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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
"I'm married and my wife isn't into the lifestyle so I'm on here discreetly. This puts some people off so I'd like to know who doesn't mind or may even prefer a married man."
Take cover dude, you will be just about to get a thrashing! |
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over a year ago
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"I'm married and my wife isn't into the lifestyle so I'm on here discreetly. This puts some people off so I'd like to know who doesn't mind or may even prefer a married man."
I suspect, it's most likely to be married women. But I assume you're talking about people here for something 'extra' in that sense, rather than generally?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm married and my wife isn't into the lifestyle so I'm on here discreetly. This puts some people off so I'd like to know who doesn't mind or may even prefer a married man.
Take cover dude, you will be just about to get a thrashing!"
Yep - keep your head down... |
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"I'm married and my wife isn't into the lifestyle so I'm on here discreetly. This puts some people off so I'd like to know who doesn't mind or may even prefer a married man."
I haven’t got a problem meeting a married man , as long as she knows , but definitely a no is she doesn’t
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By *irate89 OP Man
over a year ago
urmston |
Thankyou so far. Still no mean replies yet but any will be deleted as that isn't the point here. I don't want to no who is against it rather than who is for it. I will continue to try to bring the wife around tithe idea without forcing her to do something she doesn't want as she showed some interest at first but for now this how I choose to conduct my life. |
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"Me. I like the power trip!  
Does that include those openly playing or is it the "forbidden fruit" effect? "
Well yeah openly playing too, but it’s more the forbidden fruit.
Also a lot less hassle as I get what i want and they go play happy families rather than turning into an obsessive stalker...
The ideal no strings arrangement if you ask me  |
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"Me. I like the power trip!
Does that include those openly playing or is it the "forbidden fruit" effect?
Well yeah openly playing too, but it’s more the forbidden fruit.
Also a lot less hassle as I get what i want and they go play happy families rather than turning into an obsessive stalker...
The ideal no strings arrangement if you ask me "
You should manage my advertising campaign!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thankyou so far. Still no mean replies yet but any will be deleted as that isn't the point here. I don't want to no who is against it rather than who is for it. I will continue to try to bring the wife around tithe idea without forcing her to do something she doesn't want as she showed some interest at first but for now this how I choose to conduct my life."
Cool pics...I’m the same mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no problem with married men if you are upfront about it. People use this site for all sorts of reasons whether they are married or single and no one on here has the right to judge someone else’s reasons for looking for extra in their lives. |
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In a club we don't ask and we don't really care.
Outside of a club (which we very rarely do at all) we would never knowingly play with a married guy.
Way too much potential for hassle and trouble.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no problem with married men if you are upfront about it. People use this site for all sorts of reasons whether they are married or single and no one on here has the right to judge someone else’s reasons for looking for extra in their lives. "
To be honest why should you need to be up front about it....everyone’s choice; there will be posts of people on here that don’t tell there friends for example and that not an issue??? |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
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"Not a chance in France! It’s mean and I can’t bare the thought of a woman sat at home wondering why she’s not enough while her devil duck husband looks for “more” but that’s just my opinion
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It's not always a negative. I love seeing or hearing Hubby with other ladies, or even sending him out to them. A massive turn on here. The not knowing drives me crazy horny.
ST xx |
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"Not a chance in France! It’s mean and I can’t bare the thought of a woman sat at home wondering why she’s not enough while her devil duck husband looks for “more” but that’s just my opinion
It's not always a negative. I love seeing or hearing Hubby with other ladies, or even sending him out to them. A massive turn on here. The not knowing drives me crazy horny.
ST xx"
Isn’t that’s because you know he does that though? I mean women who have no idea and would be hurt if they found out xx |
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Married Man
I can always speak for myself yes I am married but we do not call this cheating my wife is quite happy meeting somebody else]
now why my wife is disabled and is paralysed from the neck downwards so we do not have intercourse anymore
she is quite aware of my needs and encourages me to go and get satisfaction from someone else
but after saying that we still love each other 100% would not change a thing love is love and lost his lust
I have been trying to get a regular person I can't be with but as a single man it is difficult so my heart goes out to all those single men
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"In a club we don't ask and we don't really care.
Outside of a club (which we very rarely do at all) we would never knowingly play with a married guy.
Way too much potential for hassle and trouble.
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I think this answer is the absolute standard of most couples who frequent clubs. I'd also guess that the majority of singles there are actually attached.
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We don't judge and don't ask, if they say they're single and have a single profile we treat them as that, single. |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
London |
"Thankyou so far. Still no mean replies yet but any will be deleted as that isn't the point here. I don't want to no who is against it rather than who is for it. I will continue to try to bring the wife around tithe idea without forcing her to do something she doesn't want as she showed some interest at first but for now this how I choose to conduct my life."
I think you need Ashley Madison not Fabswingers.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im 50/50. Part of me thinks if youre honest with me, no problem. But part of me would prefer other half to give green light. No matter what, no one should deny who they are really. Thats why I will never have a vanilla relationship again. Swinging all the way for me. |
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"I'm married and my wife isn't into the lifestyle so I'm on here discreetly. This puts some people off so I'd like to know who doesn't mind or may even prefer a married man."
I’d prefer a married man. George Clooney if possible. X |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
It's nice to see a couple of understanding posts on this, you see in one sentence people say they want honesty, in the next breath you get condemned for being on here if you're married without the other half knowing hence there are probably 50 percent of apparently single men on here telling lies. I'd rather be up front, obviously my inbox is very quiet but when I get a message the sender is in the know of my situation. People ask for discretion and a married man needs to be discrete. Don't judge a man until you've walked in his shoes is quite an apt saying for this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm married and my wife isn't into the lifestyle so I'm on here discreetly. This puts some people off so I'd like to know who doesn't mind or may even prefer a married man."
Not in the slightest.
Cheating is disrespectful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its really nobody's business. If they dnt like it dnt contact the person simple as that. No one has a right to judge anymore. Those that do need to step down off the soapbox |
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By *liXbigMan
over a year ago
Wellington |
"I have no problem with married men if you are upfront about it. People use this site for all sorts of reasons whether they are married or single and no one on here has the right to judge someone else’s reasons for looking for extra in their lives. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very brave OP and that's sexy. Its nobody's business how you conduct your life. I've no issues talking for potential meets with married men because its less drama, more respect and confidentiality and as said the forbidden fruit factor adds zest to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone needs to take a copy of this thread.... these are the most reasoned responses I’ve ever seen on this topic!
We’re a good way in and ‘Morally Outraged By Proxy from Shoutsville’ hasn’t appeared yet.... |
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There is nothing worse
Than seeing 2timing shits on here shagging BEHIND their partners backs.
Especislly if the other half doesnt know. But u are just looking for extra meat n pussy
Just shows u have no respect to your loved ones
An they probably sat at home waiting for u to cime home
But u just dobt give a shit to them
But then u go hone n play the lawful partner to thrm
Wat wud u do if they catch u out
That will b fun
Think of it on the other foot tho
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU FOUND OUT YOUR PARTNER WAS SHAGGIN BEHIND YOUR BACK
THERE PROBABLY WUD BE PURE SHIT .
but its ok for you to go
CALL THIS A SWINGERS SITE
SHUD B CALLED THE CHEATING SWINGERS MORE THAN FAB
If u class urself as a swinger
WHY THE FUCK ARE U NOT ON HERE WITH UR LAWFUL OTHER HALF
Instead of having joint orofiles with the opp sex who is also already with someone
Go n fuck ur oen fuckin partners instead of others for ur own sake
Hope u shits get caught out those who are already WITH PARTNERS
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"I have no problem with married men if you are upfront about it. People use this site for all sorts of reasons whether they are married or single and no one on here has the right to judge someone else’s reasons for looking for extra in their lives. "
Absolutely as a married man it’s just about filling
Your self not hubby our dad |
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"Very brave OP and that's sexy. Its nobody's business how you conduct your life. I've no issues talking for potential meets with married men because its less drama, more respect and confidentiality and as said the forbidden fruit factor adds zest to it "
Here here so being married is lovely but when been with partner long time it’s the passion that’s needed
As long as up front about everything not a problem
I have no problem seeing a married woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally it's not for me as i have seen the effects on my own immediate family. Kinda changes the dynamic when you see one of your parents in such heartbreaking distress tbh.
If your partner knows and is happy about it that's a different story for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very brave OP and that's sexy. Its nobody's business how you conduct your life. I've no issues talking for potential meets with married men because its less drama, more respect and confidentiality and as said the forbidden fruit factor adds zest to it "
I'm not sure if lacking empathy is sexy tbh... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm married and my wife isn't into the lifestyle so I'm on here discreetly. This puts some people off so I'd like to know who doesn't mind or may even prefer a married man."
I'm married so it really doesnt matter lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing worse
Than seeing 2timing shits on here shagging BEHIND their partners backs.
Especislly if the other half doesnt know. But u are just looking for extra meat n pussy
Just shows u have no respect to your loved ones
An they probably sat at home waiting for u to cime home
But u just dobt give a shit to them
But then u go hone n play the lawful partner to thrm
Wat wud u do if they catch u out
That will b fun
Think of it on the other foot tho
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU FOUND OUT YOUR PARTNER WAS SHAGGIN BEHIND YOUR BACK
THERE PROBABLY WUD BE PURE SHIT .
but its ok for you to go
CALL THIS A SWINGERS SITE
SHUD B CALLED THE CHEATING SWINGERS MORE THAN FAB
If u class urself as a swinger
WHY THE FUCK ARE U NOT ON HERE WITH UR LAWFUL OTHER HALF
Instead of having joint orofiles with the opp sex who is also already with someone
Go n fuck ur oen fuckin partners instead of others for ur own sake
Hope u shits get caught out those who are already WITH PARTNERS
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 chill lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think it's funny how you have an honest guy sayin hes married on here. Probably crap load of guys that dont say they are. good for you dude. We deserve to be on here too so everyone stop judging. It's a swinging website, it's about fucking only not about finding a girlfriend or your next wife lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good to see someone on here being honest ,being upfront telling people he is married alot of people hide the fact there married but power to you mate for being honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing worse
Than seeing 2timing shits on here shagging BEHIND their partners backs.
Especislly if the other half doesnt know. But u are just looking for extra meat n pussy
Just shows u have no respect to your loved ones
An they probably sat at home waiting for u to cime home
But u just dobt give a shit to them
But then u go hone n play the lawful partner to thrm
Wat wud u do if they catch u out
That will b fun
Think of it on the other foot tho
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU FOUND OUT YOUR PARTNER WAS SHAGGIN BEHIND YOUR BACK
THERE PROBABLY WUD BE PURE SHIT .
but its ok for you to go
CALL THIS A SWINGERS SITE
SHUD B CALLED THE CHEATING SWINGERS MORE THAN FAB
If u class urself as a swinger
WHY THE FUCK ARE U NOT ON HERE WITH UR LAWFUL OTHER HALF
Instead of having joint orofiles with the opp sex who is also already with someone
Go n fuck ur oen fuckin partners instead of others for ur own sake
Hope u shits get caught out those who are already WITH PARTNERS
chill lady"
Type slower, use preview & proof read then post message. Oh and chill 
My take is ive met with married, the forbidden fruit aspect excites me and its less drama.
Whatever peoples reasons are for being here is their on provocative  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think it's funny how you have an honest guy sayin hes married on here. Probably crap load of guys that dont say they are. good for you dude. We deserve to be on here too so everyone stop judging. It's a swinging website, it's about fucking only not about finding a girlfriend or your next wife lol "
True |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
Interestic reading for a change on this topic and surprised to read so many sensible, non judgemental replies. The point some make about the site being full of married guy is spot on, I reckon there's way more than actually have the balls to mention it. Another good point was that people would meet a married woman and think it's OK but hate the thought of a cheeting guy. Nice to see a little more balance and mature conversation. |
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"I'm married and my wife isn't into the lifestyle so I'm on here discreetly. This puts some people off so I'd like to know who doesn't mind or may even prefer a married man."
from our own experience most of the men on here are married or in a relationship of some kind,if they are so what,nothing to do with us,if they want to play around
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think it's funny how you have an honest guy sayin hes married on here. Probably crap load of guys that dont say they are. good for you dude. We deserve to be on here too so everyone stop judging. It's a swinging website, it's about fucking only not about finding a girlfriend or your next wife lol "
So are you of the opinion that swinging is the same as cheating? |
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"Think it's funny how you have an honest guy sayin hes married on here. Probably crap load of guys that dont say they are. good for you dude. We deserve to be on here too so everyone stop judging. It's a swinging website, it's about fucking only not about finding a girlfriend or your next wife lol
True"
Agree with you. (I don't tend to judge people as I'm sure everyone has skeletons in their closet.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think it's funny how you have an honest guy sayin hes married on here. Probably crap load of guys that dont say they are. good for you dude. We deserve to be on here too so everyone stop judging. It's a swinging website, it's about fucking only not about finding a girlfriend or your next wife lol
So are you of the opinion that swinging is the same as cheating?"
It's just sex, you on here for sexual frustrations, so are married people. You have your own opinion what it is, our opinion, we are just on this cause we can and we like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing worse
Than seeing 2timing shits on here shagging BEHIND their partners backs.
Especislly if the other half doesnt know. But u are just looking for extra meat n pussy
Just shows u have no respect to your loved ones
An they probably sat at home waiting for u to cime home
But u just dobt give a shit to them
But then u go hone n play the lawful partner to thrm
Wat wud u do if they catch u out
That will b fun
Think of it on the other foot tho
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU FOUND OUT YOUR PARTNER WAS SHAGGIN BEHIND YOUR BACK
THERE PROBABLY WUD BE PURE SHIT .
but its ok for you to go
CALL THIS A SWINGERS SITE
SHUD B CALLED THE CHEATING SWINGERS MORE THAN FAB
If u class urself as a swinger
WHY THE FUCK ARE U NOT ON HERE WITH UR LAWFUL OTHER HALF
Instead of having joint orofiles with the opp sex who is also already with someone
Go n fuck ur oen fuckin partners instead of others for ur own sake
Hope u shits get caught out those who are already WITH PARTNERS
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Use auto correct for your spelling. And really? Have no words except . Woman scorned |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If she knows - no problem.
If she doesn't - meh, I'm not going to judge, but I find married men too selfish and restrictive to play with. I want sessions/lovers who can generally meet my needs when I want my needs met, and the married men I have seen in the past are always just, 'Hey, you free now, my wife is out for an hour?? ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm married and have been up front from the start so people can make a choice, hasn't done me alot of good mind you, but hey ho it is what it is. If people don't want to see married men then fine that's their choice nobody forces you to but what gives you the right to judge others on here just because you don't like it!
By the way if I ever found my wife playing away I'd find that a huge turn on to be honest,, but then again I'm weird. |
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"I'm married and my wife isn't into the lifestyle so I'm on here discreetly. This puts some people off so I'd like to know who doesn't mind or may even prefer a married man."
we have played with married guys unknowingly in the past and find them to be very descrete .we only play with so called single guys at club and sometimes the let it slip after, my wife has a regular fuck buddy who is married , his wife knows and has no interest in sex at all ,I prefer playing with married women too but only with husbands present we have come across loads of couples pretending to be married with both partners playing behind their spouses backs ,if only they could be honest as it’s a turn on telling each other what we have got up to when not playing together , her fuck buddy was saying he wished his married life was like ours
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"There is nothing worse
Than seeing 2timing shits on here shagging BEHIND their partners backs.
Especislly if the other half doesnt know. But u are just looking for extra meat n pussy
Just shows u have no respect to your loved ones
An they probably sat at home waiting for u to cime home
But u just dobt give a shit to them
But then u go hone n play the lawful partner to thrm
Wat wud u do if they catch u out
That will b fun
Think of it on the other foot tho
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU FOUND OUT YOUR PARTNER WAS SHAGGIN BEHIND YOUR BACK
THERE PROBABLY WUD BE PURE SHIT .
but its ok for you to go
CALL THIS A SWINGERS SITE
SHUD B CALLED THE CHEATING SWINGERS MORE THAN FAB
If u class urself as a swinger
WHY THE FUCK ARE U NOT ON HERE WITH UR LAWFUL OTHER HALF
Instead of having joint orofiles with the opp sex who is also already with someone
Go n fuck ur oen fuckin partners instead of others for ur own sake
Hope u shits get caught out those who are already WITH PARTNERS
Use auto correct for your spelling. And really? Have no words except . Woman scorned"
I feel for you as looks like you were cheated on in the past ,but there are some genuine couples who enjoy letting their partners have fun . We do it occasionally , but I do agree there are some right scum bags out there that just don’t have any respect for their partners married or just courting , they should be honest with each other and just split |
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At a club or in a one-off meeting, I’m unlikely to have any idea whether the other person is married/partnered (unless it’s with them both!) My experience in getting to know someone better is that it’s impossible to know someone else’s relationship from the outside. Maybe the sex outside the relationship destabilises it, maybe it strengthens it. Maybe sex isn’t the thing that’s at the heart of that partnership.
If I’m asked, I’ll always say it’s better to be honest and not keep secrets. But I know that’s easier advice to give than to follow in some people’s situations. If both partners in a couple are happy and open and secure with each other that’s great. Some people are ‘unfaithful’ and kind and considerate and loving to their partners. Some are ‘faithful’ and complete knobs. It’s always painful when we don’t keep our promises to each other. But I also think the promise to only ever want to have sex with one person in our life is one that most people should be wary of making... |
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By *irate89 OP Man
over a year ago
urmston |
Good to see only one abusive reply. You can disagree without being abusive. Anyway thanks for the feedback guys I'll continue to try steer the wife towards some fun with others and hope she will give it a try one day but I don't want to force her if she isn't into it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm married, and state so on my profile.
There are a lot of reasons why I state that I am married, over and above the being honest part. I accept that being with a married guy is not for everyone, and so I state it so they can make an informed choice. I do not want to have meets with people under false pretences either, as that could lead to some undesirable consequences.
The other side of that is as a married person, discretion is part of the package, as is the lack of a romantic element which some people fear so much. (Not saying it couldn't happen of course.) The walking away, not being in each others pockets, etc. For some, that makes a married person more desirable. And no point in denying that for many the "forbidden fruit" aspect adds to the enjoyment.
In closing, in all my years on fab in various profiles, this is the only time I've seen the subject discussed with maturity, sense and decency. There is hope... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its really nobody's business. If they dnt like it dnt contact the person simple as that. No one has a right to judge anymore. Those that do need to step down off the soapbox"
Is it ok to judge people on their spelling? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me. I like the power trip!
Do I sense a dose of sarcasm? "
Having read this ladies profile I don't think so. Wish I was in the North west-i think I'd walk differently |
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By *irty-DianaWoman
over a year ago
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"Me. I like the power trip!
Does that include those openly playing or is it the "forbidden fruit" effect?
Well yeah openly playing too, but it’s more the forbidden fruit.
Also a lot less hassle as I get what i want and they go play happy families rather than turning into an obsessive stalker...
The ideal no strings arrangement if you ask me "
Yes girl!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone needs to take a copy of this thread.... these are the most reasoned responses I’ve ever seen on this topic!
We’re a good way in and ‘Morally Outraged By Proxy from Shoutsville’ hasn’t appeared yet.... "
Reading through- you spoke too soon aha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing worse
Than seeing 2timing shits on here shagging BEHIND their partners backs.
Especislly if the other half doesnt know. But u are just looking for extra meat n pussy
Just shows u have no respect to your loved ones
An they probably sat at home waiting for u to cime home
But u just dobt give a shit to them
But then u go hone n play the lawful partner to thrm
Wat wud u do if they catch u out
That will b fun
Think of it on the other foot tho
WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU FOUND OUT YOUR PARTNER WAS SHAGGIN BEHIND YOUR BACK
THERE PROBABLY WUD BE PURE SHIT .
but its ok for you to go
CALL THIS A SWINGERS SITE
SHUD B CALLED THE CHEATING SWINGERS MORE THAN FAB
If u class urself as a swinger
WHY THE FUCK ARE U NOT ON HERE WITH UR LAWFUL OTHER HALF
Instead of having joint orofiles with the opp sex who is also already with someone
Go n fuck ur oen fuckin partners instead of others for ur own sake
Hope u shits get caught out those who are already WITH PARTNERS
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Perfect timing or what?! This was the very next post after I’d commented we hadn’t had someone roll onto the thread being terminally offended on other people’s behalf....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If she knows - no problem.
If she doesn't - meh, I'm not going to judge, but I find married men too selfish and restrictive to play with. I want sessions/lovers who can generally meet my needs when I want my needs met, and the married men I have seen in the past are always just, 'Hey, you free now, my wife is out for an hour?? ... "
This!
I've found this a lot with the married men I've chatted to/met with.
Although you're way less likely to get a clingy guy, the fact it's extremely hard to plan a meet is a turn off. Becomes more effort than its worth. Easier if she knows.
I definitely prefer a man to upfront and honest, that way I can make the decision for myself
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"Its really nobody's business. If they dnt like it dnt contact the person simple as that. No one has a right to judge anymore. Those that do need to step down off the soapbox
Is it ok to judge people on their spelling?"
I meant anyone. Yes you do what you want |
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"Think it's funny how you have an honest guy sayin hes married on here. Probably crap load of guys that dont say they are. good for you dude. We deserve to be on here too so everyone stop judging. It's a swinging website, it's about fucking only not about finding a girlfriend or your next wife lol
So are you of the opinion that swinging is the same as cheating?
It's just sex, you on here for sexual frustrations, so are married people. You have your own opinion what it is, our opinion, we are just on this cause we can and we like it."
So your opinion is cheating and swinging is the same?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm married, and state so on my profile.
There are a lot of reasons why I state that I am married, over and above the being honest part. I accept that being with a married guy is not for everyone, and so I state it so they can make an informed choice. I do not want to have meets with people under false pretences either, as that could lead to some undesirable consequences.
The other side of that is as a married person, discretion is part of the package, as is the lack of a romantic element which some people fear so much. (Not saying it couldn't happen of course.) The walking away, not being in each others pockets, etc. For some, that makes a married person more desirable. And no point in denying that for many the "forbidden fruit" aspect adds to the enjoyment.
In closing, in all my years on fab in various profiles, this is the only time I've seen the subject discussed with maturity, sense and decency. There is hope..."
You describe yourself as caring, honest and respectful.
Are you totally?
There are a lot of cheats saying exactly the same. Surely they don't go hand in hand?
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By *eeowlsMan
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I’m Married and it’s stated on my profile!!
My wife as a lot of health problems,
We used to be on here as a cpl and her health problems stop her from playing in anyway with me or anyone else nowadays!!
She’s gives me 100% permission and willing to confirm this and at no point would I meet up without telling her so she always says that she understands I have needs and that it’s unfair to stop me from getting those needs looked after!!
I agree with the OP that it’s hard to get meets because of being married but this thread as now let me see that there is females out there willing to meet up
Life’s about trying to live it and me and my wife love each other and it’s all NSA fun even though I would
Prefer to find a FWB if possible
Have fun all take care and stay safe xxx |
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"I’m Married and it’s stated on my profile!!
My wife as a lot of health problems,
We used to be on here as a cpl and her health problems stop her from playing in anyway with me or anyone else nowadays!!
She’s gives me 100% permission and willing to confirm this and at no point would I meet up without telling her so she always says that she understands I have needs and that it’s unfair to stop me from getting those needs looked after!!
I agree with the OP that it’s hard to get meets because of being married but this thread as now let me see that there is females out there willing to meet up
Life’s about trying to live it and me and my wife love each other and it’s all NSA fun even though I would
Prefer to find a FWB if possible
Have fun all take care and stay safe xxx"
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"Its really nobody's business. If they dnt like it dnt contact the person simple as that. No one has a right to judge anymore. Those that do need to step down off the soapbox
Is it ok to judge people on their spelling?"
If you understand what they are saying No!
I just think it makes you a "arsehole" put that's just my thoughts |
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