Problems solved with the found filters then. Due to the various reasons that people don't reveal all in their profiles, including being in a relationship, curious, bi, or their full range of interests, it's never going to be really simple to know who people are. Many straight people, of all genders, find that they have some situational-bi interest, which may be just about a specific body part, or sharing something with a partner, like guiding another cock inside them, sharing giving a blowjob, being licked or kissed by another woman.
People often find that their tastes evolve, some inhibitors relax, or they gain new experience which they never would have guessed at, before involving themselves in swinging, or when swinging as a single person, rather than as a couple. Tgirls may be people who you would otherwise classify as women, TG includes people who others classified as women but identify as a man, even though they have a vagina. There is a broad spectrum of people in the world, much of that diversity reflected here.
We can individually form our own tastes and decisions about what our interests are but, if often we discover new aspects of ourselves and are surprised, it's going to be nearly impossible for others to know us, especially from just a few lines of text in a profile.
It certainly shows the value of reading profiles before messaging. On the plus side, many people are now very isolated, so the message someone gets, from someone similar to them, eg 2 single guys, may be a positive in their lives too, if respectful and upbeat.
Filters are helpful, ss you'll find. |
Is this due to the fact men have less filters on their profiles, I found out women can stealth look at you haha, or because a single arrow man is attractive and challenging?
Don’t get me wrong those I’ve conversed with have been respectful and honest when I’ve explained my orientation 
Opinions and thoughts welcome but if you’re going to be nasty and disrespectful be warned it will be reciprocated 
The site has a fair number of blokes that are ‘fab straight’. They like to play the pink oboe but don’t want to put it on their profile for fear it will put people off them.
I imagine they are messaging just in case you belong to this band of men and want their spam javelin in your chutney chute 