I am very much in the category of quality vs quantity. I am not looking to sleep with everyone on the site, but find a couple of men i connect with and we enjoy the same things.
I know many say quality but really dont mean it at all...
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I'm exceptionally picky about who I share my time with.
I need to know we're on the same humour level as well as the same respect level.
It's more than sex for me, I'm not meaning I want a relationship with these people, however I need to know we will get on outside of the bedroom. |
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100% quality.
I go through long periods of getting no "action" but that's probably due to;
A) Being fussy
B) Not having a queue of women queueing to shag me
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"I think it's one of those things that, when stated, almost sounds like it's putting others down "
Not at all. Everyone likes different things and i respect that. Just curious how many want the single meets vs the fwb sort of arrangement |
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Both please.
I would happily fuck my way through the site if I could.
Finding one man, let alone a multitude, was impossible even before covid though so I'm happy to chat with the few not the many.
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I got pulled in another thread last year for discussing this term.
My pov is that yes I use the term on my profile but it has nothing to do with sex and more to do with those I choose to chat to or meet.
I've no interest in meeting just for the sake of it and much prefer to take the time to get to know people first.
Therefore when I say quality over quantity it means those I connect with and have something in common with and once that is established then the quality of sex is usually a given. |
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I want quality and I want it often. And that is why I’m looking with a FWB situation so I can have that quality connection but have ideally have it frequently rather than a one off hot night or multiple shit shags! |
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2 schools of thought for me.
Meets arranged on here - quality every time. Would rather go without than invest time and effort for something not worth it.
Going to a club - all bets are off. Not saying I'm easy, but I definitely won't be taking as much time to get to know you! |
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Quantity with quality. Wouldnt just meet anyone to add numbers but I’d say 90% of my meets are quality and really happy to have met some and keep meeting some 
I do get a bit bored tho if I was restricted to one-two guys. I guess variety is good and keeps things horny when u meet regulars |
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"I am very much in the category of quality vs quantity. I am not looking to sleep with everyone on the site, but find a couple of men i connect with and we enjoy the same things.
I know many say quality but really dont mean it at all...
What side do you sit on?"
Quality mostly, trouble is there are a few things I’d like to experience so I have no bar to which to set that quality |
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I've never really thought about it.
Anyone I've met, I've met because I've wanted to. Some it's gone no further than a coffee others it has.
Some people I'd have liked to see more than I was able to but that's just how it goes.
Now though it's unlikely I'll meet anyone on here because I'm focusing on looking for something more than just fun |
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I meet guys who I fancy (for intimacy) and who I sense that he probably genuinely fancies me back.
Attraction differs from one to another and one man's meat may be another's poison.
One might think they are choosing based on quality but others may look at the verifications and think, you met 'him/her'? 
So, as one poster rightfully asked, what is quality?
With time, definitely the number of people you meet will increase.
So, if someone has tens of meets over 10 years, does that make them someone who sleep with everybody?
So the whole quantity thing is a bit pointless as well.
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