"are there any genuine subs on here as most seem fakes ? be interested to find good one "
This isn’t a bdsm site as such try fet life but be prepared most practiced subs will smell a dommibie a mile off. |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
One mans "good sub" isnt necessary another guys idea of a good one. Op try and be a little upfront as to what your looking for, you never know, you might actually find more compatible subs rather then stating they are fake. |
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I don’t understand why men post threads saying they can’t find the type of woman they are looking for. Surely that is what the search option is for - you narrow it down using the choices available and then you read all the profiles and hot list the ones that appeal to you and then write an engaging message that explains why they appeal to them.
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"I don’t understand why men post threads saying they can’t find the type of woman they are looking for. Surely that is what the search option is for - you narrow it down using the choices available and then you read all the profiles and hot list the ones that appeal to you and then write an engaging message that explains why they appeal to them.
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I think the “read profiles” bit is where it all falls apart. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"are there any genuine subs on here as most seem fakes ? be interested to find good one "
I am not sure that advertising for a sub like this will work for you as you have not covered what you are looking for and what you can offer.
Remember submissive doesn't mean a doormat for you to use and discard as you feel like it. |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"I'm submissive OP but based on the information available so far I'd not be interested - does that make me "fake"? Or am I "genuine"? "
If your not interested clearly you are fake  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I'm submissive OP but based on the information available so far I'd not be interested - does that make me "fake"? Or am I "genuine"?
If your not interested clearly you are fake "
Wonder if I can take myself back for a refund? |
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"are there any genuine subs on here as most seem fakes ? be interested to find good one "
What do you have to offer a potential submissive? What is your idea of a Dom/sub relationship and what experience do you have? |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
What would happen if the OP was right?
That there were actually a lot of Saturday subs, those who enjoy playing B/d play at weekends and don’t full understand the subtitles of a full holistic D/s relationship.
Are they fake? No, just enjoying their sensuality.
Are they Subs? Yes, on a Saturday night.
Do they understand the full dynamics of a D/s relationship?
For those who think they have it in a nutshell, well I suspect all they have is the shell, and that at times that includes me. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"What would happen if the OP was right?
That there were actually a lot of Saturday subs, those who enjoy playing B/d play at weekends and don’t full understand the subtitles of a full holistic D/s relationship.
Are they fake? No, just enjoying their sensuality.
Are they Subs? Yes, on a Saturday night.
Do they understand the full dynamics of a D/s relationship?
For those who think they have it in a nutshell, well I suspect all they have is the shell, and that at times that includes me."
The thing is though every nutshell is different and unique to the individuals that define it - it doesn't make it any less of a nutshell, which is why comments like "genuine" and "true" applied to D/s are laughable - what comments like the OPs should say is "Are there any subs who are *compatible* with my view of D/s?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don’t understand why men post threads saying they can’t find the type of woman they are looking for. Surely that is what the search option is for - you narrow it down using the choices available and then you read all the profiles and hot list the ones that appeal to you and then write an engaging message that explains why they appeal to them.
I think the “read profiles” bit is where it all falls apart."
 . Yes lazy - don’t want to do the work. |
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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago
South Leicestershire (willing to travel) |
There are definitely subs on here, I have had the pleasure. It isn't about just finding someone who is sub though, it's about striking up a relationship and understanding with someone who may well then be prepared to share their submissive persuasions. |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"I'm submissive OP but based on the information available so far I'd not be interested - does that make me "fake"? Or am I "genuine"?
If your not interested clearly you are fake
Wonder if I can take myself back for a refund? "
Do you still have receipt |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I'm submissive OP but based on the information available so far I'd not be interested - does that make me "fake"? Or am I "genuine"?
If your not interested clearly you are fake
Wonder if I can take myself back for a refund?
Do you still have receipt "
Of course but suspect after all this time the statute of limitations may have kicked in |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"I'm submissive OP but based on the information available so far I'd not be interested - does that make me "fake"? Or am I "genuine"?
If your not interested clearly you are fake
Wonder if I can take myself back for a refund?
Do you still have receipt
Of course but suspect after all this time the statute of limitations may have kicked in "
I will take you off your hands for Five whole english pounds! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a pure sub is some one that lets the man or women be the boss we are told what to do but have normal lives to out side the sub part its not all sex"
If that is the agreed upon dynamic, but it’s not that simple |
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"are there any genuine subs on here as most seem fakes ? be interested to find good one "
why do you deem them fakes...and what qualities would make them good.. also how will you show them that your a good Dom or Dom at all?
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"I'm submissive OP but based on the information available so far I'd not be interested - does that make me "fake"? Or am I "genuine"?
If your not interested clearly you are fake
Wonder if I can take myself back for a refund?
Do you still have receipt
Of course but suspect after all this time the statute of limitations may have kicked in
I will take you off your hands for Five whole english pounds!"
Another successful outcome hahahahahaha |
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I’ve just realised my mistake in even bothering to respond to this thread - OP likes to start numerous threads complaining about how fake and/or rude everyone is, then (rudely) buggers off and never replies to any point anyone makes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just realised my mistake in even bothering to respond to this thread - OP likes to start numerous threads complaining about how fake and/or rude everyone is, then (rudely) buggers off and never replies to any point anyone makes."
How rude?  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"What would happen if the OP was right?
That there were actually a lot of Saturday subs, those who enjoy playing B/d play at weekends and don’t full understand the subtitles of a full holistic D/s relationship.
Are they fake? No, just enjoying their sensuality.
Are they Subs? Yes, on a Saturday night.
Do they understand the full dynamics of a D/s relationship?
For those who think they have it in a nutshell, well I suspect all they have is the shell, and that at times that includes me.
The thing is though every nutshell is different and unique to the individuals that define it - it doesn't make it any less of a nutshell, which is why comments like "genuine" and "true" applied to D/s are laughable - what comments like the OPs should say is "Are there any subs who are *compatible* with my view of D/s?""
Totally agree, problem is it’s only the shell. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I'm submissive OP but based on the information available so far I'd not be interested - does that make me "fake"? Or am I "genuine"?
If your not interested clearly you are fake
Wonder if I can take myself back for a refund?
Do you still have receipt
Of course but suspect after all this time the statute of limitations may have kicked in
I will take you off your hands for Five whole english pounds!
Another successful outcome hahahahahaha"
It is? I was hanging on for £5.53!! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"What would happen if the OP was right?
That there were actually a lot of Saturday subs, those who enjoy playing B/d play at weekends and don’t full understand the subtitles of a full holistic D/s relationship.
Are they fake? No, just enjoying their sensuality.
Are they Subs? Yes, on a Saturday night.
Do they understand the full dynamics of a D/s relationship?
For those who think they have it in a nutshell, well I suspect all they have is the shell, and that at times that includes me.
The thing is though every nutshell is different and unique to the individuals that define it - it doesn't make it any less of a nutshell, which is why comments like "genuine" and "true" applied to D/s are laughable - what comments like the OPs should say is "Are there any subs who are *compatible* with my view of D/s?"
Totally agree, problem is it’s only the shell."
And the nut it protects can only be revealed once the shell is peeled away through negotiation and discussion to establish whether that compatibility is there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another one of these? It takes time and trust to build a d/s relationship. My gf and I clicked and started out hard, but our relationship changed when we fell in love (stupid feels!). Put us in a club however and she's tied up in the fetish room and available to anyone I invite after a good flogging. Point being you can't just say "where the subs at? “
Just sounds creepy and suggests you don't know the dynamics. |
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