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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"On the Celsius temperature scale of 0 to 100 how hot would you say these experiences have been?"
Well they've been a mixed bag! I've had a few 80+ and sadly a couple that would give you frostbite  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How did you get into it?
It was my boyfriends suggestion, he had been reading about it online & wanted to try it "
Did that make it even more of a turn on? And what were your initial thoughts? |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"How did you get into it?
It was my boyfriends suggestion, he had been reading about it online & wanted to try it
Did that make it even more of a turn on? And what were your initial thoughts?"
Yes it was a turn on but I was also very hesitant to start with, I thought maybe it was his way of saying he wanted to sleep with other women, but it turns out not to be the case. Lots of discussions later about how it would work and here we are! |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"Anyone want to ask me questions about my hotwifing experiences so far?
Do you find that people don’t understand hot wifing a lot of the time? "
YES ABSOLUTELY! Very few of our friends know but a lot of guys I've chatted to either fully get it, or dont get it at all. It's not something that can be easily explained though it's like asking someone why they like feet, or blondes. You like what you like |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"How does it feel for both of you when I guy fucks you so much better than your boyfriend?"
I wouldn't say it's better, it's not the same, I love my bf & going home to him & what happens after is the best bit for me  |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"So what exactly is hotwifing ?? X "
Basically it's the male encouraging the female to have other sexual partners with his consent. In some cases guysnare present & watch their partner, in mine I go and meet them & send him video clips whilst I'm there. Urban dictionary defines it as:
A married woman who is allowed and/or encouraged by her husband to pursue sexual relationships with other individuals. Often, these relationships are in pursuit of fulfilling the husband's/couple's fantasies. |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"Do you always practice safe sex in your meets?? Xx"
Sometimes but not always, it depends on the person, their circumstances etc & if they have proof of being checked etc. I don't rush into meeting anyone so I have a good idea about them before I meet. I will generally chat for a few months prior to meeting someone |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"Does he play away too like an open relationship?
Or just a one way type thing?"
No he doesn't, it's just me. That was one of my first questions to him because I wouldn't be comfortable with that so I didn't want to do it if it meant that gave him the "right" to do the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi Saffron
I lived a hotwife/cuckold relationship for over 20 years... is your BF cuckold, does he ever perform clean up duties and if not does that turn you on?
Mark x |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"Hi Saffron
I lived a hotwife/cuckold relationship for over 20 years... is your BF cuckold, does he ever perform clean up duties and if not does that turn you on?
Mark x"
Hey Mark, no I wouldn't say he is cuckold and he doesn't perform clean up duties. Pleased to hear it's working long term for you guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait do you have a boyfriend or husband??
Well, he's my bf but we've been together 13 years just chosen not to marry (yet!) "
Technically your not a wife haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi Saffron,
Love your profile
We are probably at the first stage of hotwifing where we have had a good few mmf’s and we have discussed about Mrs meeting alone or hooking up with someone whist she’s on a girls night out and this might be a bit some way off at the moment, but like you I think she thinks I might want to do the same.
How did your partner assure you that he had no interest in doing the same?
N&T x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"at 54 im way outside your age limits which such a pity as I think your beautiful sexy ad so hot.
And I only live in Crowland!"
Haha fingers crossed hunny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find this a massive turn on also and been trying to get my wife to do this but I’d want to watch her. She doesn’t really understand why I like it. Any advice in trying to persuade her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find this a massive turn on also and been trying to get my wife to do this but I’d want to watch her. She doesn’t really understand why I like it. Any advice in trying to persuade her? "
Maybe get a hotgilf instead haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find this a massive turn on also and been trying to get my wife to do this but I’d want to watch her. She doesn’t really understand why I like it. Any advice in trying to persuade her? "
Don't try |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find this a massive turn on also and been trying to get my wife to do this but I’d want to watch her. She doesn’t really understand why I like it. Any advice in trying to persuade her?
Maybe get a hotgilf instead haha"
Easier said than done.... trust me! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find this a massive turn on also and been trying to get my wife to do this but I’d want to watch her. She doesn’t really understand why I like it. Any advice in trying to persuade her?
Maybe get a hotgilf instead haha
Easier said than done.... trust me! Lol"
Yo
On fab?? Not that difficult haha |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"Your hot tho, hotgirlf I'd call this xxx"
Ha ha good idea. I feel the scenario is the same regardless of whether we are married or not. It wouldn't be any different if we were married |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find this a massive turn on also and been trying to get my wife to do this but I’d want to watch her. She doesn’t really understand why I like it. Any advice in trying to persuade her?
Maybe get a hotgilf instead haha
Easier said than done.... trust me! Lol
Yo
On fab?? Not that difficult haha"
If only you were looking for a cuckold....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"love to chat to couples who are either into hotwifing or cuckold. We would like to chat on experiences and way forward"
If only I was in a couple I could answer lol |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"Hi Saffron,
Love your profile
We are probably at the first stage of hotwifing where we have had a good few mmf’s and we have discussed about Mrs meeting alone or hooking up with someone whist she’s on a girls night out and this might be a bit some way off at the moment, but like you I think she thinks I might want to do the same.
How did your partner assure you that he had no interest in doing the same?
N&T x"
We spoke about it a lot and I made it clear that I wasnt up for that and I wouldn't change my mind, we had already had a couple of MMF so we agreed that I'd try it, if either of us were unhappy about something we would be honest and we wouldn't do it again & would move on. I think being clear about boundaries and expectations from the off is important, it's changed over time for us as we've had more experiences but in the beginning it was learning what we were both comfortable with & enjoyed. Good luck on your journey |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"How did you get into it?
It was my boyfriends suggestion, he had been reading about it online & wanted to try it
What convinced you?"
Just lots of chatting about it and communication, we took it slow to start with me just chatting to guys and then once I found someone I liked we met for a drink one day first |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"Gemma sometimes finds it difficult to take pics or videos? How do you manage?
Thanks,"
I agree it can be difficult, firstly I always make it clear to the guy that videos/pics is a must. I don't send tons just maybe a few short video clips, I find handing my phone to the guy to video works well & they seem to enjoy the fact I'm going to send it to my OH. I also think it's important that my OH is part of it even though he's not there physically |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"Anyone want to ask me questions about my hotwifing experiences so far?
Who was you first solo meet? As in where you found him, where you met?"
My first solo meet was from Fab, we met for a drink mid week then arranged a hotel meet for the weekend. My bf paid for the hotel for me as a treat my first meet was one of my best so it set the bar pretty high |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"I find this a massive turn on also and been trying to get my wife to do this but I’d want to watch her. She doesn’t really understand why I like it. Any advice in trying to persuade her? "
Maybe get her to speak to someone like myself online, I get her reservations but it's getting to the bottom of what is she worried will be the outcome if she does... For example is she worried that if it goes wrong it will affect your relationship, some reassurance may help |
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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago
wirral |
Were you nervous the first time going off to meet somebody?
We were just getting in to this when lockdown happened. I’ve had one social only meet which I was soooooo nervous about but was great and such a buzz after. Can’t wait to get more in to it. X |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"Were you nervous the first time going off to meet somebody?
We were just getting in to this when lockdown happened. I’ve had one social only meet which I was soooooo nervous about but was great and such a buzz after. Can’t wait to get more in to it. X"
Yes a little, I think having the social first helped a lot as we had a laugh and good banter, I was more nervous he wouldn't turn up!! I tend to meet the same guys which I find helps alleviate nerves, I've had a few social meets that I've decided not to take any further too which avoids any awkward situations! Do you think you'll meet that guy for more once lockdown is over? |
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over a year ago
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"Unfortunately no longer together... so if you ever need clean up duties.....
Noted  "
Don’t leave me hanging....
Well not exactly hanging because it’s locked... |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"Do you choose between yourselves who you see or is that a choice you make alone?"
To start with it was together but now I choose, although I do always show my OH pics and tell him a bit about them. Plus he now knows my type |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"Unfortunately no longer together... so if you ever need clean up duties.....
Noted
Don’t leave me hanging....
Well not exactly hanging because it’s locked..."
Haha sorry, its not our thing |
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By *urflrCouple
over a year ago
wirral |
"Were you nervous the first time going off to meet somebody?
We were just getting in to this when lockdown happened. I’ve had one social only meet which I was soooooo nervous about but was great and such a buzz after. Can’t wait to get more in to it. X
Yes a little, I think having the social first helped a lot as we had a laugh and good banter, I was more nervous he wouldn't turn up!! I tend to meet the same guys which I find helps alleviate nerves, I've had a few social meets that I've decided not to take any further too which avoids any awkward situations! Do you think you'll meet that guy for more once lockdown is over? "
Yeah we’ve kept in touch and will hopefully arrange something when it’s all over. If anything, lockdown has made me more keen to progress things generally. Wish we’d done it sooner, little did we know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find this a massive turn on also and been trying to get my wife to do this but I’d want to watch her. She doesn’t really understand why I like it. Any advice in trying to persuade her?
Maybe get her to speak to someone like myself online, I get her reservations but it's getting to the bottom of what is she worried will be the outcome if she does... For example is she worried that if it goes wrong it will affect your relationship, some reassurance may help "
I think she worries it will affect our relationship and also that she’ll like it to much and will just want to fuck others all the time ha ha |
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What does your feller get out of this? How does he describe it?
I have no desire to do this personally. I don't think it would be right for our relationship. But I do find it extremely hot reading about women who do and it works for them and their partners. I think it's great that you love sex so much and have a deep relationship in which you can explore with full openness and consent in a way that works for you both.
Do you think it brings you closer together? If so, how?
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Would you share some stats (maybe approximations)?
How long have you been doing this?
How many times have you done it?
How many guys have you been with like this? I understand some are regulars.
How frequently do you do it, (outside of the pandemic)?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are fairly new to hotwifing, we have been on the swinging scene for 4 years ourselves, it naturally progressed to Hotwifing rather quickly for us..however it was sort of what we fantasised about from day one |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"Anyone want to ask me questions about my hotwifing experiences so far?
Only one question really, is the house next door to you for sale ?
A holiday home in Spalding is now top of my list "
Ha ha |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"I find this a massive turn on also and been trying to get my wife to do this but I’d want to watch her. She doesn’t really understand why I like it. Any advice in trying to persuade her?
Maybe get her to speak to someone like myself online, I get her reservations but it's getting to the bottom of what is she worried will be the outcome if she does... For example is she worried that if it goes wrong it will affect your relationship, some reassurance may help
I think she worries it will affect our relationship and also that she’ll like it to much and will just want to fuck others all the time ha ha "
I think the effect on my relationship has been a positive one and you'd think with the freedom that would be the case but it certainly isn't in mine. I can't speak for anyone else butthat isn't the case for me, sometimes I just simply can't be bothered to make the effort to find someone ha ha |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What does your feller get out of this? How does he describe it?
I have no desire to do this personally. I don't think it would be right for our relationship. But I do find it extremely hot reading about women who do and it works for them and their partners. I think it's great that you love sex so much and have a deep relationship in which you can explore with full openness and consent in a way that works for you both.
Do you think it brings you closer together? If so, how?
Luke "
He says its very difficult to put into words but he partly enjoys the jealousy, the taboo of it and that guys a lot younger want to fuck me.
I do think it brings us closer together, it's our secret that we share and I respect him for trusting me in that way. Its improved our sex life which in turn means we are much more connected emotionally & physically. Its also forced us to communicate a lot better as that is something neither of us were great at. |
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"What does your feller get out of this? How does he describe it?
I have no desire to do this personally. I don't think it would be right for our relationship. But I do find it extremely hot reading about women who do and it works for them and their partners. I think it's great that you love sex so much and have a deep relationship in which you can explore with full openness and consent in a way that works for you both.
Do you think it brings you closer together? If so, how?
Luke
He says its very difficult to put into words but he partly enjoys the jealousy, the taboo of it and that guys a lot younger want to fuck me.
I do think it brings us closer together, it's our secret that we share and I respect him for trusting me in that way. Its improved our sex life which in turn means we are much more connected emotionally & physically. Its also forced us to communicate a lot better as that is something neither of us were great at. "
As a cuckold I can only describe it as watching the woman you love and adore being used by another man (sometimes men!) as the most erotic and equally heartbreaking emotion you can ever experience |
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"Do you deny your partner sex in the build up to meeting your lover?
I don't think I've ever denied my partner sex in our entire relationship ha ha!! "
It sounds like you have a pretty equal relationship other than the hotwifing aspect.
Whilst a small part of me likes the idea - the ‘fair play’ part of me feels that if I’m shagging others then they ‘should’ too - though I fully accept and believe that your own partner doesn’t want to.
I also have an other hang up - viewing a guy who wants me to fuck others (whilst not fucking others) as an equal/alpha male would be difficult for me - but again I accept that this is my own issue and by no means always reality.
I guess I’m saying that whilst part of me finds this appealing I’d have reservations - which were exacerbated by recent conversations with a guy who wanted this - but who expected to meet at least 2-3 guys per week and have sex with large groups of guys. I’m sure this isn’t the norm - but essentially I felt like I’d be coerced into being a ‘free prostitute’ with a constant production line of meets.
I’m glad, however, that you and your partner have found something that clearly works for you both.
You have a great figure too, btw. |
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"We are fairly new to hotwifing, we have been on the swinging scene for 4 years ourselves, it naturally progressed to Hotwifing rather quickly for us..however it was sort of what we fantasised about from day one "
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over a year ago
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Double standards i find it . You can have your cake and eat it but he cannot? Each to their own as we all have our own journey. But id not like her being coming home filled with another mans cum and i cannot do the same to another woman. Thats why id never be in to hotwifing. But as i said its both your journey so as long as you both like whats happening its all good |
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"Double standards i find it . You can have your cake and eat it but he cannot? Each to their own as we all have our own journey. But id not like her being coming home filled with another mans cum and i cannot do the same to another woman. Thats why id never be in to hotwifing. But as i said its both your journey so as long as you both like whats happening its all good"
Is it really double standards if that's their thing? |
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"What does your feller get out of this? How does he describe it?
I have no desire to do this personally. I don't think it would be right for our relationship. But I do find it extremely hot reading about women who do and it works for them and their partners. I think it's great that you love sex so much and have a deep relationship in which you can explore with full openness and consent in a way that works for you both.
Do you think it brings you closer together? If so, how?
Luke
He says its very difficult to put into words but he partly enjoys the jealousy, the taboo of it and that guys a lot younger want to fuck me.
I do think it brings us closer together, it's our secret that we share and I respect him for trusting me in that way. Its improved our sex life which in turn means we are much more connected emotionally & physically. Its also forced us to communicate a lot better as that is something neither of us were great at.
As a cuckold I can only describe it as watching the woman you love and adore being used by another man (sometimes men!) as the most erotic and equally heartbreaking emotion you can ever experience "
And thats why i could not do it. Both of us fucking is fine and watching each other as we fuck others. But sitting there just watching her only get fucked i will pass on. |
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"Double standards i find it . You can have your cake and eat it but he cannot? Each to their own as we all have our own journey. But id not like her being coming home filled with another mans cum and i cannot do the same to another woman. Thats why id never be in to hotwifing. But as i said its both your journey so as long as you both like whats happening its all good
Is it really double standards if that's their thing?"
I said its their journey. But its just my opinion thats all lets be honest my opinion means fuck all really as we all have our journey and kinks. |
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"What does your feller get out of this? How does he describe it?
I have no desire to do this personally. I don't think it would be right for our relationship. But I do find it extremely hot reading about women who do and it works for them and their partners. I think it's great that you love sex so much and have a deep relationship in which you can explore with full openness and consent in a way that works for you both.
Do you think it brings you closer together? If so, how?
Luke
He says its very difficult to put into words but he partly enjoys the jealousy, the taboo of it and that guys a lot younger want to fuck me.
I do think it brings us closer together, it's our secret that we share and I respect him for trusting me in that way. Its improved our sex life which in turn means we are much more connected emotionally & physically. Its also forced us to communicate a lot better as that is something neither of us were great at.
As a cuckold I can only describe it as watching the woman you love and adore being used by another man (sometimes men!) as the most erotic and equally heartbreaking emotion you can ever experience
And thats why i could not do it. Both of us fucking is fine and watching each other as we fuck others. But sitting there just watching her only get fucked i will pass on. "
You could join in |
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"Do you deny your partner sex in the build up to meeting your lover?
I don't think I've ever denied my partner sex in our entire relationship ha ha!!
It sounds like you have a pretty equal relationship other than the hotwifing aspect.
Whilst a small part of me likes the idea - the ‘fair play’ part of me feels that if I’m shagging others then they ‘should’ too - though I fully accept and believe that your own partner doesn’t want to.
I also have an other hang up - viewing a guy who wants me to fuck others (whilst not fucking others) as an equal/alpha male would be difficult for me - but again I accept that this is my own issue and by no means always reality.
I guess I’m saying that whilst part of me finds this appealing I’d have reservations - which were exacerbated by recent conversations with a guy who wanted this - but who expected to meet at least 2-3 guys per week and have sex with large groups of guys. I’m sure this isn’t the norm - but essentially I felt like I’d be coerced into being a ‘free prostitute’ with a constant production line of meets.
I’m glad, however, that you and your partner have found something that clearly works for you both.
You have a great figure too, btw. "
You just need to meet the right “guy” (or cuckold)
He says while chucking his business card in... |
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"What does your feller get out of this? How does he describe it?
I have no desire to do this personally. I don't think it would be right for our relationship. But I do find it extremely hot reading about women who do and it works for them and their partners. I think it's great that you love sex so much and have a deep relationship in which you can explore with full openness and consent in a way that works for you both.
Do you think it brings you closer together? If so, how?
Luke
He says its very difficult to put into words but he partly enjoys the jealousy, the taboo of it and that guys a lot younger want to fuck me.
I do think it brings us closer together, it's our secret that we share and I respect him for trusting me in that way. Its improved our sex life which in turn means we are much more connected emotionally & physically. Its also forced us to communicate a lot better as that is something neither of us were great at.
As a cuckold I can only describe it as watching the woman you love and adore being used by another man (sometimes men!) as the most erotic and equally heartbreaking emotion you can ever experience
And thats why i could not do it. Both of us fucking is fine and watching each other as we fuck others. But sitting there just watching her only get fucked i will pass on.
You could join in"
Thats stag&vixen. Completely different to hotwife. |
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"Do you always practice safe sex in your meets?? Xx
Sometimes but not always, it depends on the person, their circumstances etc & if they have proof of being checked etc. I don't rush into meeting anyone so I have a good idea about them before I meet. I will generally chat for a few months prior to meeting someone "
You’ve probably had a few gangbangs right?
If so, what’s the most amount of men you’ve allowed to cum inside you unprotected in one day/night? (Obviously when you’ve all been tested beforehand).
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"Do you deny your partner sex in the build up to meeting your lover?
I don't think I've ever denied my partner sex in our entire relationship ha ha!!
It sounds like you have a pretty equal relationship other than the hotwifing aspect.
Whilst a small part of me likes the idea - the ‘fair play’ part of me feels that if I’m shagging others then they ‘should’ too - though I fully accept and believe that your own partner doesn’t want to.
I also have an other hang up - viewing a guy who wants me to fuck others (whilst not fucking others) as an equal/alpha male would be difficult for me - but again I accept that this is my own issue and by no means always reality.
I guess I’m saying that whilst part of me finds this appealing I’d have reservations - which were exacerbated by recent conversations with a guy who wanted this - but who expected to meet at least 2-3 guys per week and have sex with large groups of guys. I’m sure this isn’t the norm - but essentially I felt like I’d be coerced into being a ‘free prostitute’ with a constant production line of meets.
I’m glad, however, that you and your partner have found something that clearly works for you both.
You have a great figure too, btw. "
Thanks, yeah I'm quite happy with 2 to 3 meets a year! I wouldn't want to meet 2-3 a week either, it would be exhausting |
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By *affr0n_43 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nr Kings Lynn, Norfolk |
"Do you always practice safe sex in your meets?? Xx
Sometimes but not always, it depends on the person, their circumstances etc & if they have proof of being checked etc. I don't rush into meeting anyone so I have a good idea about them before I meet. I will generally chat for a few months prior to meeting someone
You’ve probably had a few gangbangs right?
If so, what’s the most amount of men you’ve allowed to cum inside you unprotected in one day/night? (Obviously when you’ve all been tested beforehand).
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No I haven't had any gangbangs, I've only ever had a 3some with my bf and another guy. Never say never though |
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