Why wouldn’t they??? Everyone has a preference and not just a box to be ticked. I don’t find muscles men a turn on so I certainly wouldn’t fuck one to tick a box.
I can assure you that there are people who do find beyond curvy people sexy and fuckable and as a fat woman i can certainly tell this when they get hold of my rolls and the reaction it’s gets |
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over a year ago
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"I cant explain the attraction of a BBW...its .....lots of flesh and mmmmm its because I like to touch and feel and squeeze and kiss and I better stop x"
Ive had a couple of bbw girlfriends literally couldnt keep my hands off them day and night |
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This right here. It’s a tactile just like the amazing feeling you get kneading dough. So warm soft and loads of it to squish.
For some it’s a visual thing of copious of flesh on view and how the bodies look against each other in contrast. |
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"This right here. It’s a tactile just like the amazing feeling you get kneading dough. So warm soft and loads of it to squish.
For some it’s a visual thing of copious of flesh on view and how the bodies look against each other in contrast. "
I couldn't say it better. I love to touch, not to hit sharpen bones, to dive in the flesh. I really miss those feelings now |
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"I’m a big girl too, wish I was as confident as you babes xx"
Your body shouldn't drive your confidence. Don't beg for people appreciation and look at your own value. And it's plenty of people that prefer big girls |
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"all women are beauitiful
I agree and equal......but as we said in the military, life’s too short to dance with fat chicks 
Some things are better left unsaid if you feel like that. "
Putting us big ladies down makes some people feel good about themselves.
Why they just can't keep their cruel comments to themselves I'll never know. They'll spout on about open forums, opinions, freedom of speech etc but they're just mean, sad little people who like to hurt other people's feelings. Pathetic! |
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"Hahaha I don’t feed the trolls.
They don’t have to feed me or fuck me so what’s the problem 
The problem is, some of us are sick of that kind of shit on here."
I meant as in this guys problem. As for being sick of it I’m very much for body positivity no matter what size a person is they shouldn’t be made to feel shit about it. |
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"Hahaha I don’t feed the trolls.
They don’t have to feed me or fuck me so what’s the problem
The problem is, some of us are sick of that kind of shit on here.
I meant as in this guys problem. As for being sick of it I’m very much for body positivity no matter what size a person is they shouldn’t be made to feel shit about it. "
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"Wish i had your confidence "
I know it is a drop in the self confidence ocean but you look very sexy.
And for me it's about the person not the size, and I would hope others would approach me with that attitude too |
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"Do men really find a large woman (i mean large not just curvy) a turn on or is it just one of those boxes that needs ticking?"
It definitely wouldn't be "just one of those boxes that needs ticking" with us, you look amazing. |
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over a year ago
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I dont personally no.
I like slim women.
Some men will of course find bbw attractive.
Different strokes for different folks im sure their are plenty of women that find me awful to look at.
Cant really blanket statement what men find attractive |
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I am a large woman and hated the way I look. But my hubby loves the way I am and has made every effort to show me how he feels when we get intimate. I love what he says and makes me feel, I now can lay naked on the bed with the lights left on.
So if he is happy then I am to.
We all have different types that we like, just like everything else. |
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over a year ago
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"Do men really find a large woman (i mean large not just curvy) a turn on or is it just one of those boxes that needs ticking?
Yh of course. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder "
or rather beauty is in the eye of the beer holder |
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"Do men really find a large woman (i mean large not just curvy) a turn on or is it just one of those boxes that needs ticking?
Yh of course. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder or rather beauty is in the eye of the beer holder "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly find all shapes and sizes attractive, it’s not about the shape of a woman that attracts me. I find big girls attractive sometimes and sometimes slim women |
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over a year ago
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"I've met and dated quite a few BBWs. Personally, I adore curves! While all women are attractive, I'm more likely to go for big ass and thighs!  "
Not all of us have big arse n thighs tho... Just big bellies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some do, some don't, some say they do thinking it will get them sex"
So true. If someone started a thread about women with webbed feet, there'd be a ton of guys saying how much they love nothing more than women with webbed feet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some do, some don't, some say they do thinking it will get them sex
So true. If someone started a thread about women with webbed feet, there'd be a ton of guys saying how much they love nothing more than women with webbed feet."
Yup  it's why compliments mean nothing, unless from someone I know fairly well already... It makes me feel worse than getting none |
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"Some do, some don't, some say they do thinking it will get them sex
So true. If someone started a thread about women with webbed feet, there'd be a ton of guys saying how much they love nothing more than women with webbed feet."
hahaha true though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all women are beauitiful
I agree and equal......but as we said in the military, life’s too short to dance with fat chicks "
I think you need to go back and ask them to teach you the same manners they taught everyone else. You're meant to come out as gentlemen aren't you?! Giving the military a bad name. |
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over a year ago
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"Beauty/sexy comes in all shapes and sizes.. confident bbw here (size 18 - 22)
And one of the sexiest women in fab! "
I agree - Kissalicious is very hot. |
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By *eoMan
over a year ago
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I’ve slept with a variety of different sized women and I’d say the best sex was definitely with the more curved and bbws. I love the feel off skin on skin and a good groping session with a larger women makes me very horny and hard |
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"all women are beauitiful
I agree and equal......but as we said in the military, life’s too short to dance with fat chicks
I think you need to go back and ask them to teach you the same manners they taught everyone else. You're meant to come out as gentlemen aren't you?! Giving the military a bad name. "
I'm ex forces. British Army and never heard of that crock of shite. |
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I think there are a lot of men who genuinely get turned on by big women, I’ve been lucky enough to meet a few, and they’re not afraid to be honest about it.
Unfortunately some men do fancy big women but can’t be honest about it and feel they have to keep it a guilty secret. |
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over a year ago
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I know OP asked for men’s opinions but I hope you don’t mind me joining in as a bi woman?
I can genuinely say that I always have and always will find other larger ladies like myself very attractive and not just in a “would like to ****” way but in a very real attractive way.
I can’t explain why I do, I just know I do  |
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Everyone has different tastes I have no issue with someone not finding me to their taste. What I do have an issue with is guys messaging me and telling me I am too big or fat for them, when all I’ve done is look at their profile. Just cos I look doesn’t mean you need to message me and be rude! |
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over a year ago
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I don't if I class as curvy, fat, both....but most people seem to like what they see and it's definitely more about your attitude and demeanor than your actual size |
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"I don't if I class as curvy, fat, both....but most people seem to like what they see and it's definitely more about your attitude and demeanor than your actual size"
Dont know** lol |
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"I don't if I class as curvy, fat, both....but most people seem to like what they see and it's definitely more about your attitude and demeanor than your actual size
Dont know** lol"
I think you should class yourself as beautiful because that’s what I see |
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"I don't if I class as curvy, fat, both....but most people seem to like what they see and it's definitely more about your attitude and demeanor than your actual size
Dont know** lol
I think you should class yourself as beautiful because that’s what I see "
Ah thank you so much. Your pics are definitely beautiful too |
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By *edlips OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Everyone has different tastes I have no issue with someone not finding me to their taste. What I do have an issue with is guys messaging me and telling me I am too big or fat for them, when all I’ve done is look at their profile. Just cos I look doesn’t mean you need to message me and be rude! "
Or those that try to meet you and when you say you're not interested suddenly your a fat slag and nobody would want to meet you anyway |
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My hubby always says he finds curvier women more attractive and I will say he does tend to be drawn to those women when we are looking at profiles together.
As a curvy women myself though I do struggle with believing some men on here are genuingly attracted to my body and I'm prone to thinking they are just saying what they think I want to hear.
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By *mc1122Man
over a year ago
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"Why wouldn’t they??? Everyone has a preference and not just a box to be ticked. I don’t find muscles men a turn on so I certainly wouldn’t fuck one to tick a box.
Wow you are so sexy
I can assure you that there are people who do find beyond curvy people sexy and fuckable and as a fat woman i can certainly tell this when they get hold of my rolls and the reaction it’s gets "
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By *mc1122Man
over a year ago
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"Why wouldn’t they??? Everyone has a preference and not just a box to be ticked. I don’t find muscles men a turn on so I certainly wouldn’t fuck one to tick a box.
Wow you are so sexy
I can assure you that there are people who do find beyond curvy people sexy and fuckable and as a fat woman i can certainly tell this when they get hold of my rolls and the reaction it’s gets "
Wow you are so sexy |
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"Why wouldn’t they??? Everyone has a preference and not just a box to be ticked. I don’t find muscles men a turn on so I certainly wouldn’t fuck one to tick a box.
I can assure you that there are people who do find beyond curvy people sexy and fuckable and as a fat woman i can certainly tell this when they get hold of my rolls and the reaction it’s gets "
Absolutely this, couldn’t agree more |
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Surely this is all about preference. My preference is size 20+, age 50+, western european (can I say that without the racial police on my case),non smoker and sober.
Not much to ask!
OH did I mention, female! |
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over a year ago
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"Stupid question I guess... but what size is classed as a BBW? "
I personally think 18 to 24/26 BBW anything over is ssbbw but every has there own views on this xx |
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"Do men really find a large woman (i mean large not just curvy) a turn on or is it just one of those boxes that needs ticking?"
Large women can definitely be sexy, my first ever club meet was a BBW event and it was amazing.
I think sexy has got nothing to do with shape, I’ve been lucky to meet people of all shapes and from a size 8 to a 24, they’ve just had “it” |
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"Do men really find a large woman (i mean large not just curvy) a turn on or is it just one of those boxes that needs ticking?"
Bizarre question. Humans come in a myriad of colours, shapes and sizes so why be surprised if all are catered for? |
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over a year ago
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"As a very large woman... You can tell the difference between a man who wants to tick a box and a man who truly loves a big girl... They way they talk to you... Fuck you... Everything "
you know |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why wouldn’t they??? Everyone has a preference and not just a box to be ticked. I don’t find muscles men a turn on so I certainly wouldn’t fuck one to tick a box.
I can assure you that there are people who do find beyond curvy people sexy and fuckable and as a fat woman i can certainly tell this when they get hold of my rolls and the reaction it’s gets "
Wish I had your body confidence (if you love your plus curves, embrace it) tbh I've probably got less now than when I was large, but I totally agree beyond curvy (OK I'm talking males) is definitely sexy.
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over a year ago
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Sigh, this is one of my wtf questions. Is it a serious one? A box that needs ticking?. Firstly not a fan of the term bbw. If you are attracted to someone, you are attracted to them regardless of size, shape, ethnicity or a whole multitude of factors. If you have to question whether you are into someone its obviously not for the right reasons. Whether it's a man or a woman, would you be happy being something to tick of someones fuck list?
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over a year ago
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All I’ve got to say is all you bigger girls should have bundles of confidence, just think there’s plenty of guys like me out there who much prefer your sexy curves. |
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"All I’ve got to say is all you bigger girls should have bundles of confidence, just think there’s plenty of guys like me out there who much prefer your sexy curves. "
I don't get the "bundle of confidence" narrative because you're fat at all.
My confidence stems from several factors: not one because of my size: different strokes I guess. |
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"Sigh, this is one of my wtf questions. Is it a serious one? A box that needs ticking?. Firstly not a fan of the term bbw. If you are attracted to someone, you are attracted to them regardless of size, shape, ethnicity or a whole multitude of factors. If you have to question whether you are into someone its obviously not for the right reasons. Whether it's a man or a woman, would you be happy being something to tick of someones fuck list?
J "
I love you! 
Basically everything her said...if my fatness is the only reason they're into me, not interested. And labelling me a BBW is an instant turn off for me. My weight/size doesn't need to and shouldn't be mentioned unless if comes up as a conversation topic and even then I won't be fetishised.
I can say, having been fat/large/chonky/plus sized, I've never struggled to find men who do find me attractive, and not just because they wanna shag a fat bird. A lot of people simply don't give a shit what dress size you are and find all different shapes and sizes attractive....like us
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"I don't if I class as curvy, fat, both....but most people seem to like what they see and it's definitely more about your attitude and demeanor than your actual size"
It's this! You can have curves be "plus sized" or slim and "skinny" I like all but only if the confidence is there to carry it off. Doesn't matter if you're really skinny but no confidence it loses that sexiness and appeal, same for curves. |
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I find many sizes of women attractive...but i particularly like women that are on the more curvier side or fat as some would say. Just as some women like men with gym bods, or long hair etc.
Its not box ticking, its just stating your preferances. |
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The bigger the better for me love those folds rolls n creases hanging bits saggy bits n wobbly bits and those soft sexy sexy sexy tummies "
Couldn't agree more - and they're often the bits that my friends say they hate about themselves! |
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"Do men really find a large woman (i mean large not just curvy) a turn on or is it just one of those boxes that needs ticking?"
Big turn on for me if I’m in the mood. I enjoy the female form in all shapes and sizes. I lost my v card to a larger woman as well so that might have something to do with my preference. |
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over a year ago
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no matter what size a lady is they are all stunning it's not about what size or body shape you are it's the connection with each other so don't put yourself down at all you are bloody stunning |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Do men really find a large woman (i mean large not just curvy) a turn on or is it just one of those boxes that needs ticking?"
I have a friend who adores larger ladies.
His knees are knackered, not sure if it was from sexual cause and effect or the fact he was a plumber. |
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I personally love being with people that really appreciate a bigger body and you can tell what a turn on it is as they are all over you, such a turn on for me! Especially when they love stomachs rolls and all that comes with being a bbw |
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"I personally love being with people that really appreciate a bigger body and you can tell what a turn on it is as they are all over you, such a turn on for me! Especially when they love stomachs rolls and all that comes with being a bbw"
This!! All of this!! Appreciating someone’s body is one of the sexiest parts of intimacy for me |
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"Do men really find a large woman (i mean large not just curvy) a turn on or is it just one of those boxes that needs ticking?"
I'm not a fan of labels, and BBW is one of those I'm especially uncomfortable with. But that is by the by.
Perhaps I'm just different, or perhaps it's because I'm sapiosexual, but I don't have a strict type I find attractive. For me, it's down to the individual and a lot of characteristics come into play. The aesthetic plays a part, but I cannot stress enough how that is very much secondary to the persons personality, their outlook, attitude and general attitude to life and sex.
So, given the above, the size of the lady is neither an impediment or requirement to me finding an attraction. |
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By *udereMan
over a year ago
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"Do men really find a large woman (i mean large not just curvy) a turn on or is it just one of those boxes that needs ticking?"
I cannot speak for all men ,but I my case.
Yes I do . Very much so |
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"This right here. It’s a tactile just like the amazing feeling you get kneading dough. So warm soft and loads of it to squish.
For some it’s a visual thing of copious of flesh on view and how the bodies look against each other in contrast. "
What this big old bird said ^^ girls could learn from her .. she's found her lane where stew comfortable and it can only get better for you from there ... I personally like really big women and it's more fun knowing she is totally ok being so big |
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