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What makes a blow job amazing?
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By *izzibeth9 OP Couple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
So I've just been reading a post about men Vs women on giving blow jobs and lots of people were saying how they've had 'amazing' or 'mind blowing' blow jobs from both sexes.
I've never had any complaints about my skills but I wondered what the standards are of a bad, good and amazing blow job are? Are they very different for each guy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Eye contact drives me wild - it’s simultaneously very submissive and let’s me know you’re totally in charge. Also, any woman who flicks her tongue about and plays with the head has my undivided attention. |
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By *izzibeth9 OP Couple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
"Eye contact drives me wild - it’s simultaneously very submissive and let’s me know you’re totally in charge. Also, any woman who flicks her tongue about and plays with the head has my undivided attention."
Oh yes the guy I'm seeing does like a little tongue flick on the tip! |
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Its not just about sucking. Cock needs to be licked and stimulated and not forgetting the balls. A nice shaft lick and head tease is good for me. I've also had great cock sucking off both women and men. |
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By *ookMan
over a year ago
london |
Sorry for earlier attempt at poor humour... sometimes the best thing is expectation... teasing or the feeling of knowing you will get a release. The tingling or dull ache of a full tank. Other things I like are eye contact, wetness, appropriate noises, balls being gently touched and perhaps a little finger action in the nether regions. Don’t like it too rough but sometimes fast and dirty works... |
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By *amseMan
over a year ago
birmingham |
I like it when the lady can take it deep and suck hard plus not scratch me with the teeth. But actually I’ve never had any bad bjs all technics works miracle on me! Normally I can not stop cuming. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1 doesnt fit all.
Read the guy. For example slow sensual,tip play,tip kissing works for me.
I hate- Fast, deep throating, pornstar spec blow jobs.
From experience most that have raved about how good they are at giving oral really havnt been (for me anyway) i find that those who give it all the 'im the best at giving blowjobs' dont read reactions and have a set robotic way they give them.... not good. |
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I like it when she is down on her knees... keeping the eye contact...with a cheeky smile.. reading on her face how hungry is for my cock... combining slow licking and teasing with sloopy messy deepthroat....   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a slow build up, lots of licking, teasing, and gentle stroking to start. Then building up to slowly taking more and more between her lips. Plenty of spit, some deepthroat always makes me growl, and plenty of eye contact |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
Enthusiasm and eye contact, the method is not as important, if it feels like or looks like the woman is treating it as a chore "I know this one well being married and getting the birthday and Christmas treat only" then it's not even worth having. |
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A perfect sized cock for my mouth makes for an amazing blowie 
I can think of a few that seem to like slipping down my throat!
Perfect size for yourself, lots of practice, saliva and pleasing noises   |
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The woman enjoying giving one is a great start and not complaining of jaw hurting!!
Plenty of tongue action especially round and just below the head. Not forgetting to lick the balls and shaft.
Eye contact and swallowing every drop and licking the cock clean.
Feels nearly as good as a beautiful wet pussy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A perfect sized cock for my mouth makes for an amazing blowie
I can think of a few that seem to like slipping down my throat!
Perfect size for yourself, lots of practice, saliva and pleasing noises "
Where does one apply? |
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"A perfect sized cock for my mouth makes for an amazing blowie
I can think of a few that seem to like slipping down my throat!
Perfect size for yourself, lots of practice, saliva and pleasing noises
Where does one apply?"
Right in my open mouth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Teeth and cock go together in this house val is a vampire  I'll happily take having my cock being chewed. teeth no problem here "
It's not gonna chew itself!
Love Glossop. Love Val's arse. Love to chat sometime x |
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"Enthusiasm and eye contact, the method is not as important, if it feels like or looks like the woman is treating it as a chore "I know this one well being married and getting the birthday and Christmas treat only" then it's not even worth having."
Doubt you would get women on Fab treating it like a chore. If they are not into it they won’t do it as most are here for exciting times when there is no Covid.
Happy birthday lol. |
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By *amillMan
over a year ago
Warrington |
Every guy likes something different and I often find that when people try to overhype their skills and tell you they’re the ‘best you’ll ever have’ often don’t live up to the billing.
Sometimes I think people can try a bit too hard with a blow job because they think the guys into it. I’d say the best advice is to read the situation, look what the person is into and enjoying at the time.
The one thing I would say that I’ve found sometimes is that, people can tug on the foreskin a bit too hard or at an odd angle which can make a blowjob uncomfortable. It’s only a thin layer of skin and it can be easily torn. |
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Lots of saliva, good hand action and a girl who loves doing it.
There is a difference between someone going through the motions, and someone going for Olympic gold cos they truly love a cock in their mouth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m sure everyone is slightly different with what they like, however for me I enjoy a blowjob the most when it’s wet and sloppy.
It’s very unpleasant when the blowjob is on the dry side or if it’s sucked so hard it feels like it’s going to fall off. But as I say everyone is different. |
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Without getting into technique i think its attitude and the willing to enjoy giving...ive had blowjobs where its done only because i went down on her first...the blowjob that gets extended to where i cant hold back are the best...messier is always better...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of eye contact, making sure it’s nice and extra wet, find different strokes and keep at it . Most of the guys that try me out end up with their eyes rolling so I know it feels good |
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By *eoMan
over a year ago
Sutton-In-Ashfield |
Ask the guy what techniques he likes and see what Techniques he enjoys first. Every guy is different, every cock is different. Mine has got quite a bit of girth, and a few women struggle with not catching their teeth on the tip. So very slow and lots of spit is normally the best way for me. |
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By *eoMan
over a year ago
Sutton-In-Ashfield |
"Lots of eye contact, making sure it’s nice and extra wet, find different strokes and keep at it . Most of the guys that try me out end up with their eyes rolling so I know it feels good "
You sound like you know exactly what you’re doing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The wetter the better. It is also about attitude. The blower needs to show they are devoted to the cock and the pleasure of its owner. Worship it."
This 100 percent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All depends on the mood im in, sometimes i like it slow and attentive and sometimes i like it rough and deepthroat type. Either way it has to be sloppy with plenty of hand action on the bellend.
One woman literally tried dry wanking me and it wasnt pleasant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never had a bad one off a guy I think a lot of women just think if they bob there head up and down that's a bj same as some guys think lapping at a pussy will do the job.
I find listening and feeling responses to what your doing is key all oral should start from the anus and finish on the naval slow and wet to flicking tongue kissing stroking. Everyone likes different thing so explore and ask for feedback. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not saying that I am good at giving blow jobs but I do enjoy given them which I think helps.
I would say learn to read the guy feel or listen for his response to what you are doing , as not all men like the same thing . Some like long slow actions some fast and furious. I will say don't forget the ball be it gentle or rough. I sometimes finger the outer part of the anus to see if I get a sign that they enjoy your prostate stimulation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most blow jobs are terrible - most women just go up/down/up/down zzzzz. Variety and communication are key to good head.
The best head I've had has always been from people who actually appear to be enjoying themselves, and make some noises too. Vary what you do, use lips and tongue and don't forget to wank it as well. Again, not just up & down, vary what you're doing.
Silent up/down blow jobs are about as sexy as sticking your cock in a pencil sharpener. |
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"So I've just been reading a post about men Vs women on giving blow jobs and lots of people were saying how they've had 'amazing' or 'mind blowing' blow jobs from both sexes.
I've never had any complaints about my skills but I wondered what the standards are of a bad, good and amazing blow job are? Are they very different for each guy? "
I think personally if you can see the women enjoying giving oral it makes it so much better
A few men have said they never cum from a blow job. But then in 5-10 mins with the wife’s mouth round them they are blowing.
Also if the women makes sexy noises that vibrates on the tip. And for me (mr) a good suck on the bellend always gets me going. So a mix with all that always works |
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"Most blow jobs are terrible - most women just go up/down/up/down zzzzz. Variety and communication are key to good head.
The best head I've had has always been from people who actually appear to be enjoying themselves, and make some noises too. Vary what you do, use lips and tongue and don't forget to wank it as well. Again, not just up & down, vary what you're doing.
Silent up/down blow jobs are about as sexy as sticking your cock in a pencil sharpener."
Take a look at our vids I think this is what your talking about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guy standing, woman on knees wearing lipstick and big loopy earrings. Plenty of eye contact, lick it slowly like a lollipop, and then reach round to grip his arse cheeks with both hands and pull him gently in...
Works for us |
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By *izzibeth9 OP Couple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
"I've never cum from a bj. I prefer them wetter but with lots of variety in speed suction depth etc Same here never cum from having a bj , one lives in hope "
The guy I'm seeing said he doesn't cum from blow jobs, so I made it my challenge...guess who won |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"I've never cum from a bj. I prefer them wetter but with lots of variety in speed suction depth etc Same here never cum from having a bj , one lives in hope
The guy I'm seeing said he doesn't cum from blow jobs, so I made it my challenge...guess who won "
Ah you fell that old chestnut, we guys say that so we get a blow job to completion, we're naughty like that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never cum from a bj. I prefer them wetter but with lots of variety in speed suction depth etc Same here never cum from having a bj , one lives in hope
The guy I'm seeing said he doesn't cum from blow jobs, so I made it my challenge...guess who won "
Oh yes used that one myself a few times in my youth . X |
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A lot of women claim to give amazing head but truth be told there's more that do a bad job than a good job. I find if they really love doing it, there's a big difference. Some worship your cock others don't. And no teeth! Why do women think that's sexy, stop it lol
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Look for porn films with a French lady called "Klixen", (she has long black hair and about 45), she gives the most amazing blowjobs, licking, edging, handjobs etc. When she appears with two other girls pleasuring a cock to is even more sensational, Three tounge's, one cock. I would die for her to give me one. She sets the standard very high. Probably unbeatable in my book.
Oddly enough, "Klixen" stands for:- "A way of pleasuring a penis by oral sex. usually slow and teasing, involving pressing hands and only the tongue. once thought to be the name of a porn star. this style of oral sex is usually directed to the group of people that are more turned on by gentle slow touches"
Other good demonstrations of how to give a blowjob are in the porn films called "Camille Crimson". Once again, Blowjobs you dream about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wet and sloppy ftw..
Also eye contact, that crazy look where she shows that hunger for sucking cock...
And moaning! Especially whilst rubbing her clit or in 69 licking her pussy
And lastly.. deepthroating |
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By *rNightMan
over a year ago
Coventry |
Worst blow jobs I’ve experienced is when they basically put it in their mouth then half heatedly slide up and down repetitively. No tongue, no sucking, no hands, no variation.
The best ones always focus on the head and underneath.
My manager at work is the exception. He bounces his head up and down fast with maximum suction, I’m usually over in seconds and he likes that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A mixture of wet and sloppy , and sensual tease, knowing what firmness at what point, defo no teeth, lots of eye contact use of hands too at times and hands free at others just a big mixture of technique. Helps to know their preference, do they like the face fuck gag or prefer a more gentle approach and about ball sensitivity too and how far back your allowed to go with the tongue |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A mixture of wet and sloppy , and sensual tease, knowing what firmness at what point, defo no teeth, lots of eye contact use of hands too at times and hands free at others just a big mixture of technique. Helps to know their preference, do they like the face fuck gag or prefer a more gentle approach and about ball sensitivity too and how far back your allowed to go with the tongue "
Speechless, If that was an advertisement for a product I'd be broke now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A mixture of wet and sloppy , and sensual tease, knowing what firmness at what point, defo no teeth, lots of eye contact use of hands too at times and hands free at others just a big mixture of technique. Helps to know their preference, do they like the face fuck gag or prefer a more gentle approach and about ball sensitivity too and how far back your allowed to go with the tongue
Speechless, If that was an advertisement for a product I'd be broke now "
Lucky for you I don’t charge |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A mixture of wet and sloppy , and sensual tease, knowing what firmness at what point, defo no teeth, lots of eye contact use of hands too at times and hands free at others just a big mixture of technique. Helps to know their preference, do they like the face fuck gag or prefer a more gentle approach and about ball sensitivity too and how far back your allowed to go with the tongue
Speechless, If that was an advertisement for a product I'd be broke now
Lucky for you I don’t charge "
But you sure do tease! Unless... X |
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"For me its a selfish woman one who sucks for her own pleasure not mine "
While thats a reasonable viewpoint, I think you’ll find some of the pleasure we get is linked to how much the guy receiving likes it. There isn’t a lot in it for us without that |
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For all those that say "no teeth" there'll be others that enjoy it. There is no right or wrong way to suck cock just a right way for the person you are with and that 'right way' can really depend on the way a person feels at the time.
Read the person.
There is nothing wrong with asking them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No idea what you just said, all I know is I hate it when a guy asks to suck his dick to make him hard haha"
I love sucking from limp to orgasm I find it super erotic x |
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By *efthandMan
over a year ago
Halton, Cheshire |
"Certainly makes a difference if the woman/man enjoys giving and not just a chore as part of foreplay. "
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Completely agree.
These sexual pleasures are things to enjoy, not become a tick-box exercise of things to do as they 'should' be done.
Not that I'm likely to complain...
But, I'd rather the woman didn't do it if she was just going through the motions because it's an apparent expectation.
It's that read of the situation, looking someone in the eyes while you're playing together and understanding what's going to tease and pleasure the fuck out of someone.
So to me what makes a great blow job (and I imagine a similar thought process around having someone to go down and lick a woman?). Is the 'giving' person knowing how to adjust to the play setting to drive the greatest pleasure they can to the 'receiver'. If that's slower, teasing and sensual or sometimes just fast, wet and full-on. (Maybe not at all?)
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It's the old cliche , we are all different and enjoy different things at different times.
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As it stands, I'll just have to cradle my cock in hand until we've passed through the current situation and wait for the time that I can experience and enjoy such pleasures again.
To be fair at that point and the 'first' time again... I'll most probably not care if it's good or bad as such and will enjoy it like I've not done in a long time. |
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