 1 meets myself, so in a way it suits me to have a larger pool of guys on here, I'm planning on having so much sex when it's safe! But instead of creating a decent profile, making polite and respectful contact, and building connections for when we are allowed to meet, the vast majority are rude, abusive, desperate, lazy, or demanding a meet tonight. Not the right attitude, it's spoiling the site, and ruining it for some of the good single guys. I know Fab was always had this issue, but the lockdowns have definitely made it worse. I'm not sure single women have dropped off as much but I'm sure lots of couples have xx"
Hey you guys! we single males aren't all the same.... but sex would be nice in this trying time hahaha |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
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I was on here a fair bit during the first lockdown enjoying the chat...but eventually ran out of steam ...and recently started logging on again ..definitely seems to be less couples on here now .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx
Thats how we are at the moment, what's the point in getting involved with endless chat when you cant do anything! But still come on for forums and a little perv to keep us sane lol.
Not long hopfully and we can all play xx
I know what you mean. It's very frustrating. I've stayed on here regularly for the forum entertainment but also still to chat to potential meets. It's really getting to me that I can't meet them now, but let's say I have a decently long list once it is safe xx
I think its getting to everyone to be honest, sex aside, just the normal life things we cant do. But driving people sexual frustrations thru the roof lol
Yeah I can't certainly understand it, I'm married and getting sex, but still frustrated I can't meet, so it most be horrendous for singles.
The problem is most of the recent influx of single men just aren't going about it the right way. I have no issues with single guys being on here to get a shag, I generally prefer one off 1 on 1 meets myself, so in a way it suits me to have a larger pool of guys on here, I'm planning on having so much sex when it's safe! But instead of creating a decent profile, making polite and respectful contact, and building connections for when we are allowed to meet, the vast majority are rude, abusive, desperate, lazy, or demanding a meet tonight. Not the right attitude, it's spoiling the site, and ruining it for some of the good single guys. I know Fab was always had this issue, but the lockdowns have definitely made it worse. I'm not sure single women have dropped off as much but I'm sure lots of couples have xx
Hey you guys! we single males aren't all the same.... but sex would be nice in this trying time hahaha"
I'm not saying you are, there are plenty of nice single men on here, but unfortunately they still form the minority. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not been here as long as you to give a rounded answer, but even while I've been here I'd say your observation is correct. As we cannot swing due to restrictions I think a lot of the swinger and club going couples have taken and step back. Lots of single guys seem to have joined probably dying for an easy shag as they've not had sex in ages and can't date or pull in other ways due to covid, so are trying their luck for internet meet and fucks. Xx
Thats how we are at the moment, what's the point in getting involved with endless chat when you cant do anything! But still come on for forums and a little perv to keep us sane lol.
Not long hopfully and we can all play xx
I know what you mean. It's very frustrating. I've stayed on here regularly for the forum entertainment but also still to chat to potential meets. It's really getting to me that I can't meet them now, but let's say I have a decently long list once it is safe xx
I think its getting to everyone to be honest, sex aside, just the normal life things we cant do. But driving people sexual frustrations thru the roof lol
Yeah I can't certainly understand it, I'm married and getting sex, but still frustrated I can't meet, so it most be horrendous for singles.
The problem is most of the recent influx of single men just aren't going about it the right way. I have no issues with single guys being on here to get a shag, I generally prefer one off 1 on 1 meets myself, so in a way it suits me to have a larger pool of guys on here, I'm planning on having so much sex when it's safe! But instead of creating a decent profile, making polite and respectful contact, and building connections for when we are allowed to meet, the vast majority are rude, abusive, desperate, lazy, or demanding a meet tonight. Not the right attitude, it's spoiling the site, and ruining it for some of the good single guys. I know Fab was always had this issue, but the lockdowns have definitely made it worse. I'm not sure single women have dropped off as much but I'm sure lots of couples have xx
Hey you guys! we single males aren't all the same.... but sex would be nice in this trying time hahaha
I'm not saying you are, there are plenty of nice single men on here, but unfortunately they still form the minority. Xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also, as a woman primarily looking for one off meets with decent single guys - I'm glad there are a lot of single men on here! I just wish it were more of the good sort xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also, as a woman primarily looking for one off meets with decent single guys - I'm glad there are a lot of single men on here! I just wish it were more of the good sort xx"
Give it time and I'm sure they'll the quality of the gentlemen folk will improve ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i could be wrong but i feel like theres a lot more guys on here than a year ago and i feel like quite a few women and couples have left (that i know of anyway) ...so is it going to be even harder for guys to find meets ??unless you want another male lol
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
On my update there is a regular stream of women joining, I would say joining in greater numbers than before the pandemic. Although a large proportion seem to be more into exhibitionism than meeting at a future date.
Also in the forums there is a noticeable amount of women who have joined or returned in the last 9 months. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the OGs are still on cottaging and dogging. The numbers on those sites have dwindled like crazy.
I also think there will always be a higher ratio of more men to women on here. One simple reason, many men think they are really going to get a meet by sending a “meet now” kind of message. They really do believe it. |
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"Anecdotally the ratio of women to men in our experience seems to have gone up, not down.
Not that either it matters much when we are in lockdown, nor am I entitled convinced that all of the women are women. "
Nor the couples couples |
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