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It simply hurts. Guys think it can magicly stretch on its own.
If you don't know how to play, don't offer it.
I've been put off anal because of some stupid actions.
There is just 1 person I actually enjoy it with and no one else is allowed to touch it. |
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By *is_a_visMan
over a year ago
Cambridge/ London but often Herts/ East Anglia |
I think there is probably a big difference between guys and girls opinions here for receiving. Guys have no other option so if we want fucking, better pucker those ass cheeks. |
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Trust is a big thing but then if you want to find someone who is going to make it as easy and pleasurable for you as it can be, find someone who would let you turn the tables on them as well as they will know exactly how it feels  |
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over a year ago
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"Patient and plenty of lube lube lube. "
Lots of lube isn’t the answer.
You need some lube but mainly you need your bum to relax and open up. If it doesn’t it hurts like hell no matter how much lube you use.
Once he’s slipped into you he needs to pause or even take it back out, especially when you’re not used to it.
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I had an ex girlfriend who preferred anal. We took our time, used lube etc and she just loved it. She could orgasm from that alone. I think it’s as much of a sexy mind fuck as the physical act for a lot of people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally enjoy anal very much but everyone is different which should be respected.
It does require lube and patience but for me the reward of the intensity is worth it.
I sometimes wonder why so many men have such a big thing about giving anal?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is this 'anal' you speak of?
Is it something I should try? 
Bend over and brace yourself dear. This could be a bumpy ride "
I shall assume the position, be gentle, at first |
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over a year ago
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"What is this 'anal' you speak of?
Is it something I should try?
Bend over and brace yourself dear. This could be a bumpy ride
I shall assume the position, be gentle, at first"
Be with you in a minute. I’m just walking over here for my run up. |
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By *etasubTV/TS
over a year ago
West of Newcastle |
I just love receiving anal from a guy or a woman with a strap on. As people say , plenty of lube, slow entry and I like to sniff out of a little brown bottle which helps to relax my arse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A rare thing that we only do with each other it’s not something we would do on a meet it requires the next level of trust that you can’t get from a one off or even a semi regular meet |
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I absolutely love it!
I believe it’s all in the head with a lot of folk. If you’re not ready for it and keen then it’s not going to happen.
I had a partner who used to love it then all of a sudden she went off it and was sore every time (I’m convinced her prude of a sister had something to do with it). Get her d*unk and pliable and she’s all for it and could take a great ass fucking. Same person, two different states of mind. |
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By *luns1Man
over a year ago
Preston |
My partner loves it. All the comments on patience and lots of lube are spot on. She loves it when I pin her hands in the small of her back with my torso so she is restrained. she can orgasm from it but only if we have been playing a while and is very excited. |
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over a year ago
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"A rare thing that we only do with each other it’s not something we would do on a meet it requires the next level of trust that you can’t get from a one off or even a semi regular meet"
?????? to this. This is us too, good to keep something back from the swinging side that we only do together and then it’s SO much better when turned on to the max and just happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to really have a lot of trust in the person I'm doing it with, a very bad experience in the past makes it very hard for me to do it"
Jenny had bad experiences with anal in the past, But with me she loves it and can orgasam off it also. Trust, patience and a tidy guy is all it takes. |
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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
K can go either way with it though has struggled to receive it from anyone else other than myself... one late night session together, fell asleep inside her and that was pretty amazing 
Regard myself... I'm open minded and think that if it's good for women and blokes think it's OK for a woman to take it, then why shouldn't we and at one meet did, totally unexpected laying in a 69 and cleaning k, next thing i know she's guiding the other chaps cock inside me and must admit it was good  |
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My current friend hadn't had anal for 14 years and she really wanted to try and even the evening before said she didn't think it would go in. Anyway, I lubed her up then put a medium sized butt plug in so she could get used to it, then put a dildo in her pussy so she's experiencing pleasure and her mind distracted from the butt plug. It then came time to remove the butt plug and replace it with the dildo and she took it and I was going down on her at the same time. I then took the dildo out and put my cock in. Always plenty of lube. She took my cock all the way but very gently of course. The most important thing is to feel the reaction from her muscles and as the bell end goes past the muscle then slide slowly in.
The result was that we did it 3 times that day and the following week, she did it cowgirl on me. She said it was the best anal she had ever had. Result. Now she wants anal all the time as it's so intimate. |
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"A rare thing that we only do with each other it’s not something we would do on a meet it requires the next level of trust that you can’t get from a one off or even a semi regular meet
?????? to this. This is us too, good to keep something back from the swinging side that we only do together and then it’s SO much better when turned on to the max and just happens "
Exactly x |
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H has huge anal orgasms
Lick out and vibe pussy first as fingering her bum
She carries on vibing as I finger her arse then she just craves her arse to be fucked
She loves the feeling as I push my hard cock in deep
She loves how dirty she feels
I’m very lucky |
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"My current friend hadn't had anal for 14 years and she really wanted to try and even the evening before said she didn't think it would go in. Anyway, I lubed her up then put a medium sized butt plug in so she could get used to it, then put a dildo in her pussy so she's experiencing pleasure and her mind distracted from the butt plug. It then came time to remove the butt plug and replace it with the dildo and she took it and I was going down on her at the same time. I then took the dildo out and put my cock in. Always plenty of lube. She took my cock all the way but very gently of course. The most important thing is to feel the reaction from her muscles and as the bell end goes past the muscle then slide slowly in.
The result was that we did it 3 times that day and the following week, she did it cowgirl on me. She said it was the best anal she had ever had. Result. Now she wants anal all the time as it's so intimate. "
This is the kind of thing I like to hear , as I think part of the problem is that the person receiving anal is not properly relaxed. |
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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago
Cleethorpes |
Yea its all about the prep and training really!
Love anal only srarted enjoying it in Jan 2020 when new fwb showed me and taught me properly and can't get enough now, every time I meet with my fwb I want anal
Sometimes the Mrs with a strap on doesn't cut it x |
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over a year ago
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"I absolutely love it!
I believe it’s all in the head with a lot of folk. If you’re not ready for it and keen then it’s not going to happen.
I had a partner who used to love it then all of a sudden she went off it and was sore every time (I’m convinced her prude of a sister had something to do with it). Get her d*unk and pliable and she’s all for it and could take a great ass fucking. Same person, two different states of mind. "
I believe part of the problem is in the mind. |
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The main thing I think is it's like the vagina. You can't just go hammering at it dry. You have to excite and enjoy with a little foreplay. I love a woman on her knees licking her bum and playing with her pussy, then sticking my tongue in and out. Make it a arousing so they're not waiting worried for the pain but excited. Gentle with a finger or small toy and build up. Also as the giver you have to listen, one wrong slip and it wel hurt and then that bad memory can put a stop to a very sexy kinky play. I just love being naughty and have introduced a few playmates to anal, done correctly I've been lucky that they've all enjoyed it. One even coining the phrase "bumgasm" Haha. It's not for everyone but I really enjoy it. |
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My man is pretty big on the cock front, and I told him that on his 50th birthday I'll let him fuck me up the ass... Needless to say he's not 50 yet, curiosity got the better of me, and now I bloody love it... It's a different feeling, and penetration up my ass with his cock rather than my pussy feels more pleasurable! It must hit all the right places... |
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I think it's because after the man has pestered long enough, and she finally let's him do it, he goes at it like porn. You have to work up to it. I've converted some girls that wouldn't entertain it, and eventually enjoy it and 1 or 2 prefer it. I must be a good pesterer...... |
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"The main thing I think is it's like the vagina. You can't just go hammering at it dry. You have to excite and enjoy with a little foreplay. I love a woman on her knees licking her bum and playing with her pussy, then sticking my tongue in and out. Make it a arousing so they're not waiting worried for the pain but excited. Gentle with a finger or small toy and build up. Also as the giver you have to listen, one wrong slip and it wel hurt and then that bad memory can put a stop to a very sexy kinky play. I just love being naughty and have introduced a few playmates to anal, done correctly I've been lucky that they've all enjoyed it. One even coining the phrase "bumgasm" Haha. It's not for everyone but I really enjoy it. "
This is the kind of messages that I enjoy reading. One were the time was taken to fully relax the person and build up to the moment with foreplay. |
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"The main thing I think is it's like the vagina. You can't just go hammering at it dry. You have to excite and enjoy with a little foreplay. I love a woman on her knees licking her bum and playing with her pussy, then sticking my tongue in and out. Make it a arousing so they're not waiting worried for the pain but excited. Gentle with a finger or small toy and build up. Also as the giver you have to listen, one wrong slip and it wel hurt and then that bad memory can put a stop to a very sexy kinky play. I just love being naughty and have introduced a few playmates to anal, done correctly I've been lucky that they've all enjoyed it. One even coining the phrase "bumgasm" Haha. It's not for everyone but I really enjoy it.
This is the kind of messages that I enjoy reading. One were the time was taken to fully relax the person and build up to the moment with foreplay."
I honestly just love a nice looking ass, running my tongue over it and feeling my tongue open it up. Ive been told that is a turn on for the women, it helps relax and often intrigue. My ex loved me rimming as she could feel my breath on her clit. Licking over both and feeling her pushing her sexy bum back on my tongue (sorry getting myself hot at the thought and getting off track) but when you feel the woman (or guy I'm guessing) pushing back on your tongue you know they're relaxed and can trying a finger tip and progress, hopefully, comfortably from there. |
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over a year ago
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I only received for the first time just before lockdown 1.0. I was afraid of the idea for many years after a bad experience with an A&E doctor’s finger in my early 20s. However after a surprise prostate massage about 13 years ago that I really enjoyed, I embarked on self exploration. With another prostate massage experience two years ago, that blew my mind, I was ready to take the plunge. I had built up gradually over the years from a small slender butt plug, to an 8” vibrating dildo, with a good sized glass anal dildo in the interim. So when I was finally fucked with a cock it was pleasurable and easy and I thoroughly enjoyed it. |
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"The main thing I think is it's like the vagina. You can't just go hammering at it dry. You have to excite and enjoy with a little foreplay. I love a woman on her knees licking her bum and playing with her pussy, then sticking my tongue in and out. Make it a arousing so they're not waiting worried for the pain but excited. Gentle with a finger or small toy and build up. Also as the giver you have to listen, one wrong slip and it wel hurt and then that bad memory can put a stop to a very sexy kinky play. I just love being naughty and have introduced a few playmates to anal, done correctly I've been lucky that they've all enjoyed it. One even coining the phrase "bumgasm" Haha. It's not for everyone but I really enjoy it.
This is the kind of messages that I enjoy reading. One were the time was taken to fully relax the person and build up to the moment with foreplay.
I honestly just love a nice looking ass, running my tongue over it and feeling my tongue open it up. Ive been told that is a turn on for the women, it helps relax and often intrigue. My ex loved me rimming as she could feel my breath on her clit. Licking over both and feeling her pushing her sexy bum back on my tongue (sorry getting myself hot at the thought and getting off track) but when you feel the woman (or guy I'm guessing) pushing back on your tongue you know they're relaxed and can trying a finger tip and progress, hopefully, comfortably from there. "
Yes there is no doubt a good rimming and some gentle opening up with fingers and a butt plug as well as a good lube really helps relax me and get me in the mood. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well it’s no good just hoping the ladies bend over and take it. I find the best way is play with a ladies bum and gently finger her bum then if the lady is comfortable she might let you slide it inside of her. But always respect what they say |
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"Why are people put off anal?
Is it the thought of possible mess?
That it might hurt ?
That the woman could not have orgasm so why do it ?
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1. Douche thoroughly. We both do this before meets immaterial whether anal takes place.
2. Patience and lots of lube. Start small. Anal beads work well. In and out. 1 at a time. Relaxation and Trust in your partner!!
3. Really? Both men and women can have incredible and different orgasms from anal. |
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I refused point blank when Mike first mentioned it. Told him it would never happen. I'd had a bad experience in the past, I felt pressured into it, therefore didn't enjoy it. After a few months with Mike we tried and it didn't happen. We've persevered with it and, I wouldn't say I love it, but I'm certainly enjoying it the more we do it. He's patient, gentle and lets me control it. A big factor for me is that I have to be in the mood for it! It's something that will be for us only though |
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"I refused point blank when Mike first mentioned it. Told him it would never happen. I'd had a bad experience in the past, I felt pressured into it, therefore didn't enjoy it. After a few months with Mike we tried and it didn't happen. We've persevered with it and, I wouldn't say I love it, but I'm certainly enjoying it the more we do it. He's patient, gentle and lets me control it. A big factor for me is that I have to be in the mood for it! It's something that will be for us only though "
Just takes the right person at the right time. There is loads I b3ver thought id even want to try yet have..and glad I did lol |
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over a year ago
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"If a man is too big it can hurt even if you are trying to relax
How bigs to big?
I’ve not found one that is too big yet. 
Wizards sleeve springs to mind haha"
Nope. Tight as a duck. |
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Because it hurts like a motherfucker! I'm not bothered about it enough to persevere with possibly months of pain to try to get to the point where I may finally enjoy it. There are plenty of other sex things that I actually love and I don't feel like I'm missing out. |
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"My current friend hadn't had anal for 14 years and she really wanted to try and even the evening before said she didn't think it would go in. Anyway, I lubed her up then put a medium sized butt plug in so she could get used to it, then put a dildo in her pussy so she's experiencing pleasure and her mind distracted from the butt plug. It then came time to remove the butt plug and replace it with the dildo and she took it and I was going down on her at the same time. I then took the dildo out and put my cock in. Always plenty of lube. She took my cock all the way but very gently of course. The most important thing is to feel the reaction from her muscles and as the bell end goes past the muscle then slide slowly in.
The result was that we did it 3 times that day and the following week, she did it cowgirl on me. She said it was the best anal she had ever had. Result. Now she wants anal all the time as it's so intimate.
This is the kind of thing I like to hear , as I think part of the problem is that the person receiving anal is not properly relaxed. "
Very true. The person may say they are relaxed but as the head starts to enter, then feel the muscle and that'll tell you if the person is relaxed, if so, gently further. Do not rush at all. Once the head has entered and the muscle is relaxed still then the shaft will follow. There is absolutely no need or use to rush at that stage. If done correctly, as I certainly do, then anal is there every time for both. |
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"I refused point blank when Mike first mentioned it. Told him it would never happen. I'd had a bad experience in the past, I felt pressured into it, therefore didn't enjoy it. After a few months with Mike we tried and it didn't happen. We've persevered with it and, I wouldn't say I love it, but I'm certainly enjoying it the more we do it. He's patient, gentle and lets me control it. A big factor for me is that I have to be in the mood for it! It's something that will be for us only though
Just takes the right person at the right time. There is loads I b3ver thought id even want to try yet have..and glad I did lol "
Exactly, I never thought I'd try swinging, but hey, here I am! Hahaha the things you do for love! Lol |
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"I refused point blank when Mike first mentioned it. Told him it would never happen. I'd had a bad experience in the past, I felt pressured into it, therefore didn't enjoy it. After a few months with Mike we tried and it didn't happen. We've persevered with it and, I wouldn't say I love it, but I'm certainly enjoying it the more we do it. He's patient, gentle and lets me control it. A big factor for me is that I have to be in the mood for it! It's something that will be for us only though
Just takes the right person at the right time. There is loads I b3ver thought id even want to try yet have..and glad I did lol
Exactly, I never thought I'd try swinging, but hey, here I am! Hahaha the things you do for love! Lol"
If you had told the Me of 10 years ago what i would I've tried and be enjoying now she would never of believed it haha God she was boring lol |
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"I refused point blank when Mike first mentioned it. Told him it would never happen. I'd had a bad experience in the past, I felt pressured into it, therefore didn't enjoy it. After a few months with Mike we tried and it didn't happen. We've persevered with it and, I wouldn't say I love it, but I'm certainly enjoying it the more we do it. He's patient, gentle and lets me control it. A big factor for me is that I have to be in the mood for it! It's something that will be for us only though
Just takes the right person at the right time. There is loads I b3ver thought id even want to try yet have..and glad I did lol
Exactly, I never thought I'd try swinging, but hey, here I am! Hahaha the things you do for love! Lol
If you had told the Me of 10 years ago what i would I've tried and be enjoying now she would never of believed it haha God she was boring lol "
Me too really, I would never have dreamt of letting anyone near my arse, or even thinking about swinging, but I must say I'm enjoying it so far, even though we haven't had a meet yet |
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"Why are people put off anal?
Is it the thought of possible mess?
That it might hurt ?
That the woman could not have orgasm so why do it ?
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Well..I love it!but I have to trust him,have to have very strong connection.  |
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"I refused point blank when Mike first mentioned it. Told him it would never happen. I'd had a bad experience in the past, I felt pressured into it, therefore didn't enjoy it. After a few months with Mike we tried and it didn't happen. We've persevered with it and, I wouldn't say I love it, but I'm certainly enjoying it the more we do it. He's patient, gentle and lets me control it. A big factor for me is that I have to be in the mood for it! It's something that will be for us only though
Just takes the right person at the right time. There is loads I b3ver thought id even want to try yet have..and glad I did lol
Exactly, I never thought I'd try swinging, but hey, here I am! Hahaha the things you do for love! Lol
If you had told the Me of 10 years ago what i would I've tried and be enjoying now she would never of believed it haha God she was boring lol
Me too really, I would never have dreamt of letting anyone near my arse, or even thinking about swinging, but I must say I'm enjoying it so far, even though we haven't had a meet yet "
Thsts great to hear. I suppose at least this way you get to enjoy all this first and feel relaxed enough to enjoy this before the next phase when we are allowed back out! Good on you x |
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"Why are people put off anal?
Is it the thought of possible mess?
That it might hurt ?
That the woman could not have orgasm so why do it ?
Well..I love it!but I have to trust him,have to have very strong connection. "
It's a case of just because I do don't assume i will. |
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"I refused point blank when Mike first mentioned it. Told him it would never happen. I'd had a bad experience in the past, I felt pressured into it, therefore didn't enjoy it. After a few months with Mike we tried and it didn't happen. We've persevered with it and, I wouldn't say I love it, but I'm certainly enjoying it the more we do it. He's patient, gentle and lets me control it. A big factor for me is that I have to be in the mood for it! It's something that will be for us only though
Just takes the right person at the right time. There is loads I b3ver thought id even want to try yet have..and glad I did lol
Exactly, I never thought I'd try swinging, but hey, here I am! Hahaha the things you do for love! Lol
If you had told the Me of 10 years ago what i would I've tried and be enjoying now she would never of believed it haha God she was boring lol
Me too really, I would never have dreamt of letting anyone near my arse, or even thinking about swinging, but I must say I'm enjoying it so far, even though we haven't had a meet yet
Thsts great to hear. I suppose at least this way you get to enjoy all this first and feel relaxed enough to enjoy this before the next phase when we are allowed back out! Good on you x"
Yeah, there's absolutely no pressure to meet. Mike has done it before and he mentioned he would like to maybe get back into it, so I thought, fuck it, have a nose! Now I can't wait to get a first meet! |
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"Why are people put off anal?
Is it the thought of possible mess?
That it might hurt ?
That the woman could not have orgasm so why do it ?
Well..I love it!but I have to trust him,have to have very strong connection.
It's a case of just because I do don't assume i will. "
Exactly that... thats why its not on my profile listed coz some people don't really get that. |
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A lot to do with mind , hurt ,pain ,and penetration. But control the mind and everything else will relax .a sniff from a little brown bottle was mentioned earlier.but be careful with blockers .not to be used with an effie ticker . |
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"A lot to do with mind , hurt ,pain ,and penetration. But control the mind and everything else will relax .a sniff from a little brown bottle was mentioned earlier.but be careful with blockers .not to be used with an effie ticker ."
Personality I would never recommend p**pe*s or any other type of pain relief as you need to know if it is painful then stop of it is. |
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One ex LOVED it and would often actually beg for it while I was fucking her pussy. That was hot!
One point blank refused, wouldn’t even entertain a playful finger.
One had had a previous bad experience but when she eventually capitulated she really enjoyed it because of the preparation and teasing added to the new found enjoyment. Add to that she said she’d only let me if I let her do the same to me which I was more than happy to oblige!
I don’t know what it is about it but it’s just so fucking sexy when you get that first bit of your cock slipped in. Then slowly build up to going deeper. |
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over a year ago
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When done right and right mood everything works out it is amazing for both parties.. we use pegging play as fun for both of us along with her enjoyment of anal itself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love anal (now) It’s taken me years to get to this point. Bad experiences in the past and guys not stopping despite you telling them.
It comes with trust for me , and also a lot of anal training!
There’s times I prefer it to my pussy being fucked ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very bad early experience.
I enjoy it now, but there really has to be a lot of trust there and the guy needs to know exactly what he is doing. Penis size also plays a part. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We love anal, roll on anal (only) August
Take it slow and there’s DP too
Mind over matter"
My birthday is in August so I will definitely be doing Anal August x |
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think anal is part of love making and if its done right then both can enjoy it big or small its how you do it ? use cream and plenty of anal play or rimming then enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i love anal so does partner
trust ,lube and we started gently with butt plugs then cock
hurt a bit at first now fine but guy needs to go slowly and be gently
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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago
New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies |
I like it both ways, had 1 or 2 bad ones, as some people just dont have a clue and try to slam it in. but a punch in the throat soon teaches them the error of their ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It simply hurts. Guys think it can magicly stretch on its own.
If you don't know how to play, don't offer it.
I've been put off anal because of some stupid actions.
There is just 1 person I actually enjoy it with and no one else is allowed to touch it. "
Yes I totally agree. Over the years I have had anal sex with a lot of women that have previously had bad expirences, if done right it’s very enjoyable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not had overly much experience with anal. But the last time I did it, i was put off to try again. Was no visible pooo but there was definitely a weird slighty shitty smell afterwards that lingered that I had to try and ignore.
Not with 'A' btw. She doesn't like it for pain reasons.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not had overly much experience with anal. But the last time I did it, i was put off to try again. Was no visible pooo but there was definitely a weird slighty shitty smell afterwards that lingered that I had to try and ignore.
Not with 'A' btw. She doesn't like it for pain reasons.
S x "
Off course you should never do anything that is painful and not enjoyable x |
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By *oman wantedCouple
over a year ago
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I love anal. Secret is to start on the the side,go easy at 1st then lay on my belly then fella goes for it.Used to use lube but don't need it now. I'm used to it and cum 4-5 times every time. Very intense xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most women won’t give it a chance or a second chance as the woman I’ve spoke with said the majority of previous guys they have been with don’t take it slow and aren’t persistent and have no patience, instead they just rush it and ruin the whole experience for the woman. Tips guys - in this case the turtle definitely beats the hare! |
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Think porn has a lot to answer for in terms of guys just trying to ram it in. When you've been on the other end of something substantial being put there you suddenly have a lot more respect for the need for a slow and steady approach. I can totally understand a lot of people thinking "fuck that, never again." After a bad experience!!
However with the right approach and preparation. I think it can be good for all concerned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well i love having a little play with the ladies bum then sliding my finger inside while fingering her pussy then slide my cock inside her tight bum
but remember be respectful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My man is pretty big on the cock front, and I told him that on his 50th birthday I'll let him fuck me up the ass... Needless to say he's not 50 yet, curiosity got the better of me, and now I bloody love it... It's a different feeling, and penetration up my ass with his cock rather than my pussy feels more pleasurable! It must hit all the right places... "
Fuck! Me! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I personally love anal but before I tried it I was petrified by the thought of it. Some people still see it as disgusting and taboo, I see it as part of normal sex  "
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