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over a year ago
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"Why oh why do so many profiles say you must have face pics to get a reply and yet they themselves have no pics at all or no face pics themselves ?!? "
For me, it's a sign of selfishness. They'll never meet you halfway. Move on. |
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By *wencatWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
i do like to see who i am chatting to and some put a cock pick on instead of a face pic maybe its me but i think a profile face pic is nice sorry if u disagree but i really do most cocks look much the same anyway a face pic is much nicer ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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over a year ago
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My job sees me very much in the public eye, seeing my face pic on here could jeopardise my safety at work so my face pic is in my private gallery for friends only, (friends who I've actually met in person, I never add before that).
When I receive a message with a face pic I reply with mine attached but only if it's someone I wish to chat too or maybe take things further. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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I have a face pic in private I attach if interested.
What's pointless is people chatting to you, ask to be friends but they don't have a face pic in private, just upteen pics of their knob...what's that about?!!
Op, I wouldn't waste time on people who won't show a face pic...move on! |
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i dont understand the problem with sending facepics, tbh.
wouldnt have them in public as, obviously, most of us want to be discreet and not be publicly associated with swinging, but to send face pics that someone can just get off facebook, we have no problem, but again, its only after we have talked for a while, and want to take things further.
we dont automatically reply in kind as its up to others if they want to send these pics out as par for the course, if we didnt request them. |
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Once you send a face pic even to other people in a private message you lose control of it.
If my work found out about my extra cirriular activities I would die a million deaths.
If you don't like the fact that someone doesn't post face pics then move on there are plenty of other people out there. x |
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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago
edinburgh |
I gladly send face pics when ive chatted for a bit and have face pics in my private gallery . Its only right if you like a person , want to meet them that you let them see what you look like . Dont tar everyone with the same brush . ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have the same face pics on here as I do on Facebook then if they get misused it could be seen as from there! My nude pics don't have clear faces on show and r for friends only x ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have face pics in private or we send a face pic by phone.We never meet without seeing others face pics,want to know who Im answering my door to, not some poor stranger thats got the wrong house lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have face pics in private or we send a face pic by phone.We never meet without seeing others face pics,want to know who Im answering my door to, not some poor stranger thats got the wrong house lol." Oh the possibilities lol
Pizza delivery boy with wrong house number walks into a BDSM party ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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over a year ago
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We can't understand "blind date" meets.
How can anyone arrange to meet someone without knowing what they look like beforehand.
Imagine taking hours to get everything ready for a meet and then not fancying them when they arrive, what a downer.
XXXX |
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"Once you send a face pic even to other people in a private message you lose control of it.
If my work found out about my extra cirriular activities I would die a million deaths.
If you don't like the fact that someone doesn't post face pics then move on there are plenty of other people out there. x"
as we said, use ones you are happy to put on a social networking site.
then, if they 'get out' there is NOTHING saying you are on a swinging site. its just a fully clothed picture of you in all your loveliness that they could have gotten from there |
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"We can't understand "blind date" meets.
How can anyone arrange to meet someone without knowing what they look like beforehand.
Imagine taking hours to get everything ready for a meet and then not fancying them when they arrive, what a downer.
XXXX"
faces, however, just dont do that.
hence we ALWAYS meet for a drink first too.
we fancy each other like crazy, there has to be something in the other parties personality that takes us the rest of the way to want to do anything.
the most handsome man, or prettiest lady wouldnt get far with us if they couldnt hold a decent conversation. |
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"We can't understand "blind date" meets.
How can anyone arrange to meet someone without knowing what they look like beforehand.
Imagine taking hours to get everything ready for a meet and then not fancying them when they arrive, what a downer.
XXXX
faces, however, just dont do that.
hence we ALWAYS meet for a drink first too.
we fancy each other like crazy, there has to be something in the other parties personality that takes us the rest of the way to want to do anything.
the most handsome man, or prettiest lady wouldnt get far with us if they couldnt hold a decent conversation."
Likewise but we usually have a few chats on the phone and several messages first, time being precious we don't want to waste it by getting things wrong.
We usually get a good feel for people before we decide to meet and luckily haven't been disappointed yet.
All have looked like their pics and most have looked even better in real life, which was a bonus.
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"We can't understand "blind date" meets.
How can anyone arrange to meet someone without knowing what they look like beforehand.
Imagine taking hours to get everything ready for a meet and then not fancying them when they arrive, what a downer.
XXXX
faces, however, just dont do that.
hence we ALWAYS meet for a drink first too.
we fancy each other like crazy, there has to be something in the other parties personality that takes us the rest of the way to want to do anything.
the most handsome man, or prettiest lady wouldnt get far with us if they couldnt hold a decent conversation.
Likewise but we usually have a few chats on the phone and several messages first, time being precious we don't want to waste it by getting things wrong.
We usually get a good feel for people before we decide to meet and luckily haven't been disappointed yet.
All have looked like their pics and most have looked even better in real life, which was a bonus.
XXXX"
oh dont get me wrong, we also message and talk on teh old dognbone, but, a 5 minute convo, or a few messages are different to holding someones attention over a meal or a drink. |
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