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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just love bareback sex can't stay away xxx

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By *aughty but nice...Man over a year ago

Staffs

Shame your not closer to the midlands

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By *ackformore100Man over a year ago

Tin town

"Just love bareback sex can't stay away xxx"

Loving the stockings and heels too. Very sexy

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By *ockatwoCouple over a year ago

leeds

Nothing like bareback

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

So are you guys 'Prep'ing? What's your method to protecting yourselves?

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

To add, zero judgement here just wondering how you deal with overcoming the downsides

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By *ihimbiherCouple over a year ago

lightwater

We all prefer it but some of us prefer not to get pregnant or ill

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By *lutandhubbyCouple over a year ago

west midlands

we also prefer bareback, but only with couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nothing like bareback

Exactly x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"we also prefer bareback, but only with couples.

Nice one x

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By *roggMan over a year ago

haverfordwest

"Nothing like bareback

Exactly x"
naughty but nice

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By *ustathingMan over a year ago

Reading

I dated a sexual health nurse for 3 years... I wouldnt sleep for weeks if I had unprotected sex now

Big risk, big rewards I guess lol

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By *vpamelaTV/TS over a year ago

kinkville

Not one to preach but I think I have the solution to having the safest sex possible. Everyone, and I mean everyone wears a strapon.

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By *isser36Man over a year ago

fylde Coast

"I dated a sexual health nurse for 3 years... I wouldnt sleep for weeks if I had unprotected sex now

Big risk, big rewards I guess lol"

Does that include protected oral? You use a dental dam when giving a woman oral? Or condom when receiving? Just wondered. i bet she had some gristly tales to tell you about what she saw daily.

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By *randMrsJones69Couple over a year ago

Newcastle

I can see us going bareback with meets as soon as we can now. The though of condoms is too off-putting. Judge as you will.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I can see us going bareback with meets as soon as we can now. The though of condoms is too off-putting. Judge as you will. "

Yes we think so x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve never had a bareback meet, I was offered one years ago on here and when I was hesitant they blocked me!

My ultimate fantasy/scenario involves barebacking a total stranger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not one to preach but I think I have the solution to having the safest sex possible. Everyone, and I mean everyone wears a strapon.

Interesting.... strspon gang bang? I'm in

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By *av-RickMan over a year ago

Nearby

Definitely interested to hear from others who will be looking for hot sticky BB fun in the future, unfortunately too many feel the need to hide their interest on here.

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By *fter dinner delightCouple over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

Mmmm great fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing like bareback

Absolutely 100% agree, personally condoms put me off. Yes I know the risks, but I’m an adult and I can make that choice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dated a sexual health nurse for 3 years... I wouldnt sleep for weeks if I had unprotected sex now

Big risk, big rewards I guess lol

Does that include protected oral? You use a dental dam when giving a woman oral? Or condom when receiving? Just wondered. i bet she had some gristly tales to tell you about what she saw daily.

An all or nothing kinda guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing like bareback

Absolutely 100% agree, personally condoms put me off. Yes I know the risks, but I’m an adult and I can make that choice.

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By *ustathingMan over a year ago

Reading

Yeah heard some absolute horror stories!!!

I'm 100% safe sex only until we've met a few times!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

love bareback

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple over a year ago

Lingfield

We love Bareback as some of our creampie pics show

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By *ard2Please93Couple over a year ago

Caerphilly

Love bareback meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So are you guys 'Prep'ing? What's your method to protecting yourselves? "

Mask

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can see us going bareback with meets as soon as we can now. The though of condoms is too off-putting. Judge as you will. "

Wonder why wearing mask is not off putting you in Covid pandemic ? Not judging just asking .

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By *randMrsJones69Couple over a year ago

Newcastle

"I can see us going bareback with meets as soon as we can now. The though of condoms is too off-putting. Judge as you will.

Wonder why wearing mask is not off putting you in Covid pandemic ? Not judging just asking ."

It is. . . .no masks in lockdown 1 and with less cases. Masks now and covid cases through the roof but please save that for another forum.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can see us going bareback with meets as soon as we can now. The though of condoms is too off-putting. Judge as you will.

Wonder why wearing mask is not off putting you in Covid pandemic ? Not judging just asking .

It is. . . .no masks in lockdown 1 and with less cases. Masks now and covid cases through the roof but please save that for another forum. "

Masks will be compulsory for a while now ,wonder which is most uncomfortable,mask or a condom . Lol

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By *randMrsJones69Couple over a year ago

Newcastle

And condoms are not compulsory

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bareback for me please xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bareback for me please xx"

Bareback all the way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bareback preferred here s

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By *leasure4leisureMan over a year ago

south

"And condoms are not compulsory "

Not even in public ?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And condoms are not compulsory "

Aah ok. So you will wait till they make it compulsory for having sex with others ? Hmm wonder what will you do then ? Just asking

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By *arystark40Man over a year ago

Ipswich

"Bareback for me please xx"

Same, bareback in Suffolk is my preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And condoms are not compulsory

Aah ok. So you will wait till they make it compulsory for having sex with others ? Hmm wonder what will you do then ? Just asking "

These are two separate matters imo.

Neither should need to be compulsory and own wisdom and judgement should be used for both.

You can control who gives you something through being fucked.

Not wearing a mask is different because they don't need to strip you naked at shove it inside you to pass it along.

Two very different things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps bareback should be in the options to enable a search to be made

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By *iliciousCouple over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

"I can see us going bareback with meets as soon as we can now. The though of condoms is too off-putting. Judge as you will.

Wonder why wearing mask is not off putting you in Covid pandemic ? Not judging just asking .

It is. . . .no masks in lockdown 1 and with less cases. Masks now and covid cases through the roof but please save that for another forum. "

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By *estMidsHotwifeCouple over a year ago

Near Malvern

All our creampie pics are from guys other than my husband, we both love bb x

We are users of Prep for those who asked about it x

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By *eard-lincolnMan over a year ago

near lincoln

"Bareback for me please xx

Same, bareback in Suffolk is my preference. "

Maybe take safe sex off your preferences list then, seems a fair few who have safe sex as a preference on this thread but say bareback all the way.

Each to their own for me. I look after my own safety first as you can’t control what others have done before they meet you.

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By *he Wilts coupleCouple over a year ago

Cirencester

We love bareback we find condoms kill the mood plus he loves it when my pussy is full of cum.

We're happy to you them if others want though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As someone who's brother had aids and seen gonorrhoea and syphilis first hand. I would never bb unless I got to know my meets very well. I think married couples are predominantly safer and two couples bb is probably pretty safe. Just remember guys and girls there is only one drug now to treat gonorrhoea and several strains of totally untreatable.. So be careful. Thats why clubs have condoms. Nothing worse im told than going for a piss with a snotty cock and pissing razors.

All that said. Its how you feel at the moment. I know ive broken my own rules.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing like the feel of cock. Rubber takes away the feel of every curve vein and the shape of the head mmmm

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By *oney_Bee_xTV/TS over a year ago

Teesside

I’d love to go last in a creampie gangbang, and feel all the sloppy creampie seconds/thirds/etc. (Once we’re all tested and clear of course).

This is on my Fuckit List.

I’m still in touch with a local Cuckold couple (who are not on this site anymore) and I’ll suggest we organise it (again, one we’re all tested and when it’s Covid Safe).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing like the feel of cock. Rubber takes away the feel of every curve vein and the shape of the head mmmm"

100%

rubber is an awful thing, useless you have some pencil marks to get rid of

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We love bareback we find condoms kill the mood plus he loves it when my pussy is full of cum.

We're happy to you them if others want though "

Offcourse ,with own partner bareback is the best and how it should be ,natural but with others it's condoms ,just like we use mask outdoors not at home .

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By *reatformeatWoman over a year ago

my own bubble

Mixed feelings no I don’t do unprotected sex but do unprotected blow jobs so I really don’t know . Confused

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

I can see the appeal if a partners tested and strictly play with that group. But how can you trust them? Often been asked to play bare in the past. Did it once and was worriedtill results came back clear. Not worth it.

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By *averockrockMan over a year ago

swindon

"Just love bareback sex can't stay away xxx"

Bareback is best but only when exclusive and checks have been carried out!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can see the appeal if a partners tested and strictly play with that group. But how can you trust them? Often been asked to play bare in the past. Did it once and was worriedtill results came back clear. Not worth it."

I think the bareback couples ,keep their reports handy before play. So other cpls can exchange the reports ,make sure everyone is safe and then proceed to play .

That's my understanding so far .

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By *8v3nCouple over a year ago

Coventry

... so having not a huge experience with clubs that was what was puzzling. There was occasional spontaneous gangbang. How can one join in and be safe. Even if theres a condom involved, it is going to different places... So to say...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As someone who's brother had aids and seen gonorrhoea and syphilis first hand. I would never bb unless I got to know my meets very well. I think married couples are predominantly safer and two couples bb is probably pretty safe. Just remember guys and girls there is only one drug now to treat gonorrhoea and several strains of totally untreatable.. So be careful. Thats why clubs have condoms. Nothing worse im told than going for a piss with a snotty cock and pissing razors.

All that said. Its how you feel at the moment. I know ive broken my own rules. "

Worrying there is only one drug left. Safe only for us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Great photos

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By *iliciousCouple over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey

All that said. Its how you feel at the moment. I know ive broken my own rules.

Worrying there is only one drug left. Safe only for us. "

Precisely. Antibiotics are gradually becoming less effective as they are being used more. So to the people who say “my body my choice” I would say “educate yourself”. This is actually a social issue, not what colour you want to paint your kitchen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Look, if I'm gonna put a naked dick in my mouth then I'm gonna put it in my pussy. I hate a barrier during intercourse, it basically defeats the purpose

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By *spotpleasurerMan over a year ago

Norwich

Curious to see if bareback sex will become more popular, now that the risk of catching Covid is higher than a STD.

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By *imelesexeMan over a year ago

Warwick area

Anyone got any stories about picking up any nasty sti’s whilst barebacking?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just love bareback sex can't stay away xxx"

This!!! x

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By *rx1Couple over a year ago

North Devon-ish

But you profile says Safe Sex, how is Bareback having Safe Sex?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just love bareback sex can't stay away xxx"

With random folks?

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By *exy studMan over a year ago

Derby

In a ideal world we would all to fuck bearback but personally I can't always trust strangers so would mask

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple over a year ago

exeter

"We all prefer it but some of us prefer not to get pregnant or ill"

So true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love barebacking.

I’m regularly tested and would require that from someone who wanted to be a regular bareback playmate.

I would never do this in a club or Greedy Girls party where strangers are involved though. Having said that a bareback gangbang is on my wish list...

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple over a year ago

exeter

I am so surprised how many people go to a meet with the intention of going bareback. I totally understand bareback feels so much better. And I understand you can protect yourself from getting pregnant in other ways. But what about all the S.T.Ds. Then think of all the people you will pass it on to.

I just can’t understand some people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bb sex is amazing. I normally start with condoms to make sure safety etc. Both get tested if the test comes back negative then jump to bb sex xxx

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By *oungturkishMan over a year ago

Istanbul

my gf met a guy at bar when i was on a work trip

she has baby now

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By *htcMan over a year ago

Bareback is the best

. But tend to be more cautious with people

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By *bsolutePartiesCouple over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"Nothing like bareback

So true

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By *otPrinceHarryMan over a year ago

Glasgow

While I would happily play bareback with someone I had got to know, I'm one of the ~10% of people who know they have HSV-2, and it is astonishing how little people know about it- even on a swinger's site.

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By *he Wilts coupleCouple over a year ago

Cirencester

We prefer it bare but happy to wrap up if thats what the other couple wants. Everyone is open to their own decision.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To add, zero judgement here just wondering how you deal with overcoming the downsides

We would also love to know... again no judgement x

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By *he Wilts coupleCouple over a year ago

Cirencester

From experience alot of people say they only use condoms but when you meet their more than happy to play without. Think it helps them get more meets or something

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple over a year ago

exeter

"From experience alot of people say they only use condoms but when you meet their more than happy to play without. Think it helps them get more meets or something "

That’s definitely not us

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By *enuine MikeMan over a year ago

Guildford

"So are you guys 'Prep'ing? What's your method to protecting yourselves? "

Love how nobody actually answers the most important post on this forum page.

Looks like they have the "No fucks given" approach

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By *leasure4leisureMan over a year ago

south

May I ask what is Hvs 2

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple over a year ago

exeter

"So are you guys 'Prep'ing? What's your method to protecting yourselves?

Love how nobody actually answers the most important post on this forum page.

Looks like they have the "No fucks given" approach

Seems that way don’t it.

And they say no judgement but it’s a controversial topic so I honestly don’t know what they expect.

Fair enough each to their own. But let’s say for example they play with someone who plays safe and condom splits and they haven’t been checked. So that means they don’t know what they have the man who’s condom has split don’t know. So I can understand why there is judgment. And I hope everyone who is reading who does play it safe checks themselves after a meet with these people who don’t play safe.

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By *enuine MikeMan over a year ago

Guildford

"So are you guys 'Prep'ing? What's your method to protecting yourselves?

Love how nobody actually answers the most important post on this forum page.

Looks like they have the "No fucks given" approach

Seems that way don’t it.

And they say no judgement but it’s a controversial topic so I honestly don’t know what they expect.

Its a bit like carrying on life as per normal during this pandemic without taking any of the precautions and safety measures seriously. Not following the safety advise and living life on chance and hope that it doesn't happen to you.

Well good luck

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By *otPrinceHarryMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"Hi

May I ask what is Hvs 2 "

Commonly known as genital herpes.

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By *ed_Rocket.Man over a year ago

Near by

"Nothing like bareback

Fully agree but got to be safe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"From experience alot of people say they only use condoms but when you meet their more than happy to play without. Think it helps them get more meets or something "

I’m honest from the start, if someone doesn’t want bareback then we won’t meet. I am tested regularly of course.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So are you guys 'Prep'ing? What's your method to protecting yourselves?

Love how nobody actually answers the most important post on this forum page.

Looks like they have the "No fucks given" approach

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the only protection i take is to tie my feet to the bottom of the bed

dont wana be a loose top on a shaken bottle of pepsi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing like bareback

I'd agree. Pretty selective but love it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only bareback with recent upto date negative test results. And i mean recent, like a couple days.

Amazingly, on the day of meeting my recent partner from here, both our test results came back negative on the day we met, so we didnt use condoms.

We couldnt contain our excitement.

Bareback is best. Love giving creampies too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only bareback with recent upto date negative test results. And i mean recent, like a couple days.

Amazingly, on the day of meeting my recent partner from here, both our test results came back negative on the day we met, so we didnt use condoms.

We couldnt contain our excitement.

Bareback is best. Love giving creampies too. "

I always have protection on hand though, prep for just incase and condoms. Especially for meets who aint been tested recently. Sorry but not taking that risk.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All our creampie pics are from guys other than my husband, we both love bb x

We are users of Prep for those who asked about it x"

Would love to creampie you x

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By *icosaurvoMan over a year ago

Church Crookham

Love bare back get tested regularly however I understand if it’s the wish of the person I am with them I would happily abide by their wishes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bareback for me please xx

Same, bareback in Suffolk is my preference.

Maybe take safe sex off your preferences list then, seems a fair few who have safe sex as a preference on this thread but say bareback all the way.

Each to their own for me. I look after my own safety first as you can’t control what others have done before they meet you.

Hear hear

If you dont want safe sex dont tick that box. Thats how we see who's a good match so just be honest.

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

This is a great way of identifying whom not to meet ...

In all seriousness? Each to their own but I do check profiles and verifications, for this specific issue as I am not so keen on playing Russian roulette with my health.

Happy swinging xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mixed feelings no I don’t do unprotected sex but do unprotected blow jobs so I really don’t know . Confused "

oral sex is less risk than penetrative sex for sure, and safer again if theres no ejaculation in mouth. still not 100% safe though.

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By *otPrinceHarryMan over a year ago

Glasgow

For everyone who says you're getting tested regularly... what are you getting tested for?

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By *akie32Man over a year ago

winchester

we would love to play bb with others, but for us the risk is too high, we only go bb between ourselves.

as for testing, whats to stop someone having a test and then meeting someone else before you who had something?

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"we would love to play bb with others, but for us the risk is too high, we only go bb between ourselves.

as for testing, whats to stop someone having a test and then meeting someone else before you who had something?"
Exactly that - a test, any test is potentially only accurate at the time of taking it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For everyone who says you're getting tested regularly... what are you getting tested for?"

Everything. Hep, hiv, all of them. And i get tested monthly. But i dont sleep around like a dirty whore barebacking strangers.

Im picky and meet only a couple of people 2-3 at most, who are regulars who have also been tested. Im not barebacking different strangers..... Thats where i draw the line.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For everyone who says you're getting tested regularly... what are you getting tested for?

Everything. Hep, hiv, all of them. And i get tested monthly. But i dont sleep around like a dirty whore barebacking strangers.

Im picky and meet only a couple of people 2-3 at most, who are regulars who have also been tested. Im not barebacking different strangers..... Thats where i draw the line. "

Plus ive only been seeing my two regulars for the last couple months. Strangers...no way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"we would love to play bb with others, but for us the risk is too high, we only go bb between ourselves.

as for testing, whats to stop someone having a test and then meeting someone else before you who had something?Exactly that - a test, any test is potentially only accurate at the time of taking it."

Yes. My test results come quick usually same day, next day for hiv and a few others.

If it aint recent, its a no. And i ask questions.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid.

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By *aretobareCouple over a year ago

Central Portugal

mmm we absolutely love bb. J met three guys at once and was totally creamy, just chatting about how wrong she has been is such a turn on

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By *otPrinceHarryMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"For everyone who says you're getting tested regularly... what are you getting tested for?

Everything. Hep, hiv, all of them. And i get tested monthly. But i dont sleep around like a dirty whore barebacking strangers.

Im picky and meet only a couple of people 2-3 at most, who are regulars who have also been tested. Im not barebacking different strangers..... Thats where i draw the line. "

See, and I mean no offense, "everything" rings an alarm bell. It implies someone is not thinking about the individual risks of each disease. And herpes testing is notoriously unreliable unless you definitely have it.

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By *fter dinner delightCouple over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

Is nice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid."
yes it does

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

Not for me thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid."

Snap. Each to their own but we will pass on the risk if getting a drippy dick or fanny. Not worth the risk at all unless you are exclusive with another cpl totally.

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid.

Snap. Each to their own but we will pass on the risk if getting a drippy dick or fanny. Not worth the risk at all unless you are exclusive with another cpl totally. "

I get where you are coming from, totally.

There is no action without risk, even setting your foot outside the front door.

That said, Risk is not a binary choice per se, there are risk mitigations you can put in place e.g. using a condom or reducing the number of partners to name but two.

It is a personal choice what level of risk you accept as comfortable and that depends on your personal risk appetite.

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By *ornucopiaMan over a year ago

Bexley

....oral sex is less risk than penetrative sex for sure, and safer again if theres no ejaculation in mouth. still not 100% safe though."

Ejaculation is always an eye opener!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For everyone who says you're getting tested regularly... what are you getting tested for?

Everything. Hep, hiv, all of them. And i get tested monthly. But i dont sleep around like a dirty whore barebacking strangers.

Im picky and meet only a couple of people 2-3 at most, who are regulars who have also been tested. Im not barebacking different strangers..... Thats where i draw the line.

Agree totally.

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By *uminsiderMKMan over a year ago

St Austell

"From experience alot of people say they only use condoms but when you meet their more than happy to play without. Think it helps them get more meets or something "

In the 25 years or so that I've 'played' with other men's wives, it's predominately been bareback - although originally, I did use condoms if requested...

....but a number of times when they were supposed to be used, they weren't - at the instigation of the wives on a couple of occasions, and at that of the husband on another...

....which eventually led me to make a conscious decision to exclusively play bareback.

I'm upfront about it in my profile text, and it's obvious in a few of my photos - resulting in meets with couples who prefer to play the same way...

Plus, of course, 'blocks' from those who don't...

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By *ethefabtwoCouple over a year ago

coventry

its preferrable for us, but we still check health certs if we can

"Just love bareback sex can't stay away xxx"

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple over a year ago

darlington

We prefer to play bareback thats why we have not ticked the safe sex box

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By *ingdong11Man over a year ago

emsworth

"Bareback for me please xx

Same, bareback in Suffolk is my preference.

Maybe take safe sex off your preferences list then, seems a fair few who have safe sex as a preference on this thread but say bareback all the way.

Each to their own for me. I look after my own safety first as you can’t control what others have done before they meet you.

It’s not down as a preference , it’s an interest , it’s possible to be interested in both safer and bareback sex .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bookmarked.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman over a year ago

North West

As long as everyone’s open and honest I don’t see the issue. We’re all old enough to make the decision for ourselves.

Personally I’m safe (er) only and only play with the same... but doesn’t mean other people’s preferences are an issue lol. I’m friends with loads of people that only play BB.

Not sure why people knock something just cos they don’t like it

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By *lim and louiseCouple over a year ago

dromore

Just asking if you were with a couple for a 3 sum and they insisted on wearing comdoms would you or decline the offer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just asking if you were with a couple for a 3 sum and they insisted on wearing comdoms would you or decline the offer"
. It’s all about respect for the people you are playing with

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By *edonisthenryMan over a year ago

Cambridge

I'd love to have a bareback creampie with a lady in her mouth and pussy. You can't beat the sensation, without which humans would be extinct (forget artificial insemination). Henry

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By *xcited99Couple over a year ago

omagh

My fantasy is for several men to cum inside me while hubby watches then invite him over last. It's a case of the forbidden fruit which makes it such a gorny fantasy for me. However unfortunately due to risks and timewasters highly likely to stay that way.

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By *aturing bullMan over a year ago

TOOTING

"Bareback for me please xx

Same, bareback in Suffolk is my preference.

Maybe take safe sex off your preferences list then, seems a fair few who have safe sex as a preference on this thread but say bareback all the way.

Each to their own for me. I look after my own safety first as you can’t control what others have done before they meet you.

It’s not down as a preference , it’s an interest , it’s possible to be interested in both safer and bareback sex ."

Well put, sir

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just asking if you were with a couple for a 3 sum and they insisted on wearing comdoms would you or decline the offer"

No id be happy they looked after my health and each others. John

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By *otgirl32Woman over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I only play bareback and love it. Still standing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only play bareback and love it. Still standing"

Bareback is the best sex, why ruin it with a condom?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only play bareback and love it. Still standing

Bareback is the best sex, why ruin it with a condom?

As hiv is a killer

along with good old genital warts which once caught its with you for life abd you get regular out breaks.

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By *enfella4uMan over a year ago

staffs

I am available in Stafford and surrounding areas if anyone fancies a genuine nice clean horny fella for good sexual fun bareback or not I’m up for it xx message me would love to hear from u xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only play bareback and love it. Still standing

Bareback is the best sex, why ruin it with a condom?

As hiv is a killer

along with good old genital warts which once caught its with you for life abd you get regular out breaks. "

This thought alone makes me think condoms are a must, even though bareback is great

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am on PrEP which includes sti testing every 3/4 months and have had Hep vaccine shots... Doesn't stop you catching an sti but if everyone was doing the same BB would be a lot safer.

Love BB but fellow PrEPers definitely a safer bet.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman over a year ago

North West

I only play bareback and love it. Still standing

Bareback is the best sex, why ruin it with a condom?

If you think it’s ruined sex with a condom why are you messaging people that make it clear on profiles tneh don’t play bare?

(Not just the tick box, specifically written)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s not down as a preference , it’s an interest , it’s possible to be interested in both safer and bareback sex ."

Absolutely agree with this, why does everything have to be black and white.

You can also bareback in a safe way but it does involve a lot of trust in your playmates and regular testing is essential.

I’m open about it because I understand it’s not for everyone and if you don’t wanna play with me because I like to bareback that’s your prerogative...

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By *otPrinceHarryMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"It’s not down as a preference , it’s an interest , it’s possible to be interested in both safer and bareback sex .

Absolutely agree with this, why does everything have to be black and white.

You can also bareback in a safe way but it does involve a lot of trust in your playmates and regular testing is essential.

I’m open about it because I understand it’s not for everyone and if you don’t wanna play with me because I like to bareback that’s your prerogative..."

Talula, do you mind if I ask a question via PM?

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By *breedyouMan over a year ago

Bedfont

Best is bare and regularly tested

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We would only play with others with protection

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By *MNJCouple over a year ago

Nuneaton

Always safe for us, we don't think any less of those who enjoy bareback it's their choice but as much as we dislike condoms you've only got to look at the thread about sleeping with taboo people full of people fucking over their partners, family's and mates to get their end away to see why we'd never trust anyone outside the relationship with our sexual health.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So are you guys 'Prep'ing? What's your method to protecting yourselves? "
I heard it was a good bog brush and detol afterwords really clean all the cum out and leave it squeaky clean for the next user..

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

"Just asking if you were with a couple for a 3 sum and they insisted on wearing comdoms would you or decline the offer"

Yes I would!

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By *ympho6969Woman over a year ago

glasgow

Another post about bb where people all quote safe sex on profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Best is bare and regularly tested "

Do you take your test reports on every meet and show others ? Just asking

Also do you get to see test results of other people too?

Or you guys just trust each other's words that you are clean?

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By *MNJCouple over a year ago

Nuneaton

I'd say there are 2 schools of thought on that, some take it as it meaning you prefer or only partake in safe sex and others it means they'd be prepared to play safe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd say there are 2 schools of thought on that, some take it as it meaning you prefer or only partake in safe sex and others it means they'd be prepared to play safe. "

Our Fab experience taught us that most singles and some cpls are easily prepared for bb sex .

I think those who are prepared to play safe are fooling others by not specifying that they normally play bb with their so called regulars or other bb people.

It's same like straight men agreeing to play bi just to get the wife.

I commend some bb members who mention it on their profile clearly about it ,so it becomes easy for safe players to make a choice .

Some of them don't say anything unless asked .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps bareback should be in the options to enable a search to be made"

What do you think ,why it's not an option ?

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By *MNJCouple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I'd say there are 2 schools of thought on that, some take it as it meaning you prefer or only partake in safe sex and others it means they'd be prepared to play safe.

Our Fab experience taught us that most singles and some cpls are easily prepared for bb sex .

I think those who are prepared to play safe are fooling others by not specifying that they normally play bb with their so called regulars or other bb people.

It's same like straight men agreeing to play bi just to get the wife.

I commend some bb members who mention it on their profile clearly about it ,so it becomes easy for safe players to make a choice .

Some of them don't say anything unless asked .

I'm not sure it would harm their chances if they were more upfront about it as loads seem to like it but in the past we've met couples who say they only play safe then it later transpires they almost never do, for us this is even more reason to play it safe so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd say there are 2 schools of thought on that, some take it as it meaning you prefer or only partake in safe sex and others it means they'd be prepared to play safe.

Our Fab experience taught us that most singles and some cpls are easily prepared for bb sex .

I think those who are prepared to play safe are fooling others by not specifying that they normally play bb with their so called regulars or other bb people.

It's same like straight men agreeing to play bi just to get the wife.

I commend some bb members who mention it on their profile clearly about it ,so it becomes easy for safe players to make a choice .

Some of them don't say anything unless asked .

Agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Best is bare and regularly tested

Do you take your test reports on every meet and show others ? Just asking

Also do you get to see test results of other people too?

Or you guys just trust each other's words that you are clean?"

And this is the real worry. Most except each others words they are clean

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bareback for me please xx"

I always see you i these kinda forums... guess you really like it hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Absolutely agree with this, why does everything have to be black and white.

You can also bareback in a safe way but it does involve a lot of trust in your playmates and regular testing is essential.

I’m open about it because I understand it’s not for everyone and if you don’t wanna play with me because I like to bareback that’s your prerogative...

Talula, do you mind if I ask a question via PM?"

Go for it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

100% safe only for us except when together

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By *aturing bullMan over a year ago

TOOTING

"I'd say there are 2 schools of thought on that, some take it as it meaning you prefer or only partake in safe sex and others it means they'd be prepared to play safe.

Our Fab experience taught us that most singles and some cpls are easily prepared for bb sex .

I think those who are prepared to play safe are fooling others by not specifying that they normally play bb with their so called regulars or other bb people.

It's same like straight men agreeing to play bi just to get the wife.

I commend some bb members who mention it on their profile clearly about it ,so it becomes easy for safe players to make a choice .

Some of them don't say anything unless asked .

I wouldn’t say anything unless asked, as I don’t think it is actually anyone’s business how I play until a person choses to make it their business by expressing an interest in playing with me. Then I can say how I would like to play with them, which may not be how I play with other regular and long term partners.

This has been an interesting thread due to the openness of the views and also as some have it clearly states for them it isn’t always isn’t a black and white question. Thanks for all the comments. Very educational.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd say there are 2 schools of thought on that, some take it as it meaning you prefer or only partake in safe sex and others it means they'd be prepared to play safe.

Our Fab experience taught us that most singles and some cpls are easily prepared for bb sex .

I think those who are prepared to play safe are fooling others by not specifying that they normally play bb with their so called regulars or other bb people.

It's same like straight men agreeing to play bi just to get the wife.

I commend some bb members who mention it on their profile clearly about it ,so it becomes easy for safe players to make a choice .

Some of them don't say anything unless asked .

It happened with us couple of times,shocked us .

We later found out that some men can't get erection with condoms in situ, and some women have rubber allergy.

Now the later reason is clearly mentioned ,the former one is not .

And not judging them but people who like bb sex should mention it clearly on their profile or stay away from safe sex cpls .

The friction comes when they try to coerce you into bb sex by asking you to become their regulars.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bareback for me please xx

I always see you i these kinda forums... guess you really like it hahaha

I do. I know the risks and I'd be lying if I said I don't think about them occasionally. But men cumming inside me gives me a sense of connection and satisfaction that I just can't get from safe sex. It honestly does spoil sex for me a lot mentally and emotionally. So I'm just completely honest about it, try to be selective, get tested regularly, and stay up to to date on vaccines. I'll probably also use prep when meeting others again. I totally understand those that wish to have the extra protection and don't want to meet, that's completely fine, fortunately most people I've spoken or played with are happy going bare Xx

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By *rednwilma1Couple over a year ago

york

Just a thought ..... but do you think that with this long period of abstinence from mixing sexually that maybe some of the nasty infections could of petered out ?????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bareback for me please xx

I always see you i these kinda forums... guess you really like it hahaha

Very well put x

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By *aturing bullMan over a year ago

TOOTING

"Bareback for me please xx

I always see you i these kinda forums... guess you really like it hahaha

I completely agree with you. It is about constant risk assessment. There are people I have played with bare in the past that I have stopped playing with as it wasn’t regular enough to justify the risk. That said I am talking to two couples who have made it clear they want bare play. One right away and the other after being tested and knowing it is going to be regular and long term. The terms of play have become, naturally, more complicated than when I used condoms as standard, and I still use condoms to see certain people I have seen often.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah that moist feeling encapsulating ...... Can't beat that.

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By *otPrinceHarryMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"Absolutely agree with this, why does everything have to be black and white.

You can also bareback in a safe way but it does involve a lot of trust in your playmates and regular testing is essential.

I’m open about it because I understand it’s not for everyone and if you don’t wanna play with me because I like to bareback that’s your prerogative...

Talula, do you mind if I ask a question via PM?

Go for it

Unfortunately, I'm not a site supporter. Thank you for being willing to take the question though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bareback for me please xx

I always see you i these kinda forums... guess you really like it hahaha

Youre totally entitled to do what you want and you've clearly put a lot of thought into it and took the necessary precautions! You do you girl!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid."

That’s not a very kind thing to say.

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid.

That’s not a very kind thing to say.

I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment.

I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid.

That’s not a very kind thing to say.

Not at all unkind. I do not disrespect their choice of bb play. But would i ever play with them, no way ever. I also respect my health and will not endanger me or jenny by playing with bb players even if they were willing to play safe. And thats our choice so hope the people playing bb respect that also in return!

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By *linyMan over a year ago

Manchester/London

My block list is growing longer than Trumps indictment sheet

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"My block list is growing longer than Trumps indictment sheet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid.

That’s not a very kind thing to say.

I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment.

I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players. "

Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices.

The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive.

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By *eorgeo1Man over a year ago

Slaley

We love it. But we are very picky and it has to be the right person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid.

That’s not a very kind thing to say.

The thread isn’t asking would you play with them or inviting people to post who don’t choose this type of sexual gratification.

In my mind the people coming into the thread and condemning are only doing so to be unkind to the bareback lovers.

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid.

That’s not a very kind thing to say.

I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment.

I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players.

Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices.

The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive."

I am afraid you are making a bit of an assumption about me and my motives here. In the same way that people can post their preference, it should be possible to post one's opposite preference.

I never said anything about repulsive, nor did i point a finger at anybody. It is not an issue if people want to accept the higher risk of bb as I pointed out earlier when mentioning risk assessment and risk appetite.

If it is not an issue for me to live and let live, perhaps you could kindly offer the same respect to those who disagree? Just a thought ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid.

That’s not a very kind thing to say.

I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment.

I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players.

Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices.

The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive.

I am afraid you are making a bit of an assumption about me and my motives here. In the same way that people can post their preference, it should be possible to post one's opposite preference.

If it is not an issue for me to live and let live, perhaps you could kindly offer the same respect to those who disagree? Just a thought ...

I didn’t accuse you of anything.

I made a general statement.

If you feel this way perhaps you could start your own thread about it and not spoil the thread someone’s started for the celebration of all things bareback.

Also just a suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also big fan of bareback sex and group fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid.

That’s not a very kind thing to say.

I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment.

I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players.

Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices.

The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive.

I am afraid you are making a bit of an assumption about me and my motives here. In the same way that people can post their preference, it should be possible to post one's opposite preference.

If it is not an issue for me to live and let live, perhaps you could kindly offer the same respect to those who disagree? Just a thought ...

I didn’t accuse you of anything.

I made a general statement.

If you feel this way perhaps you could start your own thread about it and not spoil the thread someone’s started for the celebration of all things bareback.

Also just a suggestion.

By your reply in defending it i gather you play russian rulettee also then. Us disagreeing with playing with barebackers is just as valid as them saying they love playing bb.

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid.

That’s not a very kind thing to say.

I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment.

I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players.

Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices.

The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive.

I am afraid you are making a bit of an assumption about me and my motives here. In the same way that people can post their preference, it should be possible to post one's opposite preference.

If it is not an issue for me to live and let live, perhaps you could kindly offer the same respect to those who disagree? Just a thought ...

I didn’t accuse you of anything.

I made a general statement.

If you feel this way perhaps you could start your own thread about it and not spoil the thread someone’s started for the celebration of all things bareback.

Also just a suggestion.

I have no intention of spoiling anybody's thread - I am not sure how I can prove that to you, perhaps it does not matter anyway.

I will say this though: I genuinely believe that many threads invite, directly or indirectly a conversation and this is something to celebrate. If only people of the same opinion posted on a thread, we would find ourselves in an echo chamber rather than in a proper conversation. To me that defeats the object of conversation if you only want to engage with those who completely agree with you an a specific topic?

I will continue to post my views, in a respectful way, on the threads I find interesting and worth posting on. I will bow out here as there really is not much else I can usefully add to this.

I genuinely wish you and all bb supporters well.

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid.

That’s not a very kind thing to say.

I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment.

I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players.

Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices.

The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive.

I am afraid you are making a bit of an assumption about me and my motives here. In the same way that people can post their preference, it should be possible to post one's opposite preference.

If it is not an issue for me to live and let live, perhaps you could kindly offer the same respect to those who disagree? Just a thought ...

I didn’t accuse you of anything.

I made a general statement.

If you feel this way perhaps you could start your own thread about it and not spoil the thread someone’s started for the celebration of all things bareback.

Also just a suggestion.

By your reply in defending it i gather you play russian rulettee also then. Us disagreeing with playing with barebackers is just as valid as them saying they love playing bb. "
Agree, that is what I was trying to say - you said it more clearly

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid.

That’s not a very kind thing to say.

I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment.

I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players.

Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices.

The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive.

I am afraid you are making a bit of an assumption about me and my motives here. In the same way that people can post their preference, it should be possible to post one's opposite preference.

If it is not an issue for me to live and let live, perhaps you could kindly offer the same respect to those who disagree? Just a thought ...

I didn’t accuse you of anything.

I made a general statement.

If you feel this way perhaps you could start your own thread about it and not spoil the thread someone’s started for the celebration of all things bareback.

Also just a suggestion.

It's a public forum, no one should be surprised by or so upset by the fact that others with different views are equally able to contribute..

Regardless of the issue..

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By *luttyLaylaWoman over a year ago

North West

"Love these threads...makes it so much easier to know who to avoid.

That’s not a very kind thing to say.

I do not understand why this would be an unkind thing to say tbh - I would echo the sentiment.

I respect people's wish to play BB but I would avoid them and the people they have played with. That would be my wish and I would expect that to be respected in the way I respect the bb players.

Surely it would be kinder to keep that knowledge to yourself rather than point out that you will avoid these people because you don’t agree with their choices.

The only reason to post such a statement is to point fingers and shout that you find them repulsive.

I am afraid you are making a bit of an assumption about me and my motives here. In the same way that people can post their preference, it should be possible to post one's opposite preference.

If it is not an issue for me to live and let live, perhaps you could kindly offer the same respect to those who disagree? Just a thought ...

I didn’t accuse you of anything.

I made a general statement.

If you feel this way perhaps you could start your own thread about it and not spoil the thread someone’s started for the celebration of all things bareback.

Also just a suggestion.

It's a public forum, no one should be surprised by or so upset by the fact that others with different views are equally able to contribute..

Regardless of the issue.."

This!

I also come on these threads to nosey at the guys... I’ve had a fair few in my inbox asking to meet (after covid) who on these threads are saying it’s bare or nothing lol.

Like to nosey at the ones who say what you want to hear

ha x

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By *um2me123Man over a year ago

burin

I agree....people can bring different aspects to the thread. As long as its tasteful and respectful.

I enjoy bareback but its not always possible or even sensible. However, i enjoy oral and covering up that pussy and not enjoying my lovers taste is not gonna happen. So its why i now only have a fwb situation where both know how sexually safe we are.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman over a year ago

North West

"I agree....people can bring different aspects to the thread. As long as its tasteful and respectful.

Exactly.

As long as everyone’s open honest and respectful having differing opinions is good

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By *lint-EverhardMan over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

knowing and trusting your partner helps.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is a great way of identifying whom not to meet ...

In all seriousness? Each to their own but I do check profiles and verifications, for this specific issue as I am not so keen on playing Russian roulette with my health.

Happy swinging xx "

Well said.

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By *ewey613Man over a year ago

ottawa

I’m 47, and while it was still risky when I became active as a teen, unless she demanded protection, I’d never use condoms. Even when I had them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My block list is growing longer than Trumps indictment sheet

Snap

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