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It’s hard on here for us guys ??
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"Cure the pandemic and save the world would make you a definite shoe in on your hunt for cunt!!!!!
Chin up op and best of luck.
T"
Saving the world? Easy peasy.
Curing Covid? Did it twice before breakfast.
A single guy getting a meet on her at the moment?
Less chance than a snowball in hell.  |
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"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??"
Seriously though.
Poor profile, no pics, no veri's and living in one of the most sparsely populated areas of the UK doesn't exactly help. |
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Your profile reads like a horny teenager needing a quick shag, and theres no pics for anyone to make judgement oh and get photo verified too. The way it is now we wouldnt bother and move on |
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"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??
Seriously though.
Poor profile, no pics, no veri's and living in one of the most sparsely populated areas of the UK doesn't exactly help."
Very poor profile. |
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"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??
Seriously though.
Poor profile, no pics, no veri's and living in one of the most sparsely populated areas of the UK doesn't exactly help."
Oh! Forgot to add you are looking for a girl. Maybe a dating site would be better.
Discreet? Most on here translate that as married guy playing away. |
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over a year ago
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I'm aware my profile isn't the best (and I am very open to suggestions about how to improve it)...but I like to think it's light years ahead of yours.
And therein lieth your problem. No picture, hardly any text, and what there is points to someone who just wants to meet and fuck.
Seriously...how many women do you actually think are going to go full on knicker flood for someone who doesn't even hint at wanting to get to know them?
Invest in your profile, add at least a facial picture, write some well thought through text and you might get some interest. |
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No profile pics
Poor profile text
Can’t accommodate
Just some of the reasons you’re unlikely to hit the jackpot.
Plus you’ve spelt discreet wrong, your version has a different meaning.
Put some effort in and you may reap the rewards.
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"Cure the pandemic and save the world would make you a definite shoe in on your hunt for cunt!!!!!
Chin up op and best of luck.
T
Loving ‘hunt for cunt’
Lou x "
I’m thinking of copyrighting it but I’m a sharing kind of guy!!!!!
Thank you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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T said I had to come and look at this post, now I see why.
If you don't understand why no one is interacting with you, you're already done.
Even tinder wants pics and a level of detail you haven't made.
Personally, lazy single guys make my blood boil. I was one for years, and the lazy ones made it tougher. Now as a couple, why would we think you'd enhance our experience when you can't even focus long enough to sort your profile? |
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"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??"
The best tip I can give is
Many ladies are not particularly interested in men who need tips on seduction, interaction or profile writing
Think creativity for yourself!!!!  |
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over a year ago
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It's not hard for us guys at all, it's hard for certain types of guys. The ones who pester people, bombard them with dick pics and generally act horribly towards people when they don't get their way.
Meeting people is not hard work, it's a simple process.
All you have to do is not be an abhorrent pain in the arse (I don't mean you personally OP), treat people the way you would want to be treated, and you'll find people who want to meet you.
Having a short profile with no information does not help your cause. |
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It’s hard but there’s plenty of ways to make it easier but moaning about it isn’t one.
Put pics up on your profile - creative one that intrigue
Add detail to your profile - theres thousands of men so you have to stand out. At the moment you sound like a horny teenager.
Can’t accommodate and wanting someone to be discreet? If you are married, be honest...that way someone can decide whether they want to go down that route.
Write engaging messages, not copy and paste types...
Have all the above you have every chance of success on here.
Or you can just be the standard guy that moans about not getting a meet and doing nothing about it. |
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"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??"
Simple: don’t push matters, always have a picture, always read the profile and DONT ask for meets whilst most sensible people are complying with the C19 rules. Block those that aren’t |
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Nobody said it was going to be easy.
My advise to guys based on my personal experience is not to take this site too seriously and personally.
It fucks with your head and can serious put you on a massive downer if all you get is a barrage of rejection. Its definitely tough.
So please don't take it personally. Expect nothing and treat every message and meet as an unexpected bonus 
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"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??"
Sort your profile out. As a couple we get loads of winks and messages from men. Any profiles that have little information or no pictures just get an instant delete. Yours would get an instant delete. |
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"Hardly any replied or opportunities to get a girl any tips??"
No public photos
Cannot accommodate
Joined 3 months ago (in a pandemic)
Very little effort in a profile
Smoker
"Get a girl"...really?
All seems a bit naff. With the effort you've made on your profile I imagine your messages aren't that amazing either.
Just because you are on a swinger's site doesnt necessarily means women will sleep with you. You are up against serious competition with other single men that make a serious effort.
If you were a single woman, would you sleep with you, based on that profile?
Start reading the other threads on this, it might give you some ideas.
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"Your profile reads like a horny teenager needing a quick shag, and theres no pics for anyone to make judgement oh and get photo verified too. The way it is now we wouldnt bother and move on "
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Admittedly covid hasn't helped.
