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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A question to all.
I see a lot of photos on here where the guy is not wearing protection - what are your thoughts on this? Do you use protection or prefer bareback.
My anxious self would worry to much about STD so it is always protection for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question to all.
I see a lot of photos on here where the guy is not wearing protection - what are your thoughts on this? Do you use protection or prefer bareback.
My anxious self would worry to much about STD so it is always protection for me. "
My pics are with my fella so that's different. I used go bare occasionally if was with regular play mate. But since being in a relationship safe all way never bare not worth risk. But nothing 100% safe mind as we all do oral |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy bareback and I will always advocate for it.
It’s up to the individual participants to decide if they want bareback sex. It’s not up to anyone else. We are all adults and we can all make or own choices. |
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"I enjoy bareback and I will always advocate for it.
It’s up to the individual participants to decide if they want bareback sex. It’s not up to anyone else. We are all adults and we can all make or own choices. "
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
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"Can I ask all those that don't do bareback sex use a protection when giving or receiving oral? "
From experience in clubs the answer is no, my preference is always protection for oral included but I've never once met someone willing to use a dam |
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"Do not be silly get that condom on your willy
Do you put one on before receiving a blow job ?"
Yes,better be safe than sorry, Plenty of thin condoms around now for a better feeling than it used to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enjoy bareback and I will always advocate for it.
It’s up to the individual participants to decide if they want bareback sex. It’s not up to anyone else. We are all adults and we can all make or own choices. "
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It was interesting to read a comment on a medical site last night from someone working in genitourinary medicine.
They said that they have seen a surge in HIV cases, primary syphylis and syphylis in early pregnancy (picked up by routine antenatal testing and obviously in fairly young females who are not the group typically affected by the infection).
I'll post the link later as there were a couple of other infections of note. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I live by a mantra.....
“ Bareback today , Bareback tomorrow, and Bareback forever “
Both of your photos have you wearing condoms  "
Please leave common sense out of this thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I live by a mantra.....
“ Bareback today , Bareback tomorrow, and Bareback forever “
Both of your photos have you wearing condoms "
Maybe his willy was cold... it was just an extra layer for warmth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I live by a mantra.....
“ Bareback today , Bareback tomorrow, and Bareback forever “
Both of your photos have you wearing condoms
Maybe his willy was cold... it was just an extra layer for warmth "
Very true , I did take my socks off |
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"Can I ask all those that don't do bareback sex use a protection when giving or receiving oral? "
I agree....Oral sex and just kissing 'CAN' pass on STI's....a mouthful of rubber off a Oral dental Dam is not nice...so for me filthy phone calls only!!  |
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Unprotected sex with my husband only, life is too precious to risk it for an evening of pleasure and I can have bareback sex with him anytime I want. But I am always confused by the people who say safe sex only but will happily swallow anyone’s cum.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question to all.
I see a lot of photos on here where the guy is not wearing protection - what are your thoughts on this? Do you use protection or prefer bareback.
My anxious self would worry to much about STD so it is always protection for me. "
We've discussed it and it will always be safe! We go bare ourselves, but with others always safe. There's pregnancy to think about too. We're lucky as he's had the snip  |
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We've got fucking covid19 on our own door step and people still refuse to wear masks.
You are either in the safe camp or the "Its my life and I can do what the fuck i like camp".
Im the boring chap who plays safe |
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"We've got fucking covid19 on our own door step and people still refuse to wear masks.
You are either in the safe camp or the "Its my life and I can do what the fuck i like camp".
Im the boring chap who plays safe "
Good analogy!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've got fucking covid19 on our own door step and people still refuse to wear masks.
You are either in the safe camp or the "Its my life and I can do what the fuck i like camp".
Im the boring chap who plays safe "
You aren't boring but sensible. |
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Here's the actual post from the health website. I've added non-medical terms in bracket) It was posted four days ago:
'I would have thought social distancing might lessen transmission
'Social distancing'? What's that? In my 20 years in the specialty I have never seen as much gonorrhoea and early infectious syphilis as I have in the past 6/12 (including new HIV acquisitions, a syphiltic uveitis (front section of the eye), a few syphilitis otiits (ear; middle and inner) and a few pregnant young women with early syphilis: this is all apart from the usual chlamydia, genital herpes etc). And I don't work in a large metropolis either. ' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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that data is from before the pandemic, it will be interesting to see how it might have changed in the past year.
"Here's the most recent (2019) Public Health England report on STIs:
https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/914184/STI_NCSP_report_2019.pdf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only bareback with swingers because I know they are clean....
Vanilla people I always use protection.... They tend to be riddled with diseases...."
You must have a great set of eyes to spot the others person bacteria and viruses! |
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"We've got fucking covid19 on our own door step and people still refuse to wear masks.
You are either in the safe camp or the "Its my life and I can do what the fuck i like camp".
Im the boring chap who plays safe
You aren't boring but sensible. "
Agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only bareback with swingers because I know they are clean....
Vanilla people I always use protection.... They tend to be riddled with diseases....
You must have a great set of eyes to spot the others person bacteria and viruses!"
No I just look at their lips .... if no cold sores... it’s bareback all night....
I’m actually posting in jest... But does anyone besides me find it childish to constantly be talking about barebacking on the forums?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only bareback with swingers because I know they are clean....
Vanilla people I always use protection.... They tend to be riddled with diseases....
You must have a great set of eyes to spot the others person bacteria and viruses!
No I just look at their lips .... if no cold sores... it’s bareback all night....
I’m actually posting in jest... But does anyone besides me find it childish to constantly be talking about barebacking on the forums?
ok fair enough! Hard to judge the jest without an emoji
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Yeah bare is certainly taking a risk. For me being with a new lover covering during fucking makes so nuch sense...i love pussy so obviously im gonna enjoy oral. .and im sure most women love giving bare as well....i would go bare with a regular fwb that was exclusive. |
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One of my friends had gonorrhea, they found it on his penis, arsehole and the back of his throat when we were 18. Slightly embarrassing as he explained to me why he couldn't go home with a guy he met on a night out, but it scared the life out of me
Bareback is reserved only for my husband and a long term situation.
Her x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One of my friends had gonorrhea, they found it on his penis, arsehole and the back of his throat when we were 18. Slightly embarrassing as he explained to me why he couldn't go home with a guy he met on a night out, but it scared the life out of me
Bareback is reserved only for my husband and a long term situation.
Her x
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Well you ground this thread to a halt!
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As a man who identifies as a cuckold I think if my girlfriend finds a regular Dom then I suspect it inevitable he will want to eventually have unprotected sex with her. Maybe even reducing me to wearing condoms, however this would be after a three way chat and as others have said following a successful check up at a clinic to ensure all was well! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I just say you do all know that if you go to the std clinic and tell them you're a swinger they will vaccinated against most STD including hepatitis B |
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IF I ever get a meet on here (big if) it will be strange as I haven’t wore a condom in nearly 18 years as didn’t need to (relationship).
So hopefully I’d at least get a BJ before the rubber got put on ! |
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"We like bareback it’s more naughty and feels much more sexy x
So all your play meets were bareback ?
Hmm "
Surely other peoples life choices are none of your business, you play safe, thats your choice. Those of us who prefer natural bareback sex, have made that decision as it is what we prefer, we are all adults and know the risks |
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In the 25 years or so that I've been 'playing' with other men's wives, it's almost always been bareback, culminating in a creampie (or two) for the husbands to clean up and/or add to - unknowingly, in a few cases  ...
....in a few instances, meets where condoms were supposed to be used turned into bareback sessions - at the instigation of the wives on a couple of occasions (including one who caually announced she'd get the 'morning after' pill the next day), and at that of the husband on another...
....which was pretty much what led to me exclusively playing bareback. I'm upfront about it in my profile text and it's obvious in a few of my photos - and that's led to meets with couples who prefer to play the same way... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the 25 years or so that I've been 'playing' with other men's wives, it's almost always been bareback, culminating in a creampie (or two) for the husbands to clean up and/or add to - unknowingly, in a few cases ...
....in a few instances, meets where condoms were supposed to be used turned into bareback sessions - at the instigation of the wives on a couple of occasions (including one who caually announced she'd get the 'morning after' pill the next day), and at that of the husband on another...
....which was pretty much what led to me exclusively playing bareback. I'm upfront about it in my profile text and it's obvious in a few of my photos - and that's led to meets with couples who prefer to play the same way..."
And hopefully with us some day soon.. This is one of the few guys we'd consider enjoying bareback with |
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"One of my friends had gonorrhea, they found it on his penis, arsehole and the back of his throat when we were 18. Slightly embarrassing as he explained to me why he couldn't go home with a guy he met on a night out, but it scared the life out of me
Bareback is reserved only for my husband and a long term situation.
Her x
Well you ground this thread to a halt!
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Just reminding people of the risks!
Looking back we laugh about it now, and I absolutely know that bare feels sooooo much better, but if I'm playing with someone new it's safe.
Your body, your choice! |
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"One of my friends had gonorrhea, they found it on his penis, arsehole and the back of his throat when we were 18. Slightly embarrassing as he explained to me why he couldn't go home with a guy he met on a night out, but it scared the life out of me
Bareback is reserved only for my husband and a long term situation.
Her x
Well you ground this thread to a halt!
Just reminding people of the risks!
Looking back we laugh about it now, and I absolutely know that bare feels sooooo much better, but if I'm playing with someone new it's safe.
Your body, your choice!"
Love the pic of you getting fucked bareback my a guy that's not hubby, I take it he is a regular x |
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met a few ladies that stated they wanted protective sex .. but once we started to play and passions rose .. neither of us stopped to use protection .. on a couple of occasions they actually grabbed my bum and pulled me into them even more as i came .. .. but i do prefer bareback .. TBH |
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As a confirmed cuck, bareback is what cuckolding is all about, the intimacy with the cucks wife.
It’s easier with long-term bulls as you can build up an understanding and the safety associated with that. |
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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago
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Happy either way TBH.
A bit strange but I was meeting a lady last year and on the way she texted me to ask if I could get a pack of condoms as she had ran out.
Managed to get some and had them next to me as we were getting passionate. When the time came to cover up she stopped me and said she never used them.
never understood that one |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"Can I just say you do all know that if you go to the std clinic and tell them you're a swinger they will vaccinated against most STD including hepatitis B "
Im aware of hep b jabs and PREP . but what about the rest ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we can eventually meet people, we won’t be doing bareback with people we barely know, ain’t worth the risk. If we was to go bareback we’d have to know the person well enough and trust them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only people that should prefer using protection is sex workers.....
Us normal folks should prefer bareback....
Why is that? Please can you explain? "
Because sex workers are having sex with strangers for money... it is their job so they should be protected..... It’s like a doctor always using gloves when preforming surgery....
Since all swingers get tested every 3 months and always practice safe sex... We should be able to go bareback in the swinging community.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I live by a mantra.....
“ Bareback today , Bareback tomorrow, and Bareback forever “
And also stipulate safe sex on your profile...  "
Yes and I have pictures of me practicing safe sex..... I always come into bareback threads and post dumb replies because anyone over 30 shouldn’t be shocked people are are having unprotected sex..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only people that should prefer using protection is sex workers.....
Us normal folks should prefer bareback....
Why is that? Please can you explain?
Because sex workers are having sex with strangers for money... it is their job so they should be protected..... It’s like a doctor always using gloves when preforming surgery....
Since all swingers get tested every 3 months and always practice safe sex... We should be able to go bareback in the swinging community...."
Ok so get tested every three months. Inbetween that catch a dose, fuck and infect several partners. Those partners fuck and infect several other partners before they get tested abs so on and and so on. So you have loads of people getting infected before finding out via their tests. Each to their own. Id rather we did not catch a dose though so safe sex all the way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The only people that should prefer using protection is sex workers.....
Us normal folks should prefer bareback....
Why is that? Please can you explain?
Because sex workers are having sex with strangers for money... it is their job so they should be protected..... It’s like a doctor always using gloves when preforming surgery....
Since all swingers get tested every 3 months and always practice safe sex... We should be able to go bareback in the swinging community....
Ok so get tested every three months. Inbetween that catch a dose, fuck and infect several partners. Those partners fuck and infect several other partners before they get tested abs so on and and so on. So you have loads of people getting infected before finding out via their tests. Each to their own. Id rather we did not catch a dose though so safe sex all the way! "
You’re doing God’s work with this post.... I know all the swingers who bareback will now stop...
God speed... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question to all.
I see a lot of photos on here where the guy is not wearing protection - what are your thoughts on this? Do you use protection or prefer bareback.
My anxious self would worry to much about STD so it is always protection for me. "
Only bareback with out partner, this is non negotiable for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same answer as in other threads. We prefer BB. We fully appreciate risks and we don’t just fuck anyone but giving a choice it would be BB. "
well you can't say fairer than that ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Safe sex only. I care about my health and that of my partners.
I remain consistently horrified by the blasé attitudes on here. No wonder both STIs and COVID are surging. "
So people who bareback don’t care about their health and those of their partners? |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
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"Safe sex only. I care about my health and that of my partners.
I remain consistently horrified by the blasé attitudes on here. No wonder both STIs and COVID are surging. "
Can you show me the data for surging STIs ?
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