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What got you interested in swinging?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, I'm new here and wondered what brought you all to fab? I guess for us some honest conversations made us realise we're both actually very alike and want the same things just never spoken about it before, I do feel quite lucky I get to explore this with A. I can imagine the conversations don't always go that way. Just curious how you all got to joining fab. J |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been à swinger for nearly 30 yrs, way before Internet etc. My late hubby became a swinger with me, I was introduced to the scene back in the early nineties, while working on the West Coast of Scotland and in the nineties there was very little information, but we somehow knew where private parties were taking place, we had a very small closed group that we met four times a year, i still keep in contact with some of the original members of that group. Fab was introduced to me 6 yrs ago. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have been à swinger for nearly 30 yrs, way before Internet etc. My late hubby became a swinger with me, I was introduced to the scene back in the early nineties, while working on the West Coast of Scotland and in the nineties there was very little information, but we somehow knew where private parties were taking place, we had a very small closed group that we met four times a year, i still keep in contact with some of the original members of that group. Fab was introduced to me 6 yrs ago. "
Oh wow that's great, id be lost without fab, I didn't even know we had clubs close. It's great you all keep in touch it's good to have people like minded to chat too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wanted to participate in group sex as it had always excited me.x"
I'm the same, more on the female side, however I am curious about couples since joining, I do like the watching my partner with another woman, which I'm actually suprised at but definitely makes me want to get stuck in. I think just joining fab has made me more open minded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Recommended by a friend of my partners. Started wanting to find a unicorn for me to play with but we all know how that pans out for most! Went from there really. Enjoy clubs and enjoy talking to new people and I’ve made some good friends on Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Recommended by a friend of my partners. Started wanting to find a unicorn for me to play with but we all know how that pans out for most! Went from there really. Enjoy clubs and enjoy talking to new people and I’ve made some good friends on Fab. "
That's great you've made some good friends, yes the unicorn search is difficult that's where we are at atm, A isn't sure he'd be comfortable with another man in the room. |
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Both naught and sexually adventurous and once we realised through some bedroom chit chat then our curiosity got the better of us. Some Google searches led us here and into the liberated world of swing. |
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When I first met Paul he was open about being a swinger, it intrigued me and after a lot of discussion we went to Chams together. He was swinging long before fab existed and it was people at Chams that mentioned it to us which is how we ended up on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My partner and I used to talk about having others in our bed years ago before I knew it was called swinging. I has progressed from there and never looked back. "
That's great, do you mind me asking are you both OK in terms of not getting jealous, apologies for all the questions. J |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Both naught and sexually adventurous and once we realised through some bedroom chit chat then our curiosity got the better of us. Some Google searches led us here and into the liberated world of swing."
That's great, similar here too once we had the chat there wasn't any stopping us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When I first met Paul he was open about being a swinger, it intrigued me and after a lot of discussion we went to Chams together. He was swinging long before fab existed and it was people at Chams that mentioned it to us which is how we ended up on here."
Is chams a swingers club? I'd love to go to one, I've started at the wrong time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wanted to participate in group sex as it had always excited me.x"
This is exactly what got me interested too and what got me coming back and back again as well as exploring my self sexually and having sex with people of all shapes, sizes, genders and ethnicity I wouldn't in my every day life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d say a personality that always gets curious of aspects of life, so thought I’d explore a bit. I didn’t and don’t have a set fantasy to achieve, even when younger I was confident enough to find and take an opportunity if one arose, there were still websites about, and I found it interesting.
I think it was intriguing as I was chatting to a man who had just started his swinging journey with his wife, got me curious but helped to see that way of life in a different light. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Within a couple of months of us being together peaches told me she had always had fantasys of going with another woman. We had our first child and the fantasy got forgotten about. Then when we started having sex more regular we started talking about the fantasy again, we talked about bringing in an escort to fulfill it, we knocked that idea on the head though. We then found out about swinging and fab and what we wanted out of it. We ticked the FF play and FFM and now our fantasys have evolved into us now wanting to fully swap . Our fantasy is now to see each other with somebody else. It'd a Mad world haha. |
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"Within a couple of months of us being together peaches told me she had always had fantasys of going with another woman. We had our first child and the fantasy got forgotten about. Then when we started having sex more regular we started talking about the fantasy again, we talked about bringing in an escort to fulfill it, we knocked that idea on the head though. We then found out about swinging and fab and what we wanted out of it. We ticked the FF play and FFM and now our fantasys have evolved into us now wanting to fully swap . Our fantasy is now to see each other with somebody else. It'd a Mad world haha."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is a long long story... but my favourite movie is Eyes Wide Shut Yeh intrigued by the movie..first went on a swinger cruise to see if we liked ......we liked "
Swingers cruise, I didn't know there was such a thing, that sounds interesting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d say a personality that always gets curious of aspects of life, so thought I’d explore a bit. I didn’t and don’t have a set fantasy to achieve, even when younger I was confident enough to find and take an opportunity if one arose, there were still websites about, and I found it interesting.
I think it was intriguing as I was chatting to a man who had just started his swinging journey with his wife, got me curious but helped to see that way of life in a different light. "
Yes I find it quite intriguing, I do like trying everything, you never know what you'll like. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Within a couple of months of us being together peaches told me she had always had fantasys of going with another woman. We had our first child and the fantasy got forgotten about. Then when we started having sex more regular we started talking about the fantasy again, we talked about bringing in an escort to fulfill it, we knocked that idea on the head though. We then found out about swinging and fab and what we wanted out of it. We ticked the FF play and FFM and now our fantasys have evolved into us now wanting to fully swap . Our fantasy is now to see each other with somebody else. It'd a Mad world haha."
This is exactly like me, we had the chat and he's always wanted a ffm and I've always been curious in woman now we've ticked that off I'm curious about everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My partner and I used to talk about having others in our bed years ago before I knew it was called swinging. I has progressed from there and never looked back. "
Describes us but we initially met few single guys to see if we can take it and then slowly proceeded to meeting cpls. Been fun so far  |
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"Is a long long story... but my favourite movie is Eyes Wide Shut Yeh intrigued by the movie..first went on a swinger cruise to see if we liked ......we liked
Swingers cruise, I didn't know there was such a thing, that sounds interesting. "
Go for it ...it may change your outlook forever Xxx |
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For me (Mr) it was not something I was interested in as such. I didn't really know that swingers existed. I always thought that is was just some kind of myth from America, car keys in the bowl and all that. This was way back in the 80's
Then towards the end of my first marriage I was using the Loot Ads (remember them? LOL) for an occasional bit of NSA fun and was contacted by a couple. A COUPLE! Another bloke wanted me to fuck his Mrs? 
Anyway we met and I did and then they told me about a swinger club. WTF is a swinger club? I asked.
Anyway they told me about it (Adam & Eve at Eccles) and from then on (1987/88) I was a semi regular visitor.
Since then I've been in and out of the lifestyle (mostly in) both as part of a couple with 2 ex GF's plus the last 12 years with Mrs H. And as a single guy in between.
Loved every single minute of it. |
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"For me (Mr) it was not something I was interested in as such. I didn't really know that swingers existed. I always thought that is was just some kind of myth from America, car keys in the bowl and all that. This was way back in the 80's
Then towards the end of my first marriage I was using the Loot Ads (remember them? LOL) for an occasional bit of NSA fun and was contacted by a couple. A COUPLE! Another bloke wanted me to fuck his Mrs?
Anyway we met and I did and then they told me about a swinger club. WTF is a swinger club? I asked.
Anyway they told me about it (Adam & Eve at Eccles) and from then on (1987/88) I was a semi regular visitor.
Since then I've been in and out of the lifestyle (mostly in) both as part of a couple with 2 ex GF's plus the last 12 years with Mrs H. And as a single guy in between.
Loved every single minute of it. "
I do remember loot! And contact mags never had much luck though, making up for it nowadays! |
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"When I first met Paul he was open about being a swinger, it intrigued me and after a lot of discussion we went to Chams together. He was swinging long before fab existed and it was people at Chams that mentioned it to us which is how we ended up on here.
Is chams a swingers club? I'd love to go to one, I've started at the wrong time. "
Yes, Chameleons in Darleston near Walsall. Definitely our favourite and can't wait to get back there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was introduced by a guy id just started seeing, a few years ago. Swinging wasn't even on my radar, but said I'd give it a go. Our first experience was a masked NYE ball at VA. I was worried I'd lose my nerve, but I loved every minute  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was introduced by a guy id just started seeing, a few years ago. Swinging wasn't even on my radar, but said I'd give it a go. Our first experience was a masked NYE ball at VA. I was worried I'd lose my nerve, but I loved every minute "
Masked ball sounds fab, Im a little worried ill loose my nerve I'm quite shy (to start) but I wasn't once we got there I was quite suprised. |
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By *osco78Man
over a year ago
Sheffield |
Unusually my parents were into it and I found a contact mag under the sofa years ago, so I was well aware of this life , but I didn't take my first steps untill 2010 used to have a favourite club that's sadly gone now . |
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What got me into the lifestyle and on fab?
I got into this when I was in the early noughties and started when me and a ex girlfriend started talking about meeting others. We watched porn together and got interested. We were away on holiday when we met a couple who made it very clear that they wanted us to join them and we invited them over for drinks etc for the evening. Both us guys swapped partners then did each female separately 2 on 1, a good evening but we did not keep in contact. We started looking and we met other couples until we went separate ways. I am not a 'hardened swinger', no clubs etc although have experience and I meet friends every now and again, fab is better than most adult sites to meet genuine people. |
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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago
Princess Risborough |
I had always liked watching sex and again always wanted to watch my paryltner gerring fucked by another guy. So we chatted abd by accidentvwent to ourvfirst club as we thought itvwas just an erotic dance club. I watched her have sex with multiple guys that night abd we never looked back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What got me into swinging,I used to work along side a married couple got in great with them nights out to the pub and things like that,then one night at there's he was telling me they swung a few times in the past and telling me he liked watching her take bigger cocks,then asked if I would ride her I said yes, and I have never looked back to this day am still good friends with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone mentioned it in conversation whilst on plenty of fish, signed up and haven’t looked back and been on and off over the years and had some fun times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My brother told me about it when I split from my ex.
Was a single guy for a while and went to club f.
When I met cherry we talked about it and she was intreaged to explore her sexuality in a caring relationship. We joined before March and have missed both exploring or sexuality together and fun with others. |
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By *ob P44Man
over a year ago
Bridgewater |
My ex wife introduced me back in the day where you replied to small ads in local free ads type papers and then the luxury of moving onto Yahoo groups! Anyone else remember them?.
Even though we split years ago I have remained on the scene ever since but have not helped myself by moving 4 times! |
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Through an ex girlfriend
Met her on a Friday night after work, in a club, and got chatting, we got on really well and exchanged numbers, and the. went our own separate ways.
Got home and started having a d*unken wank, when my phone goes, and it was her, inviting me round to her flat straight away;-)
Half an hour later I was at her front door, and she opened it completely naked.
We spent the whole weekend drinking and getting high, and and of course fucking.
She was very sexually liberated! We did loads of things that I have never done before
She told me of her pervious experiences, including loving girls (this was the early 2000s) and 3 sums.
She had loads of toys, which we used, on both of us!
We saw each other for a year afterwards, until she moved abroad for work.
During that time we loved going out together and picking up someone to join us, both m & f.
Great time I would never forget
She had loads of toys |
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We both had caught each other out cheating.
We decided to try again as we really felt it was right and got discussing sex and why it all happened?
This led us to realise swinging would work for both of us! |
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"We've always been open about being naturists and as such sometimes were accused of being swingers.
One day we decided to see if they were right, and would you know it?. They were right. "
Same for us lol |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
I was always an outsider and never being part of a crowd went my own way.
I discovered Swinhing by getting hold of a magazine when Inwas a teenager in my teens.
Never got involved till the 90s Mond you I did answer ads in the old contact mahs with no luck I i screwed up my courage and put an ad in New Direction magazine a couple answers my ad sent an address. who I met and had an amazing time Mag I joined one of the first online clubs called scorpio and met a couple through there and we became firm friends for years. Sadly we lost touch.
Inam.still in the scene on and off. But never met a partner to explore with.
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