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By *RST OP Couple
over a year ago
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We have been asked many times to cam with singles or other couples. We have always (so far) turned down the request as it's something we're not sure about. Going on cam is not why we got into this lifestyle, but it seems it may be the way forward during Covid.
So, help us out, if you can.
1. What are the expectations of going on cam?
2. What do you get from going on cam?
3. How long does it usually last?
4. Are there any other points of etiquette that are important?
We get it largely comes down to what we're happy with, but we would like to understand this more.
Thanks.
DRST 
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I think the chat rooms would be a good start for you.
Or maybe a friend you have connected with on here. There are no expectations as such other than the rules of the site.
We started off fully clothed and as my confidence grew in myself I started removing my clothes. We personally have really enjoyed the camera play we have had. 
We did this way before the virus came around. It is a way of releasing the sexual tension in a safe and private environment.
Try it, if you don't like it that's okay. Not everyone likes the same thing.
Also we only show our face in a private chat, not in the public chat rooms on here.
Hope this helps a little. More than happy to discuss further in private if you wish. 
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over a year ago
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I've only done the chat room cams...
Didn't know there was a private cam facility? Doesn't it mean you have to go off site, to Skype or something?
OP think about what you would want to get out of it |
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It depends whether you want to watch or be watched...
C has gone on cam to tease the guys, as she enjoys being an exhibitionist...but she doesn’t show her face and goes as far as getting her boobs out and that’s it. She might stand up and show what lingerie she’s wearing and heels if she is...but that’s it. She then interacts in the group and sometimes view a couple of seperate cams... it’s all about the tease for C.
It’s what you are comfortable with...I would suggest just sitting in a room and seeing what goes on to get used to them.
I find them a little tedious...nothing really happens and then when something does, it’s not really worth the hour waiting 
But we’d love to interact with a hot single female or couple one on one... |
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By *RST OP Couple
over a year ago
S. Northants |
"We’ve done the chat rooms as we love the teasing element and the attention, so far we’ve not done a private cam chat, just not sure we would get anything from it x"
We're generally quite private, so not sure how we'd feel about the chat rooms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not the same obviously but we’ve had some fun and met some really interesting people...best tips: choose people you feel comfortable talking to first and don’t hang around if the vibe doesn’t work for you...hope it works out  |
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By *RST OP Couple
over a year ago
S. Northants |
"I've only done the chat room cams...
Didn't know there was a private cam facility? Doesn't it mean you have to go off site, to Skype or something?
OP think about what you would want to get out of it"
How did you find being on the cams?
It would probably be for the same reasons we're here. To see others enjoyment and to excite us. X |
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By *RST OP Couple
over a year ago
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"It’s not the same obviously but we’ve had some fun and met some really interesting people...best tips: choose people you feel comfortable talking to first and don’t hang around if the vibe doesn’t work for you...hope it works out "
Thank you. I'm worried I'd feel a bit self conscious about it. I think ST would possibly be more comfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’ve done the chat rooms as we love the teasing element and the attention, so far we’ve not done a private cam chat, just not sure we would get anything from it x"
Surely knowing who is watching.
I hate the idea of someone I’m not attracted to seeing me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First of all you don't have to cam to go into the cam rooms , you can just chat normally about things. After if you want to turn on the cam then fine again just chat as long as you are in a local room there are Mod that make sure there is no harassment. x |
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"It’s not the same obviously but we’ve had some fun and met some really interesting people...best tips: choose people you feel comfortable talking to first and don’t hang around if the vibe doesn’t work for you...hope it works out
Thank you. I'm worried I'd feel a bit self conscious about it. I think ST would possibly be more comfortable. "
We’ve haven’t cammed on here for ages...we like to build a connection with people we’d like to meet in person after covid....cam is part of that foreplay. Can feel very difficult if self conscious...maybe chat and flirt and keep your clothes until you feel safe and relaxed...you both look really attractive btw but give yourself the time you need |
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"We have been asked many times to cam with singles or other couples. We have always (so far) turned down the request as it's something we're not sure about. Going on cam is not why we got into this lifestyle, but it seems it may be the way forward during Covid.
So, help us out, if you can.
1. What are the expectations of going on cam?
2. What do you get from going on cam?
3. How long does it usually last?
4. Are there any other points of etiquette that are important?
We get it largely comes down to what we're happy with, but we would like to understand this more.
Thanks.
DRST
xx "
We tend to head into directing rooms sometimes at weekend(saying that it’s mostly me on display as Od likes to stay out of view) we do as little or as much as we fancy and leave when we feel like we’ve had enough (or horny and want to go and play off cam) we would much prefer the real thing of course but this is all we can do for now and it’s a bit of safe fun
I have sound off as I’d worry about what to say but camera on. Find it easier to type than talk.
The beauty as well is that it’s easy to say thank you and leave if it’s not for you, especially in chat rooms/directing rooms. We don’t really do 121 cam so can’t give advice on that one though. Good luck. X |
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over a year ago
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How did you find being on the cams?
It would probably be for the same reasons we're here. To see others enjoyment and to excite us. X"
After the first few mins i loved it.. I had to keep reminding myself there were strangers watching, so to tone it down lol.. I stripped to my undies and did a lot of wiggling 
I was careful to use a tripod, and like my photos, it was fairly close to control the frame and i was also careful to control the light.
I couldn't chat + cam on my phone , so just danced and then chatted once I'd turned the cam off |
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When we started our swinging journey a year ago we used to play on cam a lot. It was a safe way to get used to getting naked in front of others and to watch and be watched.
It ranged from me just getting my boobs out to us having full sex, oh and a lot of me playing with toys lol
We enjoyed it a lot, especially during lockdown when we found some lovely couples and we had a couple of bottles of wine and made a night of it.
Once we had our first real meet in August we found Cam play less exciting and now haven’t played on cam for a few months. That said, we are now back in lockdown so cam fun will definitely be back in our agenda.
Jxx |
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"When we started our swinging journey a year ago we used to play on cam a lot. It was a safe way to get used to getting naked in front of others and to watch and be watched.
It ranged from me just getting my boobs out to us having full sex, oh and a lot of me playing with toys lol
We enjoyed it a lot, especially during lockdown when we found some lovely couples and we had a couple of bottles of wine and made a night of it.
Once we had our first real meet in August we found Cam play less exciting and now haven’t played on cam for a few months. That said, we are now back in lockdown so cam fun will definitely be back in our agenda.
Jxx"
Cannot wait for you to return to cam now |
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"When we started our swinging journey a year ago we used to play on cam a lot. It was a safe way to get used to getting naked in front of others and to watch and be watched.
It ranged from me just getting my boobs out to us having full sex, oh and a lot of me playing with toys lol
We enjoyed it a lot, especially during lockdown when we found some lovely couples and we had a couple of bottles of wine and made a night of it.
Once we had our first real meet in August we found Cam play less exciting and now haven’t played on cam for a few months. That said, we are now back in lockdown so cam fun will definitely be back in our agenda.
Jxx
Cannot wait for you to return to cam now "
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Going on cam in the chat room I think is less stressful than camming one to one or meeting.
In the fabs chat room, you do what is comfortable to you, you can go on cam if you want to, or not, but can still chat with others.
It is like the chat room version of meeting in clubs.
In the non-directing rooms, nobody can direct you to do anything.
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"Going on cam in the chat room I think is less stressful than camming one to one or meeting.
In the fabs chat room, you do what is comfortable to you, you can go on cam if you want to, or not, but can still chat with others.
It is like the chat room version of meeting in clubs.
In the non-directing rooms, nobody can direct you to do anything.
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We’ve done the chat rooms with mixed experiences, some good some bad. Skype has been our preferred option with couples and some singles that we have git to know
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We’ve done the chat rooms with mixed experiences, some good some bad. Skype has been our preferred option with couples and some singles that we have git to know
Jxx"
Indeed.
Skype is like a 1 to 1 meeting.
It is more private and comfortable with someone we already known right?
Chat rooms is like the club.
Just be silly and chat with everybody with all the virtual noises.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have enjoyed watching couples for some time ,but now with covid its only possible on cam,if all concerned enjoy it it can be fun,you only go as far as you are comfortable with ,teasing and being admired is all part of it., |
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We are mainly focused on camming and chat as we are new to this stuff and want to see wherein leads us. We start by getting to know couples on kik. Sharing pics and videos playing dares and making sure we click so there none of that awkwardness when it comes to cam. We have cammed in the chat here which was awesome and just went with the flow of how comfortable we felt and how the room is. Was very fun |
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"We are mainly focused on camming and chat as we are new to this stuff and want to see wherein leads us. We start by getting to know couples on kik. Sharing pics and videos playing dares and making sure we click so there none of that awkwardness when it comes to cam. We have cammed in the chat here which was awesome and just went with the flow of how comfortable we felt and how the room is. Was very fun"
just seen your videos mmmmyes you are fun ,they are great x
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We joined Fab as soon as things started lockig down again.
So so far we have only managed to cam with others.
We played with another couple on snapchat. It was super fun as it got us all hot and steamy.
And as newbies it sort of broke the ice for us a little.
We have planned to meet thos couple as soon as things are safe to do so!
Also it was the only way for us to get verifies by other real people to prove we are real. So it definitely has benefits!
So we would be happy to play with other couples & singles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are mainly focused on camming and chat as we are new to this stuff and want to see wherein leads us. We start by getting to know couples on kik. Sharing pics and videos playing dares and making sure we click so there none of that awkwardness when it comes to cam. We have cammed in the chat here which was awesome and just went with the flow of how comfortable we felt and how the room is. Was very funjust seen your videos mmmmyes you are fun ,they are great x"
Hahaha why thank you x |
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