Absolutely. Many people are looking for singles. Just don't be a creep and follow couples you fancy around like a stalker. Talk, be open and honest and have no expectations. After a few visits when you get known as a chilled easy going single it will start to happen for you. Sounds like a lot of effort but it's the only way. |
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I have been as a single male on several occasions (When we could) and have had some great nights and no that does not mean that i played every time as a good club can be a great night without playing |
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Funniest thing I've ever seen is this cocky nobhead mithering me and this bird I've taken to a club who's wanking talking to us or her and the lady in charge storms outta her box comes over and slags him off in front of us for what he's doing .
I actually saw the smile wiped off his face .
Ahh well stick to couples only now after that and other single weirdos that act weird in mixed clubs |
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I have bee and i can't wait they reopen , they are lovely places not only to meet but also make friends.
Yesterday just before left work someone was in the entrance , i opened the door and after few seconds i realised i knew her and i'm sure she thought the same about me , our smiles were indulgent  great memory i have with her from last year at Quest
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If I ever go to a club I will probably have a wank beforehand (not in club), that way I will not be so bothered about scoring in the club! Must be frustrating for the singles if they don't score but it is not a sure thing (great movie). |
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"Thanks guys! I’m definitely gonna give it a go when we’re allowed to, I’ll be nervous but a couple
Of drinks should calm the nerves lol "
For some of the clubs there will be a long waiting list maybe for single men and at times can be a little pricey |
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We’ve been to a few clubs on nights where single men are allowed.
Although we generally look for other couples and women we’re more than happy to have a chat, as long as you’re respectful and normal how you would be in a bar then that’s fine with us. Granted we are there to play so providing you take a hint if we politely move on then that’s great.
It may lead to some soft play on our side but that would absolutely be instigated by us.
Worst experience was when we attended with a lady friend of ours, and a single guy latched onto us assuming that he was now her date as we’d spoken for about 5 minutes. He got a bit touchy and ended up being escorted out by a very vigilant owner.
We don’t think it’s weird to go as a single male though, and wouldn’t judge you as out of place.
Anecdotes aside our tips would be.
Don’t be a creep peering out from the shadows, say hello, nod, anything just to demonstrate your a human not a psychopath. Any guy we’ve done anything with in a club, is somebody we remember being polite and friendly early in the night.
Don’t force yourself on a couple, maybe eye contact and a smile, and say hello if you’re nearby. For us, if we’re happy to chat we’ll let you know, if not you’ll get the hint as we’ll go to the bar or wander off.
If we’re playing, don’t come and sit right next to us, nearby and watch fine, maybe ask if you can watch if you want to get closer, but announcing your presence with a cock slap on D’s elbow will likely lead to it getting slapped off.
Most importantly, relax and be friendly, act how you would in a normal bar and be polite. No need for nerves, we know that we’re naked and know that we’re having sex in front of you, just enjoy it for what it is, but don’t try and jump on! |
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"If I ever go to a club I will probably have a wank beforehand (not in club), that way I will not be so bothered about scoring in the club! Must be frustrating for the singles if they don't score but it is not a sure thing (great movie). "
You'll soon be wanting to score again when you see people fucking, pre-wank or not.  |
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"Definitely. We probably wouldn't go to clubs anywhere near as much if there weren't any single men and women there. "
Same here.
Just choose the type of club that you think suits you best, dress down, sauna etc and do your research (Do's and don'ts) before joining.
There are many that we wont go near!
See if you can get to a social first to give yourself a feel for what you can expect. |
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"Do people go to swingers clubs as singles? I’ve never been to one before but would love to as soon as restrictions are lifted
I go as a single gal all the time
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And I only go to events where single men are likely to go to.
I like a mixed guest list.
I don’t tend to go to non event nights cos lots of single men won’t pay the price for those |
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Totally the same. Never been and would love to give it a shot (pun intended)
Anyone in Yorkshire with more details of clubs I’d love to ask you a few questions? |
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