Just had a rather rude woman messaging me telling me my account is fake, screams fake and that she will be telling her friends I’m fake before going on to block me 
Apparently because it used to be a couples profile, since A decided to have a break I’ve changed it to a singles profile but left the verifications on we had as I thought this gave credibility, now I’m wondering if it’s the opposite? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't look fake to me at all and to be honest you can't win them them all.
If you said you had a partner that knew you were here then some people wouldn't believe you anyway and If you hide your verifications people would ask what you are hiding.
You just be you and manage your profile how you see fit.
If you find it's not working for you then you may want to make some changes but don't let any rude person tell you that you are somehow being deceitful or fake. |
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"Just had a rather rude woman messaging me telling me my account is fake, screams fake and that she will be telling her friends I’m fake before going on to block me
Apparently because it used to be a couples profile, since A decided to have a break I’ve changed it to a singles profile but left the verifications on we had as I thought this gave credibility, now I’m wondering if it’s the opposite? "
your profile doesn’t came across as been fake , you where once a couple, but now you are going solo , which you have stated on your profile |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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No not a fake account and you do explain that you were a couple.. But the fact you're veris are all obviously for a couples profile I can see why people would be wary as well.It would make me think twice but then I tend to look for inconsistencies when I first look at a profile. |
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I'd not assume you are fake after reading it. You could potentially indicate even more clearly how long it was used as a couples profile and also if you are still in a relationship, as this would be important to some, when looking for a 'single' man. It's clear that it's just you meeting now but some will want to know that you're not cheating, without consent etc.
People get abusive for their own reasons, though lacking respect for others isn't acceptable. As I said, it doesn't seem you are fake but it's probably worth tying up the loose ends about your status now, to provide fuller clarity. |
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"Just had a rather rude woman messaging me telling me my account is fake, screams fake and that she will be telling her friends I’m fake before going on to block me
Apparently because it used to be a couples profile, since A decided to have a break I’ve changed it to a singles profile but left the verifications on we had as I thought this gave credibility, now I’m wondering if it’s the opposite? "
Was her name Karen? (Apologies to the actual Karen’s out there who aren’t batshit crazy x ) |
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