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over a year ago
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got a wink and message (with piks!!!) lastnight,got around to reading it this afternoon and found out they have blocked us W.T.FUCK is that all about,why get intouch in the first place  |
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People use the block button fairly liberally on Fab, and we're all different in our needs. They may have changed their minds about what they wanted, realised they weren't for you - or vice versa.
The good news is that it has now given you a clear message that nothing is going to be happening, so you can strike out afresh with others. Not everyone on here is massively experienced, and it's daunting for some, and they put their toes in the water, then retreat - this may account for why they've suddenly realised you're fully genuine and ready for it all.
As others point out, some expect it all NOW, and when it doesn't happen, they get all funny.
Chins up, you're both an asset to the site, and there's plenty of people who will yearn for you. Good luck! |
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"People use the block button fairly liberally on Fab, and we're all different in our needs. They may have changed their minds about what they wanted, realised they weren't for you - or vice versa.
The good news is that it has now given you a clear message that nothing is going to be happening, so you can strike out afresh with others. Not everyone on here is massively experienced, and it's daunting for some, and they put their toes in the water, then retreat - this may account for why they've suddenly realised you're fully genuine and ready for it all.
As others point out, some expect it all NOW, and when it doesn't happen, they get all funny.
Chins up, you're both an asset to the site, and there's plenty of people who will yearn for you. Good luck!"
thanks for that it made perfect sence and thank you  |
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i am kind of like that, though, although not so much if we send a message and it remains unread, but rather if it is read, and not replied to, then i will give it an hour and delete them, as they obviously have no intention of replying.
i may have got it wrong in the past, but will never know lol.
ateotd people can be on this site at all times of the day and night, so cant expect all to be on the same timeline. |
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"i am kind of like that, though, although not so much if we send a message and it remains unread, but rather if it is read, and not replied to, then i will give it an hour and delete them, as they obviously have no intention of replying.
i may have got it wrong in the past, but will never know lol.
ateotd people can be on this site at all times of the day and night, so cant expect all to be on the same timeline."
Sometimes we read our mail on our phones but to much hassle to type whilst at work so will reply later, and also sometimes only one of us is on and we never reply or make a decision till both is ere, so will reply later on, but how ever we have been blocked cause of this,
We give a day and check if theve been on and read ifso we take it there not interested then block to save future mail,
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