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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We get the feeling that women are feeling the bite of no swx during social distancing than men.
Would you agree?
From the messages we get that seems the case anyway.
Feels like men are used to not getting regular play on this site (sometimes not even regular replies)
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By *amillMan
over a year ago
Warrington |
I won’t lie lockdown has severely impacted my sex life, it was fairly steady and regular pre-covid. Now it’s non-existent, but I’m not sure whether you can argue if males or females feel the impact more.
I think it becomes quite apparent that men deal with the effects differently though, based on what I see in some of the forums or on cam. Some are quite desperate and will do/say some rather odd things because they’re very horny with no action.
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"We get the feeling that women are feeling the bite of no swx during social distancing than men.
Would you agree?
From the messages we get that seems the case anyway.
Feels like men are used to not getting regular play on this site (sometimes not even regular replies)
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I think the people who are feeling the pinch most at the moment, are singles of either sex, and the regular club-goers  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I miss the "human touch" most , the foreplay if you like , The touching , kissing , licking , nibbling , stroking blah blah blah rather than penetration itself .
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We meant sex, including all those good things as well.
imagine going nearly a year without so much as a good hug.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We where just getting into the swing of things (pardon the pun) we deleted profile to focus on us but have been back on for a little while but wishing we were able to meet some of the lovely people we have been talking to.  |
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"I think I miss the "human touch" most , the foreplay if you like , The touching , kissing , licking , nibbling , stroking blah blah blah rather than penetration itself .
We meant sex, including all those good things as well.
imagine going nearly a year without so much as a good hug.
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Imagine going 12 years. I survived that, I’ll survive this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I miss the "human touch" most , the foreplay if you like , The touching , kissing , licking , nibbling , stroking blah blah blah rather than penetration itself .
We meant sex, including all those good things as well.
imagine going nearly a year without so much as a good hug.
Imagine going 12 years. I survived that, I’ll survive this."
12 years.
12, years
my god.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm proper sulking today
Post some more pics of your amazing boobs, enjoy the tidal wave of Fabs they will inevitably bring, and then you’ll perk up I’m sure  "
Top Top.. cheers  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The saying as I remember used to be that guys thought about sex more than women I've learned that that seems to be a load of bolloxs"
That Billion dollar sex toy industry isnt held up by Fleshlight sales. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"The saying as I remember used to be that guys thought about sex more than women I've learned that that seems to be a load of bolloxs
That Billion dollar sex toy industry isnt held up by Fleshlight sales."
I'm sure it isn't just very surprised that it might have been created by a guy rather than a woman  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As we’re in a LDR it’s already difficult for us, so we make the most of when we see eachother. But the lockdown has exacerbated it ( not seen eachother since October - thank god for FaceTime ! ) and both missing the closeness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As we’re in a LDR it’s already difficult for us, so we make the most of when we see eachother. But the lockdown has exacerbated it ( not seen eachother since October - thank god for FaceTime ! ) and both missing the closeness."
I reckon with a great many people it's not all about the sex but about intimacy, whether that's cuddles or anything else. |
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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago
Cap d’Agde, France |
Got to agree with OP.
The missus woke me up yesterday with a hand wank, totally out of character, it's normally me waking her up.
Reckon the lack of meets and excitement is taking its toll on her libido |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As we’re in a LDR it’s already difficult for us, so we make the most of when we see eachother. But the lockdown has exacerbated it ( not seen eachother since October - thank god for FaceTime ! ) and both missing the closeness.
I reckon with a great many people it's not all about the sex but about intimacy, whether that's cuddles or anything else."
Definitely this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As we’re in a LDR it’s already difficult for us, so we make the most of when we see eachother. But the lockdown has exacerbated it ( not seen eachother since October - thank god for FaceTime ! ) and both missing the closeness.
I reckon with a great many people it's not all about the sex but about intimacy, whether that's cuddles or anything else.
Definitely this "
Thankyou. Contact is so important, I felt like hugging the postman today just for someone new (I didn't). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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judging by my messages alone i think some guy think we are ''gagging'' for it and ive had a few ..you ''wont '' say no when its all go ... or ... you wont be as ''fussy'' when this is over lol well in a way they are right things will change but sorry guys ill be more fussy when this is over because ill be looking for regulars only and i never lower my preference .
left my fave to last ...youll be dripping for cock so bad that you wont care what we look like ??? lol yep little can they see the more men that join the more choice we have and the less they have...
ps i do love men ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"judging by my messages alone i think some guy think we are ''gagging'' for it and ive had a few ..you ''wont '' say no when its all go ... or ... you wont be as ''fussy'' when this is over lol well in a way they are right things will change but sorry guys ill be more fussy when this is over because ill be looking for regulars only and i never lower my preference .
left my fave to last ...youll be dripping for cock so bad that you wont care what we look like ??? lol yep little can they see the more men that join the more choice we have and the less they have...
ps i do love men ..."
"Dripping for cock", oh my. |
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"I think I miss the "human touch" most , the foreplay if you like , The touching , kissing , licking , nibbling , stroking blah blah blah rather than penetration itself .
We meant sex, including all those good things as well.
imagine going nearly a year without so much as a good hug.
Imagine going 12 years. I survived that, I’ll survive this.
12 years.
12, years
my god.
hugs"
It was awful, but on the bright side it means I know I can get through this. I might not be very happy about it, but I know I’ll survive it. But pity the first person I get my hands on afterwards lol, I’ll wear them out! |
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"As we’re in a LDR it’s already difficult for us, so we make the most of when we see eachother. But the lockdown has exacerbated it ( not seen eachother since October - thank god for FaceTime ! ) and both missing the closeness.
I reckon with a great many people it's not all about the sex but about intimacy, whether that's cuddles or anything else."
Oh without doubt, I’m finding I’m missing cuddles with my FWB more than the sex at this point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I miss the "human touch" most , the foreplay if you like , The touching , kissing , licking , nibbling , stroking blah blah blah rather than penetration itself .
We meant sex, including all those good things as well.
imagine going nearly a year without so much as a good hug.
Imagine going 12 years. I survived that, I’ll survive this.
12 years.
12, years
my god.
hugs
It was awful, but on the bright side it means I know I can get through this. I might not be very happy about it, but I know I’ll survive it. But pity the first person I get my hands on afterwards lol, I’ll wear them out!"
So when we hear of someone having suffocated tied to a bed....we know nothing. |
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"I think I miss the "human touch" most , the foreplay if you like , The touching , kissing , licking , nibbling , stroking blah blah blah rather than penetration itself .
We meant sex, including all those good things as well.
imagine going nearly a year without so much as a good hug.
Imagine going 12 years. I survived that, I’ll survive this.
12 years.
12, years
my god.
hugs
It was awful, but on the bright side it means I know I can get through this. I might not be very happy about it, but I know I’ll survive it. But pity the first person I get my hands on afterwards lol, I’ll wear them out!
So when we hear of someone having suffocated tied to a bed....we know nothing."
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"We get the feeling that women are feeling the bite of no swx during social distancing than men.
Would you agree?
From the messages we get that seems the case anyway.
Feels like men are used to not getting regular play on this site (sometimes not even regular replies)
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Poor women indeed.. but im afraid i have little sympathy there. Guy's get a rough deal in general in spite of their "male privilege ".
If women are now feeling the same lack of attention us guy's are used to dealing with then tough.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I miss the "human touch" most , the foreplay if you like , The touching , kissing , licking , nibbling , stroking blah blah blah rather than penetration itself .
We meant sex, including all those good things as well.
imagine going nearly a year without so much as a good hug.
Imagine going 12 years. I survived that, I’ll survive this.
12 years.
12, years
my god.
hugs
It was awful, but on the bright side it means I know I can get through this. I might not be very happy about it, but I know I’ll survive it. But pity the first person I get my hands on afterwards lol, I’ll wear them out!
So when we hear of someone having suffocated tied to a bed....we know nothing.
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"Men found dead by asphyxiation but all smiling" |
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"I think I miss the "human touch" most , the foreplay if you like , The touching , kissing , licking , nibbling , stroking blah blah blah rather than penetration itself .
We meant sex, including all those good things as well.
imagine going nearly a year without so much as a good hug.
Imagine going 12 years. I survived that, I’ll survive this.
12 years.
12, years
my god.
hugs
It was awful, but on the bright side it means I know I can get through this. I might not be very happy about it, but I know I’ll survive it. But pity the first person I get my hands on afterwards lol, I’ll wear them out!
So when we hear of someone having suffocated tied to a bed....we know nothing.
"Men found dead by asphyxiation but all smiling""
I mean, I might be the one to pop my clogs to be fair! |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
"We get the feeling that women are feeling the bite of no swx during social distancing than men.
Would you agree?
From the messages we get that seems the case anyway.
Feels like men are used to not getting regular play on this site (sometimes not even regular replies)
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Definitely |
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"We get the feeling that women are feeling the bite of no swx during social distancing than men.
Would you agree?
From the messages we get that seems the case anyway.
Feels like men are used to not getting regular play on this site (sometimes not even regular replies)
I think the people who are feeling the pinch most at the moment, are singles of either sex, and the regular club-goers "
Yeah pretty much!
Damn I miss sex - but I miss having a social life too - hard to say which I miss more tbh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think I miss the "human touch" most , the foreplay if you like , The touching , kissing , licking , nibbling , stroking blah blah blah rather than penetration itself .
We meant sex, including all those good things as well.
imagine going nearly a year without so much as a good hug.
Imagine going 12 years. I survived that, I’ll survive this.
12 years.
12, years
my god.
hugs
It was awful, but on the bright side it means I know I can get through this. I might not be very happy about it, but I know I’ll survive it. But pity the first person I get my hands on afterwards lol, I’ll wear them out!
So when we hear of someone having suffocated tied to a bed....we know nothing.
"Men found dead by asphyxiation but all smiling"
I mean, I might be the one to pop my clogs to be fair!"
As long as you wear a smile as you go! |
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"We get the feeling that women are feeling the bite of no swx during social distancing than men.
Would you agree?
From the messages we get that seems the case anyway.
Feels like men are used to not getting regular play on this site (sometimes not even regular replies)
I think the people who are feeling the pinch most at the moment, are singles of either sex, and the regular club-goers
Yeah pretty much!
Damn I miss sex - but I miss having a social life too - hard to say which I miss more tbh! "
I hear you there! But im really lucky with the neighbours. They even did the thing with the fence panel, where he cut it so can flip the top bit down so can see them and use a table. It's better in the summer but do still go out there now with a drink. Tea ususlly lol He sits the other side and she's in her hot tub lol |
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"We get the feeling that women are feeling the bite of no swx during social distancing than men.
Would you agree?
From the messages we get that seems the case anyway.
Feels like men are used to not getting regular play on this site (sometimes not even regular replies)
I think the people who are feeling the pinch most at the moment, are singles of either sex, and the regular club-goers
Yeah pretty much!
Damn I miss sex - but I miss having a social life too - hard to say which I miss more tbh!
I hear you there! But im really lucky with the neighbours. They even did the thing with the fence panel, where he cut it so can flip the top bit down so can see them and use a table. It's better in the summer but do still go out there now with a drink. Tea ususlly lol He sits the other side and she's in her hot tub lol "
Aw that sounds lovely!
Tbh I’m luckier than many. My kids are in their mid teens now so at least I have people to have a ‘real’ conversation with! I also have a hyperactive pup called Ollie the Destroyer who keeps me busy!  |
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Lockdown hasn't affected my sex life in the slightest.
I vintage year is if I get it more than 2-3 times a year and that's if im lucky lol.
So i dont really have sympathy for anyone who is going through sex withdrawal symptoms and finding Lockdown sexually tough and frustrating  |
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"We get the feeling that women are feeling the bite of no swx during social distancing than men.
Would you agree?
From the messages we get that seems the case anyway.
Feels like men are used to not getting regular play on this site (sometimes not even regular replies)
I think the people who are feeling the pinch most at the moment, are singles of either sex, and the regular club-goers
Yeah pretty much!
Damn I miss sex - but I miss having a social life too - hard to say which I miss more tbh!
I hear you there! But im really lucky with the neighbours. They even did the thing with the fence panel, where he cut it so can flip the top bit down so can see them and use a table. It's better in the summer but do still go out there now with a drink. Tea ususlly lol He sits the other side and she's in her hot tub lol
Aw that sounds lovely!
Tbh I’m luckier than many. My kids are in their mid teens now so at least I have people to have a ‘real’ conversation with! I also have a hyperactive pup called Ollie the Destroyer who keeps me busy! "
I got 2 teenagers buts its all tick too talk and tube you. Lol with lots of " in starving " thrown in..But yeah can sometimes manage a conversation at times. Lol Best time to get a pup. My sis got a cockerpoo firt lock down. Kids tried to get me to get one too..if I ever get tempted to get a pup I just remeber when i first got my beagel puppy...and how they are wosre than kids lol |
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