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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Chemistry: what is it? how does one define this?

Does this differ from person to person?

Is it phyisical? mental? both? or something else that one can not explain?

This can be between swinging couples and also people deep in love also!

Thoughts??

Andy x

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It's hard to define, but for me it is physical and mental, I enjoy a relaxed meet and therefore the social side is just as important at the physical part but they all play a part for having fun, but that is just me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's physical and mental but mostly the 'x factor'. Something that you just can't explain but gives you a tingle.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

for me.... Individuality and a spark of confidence.

I like people who are true to themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a feeling, I can't define it. Either a yes, or a no, or occasionally an open to being persuaded.

Being comfortable and able to talk with someone and relax with them is a vital element.

A lot of guys are failing to understand why I won't meet them spontaneously right now/this afternoon/this evening and object when I tell them I need to get to know them a bit first. Without that though, they may as well be on a poster or in a book - nice to look at, possibly, but not a person I want to interact with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me, it is a mixture of physical and mental attributes.

Difficult to define, however, I know it when I come across it.

For a start, if I can converse with someone and do not get bored after a couple of PMs, then some chemistry exists.

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By *uyuksno1Man over a year ago

poole

for me there has to be laughter a terrific sense of humour a nice well spoken voice an ability to be comfortable and honest in their own skin and at ease with their surroundings thats when i feel that chemistry then i feel drawn to that person everything else is extra x

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