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why do women love older men
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't speak for every woman but for me it's that older men have more experience and knowledge of what they enjoy doing in bed. On top of that most older men know the difference between confidence and arrogance as I enjoy a man that takes control. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't speak for every woman but for me it's that older men have more experience and knowledge of what they enjoy doing in bed. On top of that most older men know the difference between confidence and arrogance as I enjoy a man that takes control. "
This! x |
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"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues
Does that mean boys like you have mummy issues?"
Been in love with breasts for more than 60 years so you're probably right
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
For me (I'm a woman and not a girl) I prefer men around my own age or older because they are the ones I have more in common with. They are mature and since I raised my age filters I get a lot less crap on here. Plus I don't find younger guys who are the same age as friends kids attractive. So no I have no daddy issues I'm just not attracted to younger men.
And also when my filters were lower I got fed up of being asked by younger men would I meet cos they reckoned I'd be able to teach them things I'm on here for mutual pleasure not to be teaching anyone anything time is too precious.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues "
Maturity is key.
There are some very immature lads on here. |
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"I can't speak for every woman but for me it's that older men have more experience and knowledge of what they enjoy doing in bed. On top of that most older men know the difference between confidence and arrogance as I enjoy a man that takes control. "
This pretty much sums up my wifes attitude to older guys |
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Maybe because us older guys are more considerate to a woman, and not just for their own satisfaction.
Us men probably did the same when we were younger but now given the chance with a woman we are going to make the most of it  |
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"Joining in here, wonder if the opening poster can point us all in the direction of a good website to chat to these younger women who like older men ( men around the 40 years old age mark  . ) "
40 is NOT old |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Human nature or mother nature is to feel secure so ladies who love that dad looking after them feeling of a older bigger protective man they like transgresses into them finding a older guy that's suitable .
As a guy who's late 40's I've dated late 20's ladies and there is a pattern  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im a bit of a turn around. When i was younger, I much preferred an older man. Now I'm the one aging, I find im loving the younger lads alot more. They can certainly keep me ticking over  |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues "
For me age is irrelevant, it's all about the person. Suggesting people have issues is the sort of close mindedness I avoid irrespective of age |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues
For me age is irrelevant, it's all about the person. Suggesting people have issues is the sort of close mindedness I avoid irrespective of age"
Suspect, it is a projection from personal or mental constructs that doesn’t help here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't class myself as older but fully understand the thought process.
When younger it was mostly about me..
Now it's always about us, I've learnt that giving pleasure gives me immense pleasure back x
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"I can't speak for every woman but for me it's that older men have more experience and knowledge of what they enjoy doing in bed. On top of that most older men know the difference between confidence and arrogance as I enjoy a man that takes control. "
I like the more mature lady for exactly the same reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just more experienced and normally less hassle, stable and have life experience. Plus If they are in shape they are most young women’s taste, all person depending of course x |
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For me it's that an older guy is generally more confident and knows their way around a lady. Theres a lot more emphasis on mutual satisfaction than just being a fuck.
Of course there are exceptions to every rule!
No daddy issues here either! |
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"I can't speak for every woman but for me it's that older men have more experience and knowledge of what they enjoy doing in bed. On top of that most older men know the difference between confidence and arrogance as I enjoy a man that takes control. "
Very well put. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have tried to be open minded but do find mature more experienced, sensitive and treat us better know how to please us fully not selfish. Plus we like to be controlled at times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have tried to be open minded but do find mature more experienced, sensitive and treat us better know how to please us fully not selfish. Plus we like to be controlled at times "
I haven't found this at all... But I don't like being controlled so... |
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Think positively, OP ... Generally, getting older is rubbish, but at least this gives you something to look forward to Just think of all those lovely ladies with daddy issues waiting for you in a few decades time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No daddy issues that is a myth. Some women like older men for their maturity.I hate the term daddy issues."
The comments were made by a young lad weren't they? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I married my older man, but not once did I ever have Daddy issues.
Some most do, but most just like older men as they are more respectful, more polite and generally more secure in themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s something I’m worried about.
I seem to have both younger and older women that love me.
There’s obviously something wrong with me.
Should I make an appointment to see someone about it? |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I don't, OP. I go for men plus/minus about 10 years either side. I find I don't have much in common with much younger/ older guys (there some exceptions) and as I want at least some conversation beside the fun, that is more my comfort zone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think women like men their own age just because you would have more in common or maybe younger so they can have that feeling of a younger man, it all depends on her really I would say. If im wrong sorry |
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"Probably because we're great. And don't use text speak. "
Some older guys are great - some are astoundingly immature and awful!
I chatted to a much younger guy once - he was just turned 25. When I had to cancel a meet because I crashed the car he called regularly to make sure I was ok - booked and paid for a hotel near me so we could still meet - and treated me to dinner!
I had to cancel a meet with a 45 year old guy when my mum was rushed into intensive care. The next morning I messaged him from icu to apologise again for cancelling (something I only do in emergencies) - he messaged back to tell me how horny he was! 
Some young guys are mature - some older ones are immature pricks - best not to generalise! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues "
I think some women like men who have things figured out and aren’t needy or trying to hard to impress them. Secure, wise, good lovers, they aren’t always older , some younger guys have these qualities but it’s rarer.
Our daughter declared at 18 that guys her age generally don’t even have a car or a life plan! and haven’t a clue how to date. She said she was only interested in dating guys at least twice her age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably because we're great. And don't use text speak.
Some older guys are great - some are astoundingly immature and awful!
I chatted to a much younger guy once - he was just turned 25. When I had to cancel a meet because I crashed the car he called regularly to make sure I was ok - booked and paid for a hotel near me so we could still meet - and treated me to dinner!
I had to cancel a meet with a 45 year old guy when my mum was rushed into intensive care. The next morning I messaged him from icu to apologise again for cancelling (something I only do in emergencies) - he messaged back to tell me how horny he was!
Some young guys are mature - some older ones are immature pricks - best not to generalise! "
Agreed, if your a nice person... Your a nice person x |
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Manners,, respect , non selfish,, ,giving the lady the joy and pleasure first ,not a wham bham ,,the list goes on lol ,us old uns do have it still  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"genuinely curious whether this ties back down to human nature or you girls jus got some daddy’s issues
I think some women like men who have things figured out and aren’t needy or trying to hard to impress them. Secure, wise, good lovers, they aren’t always older , some younger guys have these qualities but it’s rarer.
Our daughter declared at 18 that guys her age generally don’t even have a car or a life plan! and haven’t a clue how to date. She said she was only interested in dating guys at least twice her age."
Good on her!
I'm attempting to date and I'm 30 and most my age are still only interested in holidays and travelling and not settling down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Enjoyed this thread. Interesting to note how many men question the statement particularly younger ones. Is it a sign of inferiority i ask.....jokingly....I’m old so feeling smug |
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"Im a bit of a turn around. When i was younger, I much preferred an older man. Now I'm the one aging, I find im loving the younger lads alot more. They can certainly keep me ticking over "
I agree with you totally on that one  |
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