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over a year ago
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Drives us fucking nuts - especially as we don’t have any friends pics for them to perve over!
And although when we allowed contact from single guys they would often do it - we’ve discovered “couples” can be as bad.
And they’re usually miles away as well.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why oh why do people send friends invites before messaging ....finding more of this ...we find it odd & a bit lazy tbh"
Pic collectors, plain and simple. |
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"Why oh why do people send friends invites before messaging ....finding more of this ...we find it odd & a bit lazy tbh"
Just have a nosey at their pics then delete! They’re normally only cock and fanny pics anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure what some couples etc expect to see in friends only.
We try and be a bit tasteful on our pictures and friends only are face only.
However each for there own we say. |
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By *ensual 2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Blackpool |
"Not sure what some couples etc expect to see in friends only.
We try and be a bit tasteful on our pictures and friends only are face only.
However each for there own we say."
Agreed less can be more sometimes...  |
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"Not sure what some couples etc expect to see in friends only.
We try and be a bit tasteful on our pictures and friends only are face only.
However each for there own we say."
They assume that since they're private they pictures will be more graphic, show faces or whatever. They may just like what they've seen and want to see more of the same but it's all about the pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why oh why do people send friends invites before messaging ....finding more of this ...we find it odd & a bit lazy tbh"
I find it so tiresome and really extremely rude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get why people don't like it. We would never accept a friend request from someone who hasn't messaged but you don't need to allow it to infuriate you.
In the grand scheme of things it's not really a big deal. Ignore it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we clearly say on our profile we won't accept friend requests from people we haven't met or chatted to, but still we get them, just proves to us they haven't read our profile so delete. And I think there seems to be more pic hunters since lock down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve noticed that since I made all my pictures “friends only” that I’m inundated on a daily basis with friend requests. Many from people who state categorically they are not interested in single guys. Go figure lol. |
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Don't get me wrong, I am a voyeur & do enjoying browsing profiles women & couples, I will fab & appreciate them (no that's not a term for knocking one out lol), but I have never sent an unsolicited friends request. I much prefer to compliment them on their photos & strike up a conversation. If they're miles & miles away I know it's never going to happen, but it's nice to be nice.
Also as a keen photographer I can appreciate some of the photograph aspects of the photos.
Steve   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why oh why do people send friends invites before messaging ....finding more of this ...we find it odd & a bit lazy tbh"
and when they block you or dissappear after looking at your friends pics
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we clearly say on our profile we won't accept friend requests from people we haven't met or chatted to, but still we get them, just proves to us they haven't read our profile so delete. And I think there seems to be more pic hunters since lock down "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't get me wrong, I am a voyeur & do enjoying browsing profiles women & couples, I will fab & appreciate them (no that's not a term for knocking one out lol), but I have never sent an unsolicited friends request. I much prefer to compliment them on their photos & strike up a conversation. If they're miles & miles away I know it's never going to happen, but it's nice to be nice.
Also as a keen photographer I can appreciate some of the photograph aspects of the photos.
Steve "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why oh why do people send friends invites before messaging ....finding more of this ...we find it odd & a bit lazy tbh and when they block you or dissappear after looking at your friends pics"
Oh yes I get this all the time lol |
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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago
Coventry |
"Why oh why do people send friends invites before messaging ....finding more of this ...we find it odd & a bit lazy tbh
Pic collectors, plain and simple. "
This is soooo annoying....and has been since we've joined fabs. |
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By *ensual 2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Blackpool |
"Don't get me wrong, I am a voyeur & do enjoying browsing profiles women & couples, I will fab & appreciate them (no that's not a term for knocking one out lol), but I have never sent an unsolicited friends request. I much prefer to compliment them on their photos & strike up a conversation. If they're miles & miles away I know it's never going to happen, but it's nice to be nice.
Also as a keen photographer I can appreciate some of the photograph aspects of the photos.
Steve
This"
All men are voyeurs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't get me wrong, I am a voyeur & do enjoying browsing profiles women & couples, I will fab & appreciate them (no that's not a term for knocking one out lol), but I have never sent an unsolicited friends request. I much prefer to compliment them on their photos & strike up a conversation. If they're miles & miles away I know it's never going to happen, but it's nice to be nice.
Also as a keen photographer I can appreciate some of the photograph aspects of the photos.
Steve
ThisAll men are voyeurs "
You say that as if it’s a bad thing |
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I've been chatting to a couple near me 15 miles, for 6mth now, great couple, we have a canny rapour going. I've never seen their private pics or their faces, that's OK though as we can still have a good laugh.
One day we may get to meet but who knows, but there's no pressure either way.
Steve |
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By *ensual 2 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Don't get me wrong, I am a voyeur & do enjoying browsing profiles women & couples, I will fab & appreciate them (no that's not a term for knocking one out lol), but I have never sent an unsolicited friends request. I much prefer to compliment them on their photos & strike up a conversation. If they're miles & miles away I know it's never going to happen, but it's nice to be nice.
Also as a keen photographer I can appreciate some of the photograph aspects of the photos.
Steve
ThisAll men are voyeurs
You say that as if it’s a bad thing "
No not at all...guys like to look ....only natural |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't get me wrong, I am a voyeur & do enjoying browsing profiles women & couples, I will fab & appreciate them (no that's not a term for knocking one out lol), but I have never sent an unsolicited friends request. I much prefer to compliment them on their photos & strike up a conversation. If they're miles & miles away I know it's never going to happen, but it's nice to be nice.
Also as a keen photographer I can appreciate some of the photograph aspects of the photos.
Steve
ThisAll men are voyeurs
You say that as if it’s a bad thing No not at all...guys like to look ....only natural"
Exactly love the red underwear lol |
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I'm never quite sure of the point of picture collectors. What do they gain? If I need a bit of self relief I'll go on the internet and find some porn. I've never wanked over any pictures of my friends. There is one couple who I'd like to do a tribute for as she is so stonking hot but I'd ask first. For me friends is just a nice way of knowing someone likes me enough and there's always that outside chance of a meet sometime in the future. |
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"I use it as a filter...if they send a request without chatting they obviously haven't read all of my profile.... Click,Delete, Block, Boom...gone"
This is what we usually do as well, if people want to get to know us, they could send us a message? We don't bite and will respond if we are interested. Or is that a novel concept for some!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why oh why do people send friends invites before messaging ....finding more of this ...we find it odd & a bit lazy tbh"
we get many a day yes its strange and annoying
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why oh why do people send friends invites before messaging ....finding more of this ...we find it odd & a bit lazy tbh"
Possible pic collectors or just being totally inquisitive. I find it a complete Turn-Off too getting friend requests without even an hello. And I've received 1,000s  |
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By *ensual 2 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Why oh why do people send friends invites before messaging ....finding more of this ...we find it odd & a bit lazy tbh
Possible pic collectors or just being totally inquisitive. I find it a complete Turn-Off too getting friend requests without even an hello. And I've received 1,000s "
Bet you have with a set of pics like yours on your profile .....lovely .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why oh why do people send friends invites before messaging ....finding more of this ...we find it odd & a bit lazy tbh
Possible pic collectors or just being totally inquisitive. I find it a complete Turn-Off too getting friend requests without even an hello. And I've received 1,000s Bet you have with a set of pics like yours on your profile .....lovely .... "
Look who's talking, ye have a Super Hot profile Very S.E.X Y. Thanks for your compliment also X |
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"Drives us fucking nuts - especially as we don’t have any friends pics for them to perve over!
And although when we allowed contact from single guys they would often do it - we’ve discovered “couples” can be as bad.
And they’re usually miles away as well. "
Solo females can be guilty of this too, but apparently it's 'ok' for them to do it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Drives us fucking nuts - especially as we don’t have any friends pics for them to perve over!
And although when we allowed contact from single guys they would often do it - we’ve discovered “couples” can be as bad.
And they’re usually miles away as well.
Solo females can be guilty of this too, but apparently it's 'ok' for them to do it.... "
Are you sure its a genuine solo fem? |
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We just ignore them. As it says on our profile, our friends list is for people we have actually met, if they send an invite it just shows that they either didn't read the profile or don't respect what it says.
K |
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"Drives us fucking nuts - especially as we don’t have any friends pics for them to perve over!
And although when we allowed contact from single guys they would often do it - we’ve discovered “couples” can be as bad.
And they’re usually miles away as well.
Solo females can be guilty of this too, but apparently it's 'ok' for them to do it....
Are you sure its a genuine solo fem?"
It was me. Hahahahaha hahahahaha.
I get bloody loads of invites a day and I accept quite alot because I like to showoff my vids and pics. Don't know why anyone needs to get all offended!!
I liked this man's public vids so fancied seeing more. End of.
Just don't accept /delete????!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait till they are offline then accept look at their private pics then delete then. Sometimes will fab one so they know we've looked lol"
We do this, we accept have a quick perve and delete |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait till they are offline then accept look at their private pics then delete then. Sometimes will fab one so they know we've looked lol"
Always but only if they are a cpl  before blocking them. Single guys is instant block. Just being naughty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not something that bothers us. It’s just a pointless exercise on their part. Whether it’s male, female or a couple. We don’t understand it. But then they probably haven’t read literally any of our profile either. That is more annoying. Just more for the block list.
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"Why oh why do people send friends invites before messaging ....finding more of this ...we find it odd & a bit lazy tbh"
They’re just chancing their arm to view your private gallery for quick and easy wanks |
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"Why oh why do people send friends invites before messaging ....finding more of this ...we find it odd & a bit lazy tbh
They’re just chancing their arm to view your private gallery for quick and easy wanks "
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Please let me wank over yours |
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"Wait till they are offline then accept look at their private pics then delete then. Sometimes will fab one so they know we've looked lol
Always but only if they are a cpl before blocking them. Single guys is instant block. Just being naughty "
As it's not looking for single guys on our profile yes proves they haven't read it or are chancing their arm so instant delete, but there's also the one word profile's and no pics from pretend couples (prob a bloke) that also get deleted. |
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